JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Ballzproblemm:
STFU! just because you made it early doesn't mean others won't , instead of you to advice him on what to venture in you are here bragging nonsense , you no senior mbappe yet en go train you.

aprilwise:
Do not anyone pressure you to leave your parents house if you’re not financially balance. I’m 35 I work in offshore with good salary am still living with my parents. I have all the space in the world

Ballzproblemm:
STFU! just because you made it early doesn't mean others won't , instead of you to advice him on what to venture in you are here bragging nonsense , you no senior mbappe yet en go train you.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

omotoso1989:
I'm 33 now,working and got married before at 27.i lost my job and my wife took a french leave.im now in my parents house.but I could recollect my wife telling me had it been the one that I wanted to do that I did to u,u would have known

Ballzproblemm:
STFU! just because you made it early doesn't mean others won't , instead of you to advice him on what to venture in you are here bragging nonsense , you no senior mbappe yet en go train you.

VladimirPutiin:
Life for an average Nigerian youth is freaking hard.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Revolution2022:
Everybody is facing one problem or the other,both married and unmarried.I get colleague for my former work.This guy was so jealous of me because I was no married,while he has got married.His wife always called him at work and I could hear them argue because of money.He earned #20k.As at 2017.I wonder how he could impregnate a lady with a meagre salary.Those who left their parents houses and are living alone are also facing problems of unpaid house rent for 1 or 2 years,job loses due to retrenchment at work,quit notice from their landlords over unpaid rent,debt to loan apps, depression due to stress at work couple with low pay.So my brother,no dey envy anybody.Na Nigeria we dey.If you no be politician,and government workers(Na them dey chop money through corrupt means)e dey hard to make ends meet.
Na people wey go buy tokumbo cars dey soferam.Visit'car talk section for nairaland and read complaint from car owners.Depression is everywhere.

Justsylvia:


uncle how will u advice him to visit babalawo or dibia, after telling him to pray ? The first paragraph and adivce was well said buh u come spoil the whole adivce with babalawo and dibia stuff uncle why na

CaveAdullam:
1. Calm down man. It is not easy anywhere in the world, especially in Africa, and Nigeria. But we do think it's always greener on the other side of the fence.

2. The economic and political terrain has been ruffled by corrupt leaders and politicians, hence, the current problem we are facing. Now we all can understand that it is not doing what makes you happy but what is the right thing.

3. The exacerbation of our predicament is also due to the prevalence of social media, we see the few successful people making headlines, all of the news and in every post and we do think we are failures. The reality is that these few people gained success either by chance, hard work, or charity from friends and family.

4. As a result of the effect of social media on the economic state of the nation, fraudulent activities have taken over, now a teenager who doesn't measure up to your level of intellect and exposure is the one now dictating the tune of the piper. It is a sad reality.

5. As humans, we only have a tiny control over how our lives go. But many do think that we can get whatever we desire by positive thinking and working hard all day. Though, there are some truths in the statement but not the whole truth.

A. You don't have control over the country you will be born.

B. You don't have control over your genetics.

C. You don't have control over your government.

D. You don't have control over the economy; you can't dictate peoples' buying and selling tendencies. The market is way emotional.

E. You can't dictate the legislature.

F. You don't choose your family, and can't even control them to the extent you want.

G. Different things cumulate and they are the deciding factors of our lives; our decisions and positive thinking are all that we have got to manage ourselves amidst the changes and storms of life.

6. It is not easy, but you must start from somewhere. It is hard for the ones enabling themselves not to talk of the unemployed, depressed and suicidal.

7. Look within, what do you have? What can you do? Where are you at the moment? Use this to start planning.

8. Don't set any resolution or target, you don't have control over the circumstances of life and how people will behave. The goal now is to engage in something worthy and start planning and building from there.

9. Life is filled with joy and laughter; peace and war; hope and anxiety, failures and success. You may be on the negative side of life today, and maybe tomorrow you will be on the positive side - it is all hope and a coping mechanism but we wish the good for ourselves and our loved ones.

10. Connect with people that are better than you. Go to places where you will either gain knowledge or money, or both. But better to remain in solitude than mingle with those who won't sharpen your life and experience.

11. If You want a beautiful edifice, start laying the foundation.

Time and chance happen to them all.

Thanks.

Prettygirl200:
Mr e didn't brag, he is only telling the op what he would have done in his youthful age and same time advicing every young guy out to start hustling early in other for them not to end up like the op. I advices my bf to get a land build a house with the money he collected from Yahoo, I advices to open a business and put someone there to help him manage and am the one supervising it. look at him now he has two buildings and he is a landlord on his own and he hasn't gone far in age. Looking at him always happy I didn't flirt that money with him he is doing well, nd am happy.

Kollins11:
That's the choice (yahoo) I made bro and it has helped me.

I'm not forcing anyone here to do yahoo. I presented two choices before them (learn a profitable skill or do yahoo).. The choice is left for them.

I'm just telling y'all what is working for me. I'm a graduate in civil engineering but today na yahoo I dey do and it's paying me big time.... Make my certificate dey one side first

clinician2x:
I am in late 20s, I live in my parents house, I drive my own car I bought at 27 and I make 1000$ every month working from home. My leaving my parents house is traveling to USA and never coming back.

Mamaab:

Your foolishness and stupidity is universal. Ritualist.

Dear OP, don't listen to these agents on demons here pls. There is nothing wrong with you and you have not failed in life. Sorry to say, but if your parents are pushing you out, they are equally as foolish as that useless commenter up there.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Kollins11:
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Justwise

Una no try at all.. Why una commot my comment?? I did not break any rules here... I didn't force anyone to do yahoo. I was only stating what worked for me... After all, life isn't fair to anyone.

It's their choice to choose between a profitable skill or yahoo, which I stated earlier... Did I force anyone or put a gun on anyone's head?

Honestly, una no try.. I swear.

Connected1:

Why speaking like a woman, they are the ones scared of a particular age.
Anyone telling you Nigeria is not hard is lying big time, I pay the most bills of my parents family, but I still live with them so I can curb promiscuity, I know myself, like this sef, I do lodge hotels once in a while then imagine if I stay alone, my ashawo go get better style, girls and my guys know I am doing well for myself, at least I am contented with the little I have achieved and hoping for more.

If I am to leave my parents house then I will be getting married in the next year, so I don't have plans for that now, I am still a student and I hope to have atleast 6 landed properties before I leave them, don't allow anybody kill your self-esteem, you are better than most of them it's just that your secret is wide open unlike theirs, so achieve what you want while staying with your parents, they won't chase you and will still borrow you funds willingly if they have unlike when you ask others. I can remember when my mother pushed for a loan for me, but when she wanted to take it I had gotten the money from somewhere else.

So you aren't a failure, Nigeria is just hard, we aren't where we want to be but we are happy for Life, Buhari's regime killed 90% of my plans, I killed 5% with my own hands and only 5% worked out, so that's how life is for many of us now.

Life isn't about who arrived first, the goal is to be rich and healthy at our 50's and retirement age, according to my elderly friends, na that time life dae sweet pass not even our youth, the youthful age is the time for laying solid foundations, so don't envy those buying cars and carrying leftover girls, build your future bro.

AgentGoat:
It's not rosy out there bro. Don't be idle. Look for something to do no matter how small for now. I understand it can be difficult living with our parents sometimes. But don't leave in a hurry with plan on how you will survive out there.