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Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

So for your mind doing fraud is now a job, chai I pity your generation. Criminal.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

hustle!

Abi, which other thing you wan do?

Ballzproblemm:
STFU! just because you made it early doesn't mean others won't , instead of you to advice him on what to venture in you are here bragging nonsense , you no senior mbappe yet en go train you.

Kollins na troll

The mbappe line a rib cracker...

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

you are very wicked. If you must advice someone, let it be positive and not yahoo

is not about age of you being a 30yrs man, can you be responsible for a rent, nepa bills and some petty contributions to fix things in the compound yet? if no



you dont need an apartment first, you need a source


at 30yrs you don't have an apartment, failure? No



at 30yrs you don't have a stable income, failure? not really


get source first then others will follow, left house when I was 23yrs though

Orobokibo1:
op you have two options.

1. If you are a graduate, pray and go looking for a job. It could be a Hotel job sef. atleast they pay 40k and above. There is dignity in labour.
You can give car service a trial... if you cant do it in the city you grow up in, due to feeling embarrassed, please relocate to a place where you have family members that can accommodate you.

I want you to understand there is no clear-cut smooth path to success in life. Its a forest and we are all trying to survive, cater for our families and be successful. I subscribe to the school of thought.... Obatala-school of thought

2. Bro pray. in all things, prayers work. regardless how tough situations are in life, always pray. If need be my guy, you fit link up with one or two dibia or babalawo for guidiance. Every Igwe has a dibia, every Eze has an Ezenmo... this life requires sense
me sef don even pass your age but i know the powers behind this universe will assist me one day.

P.S ... i am also going though the toughest phase of my life. i really hope things change for the better soon.

uncle how will u advice him to visit babalawo or dibia, after telling him to pray ? The first paragraph and adivce was well said buh u come spoil the whole adivce with babalawo and dibia stuff uncle why na

clinician2x:
I am in late 20s, I live in my parents house, I drive my own car I bought at 27 and I make 1000$ every month working from home. My leaving my parents house is traveling to USA and never coming back.

Brother man abeg show me the way link me to the right path as I’m talking to you I’m going through a lot though I’m still an undergraduate but I’m ready to get my ass off and do work and do anything to protect my future.
Please on my kneel help me

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

I stop reading when you mention "Yahoo" .. nice choice of survival .. but nobe everybody head carry Yahoo

TheNoble007:
First of all, I am not your dear. Secondly, I have not made an assertion on any political leader. Thirdly, the backdrop or recession in a nation, shouldn't efface integrity amongst youths. I know someone who persistently for years, kept on applying for hundreds of jobs in Nigeria and his tenacity paid off recently, where he was got a permanent job worth several millions of naira per year. He refused to concede to crime despite his several trials.

You live in Nigeria and perhaps haven't visited any Western country and witness the form of reception meted to Nigeria passport holders. If you support misdeeds, illegal activities such as Yahoo, participate or encourage it, you and your generation will know no peace.



Shalom.

The leaders have a moral duty to impend integrity on the populace. Nigeria is known as the poverty capital of the world and most corrupt country in Africa. This is in the midst of plentiful resources both human and material.
If integrity pays you fine but it doesnt pay buhari, it doesnt pay tinubu, it doesnt pay atiku, it doesnt pay obi.
Every man should follow their interest. What pays you go ahead you have God to answer.
Your hypocrisy is too much and I dont think it would benefit the ordinary man on the street.
If you give me an example of a guy who applied several jobs to get millions, I can tell you of a guy who crashed 50 million naira bike because his father is the president, I can tell you of a guy who bought 2022 bmw model because his father is Peter obi.
Those guys dont care about integrity. Or is the accountant general that stole 80 billion and has been left off the hook while young people are languishing in their house because of ASUU strike. You think the AGF care about them, you think Akpabio cares about NDDC students who are sleeping in the UK cold. It is cold outside. Let everyman do what will make him happy. You can continue in the integrity lane if is what would make you happy.
If passport holders face discrimination is because of the failure of leadership. Every country in the world commits fraud but Nigeria institutionalized their own. Even in England corrupt activities go on a daily basis but their passport holders dont face discrimination because of you do that, boris johnson will fight you to the last.

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

Abeg no follow this guy advice o, e fit b your first maga go land you in jail o
But you sef try o @30 in your parents' house

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

I am sorry for those who call you their child

4teenblaq:
As e b say dey never scam you before there will be nothing wrong with that.

I have been scammed three times it is life one must fall victim one day but I don't wish so for my country people but u see those racists white, they deserve to be scammed.

Revolution2022:
Everybody is facing one problem or the other,both married and unmarried.I get colleague for my former work.This guy was so jealous of me because I was no married,while he has got married.His wife always called him at work and I could hear them argue because of money.He earned #20k.As at 2017.I wonder how he could impregnate a lady with a meagre salary.Those who left their parents houses and are living alone are also facing problems of unpaid house rent for 1 or 2 years,job loses due to retrenchment at work,quit notice from their landlords over unpaid rent,debt to loan apps, depression due to stress at work couple with low pay.So my brother,no dey envy anybody.Na Nigeria we dey.If you no be politician,and government workers(Na them dey chop money through corrupt means)e dey hard to make ends meet.
Na people wey go buy tokumbo cars dey soferam.Visit'car talk section for nairaland and read complaint from car owners.Depression is everywhere.

. Nice write up. Bless u sir

Kollins11:
That's the choice (yahoo) I made bro and it has helped me.

I'm not forcing anyone here to do yahoo. I presented two choices before them (learn a profitable skill or do yahoo).. The choice is left for them.

I'm just telling y'all what is working for me. I'm a graduate in civil engineering but today na yahoo I dey do and it's paying me big time.... Make my certificate dey one side first

so you even studied civil engineering? Civil engineering pays better than yahoo, that’s if you know your onions and make the right connections

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

TAKE THE BULL BY THE HORN, GET A SMALL PLACE. FROM THAT SMALLPLACE TO ANOTHER PLACE. LIKE THAT LIKE THAT..

omotoso1989:
I'm 33 now,working and got married before at 27.i lost my job and my wife took a french leave.im now in my parents house.but I could recollect my wife telling me had it been the one that I wanted to do that I did to u,u would have known

Life no balance at all

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

Bayode, na your hand and car keys be that? Return that crusher!

You have not failed yet. First thing find a friend and go to them even if you are maltreated be there But begin to source out plans so you can find money. Not yahoo yahoo. Crypto, middle for shops, work for a restaurant, hotel etc. You lucky will find you. I left home when I was close to 29. And I'm doing not bad at all right now on my own. So many ups and down along but at the end.

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

Seun, Mynd44, Lalasticlacla

So the mod that pushed this thread to the FP didn't see the commonsense or ethical value in removing this comment from the first page. Honestly, we all have the social responsibility to atleast make the society a better place. When young people see posts like this and venture into ritual, fraud and other crimes, People like these mod too will be complaining. You guys are terrible moderators.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

WELL,I LEFT HOME AT AGE 17 BUT MY FATHER WAS NOT HAPPY BECAUSE HE LOST HIS JOB AS A BANKER. BUT HAVE TAKEN MY TIME TO STUDY MY UNCLES THAT MY FATHER SPENT MONEY ON THAT THEY ARE NOT RELIABLE AND AS SUCH I NEED TO RE-TRACE MY PATH BEING THE FIRST SON OF THE FAMILY.
I JUST TOLD MYSELF THAT I DONT HAVE ANY UNCLE AND THERE WAS NEED TO BIULD MY LIFE FROM THE SCRATCH AND I INFORMED MY MUM. SHE WAS HAPPY THAT I DISCOVERED THAT ON TIME AND SHE FURTHER OPENED UP TO ME TO SEE REASON I SHOULD NOT DEPEND ON ANYONE.
I MOVED CLOSER TO GOD FOR DIRECTION AND MADE ALOT OF FRIENDS . AFTER SOME TIMES I WAS ABLE TO PICK THE LIKE MINDS AMOUNG THEM.
IT GOT TO A POINT THAT MY DAD WAS AFRAID BUT MY MUM HANDLED THAT ON MY BEHALF.
WHEN I WAS ADMITTED INTO UNIVERSITY MY FRIEND'S FATHER PAID MY TUTION BECAUSE I DO HELP HIM TO BUY COCOA BEANS FROM SOME VILLAGES IN ONDO STATE.MY FRIEND FATHER DO GET LPO FROM HOLLANDS EVERY YEAR TO SUPPLY 50,000 TONES OF COCOA THEN AND I WAS VERY OPENED IN MY DEALINGS WITH HIM. I DO GET 5 NAIRA /KILO AND 320 NAIRA /BAG.
AT AGE 19,I GOT A SCHOLARSHIP (SHELL AND FG) AND I WAS ABLE TO USE SOME PERCENTAGE FOR BUSINESS AND STUDY. GRADUATED WITH ACCOUNT BALANCE OF 125K AT STB IN YEAR 2004.
GUYS ,YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE . JUST KEEP PUSHING AND BE PRAYERFUL FOR DIVINE GUIDIANCE

Stop beating yourself up. Just be a responsible adult.
Support your parents who host you financially and start saving towards your desire to live alone.
If you are bent on moving out, you can start small.
Look for a single room apartment in a safe area of town and grow organically into a bigger apartment.
The problem with Nigerians is that the always want to start big.
I believe there are face-to-face apartments that cost as low as 5k a month in some areas of Lagos.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Pls don't squat with anyone for now oo, if you don't want embarrassment

Stay in ur parent house , wait is the family house owned by ur father or your family rented it ..

Bro e no easy to stay alone oo ummm,

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comment, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

I dey hustle everyday.. I no dey sleep

Advising someone to do Yahoo is a bad advice. You yourself know that the end of it is destruction. But what you are enjoying now will not make you to think about the distrastrous end. There are other legit hustle to make money without doing yahoo.

Remember, he who laugh last, laugh best

The best thing to do is look for a job or go learn a skill, it will not be easy for u buh eventually when you become a boss of ur own, it will be a big achievement for you . Most importantly always pray for direction and guidance ,pls don't pay attention to those that are telling u to do yahoo, visit babalawo or dibia.

nokspos:
I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons.

Stop the cap and face life reality. its not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.

God bless you

TinubuAdvocate1:
so you even studied civil engineering? Civil engineering pays better than yahoo, that’s if you know your onions and make the right connections

Oga, never underestimate the power of yahoo.. Respect that hustle.

Well, I will use my certificate to work but that would be in my next life.. Lol..

omotoso1989:
Yeah,I never had any side chick nor beat her and I made sure I provided for my family.my guy u won't bliv I drank to stupor and I threw myself naked in the streets.i had been warned not to marry the girl but I never hearkened to pple.ote author=Bluezy13 post=114461972]

Kindly explain the highlighted.

I'm sorry about your terrible ordeal

I wish you can just forget her entirely.

There are very good women out there, I'm sure you're gonna find one again.

BETTER RESPECT YOURSELF AND STAY THERE .

Guy don't compare yourself with others your time will come just don't do anything stupid double your hustle stay strong believe in God pray more and work hard. We plenty for the boat. Appreciate what you have some no get parents to stay with so guy you are fine. You being alive is worth celebrating.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Simple. Look for apartments you can pay monthly. Some even come furnished sef. 7k-30k per month rentals you go get apartments wella

CaveAdullam:
1. Calm down man. It is not easy anywhere in the world, especially in Africa, and Nigeria. But we do think it's always greener on the other side of the fence.

2. The economic and political terrain has been ruffled by corrupt leaders and politicians, hence, the current problem we are facing. Now we all can understand that it is not doing what makes you happy but what is the right thing.

3. The exacerbation of our predicament is also due to the prevalence of social media, we see the few successful people making headlines, all of the news and in every post and we do think we are failures. The reality is that these few people gained success either by chance, hard work, or charity from friends and family.

4. As a result of the effect of social media on the economic state of the nation, fraudulent activities have taken over, now a teenager who doesn't measure up to your level of intellect and exposure is the one now dictating the tune of the piper. It is a sad reality.

5. As humans, we only have a tiny control over how our lives go. But many do think that we can get whatever we desire by positive thinking and working hard all day. Though, there are some truths in the statement but not the whole truth.

A. You don't have control over the country you will be born.

B. You don't have control over your genetics.

C. You don't have control over your government.

D. You don't have control over the economy; you can't dictate peoples' buying and selling tendencies. The market is way emotional.

E. You can't dictate the legislature.

F. You don't choose your family, and can't even control them to the extent you want.

G. Different things cumulate and they are the deciding factors of our lives; our decisions and positive thinking are all that we have got to manage ourselves amidst the changes and storms of life.

6. It is not easy, but you must start from somewhere. It is hard for the ones enabling themselves not to talk of the unemployed, depressed and suicidal.

7. Look within, what do you have? What can you do? Where are you at the moment? Use this to start planning.

8. Don't set any resolution or target, you don't have control over the circumstances of life and how people will behave. The goal now is to engage in something worthy and start planning and building from there.

9. Life is filled with joy and laughter; peace and war; hope and anxiety, failures and success. You may be on the negative side of life today, and maybe tomorrow you will be on the positive side - it is all hope and a coping mechanism but we wish the good for ourselves and our loved ones.

10. Connect with people that are better than you. Go to places where you will either gain knowledge or money, or both. But better to remain in solitude than mingle with those who won't sharpen your life and experience.

11. If You want a beautiful edifice, start laying the foundation.

Time and chance happen to them all.

Thanks.

You said it all bro

Yours is good brother your father doesn't disturb u.

Im 32 still with my parents. My Father always insulted me.

That my age are married with kids im in the house. Im a graduate no job. Nothing to show for it... Sleeping on the floor since I have been born... It seems life is unfair to people who are good.

Depression everyday. No happiness.

I always tell God to grant me heaven when i die.. Because im not seeing the purpose of life.

The worst part is npower didn't even change mine to beneficiary that was my hope but it seems no hope. I haven't been lucky thou...

Anyway its well with our soul.