Jashub:
You're just a bigot who can't see things from another person's viewpoint.
And by the way, I've dated many feminist...and I've had the privilege of listening to some of most renowned one (like Oprah Winfrey)who stated categorically that "feminism is about rebellion to theological standards expected of women ". Now you can argue that all day, but I'm too busy to for that sort of nonsense

I don't listen to your Oprah or anyone on issues so please don't expect me to argue any of their claims.

My question to you remains. You claim feminists all have hidden agendas that fall under the two categories you listed, yet I can pick about 10 random threads on romance section from this week alone that were created by guys who never used the word "feminist" to describe their womem/gal friend. Yet all 10 complaints have something to do with the women using them for at least one of the reasons stated in those two categories you claim apply mostly to feminists, how come?

Kobojunkie:
Men don't submit because?

Women are to submit because?

Women are to submit to men because they are women. Deal with it.

blinking001:
Women are to submit to men because they are women. Deal with it.

By what law or ruling?

Novemberaura:


I'm in love with feminist and want to marry her.

I'm asking cux I just want other people view

How can you love a feminist? She's clearly manipulating you. Anyway, i hope you don't learn the hard way.
For fu.cks sakes who considers a feminist a wifey material in the 21st century? Funny man

Kobojunkie:
I don't listen to your Oprah or anyone on issues so please don't expect me to argue any of their claims.

My question to you remains. You claim feminists all have hidden agendas that fall under the two categories you listed, yet I can pick about 10 random threads on romance section from this week alone that were created by guys who never used the word "feminist" to describe their womem/gal friend. Yet all 10 complaints have something to do with the women using them for at least one of the reasons stated in those two categories you claim apply mostly to feminists, how come?

So you're using this low-IQ Nairaland as a metric for statistical analysis regarding feminism? Lol...please go to other public forums(like Twitter or Reddit) and come back and tell me otherwise

Kobojunkie:
By what law or ruling?

Refer that question to your mother. Evidence of failed parenting.

Jashub:
So you're using this low-IQ Nairaland as a metric for statistical analysis regarding feminism? Lol...please go to other public forums(like Twitter or Reddit) and come back and tell me otherwise

You're taking her seriously? You get time oh. Watch and see how she tries to rationalise her stupidity.

Jashub:
So you're using this low-IQ Nairaland as a metric for statistical analysis regarding feminism? Lol...please go to other public forums(like Twitter or Reddit) and come back and tell me otherwise

Low-IQ ke? Regardless, they make up the numbers as far as Nigeria is concerned.

Given the complaints the average Nigerian boy/man out there has against their women fall under the same two categories you ascribe mostly to feminists, what I see is a problem with your assertion as far as feminists are concerned since your issues with them seem to mirror the issues your average boys have with even their non-feminist gals.

blinking001:

Refer that question to your mother. Evidence of failed parenting.

But where did your own mother get that idea from to teach it to you?

Kobojunkie:
But where did your own mother get that idea from to teach it to you?

From my father. I watched her submit to my father as the man of the house.

You watched your father submit to your mother?

blinking001:

From my father. I watched her submit to my father as the man of the house.

You watched your father submit to your mother?

You watched your mother submit to your father and you never once felt to ask her why she did what she did?

Sorry, my father and mother were both educated partners in their relationship.

Kobojunkie:
Low-IQ ke? Regardless, they make up the numbers as far as Nigeria is concerned.

Given the complaints the average Nigerian boy/man out there has against their women fall under the same two categories you ascribe mostly to feminists, what I see is a problem with your assertion as far as feminists are concerned since your issues with them seem to mirror the issues your average boys have with even their non-feminist gals.

It seems your problem is based on comprehension. For the record ,I remember telling you the odds were "low " regarding regular women. Or have you forgotten?

Jashub:
It seems your problem is based on comprehension. For the record ,I remember telling you the odds were "low " regarding regular women. Or have you forgotten?

I didn't forget your claim. However, it seems reality of regular women - the complaints average boys/men have of regular women - belie your claim is what I am pointing out to you here.

I don't have any problem with people fighting for the betterment of their gender but I don't appreciate people that do it aggressively and illogically.

I will never and can never marry a feminist. She is too broken and unhealthy for a healthy relationship which I want to build with my wife. I don't expect my wife to be a slave but I want my wife to be a humanist, not retarded feminist.

Jashub:
It seems your problem is based on comprehension. For the record ,I remember telling you the odds were "low " regarding regular women. Or have you forgotten?

Bro stop arguing with him , he’ll never comprehend the point . You’re trying to educate him but he’s not trynna listen and if he even listens at the end ‘ a great knowledge in the hand of a fool will be self destruction “

Freelane33:

Bro stop arguing with him , he’ll never comprehend the point . You’re trying to educate him but he’s not trynna listen and if he even listen at the end ‘ a great knowledge in the hand of a fool will be self destruction “

I don stop o. After all, she's using this low-IQ forum as a metric to debunk my claims on feminism and it's BS to men as a whole

Kobojunkie:
You watched your mother submit to your father and you never once felt to ask her why she did what she did?

Sorry, my father and mother were both educated partners in their relationship.

I never had to ask because she was properly loved and cherished by my father. Being a nurse didn't stop her from submitting to my dads authority as the man of the house. For the records they are both highly educated too.
So what stopped your mother from submitting to your father's authority?

Jashub:
I don stop o. After all, she's using this low-IQ forum as a metric to debunk my claims on feminism and it's BS to men as a whole

Are you somehow of the mind that the average Nigerian man/boy has a high IQ or what?

I ask this because you keep suggesting that this forum being of low-IQ somehow means it isn't to be used in Judging the Nigerian situation.

Pierocash:
Don't try entering a relationship with a feminist,not to talk of marriage. They are cursed with ego ,and will never submit. They act like you are both dragging for supremacy.

What exactly do you want her to submit

blinking001:
I never had to ask because she was properly loved and cherished by my father. Being a nurse didn't stop her from submitting to my dads authority as the man of the house. For the records they are both highly educated too.
So what stopped your mother from submitting to your father's authority?

So, you didn't care to ask her but did she at least teach you that women are meant to submit to you? Or you simply assumed this had to be the case?

Submission made no sense in our case since my father and mother saw themselves as partners/equals in their marriage agreement - not a master/slave relationship.

Kobojunkie:
So, you didn't care to ask her but did she at least teach you that women are meant to submit to you? Or you simply assumed this had to be the case?

Submission made no sense in our case since my father and mother saw themselves as partners/equals in their marriage agreement - not a master/slave relationship.

She taught me that women are suppose to submit to their men using her relationship with my father as a mirror.
Your father and mother are equals?

blinking001:

Your father and mother are equals?

Yes, their marriage was a partnership where they saw themselves equally contributing to the success and upkeep of the family in their agreed upon way.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, their marriage was a partnership where they saw themselves equally contributing to the success and upkeep of the family in their agreed upon way.

Who defends the family when the need arises and what were your mothers contributions exactly?

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

There is nothing wrong with getting married to feminist

No woman wants to be relegated or treated like a slave in her own world, marriage or relationship

Women respects men who loves them

If a man knows how to respect himself, he won't even get any challenges from his wife

There are men full of pride, they just want women to be seen but not heard

If Okonjo Iweala husband had silencend his wife, no one would have known that she was full of talent, look at the position she is holding that put the family in a top level

Would the husband wants to remind her that she is just a woman and shouldn't be heard,
No

He gave her freedom to go to the field of men and struggle with them

She is more famous than her husband yet, her husband is a neuro surgeon but they are examples of good marriage

blinking001:

Who defends the family when the need arises and what were your mothers contributions exactly?

Defends the family from what exactly?

Her contributions were according to their marriage agreement ofcourse.

Kobojunkie:
Defends the family from what exactly?

Her contributions were according to their marriage agreement ofcourse.

Defend his family from external aggression. Oh i see. So your father normally does the dishes, cooks and washes your mothers clothes?

blinking001:

Oh i see. So your father normally does the dishes, cooks and washes your mothers clothes?

He had no problems doing chores, if that is what you are asking. He even taught me how to cook om several occasions..

Kobojunkie:
Are you somehow of the mind that the average Nigerian man/boy has a high IQ or what?

I ask this because you keep suggesting that this forum being of low-IQ somehow means it isn't to be used in Judging the Nigerian situation.

You're the one making that assumption by using Nairaland as a metric for studying feminist

There is nothing wrong in marrying a feminist, provided that she is not a misandrist and does not delight in cruelty in general. You will, however, have a problem having a healthy relationship with a woman of substance that is not a misandrist and does not delight in cruelty in general whether or not she is a feminist if your concept of the proverbial wife material/submissive wife is a woman who is servile to you.

In summary, as a man, a sane and self-conquered man, your main concern when choosing a woman for something serious should be the kind of mentality she possesses and her ethical leanings in general rather than the ideological tag she wears.

Kobojunkie:
He had no problems doing chores, if that is what you are asking. He even taught me how to cook om several occasions..

I guess your mother also paid your dads grooms price since it's a partnership?

Jashub:
You're the one making that assumption by using Nairaland as a metric for studying feminist

I never did any of that.

Instead, what I continue to do is point out to you the fact that a good portion of non-feminist complaints fall under the same two categories which you ascribe mainly to feminists, therefore invalidating your claim. Basically, since both feminists and non-feminist related complaints fall under those two categories, it is wrong to assume that feminism has anything to do with what you accuse the women of.

blinking001:

I guess your mother also paid your dads grooms price since it's a partnership?

Such things carry with them no more than the symbolic meaning they were meant to have in a partnership.

For instance, do you tell your business partner that because you paid the business registration fee when registering the business, you are not really equal partners?