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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Transcriber: 11:30am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:



Story. She dodged a bullet. He's a mummy's boy, simple! Good riddance to the family.
he also dodged a greater bullet, she's a stupid girl

Even me as a boy will collect the broom or at least offer some assistance

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Wallade(m): 11:30am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.

In marriage, your husband is not your equal; he is your leader. However, you both must be equitable and fair to each other in the marriage.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Justbehave(m): 11:31am On Jul 08, 2022
Ebubu3:
i actually know you desire her and probably feel jealous i have what in reality, i don't (jovialjune).

and also, i'm confident you operate those multiple accounts; all three of them who have been attacking me here. Takes nothing off me as i've faced worse trolls than you but i'm telling you now I know you're the moniker behind all three accounts.


You're just a pathetic kid
Fuckoff from here jovialjune fucker. grin

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Mosesvic11(m): 11:31am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Well, it can't be me.
for now but later it will be you

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Spherica17: 11:31am On Jul 08, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Nothing like cruise, na frustration dey worry am. Don't u know that once a woman dun clock 35years, she start agitating, coupled with ops midget stature
you just like to cap nonesense here wink

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by assholemods: 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Well, it can't be me.
If your own mother is sweeping will you raise your legs up? You are obviously not well brought up. There is an English word called "courtesy" doing that doesn't make you a slave or a fool to the man, it is humility. I pity who marry or who go marry you! Las Las na carry me dey go your case go be...end time women!

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Demurray: 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
UpInTheSky:
He doesn't see anything wrong with him not collecting the broom from his mom and doing the sweeping for her
like a trained son ought to do, but somehow his GUEST who lifted her leg to move out of his mom's way is the problem,
simply because she's a female.

The double standard is alarming and quite disgusting.
Even if the son collected the broom from her mother to offer the help, it's the duty of the girl as an African to collect the broom from the boy and sweep

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!
You must be stupid, you want to tell the owner of the house when to sweep his or her house?

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Wallade(m): 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

Who the hell are you that the house can't be swept when you are around?

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Transcriber: 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Dey use old tactics dey judge wife material. Emancipate yourselves from mental backwardness.
what of women that want a 6'5 tall, dark, handsome, rich, godly and loyal guy?

It goes both ways lol, so come off it

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
Peacefulgold:

How would your brother have acted ..
Even you as a girl ,how would you have acted if you walked in and saw your mum sweeping and your brother's wife to b is raising her leg for your mum to sweep through ... I hope you would applaud her ,or you tell your mum she was disrespecting her to have been sweeping at that time ..

My mom isn't an illiterate besides only poverty mentality people test women with chores. I believe you are one of them.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebubu3: 11:32am On Jul 08, 2022
BadBradley:
you didn't read what you're responding to? Ebubu? Let's pronounce that......E-BUU-BUU.

That's a stupid sounding name from a fool who wants to sound tough on the internet.

And nature cursed you by preserving you as a gay.
I rather come as a monkey but straight than be a gay hunting shit-dome

I know even mosquitoes avoid you. They need to keep straight.

I love the way you moaned my name eh-booboo last nyt wink

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by yusufmurry: 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
Comments I see here from ladies tells reason for easy-to-end marriages these days. No thanks to social media

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by DenreleDave(m): 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


That test is shiit to me. Well, the tests can never work for me sha. I'll fail.

Fail and remain unmarried for life grin grin

I cannot come to ur father house and see ur mom or daddy doing sumtin a man can do and not offer to help...

I will definitely offer to help

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by wonderr(m): 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!
only God knows how many times you have slapped your pathetic mom, because you are so impertinent, and lack respect for elders, but I don't pity your mom because she deserves what she gat for giving birth to an unwanted being like you, a 100 naira condom would have protected the society from a disaster like you.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebubu3: 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
Justbehave:
Fuckoff from here jovialjune fucker. grin
your mom tastes beta

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by jojothaiv(m): 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
So many dishonest remarks, half truths and humblebrags here and there.

This is Africa and we all know what goes on here, anyway, let keep deceiving ourselves, na breeze wey never blow dey fowl shake yansh anyhow.

Ire o...

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Solofresh2: 11:33am On Jul 08, 2022
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UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.
This world no hard at all,we humans are the ones making things hard for her self.
First of, you are wrong to tell me how my house should look and what I should do in my house even when you are around.The woman owns her home and she can sweep any time she likes.Moreover, there might be some circumstances where by that is the only opportunity and time for her to sweep at that particular moment.
The woman is also wrong to send the girl away because she didn't collect the broom from her.That is a useless mentality, forget the fact that we are Africans or not.The fact that the girl did not collect her broom to sweep does not mean she is a bad girl, every one has their good and bad side and no one is perfect in general.
So as for me, the girl is not to be blamed here but you are wrong to claiming the woman is sweeping at a particular time.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:34am On Jul 08, 2022
Demurray:
Even if the son collected the broom from her mother to offer the help, it's the duty of the girl as an African to collect the broom from the boy and sweep

The duty of the girl? Are you so slow? Well, someone like me will never try that. Are chores what you use to grade a wife material?

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Pimine: 11:34am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm a spec.
Shey na beaurry we wan chop? Abeg talk another thing grin

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Mosesvic11(m): 11:34am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.
stop being a bitter soul, you are made to be submissive to a man weather you like it or not that is the standard.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Transcriber: 11:34am On Jul 08, 2022
postmann:


Where does one begin to address your folly? Is this a sincere submission or just a gateway to draw attention to yourself? Your bare-chested DP seems persuasive of the later. And then, "you want to eat your cake and have your pancakes back." Your profile provides a brief but conclusive psychoanalytical evidence of your temperamental makeup.

It's not worth the while sifting through the load of pink-lettered, hormonal drippings laced in the crap you called your opinion. If you're not satisfied with your gender by birth, reassign yourself and get a dìck and come into a man's world let's see how you measure up.

You thought if GOD made a mistake.... the sheer arrogance of an earthen vessel who can't even manage her monthly crimson inconvenience....
nice writing
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by achimendy(m): 11:35am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.

My dear when you talk don't generalize. All man with him own mentality, and same implies to women.

Try to be calming down.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebubu3: 11:35am On Jul 08, 2022
BadBradley:
cheap and dry and generic.

You're an apprentice.
i don't have your time wink

I prefer we do the talking in bed like old times kiss

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Justbehave(m): 11:35am On Jul 08, 2022
Ebubu3:
your mom tastes beta
No wonder you are broke. Keep fucking married women

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KoshCAD: 11:36am On Jul 08, 2022
shege45:
would you settle for a broke man?
Good question.
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by temitimx19(m): 11:36am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

Exactly.. Why should you sweep when a guest is around. Some ppl mentality sha, some are backwards.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by assholemods: 11:37am On Jul 08, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.
Madam STFU you are spewing rubbish.
I am a man if I meet your mother or father sweeping I will take the broom from them no big deal na respect. Stop linking your bitterness towards men because you are so unfortunate to have some irresponsible men around you. You can go to God and ask him to reverse the principle of headship....yeye dey smell.

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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebubu3: 11:37am On Jul 08, 2022
Justbehave:
No wonder you are broke. Keep fucking married women
take this image below

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