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Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by 123guys(op): 5:38pm On Jun 21, 2022

Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Cypress042: 5:40pm On Jun 21, 2022

Op all i can say to you is, go ahead and change a full grown adult if you can.

What your fore fathers couldn't do during their time, you just wake up and think is easy huh

Continue

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by 123guys(op): 6:34pm On Jun 21, 2022

Cypress042:
Op all i can say to you is, go ahead and change a full grown adult if you can.

What your fore fathers couldn't do during their time, you just wake up and think is easy Continue

I'm not saying I want to change her. Just asking what I should do.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Carcholce: 6:36pm On Jun 21, 2022*

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Sammy101111(m): 6:44pm On Jun 21, 2022*

If she is comfortable with her family in any condition my brother ask her why is she not comfortable with you in your condition . It can’t be sweet everytime . She as nothing to offer but she expect you to offer her all her desires bro wise up and stop looking for broke girls look for woman of your standard not a woman struggling to eat lol she will be confused if it is love she is looking for or food to eat lol

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by czarr(m): 6:47pm On Jun 21, 2022

If you don't spend on her then no wahala.
But if you are spending on her, you be mumu.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Ahmad62(m): 6:48pm On Jun 21, 2022

A SIMP in the making....

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by 123guys(op): 7:08pm On Jun 21, 2022

czarr:
If you don't spend on her then no wahala.
But if you are spending on her, you be mumu.

I don't spend except when I feel like.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by sylve11: 7:11pm On Jun 21, 2022

Whenever the swing mood comes, give her a bunch of ripe bananas. cool

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by 123guys(op): 7:19pm On Jun 21, 2022

Ahmad62:
A SIMP in the making....

Lol... Not really. I insulted her mother for raising her in this way and the mother started telling me some things I don't understand.

Not that I don't have other girls. But I like her good sides. I wish the other ones too can copy it.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Carcholce: 7:22pm On Jun 21, 2022*

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Camelot65: 7:26pm On Jun 21, 2022

Sincerely, I can't deal with a lady with mood swings. Nah

If you can't deal, just leave.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by JoeRizzla(m): 7:40pm On Jun 21, 2022

I think your gbola can solve the issue of mood swings.. On a second thought I think your girl friend is not a virgin

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jun 21, 2022

Na borehole you won pay bride price so.Na gimmick

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Autobot05: 8:06pm On Jun 21, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

If she’s genuinely and truly a celibate. Please pay her bride price before anything
Say no to fornication and adultery sir

Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by loosecanon50(m): 8:25pm On Jun 21, 2022

Don't breakup with her, continue

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by czarr(m): 8:47pm On Jun 21, 2022

123guys:
I don't spend except when I feel like.

when you feel like just how much do you part with, and her pastor did not tell her not to accept money abi?

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Alapojames: 10:27pm On Jun 21, 2022

Test that puna to avoid story that touches the heart..
What if you married her in the will and later find out that the garden is wider than black hole � ?

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by kakaaa77: 11:01pm On Jun 21, 2022

You can opt out now that you see the red flag'
it's not do or die affair...

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Ballzproblemm: 11:03pm On Jun 21, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

everything up there screams manipulation ,I no go surprise if e get one guy wey dey give am doggy ,if she like make she include her village Oracle if I were you I will dump that bitch

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by PumpumPrince: 11:07pm On Jun 21, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by PumpumPrince: 11:09pm On Jun 21, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

^^^story
bro..if u dont wanto smash...please i beg please..let me smash!!!(no ooofencse) angry

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by 123guys(op): 11:51pm On Jun 21, 2022

PumpumPrince:

^^^story
bro..if u dont wanto smash...please i beg please..let me smash!!!(no ooofencse)

send DM

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Eazie351(m): 2:10am On Jun 22, 2022

Lol, person do dey use tears manipulate this one from now.

Listen, you have broken up with her in your mind, you're just seeking validation so you don't appear bad
and

those excuses are flimsy

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Bigfish121(m): 2:24am On Jun 22, 2022

Omo confirm by yourself if she b actually virgin ooo by putting your pr#ck inside.Trust these girls at your own peril.

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by LadyD22(f): 4:57am On Jun 22, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

Nairaland men and their redpill toxic masculinity will help you and throwaway your girlfriend , better go and meet your friends for advice

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by zedegit: 5:13am On Jun 22, 2022

123guys:
I'm not saying I want to change her. Just asking what I should do.

There's nothing to do as you can't change.
Many single mothers were divorced for same reasons. It seems you allow others to influence you. So if they 'force' you to marry her, who will you blame?

Will you say you didn't notice the signs?

Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by Rexymania(m): 7:20am On Jun 22, 2022

Not enough reason to breakup with her

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by TimFisher2: 8:14am On Jun 22, 2022

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

OP this year is about to finish

Next Year Jan 1st 2023...locate any church and start making your prayer request

Pray! Pray!! Pray!!!

Say any Manipulative Spirit that is tormenting me Out! Out!! Out!!! by fire by Force!!! Pray Pray Pray!!! I can not be manipulated again

See let me tell you something young man

You see that girl...she is more experienced than you...she knows the art of chess...she has checked you in all dimensions you will come

Well ....because you are amateur

Now let me ask you...How can a Virgin that knows nothing...keep telling you I don't want to come so that you won't be tempted

I don't understand?? If she claim inexperienced...how and why she knew temptation can arouse...has she engaged or visited someone to perfect that a man or woman can be tempted in sexual act

Young man...you are not a bad guy..but a good guy..so she reserved you for Marriage not for knacking

If you want to finish her...try convince her to come to ur house...put in a test..you want to confirm a test on her virginity..by inserting a tip of your finger...if it turns out to be true...you will start all necessary arrangement for Marriage

You will see her change Narrative...that she did it once just last week...she wanted to tell you...that's why she came..it was her neighbour she trusted grin

Your guess is good as mine grin

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by tosaino95(m): 8:21am On Jun 22, 2022

The Range of SIMPS these days is alarming undecided

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by BobbyZrealist(m): 9:23am On Jun 22, 2022

You are dating a "Sociopath".

From your explanation though,but I am not categorically saying so......

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Re: Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Or what? by yetunsbay(m): 9:29am On Jun 22, 2022

czarr:
If you don't spend on her then no wahala.
But if you are spending on her, you be mumu.

a big one

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