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I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Dump her,those girls are never loyal

07kjb:
Dump her,those girls are never loyal

Please read all my write up. This girl stood by me in a very very difficult time. It's just hard to just dump like that. That's why I brought it here.

Lalasticlala

07kjb:
Dump her,those girls are never loyal

Guy...

I'm just confused. Sometimes I feel it's spiritual.

Is better the both of you go to the hospital to seek medical attention. If she truly didn’t sleep with another man outside the relationship how then did she contact it?
I think you should tender this issue with mercy And seek medical help to know how she got infected.

Well, it is in your mind to forgive her please do. She has been with Yoh through thick and thin I know it's not easy but I feel she might be a good girl but she she should be truthful with you.

See oh, give her another chance
Both of you should visit the hospital and treat yr self.

Try and rebuild yr relationship with her.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

bro, she cheated. No think am twice. Assuming she own up to it, I for say mke u forgive but like this so, dump her. U cnt take rubbish bcus she stood by you

ojun50:
See oh, give her another chance
Both of you should visit the hospital and treat yr self.

Try and rebuild yr relationship with her.

how can you rebuild when she can’t own up to it? Did d sti just fly?

Haynnie:
Is better the both of you go to the hospital to seek medical attention. If she truly didn’t sleep with another man outside the relationship how then did she contact it?
I think you should tender this issue with mercy And seek medical help to know how she got infected.

Well, it is in your mind to forgive her please do. She has been with Yoh through thick and thin I know it's not easy but I feel she might be a good girl but she she should be truthful with you.

She's just crying and denying

ojun50:
See oh, give her another chance
Both of you should visit the hospital and treat yr self.

Try and rebuild yr relationship with her.

This I'm trying. But it's not also easy to forgive a cheating partner. This is a woman we've planned to have kids together after some while. We even planned to wait a little till my business stand well again. I'm not exaggerating, she have been 1000% supportive. I know this and that's what made it difficult

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

You're wicked, after all she's done for you, you still want to dump her. When you should be even eating her pussy on a regular sef and worshipping her
Make orgasmgiver123 nor catch you

SteadyGrinding:
She's just crying and denying

Then she should do the test so they trace how she got it

gonorrhea,I've once contacted it from a bitch..Pls try to treat it early,it was kinda dangerous infection if left not treated for long...Use this trick,check her genital areas,if you see whitish stuffs on her..Then it's true cheating,but if there's no whitish on her genital,then Maybe she contacted it from toilet or elsewhere..Though not accurate Though...The other girl who infected me is a pit toilet,i collected injection for three days for crime wey i no commit.Both treat yourselves and move on.

tayewomi:
gonorrhea,I've once contacted it from a bitch..Pls try to treat it early,it was kinda dangerous infection if left not treated for long...Use this trick,check her genital areas,if you see whitish stuffs on her..Then it's true cheating,but if there's no whitish on her genital,then Maybe she contacted it from toilet or elsewhere..Though not accurate Though...The other girl who infected me is a pit toilet,i collected injection for three days for crime wey i no commit.Both treat yourselves and move on.

I noticed the white discharge chief

SteadyGrinding:
Please read all my write up. This girl stood by me in a very very difficult time. It's just hard to just dump like that. That's why I brought it here.

Did she tell you she was a virgin, before you guys started dating

She may have probably contacted the infection from her ex boyfriend

I guess you've not thought about this, stop being a dic head and seek for solution

SteadyGrinding:
Please read all my write up. This girl stood by me in a very very difficult time. It's just hard to just dump like that. That's why I brought it here.

Dont dump her now....Wait till u get HIV from her HIV..then dump her..

All she gave u na gift...
U ddnt force her...thats what women say when they dump you after all u've done for them

Your name alone answered your question... STEADY-GRINDING

Why don't you do what is in your mind...do you need any kind of validation from anyone else.

For your information gonorrhea can also be contacted through unsanitary toilet wares, that's ofcourse not excusing the fact she has been with another man in recent times or longtime ago, gonorrhea doesn't easily manifest in women as it does with men, could be in her system for a very longtime if untreated.

Since you're so keen on getting advise, here's what to do both of you should go for proper medical treatment and be sure that the disease is properly eliminated from the system, do well to ensure the disease has not resulted to any sort of complications on her part especially her reproductive system.

Lastly it is pertinent to note that getting such supportive ladies out there at this present times is very difficult, be sure to put all these into consideration before arriving at your final conclusion.

Naa Steady Abolo una de do


OP don’t tell me you have been suckiing that infested Kpeekus

You tongue go soon fall comot,




Na UGIABGE remain for you to collect


Happy birthday to both of you

Maybe she is telling the truth, gono and some other STIs can be gotten from unhygenic/dirty or infected toilets more especially so if the victim is female.
I will suggest both of you get treated immediately and abstain from sex for now until both of you are completely healed.

Op hold that gal tight . . . infact , go pay something for her head to her people before another manchi come snatch am comot for ya hands.

Infection like that stays for a long time in a woman un-noticed, she can carry it for the next 2-3years without her knowing, but for man it's just 6-10 hours you feels the reaction,
Hence this could have been there Long ago from the past relationships, I'm sure the young woman didn't cheat on you, mind you such infection are difficult to treat in woman, therefore make sure she's properly treated and after a month go for test again to be sure all is clear, She has stood by you in your hours of trouble, here's her own hour of trouble, please stand by her... My little penny

Gonorrhea is treatable both male and female and gonorrhea can stay in the body of a woman for months without manifestation so think before you act.. Gonorrhea can aslo be contacted by woman by sharing toilet so she might not be a cheat after all.. Instead of you dumping her, take her to the clinic and support her to get proper treatments.. Instead of being stupid.. Your spiritual problems and family issues are wrose than gonorrahea she stood by you..

Rajahbite:
Maybe she is telling the truth, gono and some other STIs can be gotten from unhygenic/dirty or infected toilets more especially so if the victim is female.
I will suggest both of you get treated immediately and abstain from sex for now until both of you are completely healed.

Op hold that gal tight . . . infact , go pay something for her head to her people before another manchi come snatch am comot for ya hands.

Hmmm. Thanks Chief

OkoAnike:
Infection like that stays for a long time in a woman un-noticed, she can carry it for the next 2-3years without her knowing, but for man it's just 6-10 hours you feels the reaction,
Hence this could have been there Long ago from the past relationships, I'm sure the young woman didn't cheat on you, mind you such infection are difficult to treat in woman, therefore make sure she's properly treated and after a month go for test again to be sure all is clear, She has stood by you in your hours of trouble, here's her own hour of trouble, please stand by her... My little penny

Thanks Chief. Your home will know zero sorrow

Stallionhorse:
Gonorrhea is treatable both male and female and gonorrhea can stay in the body of a woman for months without manifestation so think before you act.. Gonorrhea can aslo be contacted by woman by sharing toilet so she might not be a cheat after all.. Instead of you dumping her, take her to the clinic and support her to get proper treatments.. Instead of being stupid.. Your spiritual problems and family issues are wrose than gonorrahea she stood by you..

God bless you chief. She stood by me even when my own mother is after my life.... Only me know this part

SteadyGrinding:
She's just crying and denying

She’s had the infection for more than 6 months. Gono turns people infertile if left untreated so if you don’t mind that she didn’t cheat on but had the infection all while you knew her… she’ll need serious medication and she should be concerned about her fertility. My friend had to get a round of injections and hormones treatment because she had gonorrhoea for nearly 10 years : she’s had 5 children since then but the threat was real and the treatment was successful obviously

Dimples2022:
She’s had the infection for more than 6 months. Gono turns people infertile if left untreated so if you don’t mind that she didn’t cheat on but I had the infection all while you knew her… she’ll need serious medication and she should be concerned about her fertility. My friend had to get a round of injections and hormones treatment because she had gonorrhoea for nearly 10 years : she’s had 5 children since then but the threat was real and the treatment was successful obviously

Please be sincere. You're a woman. With no sentiment. We've been having rounds of sex for 6month now. You mean it hid in her system and I didn't get it during this time?

SteadyGrinding:
Please be sincere. You're a woman. With no sentiment. We've been having rounds of sex for 6month now. You mean it hid in her system and I didn't get it during this time?

Oh okay… I thought you said you just had your first sex… if you’ve been sleeping together for the 6 months then it might be a new infection… like you said, you guys have been through worse so maybe write this off just this once. You guys get treatment and define your relationship. New start because love isn’t a walk in the park.Have a serious talk and make it clear that if you ever feel like you can’t trust her then it’s over for good.

Dimples2022:
Oh okay… I thought you said you just had your first sex… if you’ve been sleeping together for the 6 months then it might be a new infection… like you said, you guys have been through worse so maybe write this off just this once. You guys get treatment and define your relationship. New start because love isn’t a walk in the park.Have a serious talk and make it clear that if you ever feel like you can’t trust her then it’s over for good.

Ma'am. All in all. She cheated. Stamp this

SteadyGrinding:
God bless you chief. She stood by me even when my own mother is after my life... Only me know this part

Hope you have not started hearing from third parties called 'prophets' if yes jettison those tgoughts. They are of no goods.