Today I felt so unhappy because I don’t like drama have been single for a while now and am not complaining or searching for love by force am in my 30S.There is a lady in my area she is a single mother she sells cloth , boxer , children toy and cloth too have known her for while but we recently started talking 3month ago . She likes me and I know it we tried something intimacy before but it was only kiss no s£..X .
She an her friend owns the she shop
Her other friend is single mother but older than her . One day I started talking to both of them buying cloth at there shop but one of the ladies that owns the shops like me and I like her too we’ve been cool as friend till her other friend got jealous of us oh . Yesterday I was passing through and I branched her shop to greet her she asked me what will I drink I say nothing am okay then she and her other friend was drink best cream and gisting . Then her older friend brought out a topic that women endure more than man that was how the argument start oh I told her man Go through a lot but keep silent that men endure more . I went outside to get table water and came back to her shop . Can you believe matter change oh the older lady as already poisoned her friend mind she just change it for me at first I though she was high but then I realized it was not highness again . She insulted me ( calling me a old fool that as old as I am I don’t have a wife, child and am happy living is that life that am not a man am still a boy ). I felt so touched because this lady was being pushed to say this shit to me her other friend was just laughing with style I just told them both that I thought she was mature but she disappointed me and I left ..



Now I notice she as been gossiping about me and her telling her friend but why are woman like this I took her as my friend took her out .
Even the day we where in a lounge bar we kissed and romance deep she told me to drive to any other location that the place is too crowded. But that day I was scared i felt it was a set up because it came too easy we’ve not even talked for 3 days we are kissing but have known her for like a year plus but then we don’t talk just greeting . So I controlled my self from so we didn’t have s£x but she wanted it but when I notice the closeness was too much and I don’t want to develop feelings her child is just 3 years an her shop is very close to my house in my street so we are just friend . Am just wondering why she just changed at me and insulted me I treated her nice bought things as friend we even went to the beach together and we did not have issues why did she insult me is strange an I don’t even have the other friend number or communicate much with her .


Please I only post here for the mature ones to tell me if woman naturally get jealous of another woman relationship

Please if you insult me for posting my own topic or my Wording’s
May God Torment the person .
Am not here for cruise
God bless you

Did you take her friend's number?

Too many red flags.
Single mother with a co-owned shop selling boxers, baby clothes, toys and drinking alcohol with her co-owner in the shop?
Is this her friend also a single mother?

But seriously, for your sanity, just blame it on the alcohol and move on. Don't be naïve, these things happen when you date the streets...

It's simple. Take it as God saving you and not giving permission. Find a small lady 4-8 years younger that can give you both respect and adoration. My brother even if your income is around 30-40k levels for examples, so long as it's your taste and desire to be I'm a relationship, you will find good ladies even at such level willing to commit to a drama-free relationship


She will regret her actions and come back begging, make sure you make it extremely difficult for her to get even two seconds attention. If you make it easy, she will see you like a loose slut not worthy of respect

egbon face front, the pussy wey u failed to dig when u had d chance nahin dey pain u pass not really the insult

But on a serious note , if u really have good intentions for her, just see it as her loss and move on with your life

Seems a woman has never deceived you before... sorry let me restructure that statement.

It seems you've never caught a Nigerian woman deceiving you.

Jonsing man
Go de Gossip with woman
You know no say Dem go gossip you
Find one place rest first
See as the talk de pain you

blazingblender:
Jonsing man
Go de Gossip with woman
You know no say Dem go gossip you
Find one place rest first
See as the talk de pain you

Men and women discuss. Societal issue etc. Not gossip. Or don't you talk with the opposite gender ?

JBriel:
It's simple. Take it as God saving you and not giving permission. Find a small lady 4-8 years younger that can give you both respect and adoration. My brother even if your income is around 30-40k levels for examples, so long as it's your taste and desire to be I'm a relationship, you will find good ladies even at such level willing to commit to a drama-free relationship


She will regret her actions and come back begging, make sure you make it extremely difficult for her to get even two seconds attention. If you make it easy, she will see you like a loose slut not worthy of respect

She will regret it sure she already started posting Mumu stuff on what’s app

OlaitanAkanbi:



She will regret it sure she already started posting Mumu stuff on what’s app

That is how ladies act oh. The moment the disrespect starts from any woman ,run. They will mess you up

blazingblender:
Jonsing man
Go de Gossip with woman
You know no say Dem go gossip you
Find one place rest first
See as the talk de pain you

I was not gossiping it was raining I just branched her shop for the rain to stop and go home

JBriel:



Men and women discuss. Societal issue etc. Not gossip. Or don't you talk with the opposite gender ?

Baba some topic women go bring up
You go just Waka pass
When a woman says
Women endure more than men
You should know that she has something in her mind to say that
So arguing with her will increase the hatred
Only jonsing men de long talk
Tight men make points and leave

blazingblender:

Baba some topic women go bring up
You go just Waka pass
When a woman says
Women endure more than men
You should know that she has something in her mind to say that
So arguing with her will increase the hatred
Only jonsing men de long talk
Tight men make points and leave

Anyways, for a man to have his respect intact, he should be mindful of being too free with ladies. The disrespect that comes with it is always something else.

OlaitanAkanbi:




I was not gossiping it was raining I just branched her shop for the rain to stop and go home

but you know that argument was not worth it
Cus you know that argument will build some form of hate
Cus women always think say na Dem suffer pass
You would have just made your point and bam

Damnn!!!!! Brother!!! You’re dealing with a confused Gender. Most of them can’t Apparently think on their own...

They’re just so confused... lol

JBriel:



That is how ladies act oh. The moment the disrespect starts from any woman ,run. They will mess you up

She they reason me like say I no jar because she give me I was not capable to do it because it came too easy an I rejected it

JBriel:




Anyways, for a man to have his respect intact, he should be mindful of being too free with ladies. The disrespect that comes with it is always something else.

Bam bro !!
Been around some ladies
Once you are so friendly they start saying things out of proportion
I don't even know how those gender thinks

HopeNeverDies:
Damnn!!!!! Brother!!! You’re dealing with a confused Gender. Most of them can’t Apparently think on their own...

They’re just so confused... lol

God bless you they are easily deceived the other lady was jealous because I never had any talk with her before but the babe we usually talk was so foolish to tell her friend about us and that was what I was running away from


Na woman they deceive woman

Do not take this as an insult. But please go and follow after Jesus. It will save you from all these unnecessary insults.

You think smooching and stuff is life.

Life is when you know God's true purpose for you and you fulfil it.

OlaitanAkanbi:
Today I felt so unhappy because I don’t like drama have been single for a while now and am not complaining or searching for love by force am in my 30S.There is a lady in my area she is a single mother she sells cloth , boxer , children toy and cloth too have known her for while but we recently started talking 3month ago . She likes me and I know it we tried something intimacy before but it was only kiss no s£..X .
She an her friend owns the she shop
Her other friend is single mother but older than her . One day I started talking to both of them buying cloth at there shop but one of the ladies that owns the shops like me and I like her too we’ve been cool as friend till her other friend got jealous of us oh . Yesterday I was passing through and I branched her shop to greet her she asked me what will I drink I say nothing am okay then she and her other friend was drink best cream and gisting . Then her older friend brought out a topic that women endure more than man that was how the argument start oh I told her man Go through a lot but keep silent that men endure more . I went outside to get table water and came back to her shop . Can you believe matter change oh the older lady as already poisoned her friend mind she just change it for me at first I though she was high but then I realized it was not highness again . She insulted me ( calling me a old fool that as old as I am I don’t have a wife, child and am happy living is that life that am not a man am still a boy ). I felt so touched because this lady was being pushed to say this shit to me her other friend was just laughing with style I just told them both that I thought she was mature but she disappointed me and I left ..



Now I notice she as been gossiping about me and her telling her friend but why are woman like this I took her as my friend took her out .
Even the day we where in a lounge bar we kissed and romance deep she told me to drive to any other location that the place is too crowded. But that day I was scared i felt it was a set up because it came too easy we’ve not even talked for 3 days we are kissing but have known her for like a year plus but then we don’t talk just greeting . So I controlled my self from so we didn’t have s£x but she wanted it but when I notice the closeness was too much and I don’t want to develop feelings her child is just 3 years an her shop is very close to my house in my street so we are just friend . Am just wondering why she just changed at me and insulted me I treated her nice bought things as friend we even went to the beach together and we did not have issues why did she insult me is strange an I don’t even have the other friend number or communicate much with her .


Please I only post here for the mature ones to tell me if woman naturally get jealous of another woman relationship

Please if you insult me for posting my own topic or my Wording’s
May God Torment the person .
Am not here for cruise
God bless you

OlaitanAkanbi:




She they reason me like say I no jar because she give me I was not capable to do it because it came too easy an I rejected it

That's not it. When you get close to a woman. She starts to scam your secret.. Once a woman knows that secret it begins to scratch her to say the secret or use it.. They make sure something happens for them to cast that secret. Otherwise they won't rest. The moment they know it or have it in their hand. It is finished. Na to cast you remain


What did you think made Delilah betray Samson. Your condition is her secret and she couldn't keep it so she had to create a fight to cast it. That's woman for you. Na wisdom them dey take near woman. Never ever loose guard or give your challenges or concerns with them.

blazingblender:
Bam bro !!
Been around some ladies
Once you are so friendly they start saying things out of proportion
I don't even know how those gender thinks

Now I can’t make friend with ladies oh there mouth is loose I thought it was a man mouth that was loose

You're getting worked up because of a single mother? Indeed most men have no standards.

Of all the 50 million plus single women in Nigeria, a single mother from the streets is what's giving you headache. I spit on men like yourself. You're a disgrace to manhood.

Men like you despise and denegrate the company of fellow men just so you can be zombies and useful tools to women. If you had an active social life with men of good taste I'm sure you wouldn't be running to nairaland for advice. Your post oozes of misplaced masculine pride.

A single man with self worth have no business chasing single mothers because he knows that doing so is gross disservice to his soul and manhood. He knows too well to always put himself first before any woman. He knows single mothers are just not good mating materials not to mention lovable materials.

Try to develop the habit of helping men, build a network of sane men around you and you'll never regret it. You won't find yourself in this situation if you had a circle of good men around you. Your type will meet women today and just open your mouth waaaaaaaaa and tell them everything there is about you.

If you're looking for marriagable materials, go to the north; they are Christian women in kaduna, adamawa, zamfara, plateau, nassarawa, gombe, Niger state etc. get yourself a good woman from the middle class echelon and stop wasting your time with this street urchins from Southern Nigeria. I'll recommend you also try out other African countries too.

JBriel:



That's not it. When you get close to a woman. She starts to scam your secret.. Once a woman knows that secret it begins to scratch her to say the secret or use it.. They make sure something happens for them to cast that secret. Otherwise they won't rest. The moment they know it or have it in their hand. It is finished. Na to cast you remain


What did you think made Delilah betray Samson. Your condition is her secret and she couldn't keep it so she had to create a fight to cast it. That's woman for you. Na wisdom them dey take near woman. Never ever loose guard or give your challenges or concerns with them.

And bro the funniest thing is that she told me about how she become a single mother yet I did not even cast it or say anything
I felt so ashamed of my self because she as made attempts 2 times I rejected does that makes me a boy for not doing it
If i knack her she no fit say that kind of rubbish
Because we both get secret together

blinking001:
You're getting worked up because of a single mother? Indeed most men have no standards.

Of all the 50 million plus single women in Nigeria, a single mother from the streets is what's giving you headache. I spit on men like yourself. You're a disgrace to manhood.

Men like you despise and denegrate the company of fellow men just so you can be zombies and useful tools to women. If you had an active social life with men of good taste I'm sure you wouldn't be running to nairaland for advice.

Did you read what you wrote so single mother is poisonous or what ??

Women don’t like/respect nice guys!

Nemesis0147:
Women don’t like/respect nice guys!

Nice men sell icecreams

OlaitanAkanbi:




And bro the funniest thing is that she told me about how she become a single mother yet I did not even cast it or say anything
I felt so ashamed of my self because she as made attempts 2 times I rejected does that makes me a boy for not doing it
If i knack her she no fit say that kind of rubbish
Because we both get secret together

Yes. You are a boy for not knacking her. You're a chicken and a pussy for not sleeping with her.

But seriously bro, why are you keeping secrets with women? Please stop. I'm begging you. It will always hunt you when things go south between you and her.

blinking001:

Nice men sell icecreams

they no dy tell person

Because u are too simper simp, can you read ur write-up again. we kiss, she want sex, her daughter is just 3 years, her shop is close to my street, I use to buy her things, we just started talking just three days. my brother your simp no get part nah season film. Saga still dey learn from u.

N

That part wey she call you old fool e sweetme die op.. Hehehehehhe
Guy even if trumpet dey sound if woman give me green light to chop kpekus I no go dull am.. If you don chop her kpekus she for no talk to u like that.. Moreover why will a single guy be keeping two old single mothers as friends when you should be gunning for young blood.. Your a confirm mumu man

Evening newspaper is reward for simple guy....