Kipaji:

One of the prime reason why we must not chase women, especially when it involves sacrificing your dignity, self-esteem or manhood.

heartofcity12:
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heartofcity12:
Right

Kipaji:

Yes, and it goes beyond social media to any area of life.
It seems that women confuse being a booty call/masturbation material/thing to sleep with with being considered relationship/marriage material. Or, maybe they aren't really confusing things, but just convince themselves that these guys see her as something else than a piece of flesh because it makes her feel better??

Martinez39s:
True. I remember something that happened when I was a very little kid. One night, I got scared and jerked away when a flying cockroach came out of nowhere and landed on my left arm; it happened so fast. My mum solemnly and lightly hit me on my elbow and said "you better stop that nonsense. How can you be scared of a cockroach? Don't you know you are a man?" She was obviously serious.

The encounter impacted me profoundly. It was refreshing to see as a kid what my own mum considered a manly quality.

I have another tale, but I will pocket it because of time and energy. Your post is valid, not because of the event with my mum, but I have seen and heard things that informed me of truthfulness of your post. Kudos!

Uzomacharles:
Gees in the house, can you imagine??

https://www.nairaland.com/7189483/please-guys-what-young-girl#114022017

Danycrusoe:
Finally, as a man I have seen women from close range (secular relationship, work relationship and friendship).


On all three I have experienced lies, shit test and manipulation on all three fronts but thanks to this place I know whenever any of them are happening to me and what to do.

Like some say here, u don't become red by reading this thread or becoming redpilled instantly. It's a growth, a process, a part of life.

I don't have female friends again, just acquaintances who chop No like korede spaghetti.

My female colleagues at work are still tricky to deal with but for now what works for me is absence, I don't sit loitering and waiting on office premises. It makes me far from gossips and disrespect.

They know me now as a man who enter the studio 2 minutes to his show, I prep from home. I have not had a relationship since last year and even if I go into One, I go in more enlightened on what women can do.

Lastly, redpill is a blessing but u still need discretion in enforcing and applying it. My GM at work is a 70+ man who once headed NBC, and my boss is mid 30 man who has connect across stations in Ogun, Oyo and Osun and parts of Lagos, sometimes I think of what opportunities may come through him and let his babe do as she likes.

What she won't get is my money and also time.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 167, REDPILL 2022

I don't care about a woman's dark side!

1. Humans are in their real form when no one is watching, they are free to do what they like because they are not threatened and opposed; they are not criticized and bedizened with arrows of shame and guilt. They just live for every moment as they have no one to please.

2. Men feign strength in the presence of others and women feign submissiveness. Pretense is a result of them being compelled by an outward entity to demonstrate or represent a realm of quality beyond their capacity. And as a result, you will not know their depth.

3. Women are more neurotic than men, and can easily let out their emotions, especially under pressure. However, with their dark side, they are very protective and secretive about it. The details of her dark side, her inner wh0re can only be ascertained by her; with the sisterhood, she is careful about this side of hers.

Women do relate with each other emotionally and can either render help to themselves willingly or grudgingly. They are careful about this dark side of themselves because when things go sour, women slut shame themselves even more than men thereby unleashing told secrets.

4. You can mistake superficiality for ingenuity during the vetting process and end up committing to a chameleon. You will be shocked when you discovered it by chance because you never considered her dark side when vetting.

How can you be able to get a glimpse of her dark side?

5. Romance is the damn of men, like wine in excess fill in the stomach, he ends up acting in weird manners even though wine also brings warmness, joy, and gladness to the heart. Romance and wine act similarly when it comes to men, but one is for beautiful maidens and the other for the stomach respectively.

6. To know this dark side, you must act on the same emotional plane as women. Not that you are foregoing logic and rationale, but you must be cautious about them as women shy into their shells when they first notice it because logic is an embodiment of criticism and judgment; those that are conflict avoidants stay aloof from this zone because the result if not favorable is ostracism. Keeping secrets is for this reason.

7. You need to connect with her on the same level of emotional bonding: bring yourself to her level, assume your ways are like hers or share a similar scenario you have experienced concerning this dark side. Make fun of it and express excitement about it. The essence is to make her feel relaxed. Once done, she begins to feel that you have a dark side too and will gradually let hers out. Amplify every little detail shared to get to the nitty-gritty. She may not expose all of her dark sides but at least, you will get hold of it and what it contains.

8. If you are eager to get her, that is, you are chasing her all around, she will not expose much of these details; the women you chase will never because they don't trust you enough and they will cover up for this dark side with grandiosity making you feel they are what they appear. Female celebrities in every sector of life are on this table. The grandiosity of some may be out of their achievement, however, it is this achievement that encapsulates their dark side.

To know about a book, you must read it.

Authority: Be wise.

Cc. Someoneschild2, dhiqson et al.,

iamphenomenal:
HYPERGAMY DOESN'T CARE - 2
Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to accommodate your long distance relationship.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

#RM

heartofcity12:
Hmmn, how ruthless..

CaveAdullam:
In the mating game, it is women that choose, and it can be as a result of genuine desire or exploitation. And this is the lesson the young man needs to grab as he learns to mingle with his type and know the wheat and the chaff as he becomes better.

Kipaji:

And this below may be the reason good men stopped leading. What do you guys think?

CaveAdullam:
humans have evolved passed that single mode of operation, alongside that underlying evolutionary tendency, they have working brains and are cerebral in many of their actions, meaning that they don't act like absolute brutes all the time, they have well-functioning brains, can think and judge things.

3. And as a result, good values transcend beyond women and sex. It is required for ruling society. It is required for bringing judgment. It is required by society for unity, cooperation, and development. Without these values, society cannot stand.

It is foolishness for a man to forego good values and pollutes himself with the wine of brutes and savages because of women and sex. Such men can't be efficient in their leadership and are fickle.

he must be rational, have good values, can deliver judgments, and is brutal when it comes to his enemies and evil. Women don't want evil men, but men who are capable of evil doings, as it guarantees their safety. Women also want men with good values as it guarantees their love and care.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAAA IN DA HOUSEEE DID Y'ALL MISS ME, LETS GOOOOO, BY THE WAY I REMEMBER IN SECONDARY SKUL WEN I SEE A GUY PUT A BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN HER PLACE THE NEXT THING BY THE NEXT DAY SHE WILL START KONKING HIS HEAD, PINCHING HIS CHIN AND CALLING HIM BIG HEAD PLAYFULLY HOW MANY OF Y'ALL REMEMBER THAT HEARTOFCITY PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT PHENOMENON TO THE HOUSE

CaveAdullam:


And to sum it up this is the balanced man, civilized savage, or the superman.

DAY 174, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Let the balanced man be a mirror unto you.

CaveAdullam:


1. A man wouldn't want an ugly, less fertile, and uncouth woman for a relationship, the same way a woman wouldn't want a poor, ugly, and less fertile man for a relationship - this is the reality of life and the intersexual dynamics at is brightest.

2. The ugly and beautiful; poor and rich; high and low; are scattered around, observably, there is a melange of them all in many residences. However, in other residences, they are explicitly separated from each other - "O Israel to thy tents".

3. Not that " look for your type" is a ruthless statement, but that that young woman is bringing to the complaint - the young man, that there are many women that will not reject him because he is at the same level as them, the same vicinity and in some cases even better than them. And that if he looks closer he will find these women. She's saying "choose who chooses you": a phenomenon that is explicit to the animal kingdom; it is women that choose the men they want to mate with. Chasing has always been by force, expends energy, is brutal on both sides, and time-consuming. If you observe the Cock and Hen closely you will understand this.

This is what the young woman is bringing to the notice of the young man when she said " look for your type".

4. If it is looking for your type, then, what about hypergamy: women dating high?

A. He should either appeal to both sides of hypergamy by developing/displaying masculine traits like confidence, braveness, courage, an athletic body, fearlessness, ambition, and unrelenting. And with high status, wealth and influence. Or, appeal to one side.

B. With the above, he may not get the kind of woman he desires, but as he constantly refines himself with the lessons he learns from the women of his type or below him, he gets to know women better and with time, developed himself to attract the women his heart desires.

5. In the mating game, it is women that choose, and it can be as a result of genuine desire or exploitation. And this is the lesson the young man needs to grab as he learns to mingle with his type and know the wheat and the chaff as he becomes better.

Without further also: DAY 173, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

ubunja:
welcome back,, what you been up to lately aomine

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAAA IN DA HOUSEEE DID Y'ALL MISS ME, LETS GOOOOO, BY THE WAY I REMEMBER IN SECONDARY SKUL WEN I SEE A GUY PUT A BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN HER PLACE THE NEXT THING BY THE NEXT DAY SHE WILL START KONKING HIS HEAD, PINCHING HIS CHIN AND CALLING HIM BIG HEAD PLAYFULLY HOW MANY OF Y'ALL REMEMBER THAT HEARTOFCITY PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT PHENOMENON TO THE HOUSE

aomine:
MY GEE ,WE JUST BEEN PUSHING P ,NOTHING NEW

Anchor19:
Came across this thread last year october while I was still a guest.I've completed the thread from page one last month and recently created this account to sincerely appreciate you guys for keeping this thread forward and still maintaining it's purpose. You guys are the real OG's.

I was just scrolling through the romance section for first time I think, (because I'm usually in the religious section) before coming across this eye catching thread,opened the thread and I was told to dump all the knowledge I have about women and keep an open mind. Greeted with those powerful, thought provoking quotes from the beginning, I was immediately unplugged from the matrix and how I see women absolutely changed that day.

That statement "women aren't loyal to you, they're are loyal to your power" resonated deeply inside of me and was what sparked my interest on this thread. I really didn't find it difficult to unplug, probably because I've never been in the illusion called love before and how I was able to relate those information with the females around me. I'm so glad I came across this thread at a young age because I would have surely been burnt because of the kind of planned I've already made for my future. I really appreciate you guys for all you've been doing to keep this thread moving, I'm seriously in lack of words to describe my gratitude. Shout out to the op glcollysis who created this thread, and other contributors too numerous to mention.

Nairaland has really had a massive impact in my life and ideas. First it changed my religious beliefs and now this. Bless the day I found nairaland.

CaveAdullam:


1. This is true and correct on a basic, evolutionary, instinctual, and animalistic level. Women choose the men they mate with, and these men are mostly sociopaths, brutal, and aggressive because these characters symbolize power, status, and dominance. And since women are weak and need protection, they reward these men by refusing nice guys and men with good values. And rejected men operating from that animalistic point of view will forego their good values and become savages for women and sex.

2. On the flip side, humans have evolved passed that single mode of operation, alongside that underlying evolutionary tendency, they have working brains and are cerebral in many of their actions, meaning that they don't act like absolute brutes all the time, they have well-functioning brains, can think and judge things.

3. And as a result, good values transcend beyond women and sex. It is required for ruling society. It is required for bringing judgment. It is required by society for unity, cooperation, and development. Without these values, society cannot stand.

It is foolishness for a man to forego good values and pollutes himself with the wine of brutes and savages because of women and sex. Such men can't be efficient in their leadership and are fickle.

4. What then should a young man become? He wants women and must win the hearts of his people.

Like the Greek hero, Theseus, he must be rational, have good values, can deliver judgments, and is brutal when it comes to his enemies and evil. Women don't want evil men, but men who are capable of evil doings, as it guarantees their safety. Women also want men with good values as it guarantees their love and care. Society desires these men as only they can reduce chaos, and develop and maintain peace and order. And to sum it up this is the balanced man, civilized savage, or the superman.

DAY 174, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Let the balanced man be a mirror unto you.