TiredHuman:
They know that it is not easy there too

Greatzeus:

Because they have been hit with the reality of life over there. In contrast to the dreams of flashiness they thought they were going to meet
See bro,you might travel and things will work for you easily than they told you,that doesn't mean they were lying or trying to discourage you,they were just being sincere.

blasterman:



Most of the ppl living abroad face alot of mental totture they wont wish on their worst enemy.

The money the system gives you they collect it back in form of bills taxes etc

You left with little to nothing.

The feeling of being a 2nd class citizen even with passport and all


Most ppl abroad will return back if Nigeria was in a good shape and they have crossed a point of no return.

But ppl wey never go no go understand

AnthonyAk:


False , most Indians (and asians) here are lazy, gangsters or into drugs in fact the good ones are the ones that are fresh off the boat like us. They suffer from the Canadian condition

I used to think the same thing about them and Asians until I became lab partners with a group of them these fuckers did nothing the entire semester it was only because I went to speak to the professor and even then he was very laid back. Any other class str8 F or incomplete without a project

DannyFX2638:
this is where the problem is .
Most people refuse to come back not because of they don't want to , They are afraid of how the society will see them ..

Imagine telling your guys that you are going to Canada then after some months , You come empty handed .. haaa .. You reason am nahh..

Ordinary your village you day go , u go buy full bag.. Make them no go see you as failure , How much more Overseas?

TiredHuman:
If they come back, they know they will be asked unwanted and uncomfortable questions. I know of a bank manager who sold her properties to travel overseas. When she got there, the only job she was offered was to sweep the roads. She couldn't come back because of the amount of ridicule she would face here

TiredHuman:
If they come back, they know they will be asked unwanted and uncomfortable questions. I know of a bank manager who sold her properties to travel overseas. When she got there, the only job she was offered was to sweep the roads. She couldn't come back because of the amount of ridicule she would face here

Raregem9000:
Find his own way? Remember, we rise by lifting others up. I experienced same thing the poster was saying three years ago. I have a cousin who lives abroad. He has been there for a decade now and i only asked him to just help with an invite while i pay for every money that will be spent and i will work things out when i get there. Note: I'm paying for everything. This my cousin kept on giving me stories like it's not easy there that i shouldn't come. He even said i should use the money i had with me to start a business in Nigeria instead of coming there. I was like why are you still there if it's not easy? I just bone him and block him on every social platforms. A year after, i went to an agent to help on a Canadian Visa but i was duped. I'm looking forward to doing all by myself when i'm ready to go on the adventure again without involving any agent and when the soup is done, i would unblock that my cousin, so that he can see that what he failed to help me with has been achieved.

Greatzeus:

Because they have been hit with the reality of life over there. In contrast to the dreams of flashiness they thought they were going to meet
See bro,you might travel and things will work for you easily than they told you,that doesn't mean they were lying or trying to discourage you,they were just being sincere.

krissconnect:
These past weeks, I've been reaching out to my friends who are abroad to help me with links or advices to move abroad too. But I discovered that none of them decided to help, instead they discouraged me either by saying, "it's difficult to move now or the country isn't issuing visa now".

One of my guy in CANADA defiantly ignored my text when I asked him for links or the route he used to move, the other in Korea said the country isn't issuing visa now but he recently moved back and another directly said that it's very hard to get visas now to travel. But one Asian American in the States gave me lots of links to move to the State and even encouraged me to move.

But then I don't understand why our African brothers over there will never encourage or advice someone willing to move. Is it envy or greediness or what? I've never had any of my guy abroad encourage me to move when I asked for advice. If things are difficult over there, why not come home?

NB: I never asked them for fund cos the money is available.

SeriouslySense:
Living abroad is not easy, you need to be highly skilled, people need to be cooperative, very calm and organized, Indians and other nationalities, help each other with information, they create business and employ Indians, they share houses and house rent, they have the ability to live without conflicts. Not Nigerians, it will be one drama or another, and its not easy living with a Nigerian with mental problems.

Indians have the ability to also help each other in skills and education they are very cooperative and calm to each other, not Nigerians.

Indians will help themselves in school research, in work skills, and discovery, they cooperate and share task and help each other out, although they are becoming more western and are beginning to prefer living as an individual.

Indians build themselves up, they move with grace and they are everywhere, they are becoming majority in Canada too. The major companies have Indians at the top.

And times have changed, the opportunities abroad is becoming less, the worlds economy is not smiling, So its better to build our Nation. It is not easy, better face Nigeria and help each other out to build each one up and together, charity begins at home. Don't be used by evil politicians. Don't be greedy, focus on development and building.


When too much Nigerians go abroad with their mad attitudes, they are noticed, and it becomes harder for other reasonable people to come and do something meaningful.


Just look at Dubai, the Nigerian men began to do bokoharam, cultism and armed robbery, we have bad eggs that dont have value, they take mental problems to other places. They are not interested in adding value only valuence. , Charity begins at home, so if mental problems are greatly reduced and addressed it will help us at home first and outside

AnthonyAk:


My senior in school was working at Gt bank , she is a senior vice president at Bank of America today. Here is her linkedin

ednut1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6829885/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled
https://www.nairaland.com/6957495/canadian-student-visa-thread-part
Those are the two major ways to get into Canada go and read them. When I applied for Canada permanent residency in 2019 scores to apply were low, now the scores are high. If my friend asks me to show him way, how can i help him. Even me if i applied today my points will be low due to age and wont qualify.Some of those guys you chatted probably dont have papers and are lying low to survive and do menial jobs. They obviously wont be interested in letting u come join them adding to their bills and risking them being arrested. So these people are not discouraging you things are not how it used to be. In 2012 you could easily get usa visit visa enter there find babe marry. Today you cant even get visa interviews date for usa till 2024 nor can you easily find who to marry and convert to papers. So that bro who left in 2012 can’t really help you. Your best bet is student visa these days. And you need 5m to 10m these days

okeysoninv:
ask them to come back, they will abruptly refuse

krissconnect:
These past weeks, I've been reaching out to my friends who are abroad to help me with links or advices to move abroad too. But I discovered that none of them decided to help, instead they discouraged me either by saying, "it's difficult to move now or the country isn't issuing visa now".

One of my guy in CANADA defiantly ignored my text when I asked him for links or the route he used to move, the other in Korea said the country isn't issuing visa now but he recently moved back and another directly said that it's very hard to get visas now to travel. But one Asian American in the States gave me lots of links to move to the State and even encouraged me to move.

But then I don't understand why our African brothers over there will never encourage or advice someone willing to move. Is it envy or greediness or what? I've never had any of my guy abroad encourage me to move when I asked for advice. If things are difficult over there, why not come home?

NB: I never asked them for fund cos the money is available.

AnthonyAk:


My senior in school was working at Gt bank , she is a senior vice president at Bank of America today. Here is her linkedin

Enumerator:
For your mind

I'm sure you are below 20 with this your comment which tells you know nothing about abroad

TiredHuman:
They know that it is not easy there too

Neoteny:


Clearly you don't know anything about Indians.

There is no race that hate each other like Indians. They're competitive, envious, sneaky, wicked, and highly divisive on language, tribe, religion, and region. India isn't one homogeneous country, it's a hodgepodge of castes and languages and norms.

krissconnect:
These past weeks, I've been reaching out to my friends who are abroad to help me with links or advices to move abroad too. But I discovered that none of them decided to help, instead they discouraged me either by saying, "it's difficult to move now or the country isn't issuing visa now".

One of my guy in CANADA defiantly ignored my text when I asked him for links or the route he used to move, the other in Korea said the country isn't issuing visa now but he recently moved back and another directly said that it's very hard to get visas now to travel. But one Asian American in the States gave me lots of links to move to the State and even encouraged me to move.

But then I don't understand why our African brothers over there will never encourage or advice someone willing to move. Is it envy or greediness or what? I've never had any of my guy abroad encourage me to move when I asked for advice. If things are difficult over there, why not come home?

NB: I never asked them for fund cos the money is available.

ednut1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6829885/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled
https://www.nairaland.com/6957495/canadian-student-visa-thread-part
Those are the two major ways to get into Canada go and read them. When I applied for Canada permanent residency in 2019 scores to apply were low, now the scores are high. If my friend asks me to show him way, how can i help him. Even me if i applied today my points will be low due to age and wont qualify.Some of those guys you chatted probably dont have papers and are lying low to survive and do menial jobs. They obviously wont be interested in letting u come join them adding to their bills and risking them being arrested. So these people are not discouraging you things are not how it used to be. In 2012 you could easily get usa visit visa enter there find babe marry. Today you cant even get visa interviews date for usa till 2024 nor can you easily find who to marry and convert to papers. So that bro who left in 2012 can’t really help you. Your best bet is student visa these days. And you need 5m to 10m these days

SeriouslySense:
The Indians i observe finish school very quickly, their research is very fast, because they have great competition in their country, only the best become professors, and the Indian government pays them millions, due to their strong research base and knowledge. American and other multinational companies pay their best students to come and work in their countries. Because of the investment in education and encouraging the best students, Indians are much in the multinational companies, and America is interested in them, due to their very strong skills.

skills and knowledge is very important.

Many want to go abroad with little skill sets and they are not calm and cooperative. It is not easy for greedy little minded and self centered people. .

due to our self centered and greedy nature you can see how the country is, nobody cooperates to help his community and people, only him and herself

AndroidAI:


Nobody owes you anything young man. You sound so entitled. That said, have you considered what it will take this so called cousin to invite you over?

How is your relationship with this so called cousin? How often do you relate with each other?

For your cousin to invite you over, it will cost him a few bucks, and he might need to take a leave from work so he could process your coming.

A lot of things are involved, and it's nothing but inconvenience for the one inviting you. It's not about having money to pay everything, will you also pay for his transport and loss of wages should he leave work to process the documents?

Only someone you have an amiable relationship with will be kind enough to help you.

Unfortunately many of you have no solid relationships until e hook una for neck. Your best bet is through an agency, or do it yourself. Google is there!

Jaqenhghar:

BS. That you are a bank manager in Niggeria doesnt mean they will just open doors for you over there. Banking is different in the different countries. You cant apply what you do in naija to what obtains there. You will have to reorient yourself to what they do there.
And the job of the cleaner there does not mean you have to do it forever. In fact some cleaners in those countries live a better standard of living than some of you. I have seen cleaners here you travel to Spain and Greece on holidays and they live very comfortable lives

somehow:


If they come back, majority of Nigerians will call them failures or deportees.

The shame game is ever living, so some rather die there than come face the stereotype here.