advanceDNA:


Guy... Be calming down..

Zeekaycn:


Me ke? I'm not the one sponsoring her, like I'd said it's the elder sister sponsoring the whole process. If she had depended on me she wouldn't have made it cus ain't have such money. We love each other and she never wanted to go.

KristaPretty:
Omg, they have used this ones head to emeash back of pot

My gender can be so funny and if you're not smart you would be like a fool

I cannot laugh o, e say na 5years student visa

Better ask her to show you the visa page

07kjb:
OP since u ain't the one spending just stick around things might turn out to favour you if she truly loves you

Zeekaycn:


Honestly she was paired with another person that applied for student visa. It's 5years duration

hush15:


If both you are serious, put a ring on that finger and let her let it slide thru. That way, she can appky for you as dependent. Else guy, forget her till she resurfaces again

advanceDNA:


What is 5 year student visa??
Guy...U dont evem know the full details....and you are paying.....?? I no like make guy no dey sharp

Zeekaycn:


Honestly she was paired with another person that applied for student visa. It's 5years duration

Zeekaycn:
Her cousin who is helping her with the whole process over there suddenly come out with a shocking question "hope she has someone she gonn stay with?" Like we thought from the begining she gonn stay with him for the moment?

How can she survive with just one million Naira.

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

advanceDNA:


Its not easy but she go dey alright...no worry too much....especially if na outside london.

.since she get person there...they go show her the ropes . shared apartments na the way..


But remember...!....its cut throat in the uk, no matter the kind visa...
if na visit/tourist or coded attachè visa she use enter...u don enter one chance be that, cos once your babe enter hustle mode for survival, just forget am....

most of them always take the easy way out to settle their permanent stay...and that way will likely not include you...

ajl:


Go on YouTube. Search for Phrankleen. He is a Nigerian based in the UK that gives advices on traveling/living the UK. Check the old videos as talks about diverse issues. But you will find one that addresses your issue.

FuckSilly:

If you have functional brain, you would impregnate her immediately if you two have been fuckîng already and no one is a virgin...

VULCAN:
The ignorance of the "everything will be fine" crew. Lol.

That's the phrase they always drop in movies before people start getting killed.

His so called fiancee is now officially married to someone else in the UK and you are swimming in endorphins because you misled yourself to believe that you have given sage advice. Lol

The wicked girl knows the truth but is keeping it from him

Ebubu3:

She has placed her personal future ahead of you. She rates her future ahead of you. Typical human nature, pour promises when opportunity is not present but instantly switch on you and change action when a better opportunity presents itself.

Give her the benefit of doubt, but within you prepare to move on. Then study her actions once she moves, if not encouraging then prepare to dump her and find someone else.

gulfer:
OP, it's like you're new here abi.....Wahala be like anyone who brings his issues to Nairaland, your life and mental health will never remain the same

Zeekaycn:
Dear Nairalanders!
I need info on this matter that's troubling me now. 2months ago my Fiance applied for a visa to stay in the UK, through the help of her far relative that stays there and the visa had been approved. The issue now is we have struggled to raise the money and up till now not yet completed. Funny thing is, this guy is saying now that he doesn't have any place to accommodate my fiance.

I'm scared of her going with just a million Naira. How can she cop before she finally get a job. We don't even know the situation there accomodation and cost of things.

This traveling thing was never in her mind but her elder sister who serves as her guidance keep pushing that she must leave. Don't even know if my relationship with her will still work afterward though we planned that when she gets there I may later join her.

Please who knows how it is to start up life in the UK? I'm troubled, we where supposed to get married before she travel but I gat pause.

advanceDNA:


Put a ring??
She already entered the uk with someone as the person's partner...how will they explain theor own separate uniom that to the embassy??

hush15:


That response was before i understand the class of visa she did however, yes its still s sense of commitment. Except she comes out categorically to end the relationship, no natter how hustle is, she will always remember there is someone in that mix.

advanceDNA:


Remember someone is in the mix....?? Lol
Woman no dey hustle for man to come enjoy.
How many woman u hear say carry her fiance come abroad after she arrive..very few.. ...
Women are naturally redpilled..

Zeekaycn:


Yea you are right she told me that, she doesn't even know the height of it, is the elder sister that's pushing the whole process with someone she know in the UK.

hush15:


Not all women. Its risky but some still have conscience. The guy should keep an open mind but some still look back.

mastermaestro:


Keeping an open mind will only set him back and slow down his life. Since he was already planing marriage, it shows that he isn’t a small boy anymore. In fact he should start looking for someone else to marry. That girl is gone for good!

The influence her sister has over her shows that the op has zero stake in her life. She would get married shortly after she arrives the UK on the sister’s usual guidance.

The op would be dumb to put his mind on such a pliable person. It’s over!!!!!