Ebubu3:
lolz. are you impressed? i've more!

Spherica17:
you just like to cap nonesense here

Ishilove:

I wonder o. My mum will never allow my brothers' girlfriends to assist in chores because they are just girlfriends. They want to turn somebody's daughter to a housemaid.

Mcslize:


You are right. Most ladies that are above 30, I notice they always feel so vindictive and highly paranoid about men.

Justbehave:
If those fingers I saw are your then the money definitely are not your because those fingers are so ugly and not fresh. So Bleep off and go Bleep jovialjune.

Solofresh2:
W This world no hard at all,we humans are the ones making things hard for her self.
First of, you are wrong to tell me how my house should look and what I should do in my house even when you are around.The woman owns her home and she can sweep any time she likes.Moreover, there might be some circumstances where by that is the only opportunity and time for her to sweep at that particular moment.
The woman is also wrong to send the girl away because she didn't collect the broom from her.That is a useless mentality, forget the fact that we are Africans or not.The fact that the girl did not collect her broom to sweep does not mean she is a bad girl, every one has their good and bad side and no one is perfect in general.
So as for me, the girl is not to be blamed here but you are wrong to claiming the woman is sweeping at a particular time.

KoshCAD:
You still stay long in your papa house. Maybe you can get yourself an oyinbo or you build a nigerian who is mumu.

NoToPile:


I agree with the bolded, the guy himself lacks morals allowing his own mum to sweep and the lady too spoiled matter by raising legs for her, either way she should have collected the broom and not raise leg for the woman, it's actually wrong where I come from, no matter who the elder is family member or not, whether it is your own home or not.

I also feel the sweeping in her presence was just to elicit a reaction, it's strange for a potential mother inlaw to start sweeping the particular place the female guest of her son is

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't understand? If you and mom think it is right to sweep when a guest is around, makes me ask myself if she gave you the necessary home training.

Demurray:
you are the one who slow,
As an African showing respect to elders is part of wife materials . Get that to your head.

assholemods:

Oga oyibo dey assist elderly o na dem even do am pass......She better go and look for a mumu man! End time women everywhere.

Munzy14:

Joke apart in the attached pics, my Mom will walk her out as well...
Culture is culture..

I can't go to the house of a girl I want to marry, and see her elderly parents sweeping, and sit to watch It will speak volume of arrogance and poor home training as an African/ Igbo extraction.

Aside culture, her parents is like a mom and Dad to me as well..So I will sit and watch my Parents (Mom) sweep, I will sit and raise leg

My mama go wipe you that broom Trust a leo gang.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

Transcriber:
so my mum should stop sweeping because of you?

So if I come to your house and your mom is sweeping,or cleaning she will stop?

Answer truthfully

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

Belleful:

Being a guess is no excuse. Not like u visited the guy in his own house, but his family house.
U must show yourself to be of well brought up and good mannered. The guy was right after all to ask ' who raise this girl's of this days

emmanuelbrown26:

Aunty rest small. All these midget self

UpInTheSky:


Yup, definitely nauseating to want somebody's daughter whose bride price he's yet to pay to be playing housewife for him. Men like him who expect women to bend over backwards to prove themselves usually have nothing to offer. If he were trained (clearly he isn't), he was supposed to take that broom and do the sweeping, not expect his female guest to.

Had this been a male friend of his, I wonder if he would've ended their friendship because of this. Obviously not. But apparently different rules apply to female guests, smh. He will clearly be one of those husbands who can't boil water because those values weren't instilled in him as a male child, and/or who expect his wife to do all the chores in the house because apparently that's her duty.

Kudos to her for not being a pickemeisha with no self-worth.

Opolopoopolonio:
@UyaiIncomparabl

If I were your fiancé, I would gladly help your dad/mum carry her bag/baggage or assist them in whatever activity or chore they are doing themselves just like I would do for my own PARENTS or older ones.

I think you are just a spoilt brat who does not deserve to have a good man to herself.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You can't even meet my house dirty. So, no discussion here.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.

Kaiair:

You have a wife and a house help yet you still wash dishes?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

postmann:


Where does one begin to address your folly? Is this a sincere submission or just a gateway to draw attention to yourself? Your bare-chested DP seems persuasive of the later. And then, "you want to eat your cake and have your pancakes back." Your profile provides a brief but conclusive psychoanalytical evidence of your temperamental makeup.

It's not worth the while sifting through the load of pink-lettered, hormonal drippings laced in the crap you called your opinion. If you're not satisfied with your gender by birth, reassign yourself and get a dìck and come into a man's world let's see how you measure up.

You thought if GOD made a mistake.... the sheer arrogance of an earthen vessel who can't even manage her monthly crimson inconvenience....

UyaiIncomparabl:


Well, it can't be me.

FuckSilly:

My mom is a big fool...