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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Mogajunior(m): 9:51am On Jul 18, 2022
Mandate2023:
Stayed away from 1 entitled friend....his always expecting from me, dis guy is practically useless in every way

Staying away from dis guy is peace of mind
Don't write any man off. That guy could turn out better. I have seen things.

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 9:51am On Jul 18, 2022
Epinigirls:


Dey repeat one statement every time

The statement no
1. Sweet
2. Funny
3. Make sense

Oga try another one na

Ok i hear now rest
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Mogajunior(m): 10:01am On Jul 18, 2022
emmanuelpopson:
1. my uni best friend just one day after football argument blocked me on Facebook for disagreeing with his point. this was a friend we were like twins in sch.. lived in my lodge during project, we were just together like we were from the same parent.. now i retaliated n block him.. after three years, he sent me a new friend request. i kept it in waiting till now.. friendship ends

2. the other one is neighbourhood childhood padi. he started yahoo. balling big and enjoying himself. while we that were going to sch were wasting our time and money..doesn't care about going to sch or learning a skill. when yahoo went downhill.. he began to leech on me as support. that i began to take care of his needs.. one day. i just left him and change my contact.. leave the area and cut off from him..
From your write up, you seem like a difficult person. Knows nothing about forgiveness.
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by loliapoopy2013(f): 10:25am On Jul 18, 2022
Karrtel:

Swrs it irks me ehnnn, or you'll see some couples "pinching" money just for a wedding, imagine using ur last 200k just to do a wedding just for sake of fulfilling all righteousness....e get one poverty inspired wedding wey my friend force me make we go...the caterer served me and my friend rice and boiled egg, infact she divided the egg between us, I was so disgusted, irritated and sad I just vex leave the wedding, for one week I no gree talk to my friend, all that went thru my mind was how are the couple going to cope from then henceforth


Lol, God dey. Them go cope

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Parachoko: 10:54am On Jul 18, 2022
Damnfailure:
I am a failure too ashamed of my status so I cut all friends .am patiently waiting for my exit from this life.
Don't lose hope man

I have been in the situation you're before

Is not over until it is over.

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Parachoko: 10:59am On Jul 18, 2022
AutoBodyParts:
Nigga wanted to fu*k my EX. Noticed babe was still into me and started bad mouthing me. Told her thing I confided in him. The babe tried to use it and win me back. She sent me screenshots of their chat when I doubted her. I cut him off though we are still cool but no longer best friends.
Things dey happen inside life o shocked
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by cooltola(m): 11:00am On Jul 18, 2022
akaahs:

Meaning?
Meaning u should have not block him. What if he realize he was wrong and wanted to apologize

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by MumEmdy(f): 11:20am On Jul 18, 2022
rickleye:
Money !!!
I lent my former childhood friend 3M and my former college friend 4M.
One almost cost me my relationship as I took it out of our Joint account hoping I would replace it within 6months as promised.
Never again will I help anyone, even if the person was dying in the hospital , They have made my heart dark, bitter and hardened.

It's painful, thank God it didn't cost you your relationship. Sorry about that.
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by MumEmdy(f): 11:30am On Jul 18, 2022
Epinigirls:


Oga if you dey sell shoes advertise am well

Which one be "Damn... nasty... I’m out of here"?

You dey okay?

You just kept me laughing even in my gloomy state . grin grin grin

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by castorvill1(m): 11:43am On Jul 18, 2022
This is sad…. ]My secondary school friend pressurized me into smoking and drinking then all of a sudden changed his ways one day, plus he turned into a pastor always preaching about how my actions will lead me to hell.....

He began expecting me to do the same, he forgot I told him at the beginning if I ever indulge anything I usually don't go back....my soul is lost already.....and no I have no business with holy people.

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by emmanuelpopson(m): 12:10pm On Jul 18, 2022
Mogajunior:
From your write up, you seem like a difficult person. Knows nothing about forgiveness.


says who.. someone i called a friend blocked me for football argument. what does football and friendship had together.. when you experience such.. u can do otherwise.. a friend that can do such may one day decide to with held his support for no reason kos he is the only one available to do that..

the other guy decides to waste his time, resources but couldn't do something for himself . so my family that sacrifice everything for me are not to enjoy me but a friend that wanna leech on me..
sorry be your matter if you dont apply wisdom and let them be

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Parachoko: 12:40pm On Jul 18, 2022
Maxpro121:


well the choice is yours, but remember there is after life. Here you can make amends however, not so after life
Do you have valid evidence to show that "An After Life" truly exist?
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Divay22(f): 12:41pm On Jul 18, 2022
ifihearam:



Why did you not call her for help or seek her permission before contacting her ex for help??
you eye dey her ex body..you were wrong and she has every right to be mad.
The said girl is just jealous..
Your ex, someone you don't care what happen in their life

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Parachoko: 12:43pm On Jul 18, 2022
Abemy:
Although I don't totally cut off from him, but I cordiality has reduced, I learnt to keep some personal informations personal.

This guy has turned into a monitoring spirit. He wants to know everything I do, every move I make, and he must know anything I acquired or bought new, and how much I paid for it.

The wife will be spying me through my wife, thank God my wife is not a talkative and would report to me everything she asked her.


To some extent, I told him to asked his wife to learn how to keep secrets before she will start telling my wife how they make love (She do tell my wife some secrets to provoke the spirit of gossip, so my wife will also tell her our secrets).

Dude became angry and since then, I became withdrawn. On sereval occasions, I connected him to work in different states, but dude only want to work with me so as to know everything I do. Ahhhhhh, I gave up on him, but pitied him when he was almost killed in Lagos this February, I had to bring him to my place of work, but I maintain a smart distance from him.

You shouldn't have bring him to where you work. You should have arrange some other workplace for him.

No sha loseguard!

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Eagba(m): 12:43pm On Jul 18, 2022
ifihearam:


This is a very foolish reason to unfriend someone.
If he becomes a very influential politician under apC wont you go to him for help and cling unto the friendship? I hate people who wants everyone to see things from their political point of view or anyone else who doesnt support the candidate as an enemy or fool especially these useless obi supporters.
Oga some people have standard. I once had a padi that called me once that he's in the abroad. I just cut the phone cos ideologically we weren't on the same page then.
So nothing changed.
If it to be someone like you, you would have jump to start lick his ass because he now occupied some lofty position.
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Anny505(m): 1:07pm On Jul 18, 2022
Damnfailure:
I am a failure too ashamed of my status so I cut all friends .am patiently waiting for my exit from this life.

Download and listen to Pree Me by Burna Boy, I pray you have a change of heart
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Gentlejosh01: 1:48pm On Jul 18, 2022
My own the tin pain me well well, this guy I take am as my brother, from our days in uniben, people actually thought we were blood brothers, I gave this guy my 4 German shepherd puppies to sell 30k each, this guy sell am I no see money, that time we dey 200 level, after graduation 2014 he relocated to Lagos. 2020 I gave this guy 250k to help me pay and waybill goods from Lagos to Benin, this guy gave me a fake drivers number and plate number said I should go to edegbe park to collect my goods, I nearly fight with them for the park, I call my guy switched off, I later found out he blocked my number and on social media, THIS WORLD NA SMALL PLACE, PRECIOUS I GO STILL CATCH U AND U NO GO LIKE WATIN I GO DO U

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by SIXTEENTH(m): 2:41pm On Jul 18, 2022
The foe has been telling my wife how I camp some girls for days to months still lying to her that I rented a shop for a lady after that he went ahead to tell my wife how he's developing feeling for her which he stated that he has money to Carter and take her out on a date with my juvenile son

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by abidaahmad: 2:47pm On Jul 18, 2022
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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Kelly500: 2:57pm On Jul 18, 2022
Omo hmm people get mind o
SIXTEENTH:
The foe has been telling my wife how I camp some girls for days to months still lying to her that I rented a shop for a lady after that he went ahead to tell my wife how he's developing feeling for her which he stated that he has money to Carter and take her out on a date with my juvenile son
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 18, 2022
Orgasmgiver123:
Shey intestine dey pain you ni Check all my threads if you go see anything like shoe selling there. Do well oh

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot

Damn... nasty... I’m out of here
u be first class mumu bruv.u sef know,u jus dey find pesin wey go tell you.
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by akaahs(m): 8:40pm On Jul 18, 2022
cooltola:

Meaning u should have not block him. What if he realize he was wrong and wanted to apologize
U re right, he has been making efforts to call me.
The thing is, his actions piss me big time.
Do you know, the refused taking pictures wit me? He displayed his foolishness to the seeing of everyone around, some of the people around were not really happy with his actions.
Abeg let everyone go his way

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 9:49pm On Jul 18, 2022
IamBabsjnr:

u be first class mumu bruv.u sef know,u jus dey find pesin wey go tell you.
At least i get first class for something grin
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Inali: 10:08pm On Jul 18, 2022
Mrice22:
My good friend caught me when I wanted to bleeped her kid sister in their house, inside his own room... He didn't said anything to me, but only went outside which I followed him, he ignored me for almost a month... The funniest thing is that both our mom's noticed that we're not cool with each other and when asked about what's wrong, like if he was the one they asked first, will said they should asked me.. same goes to me... That's how our friendship ended up... Though this happened when I was Jss3 student
you really bleeped up. I will never do such to my friends' sisters and I don't expect any of friend to do that to my sisters too whether in my house or their houses
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by FindGod: 10:10pm On Jul 18, 2022
Damnfailure:


I just want to exit now don't care again

I have read all your posts and I feel your pain, I know you have probably gone through a lot but read here:

1. God created all things for his pleasure:
God is the creator of all things and He owes no one explanation of why He created us. The truth is satan caused all what we are going through, the sufferings and calamities, the body defamation, illness, infirmities and death. Imagine if we were all at eden, no one would have to ever suffer, you would crave for God badly, but here we are

2. Acknowledge God:
I have seen all the insults you threw at God in the open, you dared the Holy God and called Him terrible names, something you dare not ay to an ordinary police officer, you would rot in jail and you wouldnt be given choice for suicide. I see you already have the information of hell, and when you get there you would have enough insults because you wont even be the only one blaspheming against God, you would see the boko haram, people that murdured their loved ones, terrorists of the highest grade and they would all be in their worst behavior.

Let me ask you a question, the bible our creator gave to us as manual have you even read it? have you seen that jabez that was cursed from birth cried to God and one day He delivered him, whose fault? was it God? Jabez was cursed by his own mother!

Use these efforts and investment and desperation to seek God. Everyone is going through a lot, even the rich too. Dont blame God and dont accept your fate, CRY TO GOD!!

Go to youtube and search for apostle arome osayi, he was born with a terrible illness (cerebral palsy) he hasnt closed his right eye since birth, he stammered badly but he cried to God and prayed like he was going to die there for years till God came for Him. He not only found God, he is mightily used by God! I watch him daily.

He loves us so much BUT we cant blasphame Him, anyone who does and dies that way will wish he was drowned and never born! Hell is not a place to vex and go! I pity you. Go on insult Him, it doesnt make Him less God

Jesus will judge you and show you all what he went through on earth just so you can pray and God will answer you. curse all you want, when you get to hell you will wish you had looked for God. It will be an everlasting place of terror and all your grammar and insult will amount to nothing but empty threat. Have you not read of the king of tyre who those in hell were eagerly waiting for? to deal and torment!

3. Find God: We are all going through alot but we find strenght from the bible, we insist that God has a plan for us, and we focus of the goal (heaven) if you commit suicide and i die 100yrs old, we will still cross over last last, why not find God even in our sufferings

satan has no ground once we cross from earth, but here he can torment and deal with us, its okay..the bible says we should endure it, its just for a while

My dear brother who God has done great things through and with, he just gave birth and 6hrs, his baby died in his hands, oh if it were you, you will shoot God right? He cried and cried and went back worshipping God. Oh you think he is brainwashed right? He suppose vex for God and insult Him? Even Jesus disciples died miserably, you think its a joke to serve and stand for God?

You think all your insult, God will show and say sorry? He's not a cheap God, the bible says He hides Himself and you have to delibrately seek Him to find Him. I prayed about 6hrs today just to find God not asking for money or anything, you havent prayed 1 minute but you can invest in insulting a sacred God, most Holy God who your satan is trembling for. Chaii God the consuming fire

Last words: bro i usually dont reply but please im almost crying now, please dont joke with God, please please please. if you are too sad, just keep quiet, find a brother you know is a true man of God or better still watch videos of apostle arome, oropko, selma and pratice what they teach. God will forgive you. Forget all you have said, once you say sorry, He would forgive you!

Please please please repent, dont run your mouth against someone that can destroy your soul. Turn to Him and cry, tell him ill stay here till you answer me, pray and pray till He comes.

And HE WILL SURELY COME. Godbless you. Peace

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by emperorman: 10:48pm On Jul 18, 2022
Now we drink Champaign when we are thirsty and drive some of the finest/cleanest cars on a low key... fuuuck that!!!

***And if u don't know, now u know niggar***
Juicy
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by TommyAnthem(m): 12:31am On Jul 19, 2022
My friend who lives some blocks down the street came to visit me. He had a heated political argument with my neighbour which resulted in both of them insulting themselves which almost resulted in a fight.

Somehow, I tried to calm them by mediating, but the guy being the troublesome type felt I was taking sides with my friend so he started hurling insults on me too.

The quarrel lasted into early evening and in the end my friend went back to his house while I decided to go back to my flat.

before I could enter my flat, my neighbor and his wife started hurling insults on me, I just kept my cool, i entered and locked up the door, I called my friend on phone to intimate him on what was going on. He was spitting fire on the phone telling me how he was going to deal with them the next day. I pleaded with him, I told him the best way out was to avoid them totally because that was what I have decided to do. Then I hung up.

I later came out after they have left to switch on my gen to watch late night news. After some hours, the generator started misbehaving, the current was going high and low intermittently, I rushed outside to see what was wrong just at that instance, I sighted my friend coming out of my neighbor's house. I was speechless, I was shocked to the marrows. He never expected me to come out at that time, He couldn't dodge, I looked at him and he just kept going, I just switched of the gen went inside but couldn't sleep.
I was totally confused.
That was the end of my relationship with my guy.

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Bush2013: 1:57am On Jul 19, 2022
TommyAnthem:
My friend who lives some blocks down the street came to visit me. He had a heated political argument with my neighbour which resulted in both of them insulting themselves which almost resulted in a fight.

Somehow, I tried to calm them by mediating, but the guy being the troublesome type felt I was taking sides with my friend so he started hurling insults on me too.

The quarrel lasted into early evening and in the end my friend went back to his house while I decided to go back to my flat.

before I could enter my flat, my neighbor and his wife started hurling insults on me, I just kept my cool, i entered and locked up the door, I called my friend on phone to intimate him on what was going on. He was spitting fire on the phone telling me how he was going to deal with them the next day. I pleaded with him, I told him the best way out was to avoid them totally because that was what I have decided to do. Then I hung up.

I later came out after they have left to switch on my gen to watch late night news. After some hours, the generator started misbehaving, the current was going high and low intermittently, I rushed outside to see what was wrong just at that instance, I sighted my friend coming out of my neighbor's house. I was speechless, I was shocked to the marrows. He never expected me to come out at that time, He couldn't dodge, I looked at him and he just kept going, I just switched of the gen went inside but couldn't sleep.
I was totally confused.
That was the end of my relationship with my guy.
could it be a setup to initiate aurgument and deal with u or what

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by TommyAnthem(m): 7:13am On Jul 19, 2022
I can't even reason the need of the visit without notifying me, and if I had not seen him I wouldn't have known they have met.
Bush2013:
could it be a setup to initiate aurgument and deal with u or what

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by Kirkman: 8:27pm On Jul 19, 2022
anoziechi:
you know how many times she don comot belleshe has a son of 6years old
Waawu! More gbola to give her joy grin
Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by cooltola(m): 12:00am On Jul 20, 2022
akaahs:

U re right, he has been making efforts to call me.
The thing is, his actions piss me big time.
Do you know, the refused taking pictures wit me? He displayed his foolishness to the seeing of everyone around, some of the people around were not really happy with his actions.
Abeg let everyone go his way
You may not be friends but I believe in ending a friendship on good terms. If your ex friend wants to apologize , let him apologize and everyone moves on or go their way. No one is perfect, some people are still immature at certain age. Na life dey mature people from their childishness if they are willing to learn and grow.

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Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by NiceClean: 12:04pm On Jul 20, 2022
ifihearam:


This one bad..but the least he could have done was to call you from whatever country he went, introduce you to his own agent but the deceit and lies is too much .


He never want me to knew about it. And he dont intend to stay and hustle. He just travel for sake of it. He did that, still came back and be telling me how the meeting went well and all that

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