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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ulunne777(f): 8:42am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by toprealman: 8:43am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:So the small girl call "maid" has nothing else to do in this life abi? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:43am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Oyiboman69: Yes I wasn't aware of the child until her mother dropped her off 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by luluosas(m): 8:43am On Jul 31, 2022 |
You must be stupid for considering divorce. Are you really married to him or he just impregnated you and you ended up calling your boyfriend your husband? H0711: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Orch1981: 8:43am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Since him no tell you say him get a child outside before marrying you Please earlier the better pack your load and leave for your own good ooooo 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tctrills: 8:44am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:I advise you to pray and ask God before making your decision. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:45am On Jul 31, 2022 |
delishpot: Thank you. I have made up my mind I am leaving on the 4th of August 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 8:46am On Jul 31, 2022 |
If that child was her own, she won't take care of him or her? It's called selfless service and it's incovenient but rewarding. Have you thought about maybe she is carrying one just like that and God wants to see how she would accept this one and then use that to change it for good in her favor? ifeanyiatuadu: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Akerele44: Amen I wouldn't wish it to happen to my worst enemy 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 8:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:go as fast as you can, don't compound his problems further, you don't love him in the first place so the reason why you were mounting pressure to leave, don't forget to go with your badluck, that man should realized he doesn't need these useless gender in his life again. He will be happy ever after 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Le2money(m): 8:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
U lack knowledge and sense bro. Because the child has one illness now and she wants to go, does it means the child in her womb is purely free? Do to others what u want others to do for you in ur presence and absence. The only thing they are do here is to have the guy's mother to come live with them for her to be assisting. Face your problems and never run away from it ...that's always my blv dawnomike: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Healthquest: 8:47am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:let him file for govt adoption. The state govt will take care of her , make the father surrender it to govt or worst come to worst, take the baby to orphanage home. If u de Lagos, the first option fit work but If it doesnt ,the second option go work. The third option incase that two no work, give the baby a secret mark somewhere in her body den take it to the police and claim u saw her in the gutter, when they finally take care of her, come bak 25yrs later to pick ur child. Wisdom. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:48am On Jul 31, 2022 |
wowcatty: No I can't I am not a robot to be lifting her up and down , feeding and changing nappies all the times in this my condition. I will give update on the 4th when I will be in my village 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Rosaline5000: 8:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:The man lied to her and what is it with your statement "you won the man" like the man is kind of a prize. Life is not that complicated, can you take care of a special needs child every day without rest, we are talking about your life, day in day out, you basically spend all your days taking care of the child, forget about working or starting a business, forget about your own health. You think it's easy, she is a young lady, let her live her life not to be tied down in this stage of her life where she could be building something for herself. The husband should take responsibility since it's his child, he should try harder to provide proper care and not expecting his wife to sacrifice her life because she is the "wife" and should just take it 15 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by SomehowBROWN(m): 8:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
He did you a diservice for not telling you about his child from another woman, it is your choice to want to live through this with him rather than force it on you. Know that whichever decision you take, you won't be wrong. H0711: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by etrouble: 8:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Go ahead please. If you need any assistance with the divorce, please contact me. If you need a lawyer, I can help you pay for one. If you need transport money to return to your village, I can give you. That about to be deserves better. He did not marry the baby Mama because he saw that the baby Mama was heartless, long before she even gave birth to a disabled child. He dodged a bullet there. Unfortunately, he jumped into another heartless village street girl. Some people are unlucky in relationships. If this guy begs you to stay, he will regret his life because he is married to a heartless village witch who I foresee will poison the disabled child one day. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Obiorahpcfg: Unfortunately he doesn't have any money to drop for the child upkeep , if he had the money wouldn't have dropped her off in the first place. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Naijadaily: 8:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
You are not at fault since he hid such from you... just do what will make you happy and comfort . Marriage with unwarranted stress is nor worth it. As long as you're saying the truth from the onset that he didn't tell you about the child then you're free to leave ... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Midas01: 8:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Let me tell you something.... You don't know that gender... If you leave now, no right thinking person should blame you. Even some churches annul marriages built on deceit and lies and I'm talking about even the most conservative churches here. Wether you should leave permanently or temporarily is up to you but I highly suggest you leave first until he takes the child away to some other place because if you tolerate this then just know that he will throw much worse things in your face in the future and expect you to take it all... A neighbor of mine has a kid with cerebral palsy and even she gets tired. The child is 100% dependent. They once left her for some minutes and she fell into fire and got badly burned and couldn't even leave the fire.... So sad. Wish you the best H0711: 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 8:50am On Jul 31, 2022 |
delishpot:ashawo no dey get conscience so why are you ranting, you are only available for the cash |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Vulcan24(m): 8:51am On Jul 31, 2022 |
If it hadn't been for that child's case, you seem like a woman who would hastily resort to divorce Firstly you are separating not divorcing Then depending on the type of marriage Yu did you might not easily go into another And if you leave on this note, you might face all kinds of conflicts and disagreement from your husband and places where you don't expect You have to apply wisdom and the wisdom is to first inform the parents and relatives of your husband about the situation, spread the news like wild fire and threaten them if they don't do something you will leave. Do this for and after a while tell your husband you can't give birth in that home and under that condition and then get packing to your mom's or village Tell him and arrange when he will be coming, let him give you tfare to go back or escort you. Trust me, if you leave this way, he would call you back that he has gotten rid of the child And that you can come back. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by alamoht(m): 8:51am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:And you married a man like that? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Cleanworld(f): 8:51am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Don't leave your marriage...Call the elders and let them advice your hubby to have a meeting with the mother of the child and let him agree to pay monthly child support. I personally think that he abandon her without providing for the child. Remember that both of them are responsible for the child but you can encourage your hubby to pay his dues then you can focus your attention on your unborn child. You are a good person inside out and want to do the right thing but don't leave your husband... you don't know what the future holds.. he needs you now and we are not perfect, no one is...Your husband should go and see the lady and sort himself out. Dont think too much in your condition,you dont need it at all. i wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Midas01: Thank you I am leaving on the 4th of August nothing will change my mind. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Orch1981: 8:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:Yes you are right but the world has change you hardly find true love now nobody want to suffer |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Rupertek: 8:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: I won't blame you dear. If the man cannot find. Solution to the child, do whatever you decide. Don't mind them, marriage is not for better for worse. But if it is possible, tell your husband that you cannot touch the child. Be leaving the house in the morning as he is leaving. Isnt there medical remedy for the child? If there isnt, she. Is better off dead then |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by delishpot: 8:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: One strong advice I will give you is....... Make sure it is what you want and you will not miss him when you make the decision to leave. Incase if one day you decide to forgive him only to find out that he has remarried someone else it wont hurt you. If you still love him and wakeup one day with regret because you miss hom and wish you could have handled it differently then instead of divorce just take a break to clear your head. Have a heart to heart with him and make it clear that you ain't divorcing but you need to clear your head of his deception. Then go to your place and seek wise counsel from your mom or a trusted person who will not use blind religious or cultural yardstick to make you remain married come what may. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by shantti(m): 8:52am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: Omoh, 25k small nah, haba, that's slave trade. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ijaya123: Lol happy birthday in addy. The reason why I am leaving on the 4th is because my younger brother is in abuja at my elder brother place. He will also go to the village the same day and I want to go with him so he will help me with my loads 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by StUriah(m): 8:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
I hope your husband has a mother? If he doesn't, then he should give the child up to the authorities in charge of the establishments where persons living with disabilities are being taken care of. Advise him to visit the Orphanage homes or the Ministry of Women Affairs, the Ministry of Welfare and Social Development, or the Ministry of Health, for proper guidance and direction. It is well with you. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ndidi2: 8:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
ifeanyiatuadu:a ma m oo.. They think it's easy. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Midas01: 8:54am On Jul 31, 2022 |
If your wife brings a child from nowhere with cerebral palsy and says it's hers from a previous relationship, would you accept the baby? Most of you expect women to take the rubbish you yourselves can't even take. JONNYSPUTE: 11 Likes |
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