Munzy14:

Joke apart in the attached pics, my Mom will walk her out as well...
Culture is culture..

I can't go to the house of a girl I want to marry, and see her elderly parents sweeping, and sit to watch It will speak volume of arrogance and poor home training as an African/ Igbo extraction.

Aside culture, her parents is like a mom and Dad to me as well..So I will sit and watch my Parents (Mom) sweep, I will sit and raise leg

My mama go wipe you that broom Trust a leo gang.

Maverick777:

domestic chores are for women!
technical/hectic jobs are for men! (all things being equal)
stop trying to form woke because of cheap publicity..

can you change a car tyre?
I would expect you to say yes because you're bloody hypocrite.

michael1508:

That wipe you broom got me laughing,what is the meaning of Leo gang?

egobright:
I don't understand, are you saying the woman who asked the young lady out of the house her name is men? Or the fellow who posted it on social media is called men?
Please clarify

Munzy14:

That woman doesn't pretend to like nonsense behaviour at all.

Leo is a zodiac for people born in August.

michael1508:


Oh I see,I think I have heard that before.
But do you think your mum not taking nonsense from people is due to her being born in August,I have always thought People just choose who they want to be personality-wise,I know there are some in-born traits we all exhibition though.

Munzy14:

Zodiacs play role in behavioural and traits of each human.
You just cannot ignore that.

People choose who they want to be plus other factors.

Elporo:


I see.

Your paternal family is dysfunctional hence your father's decision to purchase his properties in his "wife's" name (bravo to ur old man ). You might think this cute because you love your mother but it is still not the "way". I wonder how many billionaires purchased business, acquired bank accounts, shares and networked in their wives' names.

So many ways to use the money which can guarantee your children will be multi-millionaires before 21. Ever heard of trust funds, mutual funds, investment bankers. Especially today when you can reach Zurich with N100 worth of data.

If anything is in my wife's name it is her property - as per Nigerian law and she has the right to do with as she pleases.

kkins25:

Knowing what a man's family members can do, my father never bought anything in his name. he also bore it at the back of his mind that he would most likely die before her. So, it was common sense to put stuffs in her name. Not everybody comes from homes where two mad individuals marry each other.

michael1508:

I have heard about that several times,I can't just phantom it just yet,it looks strange and kind of spiritual though.
Were you born in August just like your mum too?

Lordhades21:


Your father tried, I can never trust a woman wholly like that. What if she disappeared never to be seen with all documents. Men trust no one.

talk2hb1:

Trust Me, Their is a place for everyone

UyaiIncomparabl:


Is that all you can say? I'm happily one naw.

As if being an evening newspaper is a sin.

JovialJune:
All these mumu that grew up in a dysfunctional family and damaged upbringing, trying foolishly to make their stupid thought process and background the yardstick and standard

If una papa no show una love in little things and always being there, that's your business, keep drinking your bitterness, envy and hatred alone.

Kobojunkie:
So why did the woman's own son stand and watch his mother sweep for his own visitor?

Why did her own son not show courtesy to his own mother?

It is unreasonable for a mother to judge another person's child by standards she would not even hold her own child to. It is not only conceited but bothering on disturbing to do such.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I reason like a 7-year-old because I called out the trash your gender did? I can see your sense of maturity.

Guy, read my comments all through. I will not become that kind of mother and grandmother. Me, that will fly my son and his girlfriend outside the country for treats. How will sweeping and chores my problem when I will have people take care of that for me? I don't know what sort of life you live or if you are mediocre, I am not.

I will not use substandard and archaic mindsets into vetting what a potential life partner will be for my son. I have no interest. I am not like you with a poverty mindset.

Once again, emancipate yourself from mental backwardness.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

TONYE001:


Old post, but let me still ask..

The girl met his mother sweeping, and he expected her to pick the broom (or whatever it was she was using) and complete the task. What was he doing before she got there? Why didn't HE take the broom and sweep the house?

Funny!

Maverick777:

If you noticed, I specifically stayed away from insulting or even referring to your family after countless provocations from you, you know why, the moment one is quick to bring family members into an argument, it simply means him/her has no regards whatsoever for his/her own. So I really do not blame you.
From all ramifications, you are a definition of everything bad and a disgrace to your gender.

as you were..