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Zeekaycn:
Wahala!
God help me ooo

VeryWickedMan:
Never knew simping is a full time job

Oga you bad sha! You for pity the guy small. He will learn with time maybe na small boy.

You gave no details with which one could help you.

- What type of visa?
- Duration of visa?
- Did she apply for a job at the same time?
- Did you and her TOGETHER fill & upload the documents.

Questions questions.

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

.... Don't be troubled, the most important thing is that her visa entitle her to work.

Won ti gbe yin ni handicap OP

Zeekaycn:
Honestly she was paired with another person that applied for student visa. It's 5years duration

hàáà, that's illegal

She's functioning as a dependent illegally

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

Alaye , help her as if you are helping a stranger . Once she is there , the relationship is a goner . I am telling you for a fact .

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

Relative or her UK husband ?

Femi8586:
You had better wise up and not let one girl use your head. That when she gets there, you'll join her later? And you believed that?
In any of your dealings with girls, always put your interest first not hers.

Even if you spend your lifetime savings to make her get there, she will abandon you and look for a better man to marry there. Her interest and her family comes first before you.

It's why I tell people to make their choice of partner based on the person's values more than anything else. It will be hard for someone with high moral values not to keep their word.

My sister went for her master's in the uk, leaving her fiance in Nig. Guess what, he has joined her now. It's wrong to write every girl off. Some people come from very good backgrounds, ok and they keep their word.

Zeekaycn:
Me ke? I'm not the one sponsoring her, like I'd said it's the elder sister sponsoring the whole process. If she had depended on me she wouldn't have made it cus ain't have such money. We love each other and she never wanted to go.

Really

Zeekaycn:
Honestly she was paired with another person that applied for student visa. It's 5years duration

I guess your age to between 14- 17 years. Nothing like in UK

I think u saw her intrntl passport cus only that would last 5 yrs. When family dey push their member, don’t stay their way except it requires ur finance. Instead make una hustle, find money den marry, una dey do nonsense love. Who dey push for life dey one corner dey grow, u dey nairaland dey ask stupid question on her behalf . Babe wan ghost u soon, dey there!

congratulations. if the purpose of your mail is to find out if she is going to stabilize fast. the answer is no all migrant don't have a smooth start, no the rate of recovery depends on her visa type, from the above she is going to school, wish her well and keep communication channel open, in case you choose to be faithful to her, she may invite you in 3 years time and if it is to know the level of your relationship, i suggest you guys break up and free each other of the guilt of breakup as there will be reft and if no handled properly it will lead to a hurtful breakup. i don't subscribe to across the boarder relationship.

Nozino:
Your girlfriend did biometrics, probably did Medicals too, saw the visa on her passport.

If I were you, ask her to snap her visa because as it it, she’s using your head. She’s aware of everything that’s happening and she’s actively involved in the process.

See her you say she loves you and doesn’t want to leave the country? May God help you. I hope you aren’t from the south south especially Edo because you nr wise at all.

chaiiiii

U re right about benin boys

abobote:
Just zero your mind, its 50 50

Where e wan see 50 50...he has no chance, the girl knows what's up and she didn't tell him the whole story, that gives him no chance

Guy , relocating to abroad or staying here ,who wan good ,good ?

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

If both you are serious, put a ring on that finger and let her let it slide thru. That way, she can appky for you as dependent. Else guy, forget her till she resurfaces again

Zeekaycn:
Honestly she was paired with another person that applied for student visa. It's 5years duration

Forget her. Except she keeps showing signs of returning but asides that, forget that gal.

So your fiancée is going to UK with not the right visa on fake pairing . This is why genuine people in Nigeria find it hard to get visa due to fraudulent applications of previous applicants

Dont worry your self. One million will be enough to get her accomodation for at least a month in an Airbnb. As a student, she can work for 20hrs. Let her look out for a care job or chef.
quote author=Zeekaycn post=114707129]Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.[/quote]

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

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Once she departs from Nigeria, it is over.

Living abroad is a whole monster on its own with its numerous challenges. But keep praying because miracles do happen.

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Zeekaycn:
Yea you are right she told me that, she doesn't even know the height of it, is the elder sister that's pushing the whole process with someone she know in the UK.

Hahahahaha guy op you be really ode o

Her elder sister her elder sister
So till now you never figure out she is using it to leverage on claiming ignorance on the application process so you won't be too inquisitive..

E shock me say for 2022 niggas like you with all happenings never wise up, for your mind you dey support her financially to travel so she will go and soften life for both of you in the future..

I dare you to actually be serious about knowing the full details and see if you no go hit road block...

U read first 7 comments on this matter and you still dey wonder the outcome.

I no too dey comment on issue like this but I wish you the best.

Dey don rip this one

First, your relationship has less than 10% chance of surviving her relocation. Even if you join her immediately. Different pressures and dynamics in the UK, she will enter survival mode in the UK and you will be of little use to her. Know this and know peace.

She will find UK tough unless she has help waiting for her out there, from someone settled and stable

Does she even have work permit? Does she have any handy skills etc?

Please invest here and monitor your business 100% toes down believe me people abroad go envy you

Babalola0920:
Please invest here and monitor your business 100% toes down believe me people abroad go envy you

People abroad envy you? People don’t understand how much opportunities are here abroad. Just get good advice and avoid get rich quick. UK na profess.. but can be sweet..

I hope U smoke weed cos U gonna shed hot tears if U keep this relationship in mind

Zeekaycn:
Me ke? I'm not the one sponsoring her, like I'd said it's the elder sister sponsoring the whole process. If she had depended on me she wouldn't have made it cus ain't have such money. We love each other and she never wanted to go.

She married someone to get that visa and would be living with him. Guess what, sex will happen lots of times and she will definitely forget you and move on. No matter how ugly you think the guy is, she is a woman and regular sex would adjust her hormones to favour him rather than you in faraway Nigeria.