Echoban:


Have u seen her husband? Nigga look like pussy simp God forgive me, e sure na him go dey cook, watch plate , watch cloth for that house

And you know this just by merely looking at his pictures?

Just understand her rights and boundaries. Treat her as an equal and drop your ego. Dasss all

Echoban:


Pls elaborate more on this. An average Man naturally have ego and authoritarian, territorial issue, So how do u deal with this with u marrying a man and still want to be in charge of ur choice?? Cox that's the major reason many of them are single, divorce Cox they can't mingle their choice under a man territory.

I'm currently dating one, too much career doings , no fun chat as she's always all abt Intelligent chat, make joke and see her savaging u, question u unnecessary on something she can just laugh off, All d relationship joy/companionship I currently get are from chicks, I'm only still hoping she LL change Cox she's still young, as she never see life...

BloomingDale:


The Black woman was here first. Scientists today have discovered that the Y chromosome in sperm has 2.8 percent less genetic material than the X chromosome in the same sperm specimen. Researchers were able to sift sperm to produce samples in which 85 percent of the cells had an X chromosome. In fact, the X chromosome is five times larger than the Y chromosome, which means that females existed for generations without males. To get the Y chromosome out of an X chromosome, you lose one of your points, thus the chromosome is defected, which is why a man has the same components on his body, that the woman does. For example, the breast and nipples, however men don’t breastfeed. Men are a genetic defect of women. A woman not only breastfeeds her children, but she nurtures the whole world with her wisdom.
The Y chromosome comes from female scientists, as Ninti, known as Mother Ninti or Nunet, who experimented with the side of an X chromosome maiming it by removing 2.8 percent of X chromosomes. This resulted in a maimed lower right stem (see 'xy' photo), giving the appearance of a Y, which produces less genetic materials, resulting in a Y chromosome, called chromosomal manipulation, a well known experiment today.

Yep it's a cult.

desireoge:


Stop listening to all these boys I beg you. There's nothing like feminism dear. Because an average African man wants a woman he will treat like a child, that's why they label any woman that stands for her right a feminist.

Human beings don't submit except you are a slave. Treat people the way you would want to be treated, that's all the so called feminists ask for including myself. Share expenses together, distribute shores etc. It takes efforts from both man and woman to make marriages work not the woman alone as most guys see it.

I'm enjoying my marriage o. 11+ in marriage

Do u submit to ur husband same way ur husband's submit to u??

bigtt76:
Just understand her rights and boundaries. Treat her as an equal and drop your ego. Dasss all

U and I know it's sincerely not too possible to be a man without an atom of ego. The version of human without ego is d woman..

Men generally has ego issue and that's what makes them a man , some are just outspoken than the rest, The likes of Gov Wike, Fayose , Akeredolu and co. , Compare to non talkertive ones like Gov Ugwanyi of enugu but that ego is inbultly there.

Or have u seen any man without ego? Are u happy with their dull dull life ??

Anyway, fenks.

Run

..... Any woman who feels she can't be submissive to her husband should not go into marriage. Same thing as a man who can't love his wife.

These things are very simple.

Jashub:
From my experience, a feminist can never(I repeat), never love you sir. And if you check there's always a hidden agenda if a feminist gives you attention, and that reason falls under two of these categories:

1. A desperation to get married because of her ticking-biological clock .


2. Needs a man's degree of influence regarding social status so as to further her future ambitions. Which in turn serves her own purposes

seniorman, ur sense na heavenly sense, i tuale 4 u. Ur brain dey reason like einstein own

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

Feminists believe men and women are EXACTLY EQUAL. So if you marry a feminist you are not the head of the house; she is not going to submit to you and she will have absolute control over her time, body and money just as you do. She decides how many children she wants because it's her body and it's her choice. She is not going to be your cook. She will not be your cleaner and she will not be your assistant. She has absolute control over how she dresses and how she presents herself. She is not subject to you, her husband, in any way. A nanny will raise your kids for you because she will be busy with her career and education. Her standards are high performance, ultra intelligent and accomplished men and she will not sleep or rest until she beats that standard. You will forever be a beta male to her because the alphas are her standard and her ultimate ambition is to beat the alpha males to become the supreme alpha female.

Marry a feminist at your own risk!

Kollins11:
Babe, why are you in severe pains?

Well, I blame SIMPs who are getting married to all these evening Nigerian newspapers feminist wh*res.

One foolish simp got married to Rita Dominic, now i heard that one idiotic Simp is about to get married to Mercy Chinwo... That evening newspaper coded runz babe disguising as minister of God to her gullible followers.

Death to all simps

well I don't know if you have knacked her before to be very sure of what you said. I've also come to realize that, there is no gal that hasn't hoed before even under 18 gals now have body counts. If you like that lady, na to marry face front.

Kobojunkie:
Men don't submit because?

Women are to submit because?

will u shut up and let the right thinking people contribute??

Discussion is not for everyone pls, not even a bipolar disorder patients.

Novemberaura:


I'm in love with feminist and want to marry her.

I'm asking cux I just want other people view

Marry her. Nairaland needs the content that you will eventually share.

SenatePresdo:
Just pay most of the bills as the wife.. Do all the man's duty. Your salary should be our salary and my salary remains mine, if I don't submit as the husband make I bend.

But it na me dey do all the aforementioned, and you are telling me equality.. I go first break your head before people starts asking what happened.

What exactly are the man's duties?

And what is the wisdom in paying most of the bills when you and your spouse can both work and share the bills instead?

Since the beginning of the beginning, Marriage has always been a choice, and and an agreement between a man and a woman. Choosing to carry the burden alone in marriage is also a choice same as sharing the load is. Why would you, a non imbe_cile make the decision to carry it yourself when a better alternative allows you to share the burden with your partner instead and live longer for it?

realmindz:
Are u a feminist?

I am instead a follower of Jesus Christ and so I am instructed to believe all men and women equals - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10

Jaisman26:

Hahaha �� one of them is sighted here already. Why can't you submit to a man. Both the 2 holy books admonished a woman to be submissive which is natural but the feminists will not like this.

Correction! If you have ever actually read the Bible,you would have realized that submission in marriage was instead a curse God placed on women in marriage and hence marriage itself since it comprises a man and a woman - Genesis 3 vs 16b. And it is from this same curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 - that God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem man from offering salvation/redemption from the curse, preaching equality instead.

So sincd your Bible tells you submission is a curse on marriage - nothing natural about the curse. So, maybe you mean instead that you abide by Islamic tenets in this.

Angrymode:
1. Men are the head of the family just like bosses are the head of an organization. Just like you submit to your boss, you submit to your husband or your father as the case may be.

2. The problem with society these days is that there is no clear definition of roles of each member in a family which has led to so much confusion in the family setup.

3. No man should marry a lady he can't love and provide for. Similarly, no woman should marry a lady she can't respect and submit to.

1. Why should men be the boss and why should women be the slaves/servants to men in this?

2. No clear definition of roles where?

Marriage is meant to be an agreement between a man and a woman and hence unique in each setting. So if you are calling for a society level definition of roles in the family, don't you see how that goes against the very grain of what marriage is?

3. Well, what's "love/respect" got to do with it abeg? So long as a man and woman agree to be partners....why does there need to be "love/respect" between them as defined by any other standard out there when their agreement is the only required standard as far as marriage is concerned?

Thomthom:
Are u a muslem? if you are Christian shame on you because it has been written the wo-MAN should be submissive

um.... submission in marriage is God's curse on woman and hence marriage since Genesis 3 vs 16b, and that is cursed aka that which exists under a curse is unholy and unacceptable in the sight of God.

That same curse in Genesis 3 vs 16-22 , God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem men from, commanding them to no longer live in submission to the curse- Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. So, if as a so-called Christian, you chose the curse over that which Jesus Christ commands, what that infact means is you reject Salvation/Redemption from the curse and hence establish yourself as one who is against Jesus Christ, God's Truth.

So, you need to review your claim as their is nothing holy/Christian about choosing to live under God’s curse..

mekuso89:
so you can actually submit to a woman, I pitty your perverted nature

Why do I have to submit when I can altogether throw submission out the door?

Submission isn't the only form of relationship out there. There is partnership where both individuals are equally yoked instead.

Amumaigwe:
.... because you cannot marry yourself.

Is submission the only type of relationship you know of or what?

Deandean:
1. Staying consistent to your lame logic….That a man must work before he eats and that a woman must labor before she gives birth are part of the curse.
Question: Are those who entered “God’s presence “ exempted from these too?

2. Why do you stick to whats not working?
Feminism according to study is the largest cause of frustration among young women. Not mentioning the broken marriages.

1.

Not an exemption. Instead those who will grace the presence of God are those who live above the curse.

2. It is? Where is this study abeg make I read to.
By the way, I am not a feminist but a follower of Jesus Christ aka a Jesusian and according to Him, men and women are equal- Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. And divorce is not a sin.

rickpat:
don't be deceived,those feminist you see talking and dishing out the way to go...are not like that in their marriages o...they are just misleading some gullible little girls...those nigerian self acclaimed feminist are loyal to their husbands...living happily


true feminism is just about fighting for equal rights in wages, societal positions etc...forget those insults you see online....true feminist include men and women fighting for equal societal rights for women...eg USA female soccer team now earns same with the men...same with Belgium female team earning same the men....that's the ACHIEVEMENT of true feminism

Who is paying them same with men? get your fact right abeg

Kobojunkie:
See what I mean?

I never said I grew up watching my father serve my mother since that never happened. You can't seem to wrap your mind around the Idea of a partnership in marriage, can you? Because in your understanding if the woman is not serving the man then it must mean the man is serving the woman. It is hard for you to imagine that instead of a woman serving a man or a man serving a woman, the two can both exist as partners, companions with a shared goal and life.

For the umpteenth time, I never had a "high value" father since he never subscribed to such idiocy. He was confident as a man and a father,and raise his children to be as well.

This your useless and unhealthy family arguments... is one of the reasons for any well to do and full fledged man shouldn't marry a feminist, imagine marrying a woman arguing with me like this, your father house straight... rubbish!!!

nighter:
1. Feminists should marry themselves, it's that simple. It's the duty of a wife to submit to her husband. A husband's responsibility to his wife is love. That's how the Bible ordained it.

2. Two captains cannot run a ship. You must submit to your husband, that's what you owe him while he owes you love. Any woman who can't submit to her man should marry herself.

3. I'm not saying you should be a doormat to your man. Have dignity, self respect and self love. Choose a man that respects and loves you. When you find him, give him total submission.

1. Where in the law or in stone are these duties spelt out for you?

2. A ship isn't what you are running. Instead what you are talking of is a relationship and it takes more than one person to make a relationship work.

Marriage is defined as an agreement between a man and a woman - it takes a man and woman to make a marriage. So why do you prescribe only submission can work when there are other types of relationships apart from the master/slave kind you are used to?

3. Why?

Novemberaura:
Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.

I need inputs.

What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is

Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.

Reading this tread, you don't sound like a man ready to marry and be a husband.

As a man, you are to find a wife whose goals align with yours (and vice versa) and court her to determine you both agree enough to proceed to marriage.

Your girlfriend said she is a feminist; what does that mean to her? What does it mean to you?

It is not a function of who she defines herself to be; it is a function of who she has proven to be under your scrutiny.

What does marriage mean to her? What does submission mean to her? If she doesn't subscribe to submission, what is her view towards marriage? Can she give practical examples?

Even if a woman claims to hate feminism tomorrow, you still need to examine her to see she fits.

You; and not Nairalanders.

Kobojunkie:
1. Where in the law or in stone are these duties spelt out for you?

2. A ship isn't what you are running. Instead what you are talking of is a relationship and it takes more than one person to make a relationship work.

Marriage is defined as an agreement between a man and a woman - it takes a man and woman to make a marriage. So why do you prescribe only submission can work when there are other types of relationships apart from the master/slave kind you are used to?

3. Why?

Who mentioned anything about slavery or you don't know how to read? Value yourself as a woman, I said. Find a man who respects and loves you. You find one, submit to him. Where did you see become a slave?

Pierocash:
Men don't submit. Submission is for women not men. If you have lost your identity,real men have not

The men back in the days are those we submit to

BloomingDale:


The Black woman was here first. Scientists today have discovered that the Y chromosome in sperm has 2.8 percent less genetic material than the X chromosome in the same sperm specimen. Researchers were able to sift sperm to produce samples in which 85 percent of the cells had an X chromosome. In fact, the X chromosome is five times larger than the Y chromosome, which means that females existed for generations without males. To get the Y chromosome out of an X chromosome, you lose one of your points, thus the chromosome is defected, which is why a man has the same components on his body, that the woman does. For example, the breast and nipples, however men don’t breastfeed. Men are a genetic defect of women. A woman not only breastfeeds her children, but she nurtures the whole world with her wisdom.
The Y chromosome comes from female scientists, as Ninti, known as Mother Ninti or Nunet, who experimented with the side of an X chromosome maiming it by removing 2.8 percent of X chromosomes. This resulted in a maimed lower right stem (see 'xy' photo), giving the appearance of a Y, which produces less genetic materials, resulting in a Y chromosome, called chromosomal manipulation, a well known experiment today.

Lol... no one is gonna buy that crap!, certainly not here in Africa, if women were here first why aren't you bigger, stronger, more intelligent, adventurous, good in sports, amazing inventors, pay grooms price and finally why aren't men giving birth to children!?, even nature let's you know it's a male's world, keep digging and researching rubbish, funny enough the scientists that did this research will mostly be men!, go and humble your self and marry!, quit being stupid!

Caleycashh:
Lol... no one is gonna buy that crap!, certainly no here in Africa, if women were here first why aren't you bigger, stronger, more intelligent, adventurous, good in sports, amazing inventors, pay grooms price and finally why aren't men giving birth children!?, even nature let's you know it's a male's world, keeping digging and researching rubbish, funny enough the scientists that did this research will mostly be men!, go and humble your self and marry!, quit being stupid!

The only important characteristic which nature is concerned about, is the ability to procreate, and a strong immune system which favors the woman. Anything outside of that is just noise. Women don’t need men to procreate.

nighter:
1. Who mentioned anything about slavery or you don't know how to read?

2. Value yourself as a woman, I said. Find a man who respects and loves you. You find one, submit to him.

3. Where did you see become a slave?

1. You mentioned submission, and submission is defined as a type of master/slave relationship.

2. Again to the statement in bold, why?

3. See #1 above.

[quote author=BloomingDale post=114144918][/quote]I reiterate it's all trash to support feminist movement!!!... Men have being marrying more than 1 woman from time immemorial, shows you a woman cannot function fully without a man, every woman yearns for a powerful man in their lives, this is fact and reality not some rubbish scientific research to buttress your feminist trash ideologies, it ain't working, they should try harder!!!

Caleycashh:
I reiterate it's all trash to support feminist movement!!!... Men have being marrying more than 1 woman from time immemorial, shows you a woman cannot function fully without a man, every woman yearns for a powerful man in their lives, this is fact and reality not some rubbish scientific research to buttress your feminist trash ideologies, it ain't working, they should try harder!!!

Statistics show that women can function more effectively on their own. Men, not so much. Women are emotionally stronger than men.

BloomingDale:


The only important characteristics which nature is concerned about is the ability to procreate and a strong immune system which is superior in women. Anything outside of that is just noise. Women don’t need men to procreate.

Hahahaa, are you talking to a toddler or what!?, women don't need men to procreate!?, Yes you need Baboon to procreate!, ana kogeheri!!!