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TRP1:
Today marks exactly 3 month I started working out and I’ll truly say I’ve seen massive change in my body
All thanks to infos from the great men on this forum
I’ve always seen people who gym as time wasters but now I know the importance of lifting bars

ubunja:
noted and done.

heartofcity12:
Exactly.. With the rate a lot of women are even into hookups lately, not to talk of those that are repentant hos too.. Same women capable of sleeping with dogs and doing porter potty.. This is enough reason for people not to underestimate what women are capable of anymore in sex affairs.. Many females will do anything for the right price or any other thing that drives them or suit their interest. Some of those innocent looking young girls you see everyday have done unimaginable things like anal, three-some, fvcked in public toilet, etc.

Cheasystickylov:
Dear martinez, please kindly send me a mail request. I need your strong advice please.
This is my story
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.

Cheasystickylov:
Dear martinez, please kindly send me a mail request. I need your strong advice please.
This is my story
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
SCAMMER WANTS TO SCAM SCAMMERS THAT ARE ALREADY SCAMMERS THEMSELVES, IT IS ONLY SCAMMERS THAT ARE NOT YET SCAMMERS THAT WILL BE SCAMMED BY THIS SCAMMER


DO NOT BE GASLIGHTED

Any man chasing this “thing” suppose to be castrated

Martinez39s:
@Cheasystickylov

Sorry I haven't reached out yet. I am not indifferent to your ordeal, I have just been a little bit busy. I will reach out to you later this evening so that we can set time to talk at length tomorrow.

Ketapu:
My reply

Cheasystickylov:
I am not scared. Just don't have the courage to leave the kids. I am just scared what they will be exposed to when I am gone.

Cheasystickylov:
Thanks man. I am very grateful

Meedon:
House, can a man change a hoe? There is this girl in my area that everyone is sleeping with. My friend came visiting and saw this girl. He started to disturb me, always talking of how he loves the girl and that he want to marry her. I told him exactly what he needs to hear. I told him that this girl you are trying to commit to is a hoe. He said it doesn't matter that he would change her. That he would stop her from going to other men. He said that after he has changed her, he would marry her. He really loved this girl. Maybe it is because of the big ass, I don't know.

Meedon:
House, can a man change a hoe? There is this girl in my area that everyone is sleeping with. My friend came visiting and saw this girl. He started to disturb me, always talking of how he loves the girl and that he want to marry her. I told him exactly what he needs to hear. I told him that this girl you are trying to commit to is a hoe. He said it doesn't matter that he would change her. That he would stop her from going to other men. He said that after he has changed her, he would marry her. He really loved this girl. Maybe it is because of the big ass, I don't know.

Meedon:
House, can a man change a hoe? There is this girl in my area that everyone is sleeping with. My friend came visiting and saw this girl. He started to disturb me, always talking of how he loves the girl and that he want to marry her. I told him exactly what he needs to hear. I told him that this girl you are trying to commit to is a hoe. He said it doesn't matter that he would change her. That he would stop her from going to other men. He said that after he has changed her, he would marry her. He really loved this girl. Maybe it is because of the big ass, I don't know.

luminouz:
There are two ways:

The easy way:
Let him go ahead and learn from the experience.

The hard way:
If he still has some measure of manliness in him, this should work. Arrange the roughest tout you can find, one or two abokis and let them have their way with her and record(or find a way such that he will see the stuff himself, live action), if he doesn't change after seeing how thoroughly ran through she is that day, then know that there is no hope for his level of madness.

In my opinion, nothing cures you of pedestalisatiion, like seeing that lady you value so highly being fuqed roughly, without mercy, and she sliding the diick back inside her pussy after it slid out. If only guys see how mercilessly some ladies were fuqed and roughened up, you'd never want to.come within two feet of her.