Funflipper:


Really? That is the dumbest thing i have heard in my entire life.

Another lost and confused one..
SMH.

Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria

Happens everywhere even in the west

Not all cases, but it is very true.
They will start by disrespecting the man.
There is one house wife in my area who is currently dating a yahoo boy, she has packed out of her husband house and the yahoo boy has bought a car for her.
The funny this obout the issue is that she packed out of the house with 5 months pregnancy

Confirm Truth, iam a living example since I open business for my wife and the business is doing well, I don't have a say in my family again, anything she said is the final. So I have filed for divorce in the court.

Individual difference not all women

That's total BS.
My mom practically earned more than my daddy all through their working life..

Come and dare shit with him...
Infact na for our (children) body momsie dey get strength.

On a lighter note, there are great women out there a man should learn to deal with his insecurities because women can smell insecurity from miles away.
Be confident in your manhood...if you get manhood though

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

The only thing I can say in this issue is that

Women are meant to be submissive but with less burden

Once a woman is subjected to carrying family burden and lucky for her she has the money

Don't just expect 100% loyalty from her

It's a fact

When a man has money, he feels he can now have women. When a woman has money, she feels she no longer needs men. This becomes even worse if she already has children.

I'm going through this right now

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

Asin Toto people ehn .

Then if u choose to react, they LL b like you have low self esteem and feeling insecure.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

True in most cases. However, women who aren’t like that are often times used and cheated by their husbands.

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

which business are you into? Just curious.

Hmmm ... If a woman is earning more, she may(be) disregard her husband... That's true ..

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Village people nor do pass this one.

Why didn't he marry someone NOT interested in working instead?

And how does his maid feel because she is not his wife.

FORWARDEVERLY:



That your relation is wise..

The relation is very stupid.

He thinks he will live forever!?

If he dies untimely, his children would be distributed to friends and relations to do househelps ALL BECAUSE his wife cannot support herself financially!

averageguy:
Two sides to the problem because the Nigerian culture considers men as financial providers

Female side: Some women expect a men to take care of all financial obligations, and get quite a bit selfish. So, they judge the man just by that yardstick.

Male side: Some men don't have much to contribute to a lady's life other than money. Some men also can't deal with a lady who makes more and either won't ask her out or would try to frustrate her life.

Just choose the person with beliefs similar to yours

@ bold:

On point.

xynerise:
They are not programmed to be the head of the family. So if they eventually becomes the decision maker or bread winner, it only takes the grace of God for them not to explode

Interesting.

So what does decision maker or bread winner mean in this case?

Can you give practical examples?

Ten06:
Not all cases, but it is very true.
They will start by disrespecting the man.
There is one house wife in my area who is currently dating a yahoo boy, she has packed out of her husband house and the yahoo boy has bought a car for her.
The funny this obout the issue is that she packed out of the house with 5 months pregnancy

Who knows whether the Yahoo boy jazzed her ni.

100 % fact.

ahnie:
Abegi
Men una get issues no be small.

If you drill down well, you will realize because the woman doesn't massage their fragile egos or tolerate their shenanigans.

Next you would read she wants to be 'equal' with men.

When you ask how?

'she wants to cheat like her husband'; 'she wants to be rude to him (the way he is rude to her)'; 'she wants to make decisions alone (the same way he has been doing)'.

When I say women should shine their eyes, it seems I am anti-women....

Imagine you have a good drive, backed by grace and you encounter this type of destiny destroyer, no bi die bi that?

Emperor88:

I don't have a problem with the husband that refuse his wife from working, my problem is with the stup1d wife that agrees to marry someone who will prevent her from working.

RillJ:
As true as that can be, I would certainly my wife to have as much more as legally possible.

Most women do not have regards for their husband one way of the other, and that's irrespective of the financial position.
If the man has more money but not strong (not bully plz) some wives would disregard such a man a million times over
If a man has more money but is impaired or weakened by ailment or age, some wives would go full throttle on disregard drive
If a man has more, is heathy, strong willed and all that, some wives would roughshod in disregarding the hapless husband.

Las las, the wan wey no go regard no go ever regard. She may lie low for a while but sooner than later the true color go show!

This riled me up!

So according to you, women have no regards for their husbands... Money or not

bukatyne:




If you drill down well, you will realize because the woman doesn't massage their fragile egos or tolerate their shenanigans.

Next you would read she wants to be 'equal' with men.

When you ask how?

'she wants to cheat like her husband'; 'she wants to be rude to him (the way he is rude to her)'; 'she wants to make decisions alone (the same way he has been doing)'.

When I say women should shine their eyes, it seems I am anti-women....

Imagine you have a good drive, backed by grace and you encounter this type of destiny destroyer, no bi die bi that?

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

bukatyne:


Interesting.

So what does decision maker or bread winner mean in this case?

Can you give practical examples?

Some of them get carried away when they foot the bigger bills and always think their opinion is best.

Ugomajority:
Very true. Most times. Currently see wht happened to the actress husband (Funke). In the time past, in abroad, women get there (esp nurse) earn higher than d man and start mistreating their husband

And you know there, the court will always favour them.

My dear, it is rare to see a woman who will respect u. They exist bt few

I knew someone would mention Funke's story.

Even when it is alleged they both cheated and he mismanaged their joint account.

Shebi he would have stopped at cheating so they are the same.

Emperor88:

I don't have a problem with the husband that refuse his wife from working, my problem is with the stup1d wife that agrees to marry someone who will prevent her from working.

How would she know his true intentions, when some men can be cunning!?

One lady that brought her issue here said her newly married husband demanded that she quit her "80k job".
Now, do you think they had that "agreement" before they were married?
I thought that was very selfish and inconsiderate of the so-called "newly married husband"

xynerise:

Some of them get carried away when they foot the bigger bills and always think their opinion is best.

And in all honesty, is this a woman problem or a human problem?

Isn't there a popular adage that says 'he who pays the piper dictates the tune'?

Beverlyjean:


We women are our worst enemies... we keep on proving men right .... with what I have seen , I will never allow my son marry a woman thats more financially successful than him

Also makes sure he divorces her if she makes more money

Who is this asking this kind of question.
You know before?

Tallesty1:
If and only when the only thing the man brings to the table is money.

Chop kiss jare

Most of them wailing are already - 1. Then the woman is able to make the small change they provide and they start wailing when she doesn't see their usefulness anymore.

NoToPile:
All these threads sef

Provide fully - lailai
Wife is working now makes more money - trouble.

I don't even understand what the problem is exactly.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Very regular here and elsewhere..

Most ladies don't know how to control huge statements, power and fame. Most become egotistical the moment small cash don dey enter account..Then you will hear statements like "What do I need a man for"..

God abeg o