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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Das1mama: 6:21pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
H0711:I understand your plight ma and i applaud you for your patience, love, care and above all Endurance , shows you are a sincere and a responsible woman of substance of the spirit of Christ; but i will seek that you should reconsider your earlier decision. Love is sacrifice Love is painful Love is beautiful, tender hearted, care and affection. so many but above all Love is God and God is Love. the Love of God is beyond our own understanding. None is perfect except God that made all things both Good and Bad, The fact that someone acted evil towards you does not mean it should change you from your own original nature as a virtuous woman that you are. the Lord made us to understand that the only reason a man or woman can opt out of marriage is only in the course of infidelity. i know he was not plain with you by not telling you at the initial state of your Union. this will be okay for now!! All the best. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by 4ward4: 8:16pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
there was Deceit and the Holy Church will grant you a divorce ,when judged from Canon Law..Just why during marriage classes the priest will tell both parties, confess your deepest secrets, because if their is deciet in what ever form and it is brought before the church tribunal, divorce will be granted on an Express ground . If the mother of the child cannot take care of her flesh and blood, why should you carry a cross you know nothing about...Nah Lies the kill Nigerians Walk away with your legs reaching your head, E no go easy. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by maasoap(m): 8:16pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
generalwo: Trust me, it is not easy caring for a sick person, let alone a kid with special needs. She's equally pregnant and will soon have baby of her own to look after too. The mother of kid didn't die, she abandoned the kid. That even made it more absurd. And lastly, for better for worse is between her and her husband, not about what was already existing that she wasn't told. My point is that: that kid needs special care and it is beyond the ability of a pregnant wife of her dad. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by eyinjuege: 8:17pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:She already said she's made up her mind in the original post. She is very clear headed about her decision in this matter and I actually support whatever her decision is. The main post is actually asking what other people would do in such a situation and not really what she should do. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Dbrawllm0098(f): 9:29pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
People will be giving advice because it seems like the right thing to say Put yourself in the person's shoes first. Some people here are still those who can be wicked to another person's child and yet they come out to judge someone else. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Eaglesence: 10:01pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Nozino: In all, mothers care more. Thats what the child need more of now. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Foodqueen(f): 6:18am On Aug 02, 2022 |
H0711: I hope your brother hasn't find out about what u posted about him some years ago. The world is a small village now Cos am very sure that alot of people including the girl's mother would av been aware that her story is online Your view women on TVC and some radio stations will discuss it too. Cos it's a very deep topic. Wishing you the best. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 8:43am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Foodqueen: My brother and I weren't in good term because I left his house , he didn't attended my wedding his wife did. But when my mum informed him about what I was passing through he asked me to come over and has decided that I will not go back there again. No matter what happens in the past between us he didn't allow me to stay there and die because blood is thicker than water. Yes a lot of people are aware including my husband and in laws if the mother will be aware of the story too it will be great so she will know that I am not longer in the house because I can't take care of her child the father can't go to work he is stuck at home with the child and nobody else can do it better than her. She can go back to him so they can care of their daughter together. Yes even if worldwide discussed about it ,that's not a big deal. I hope when the story get viral , some people who have more money will come and help the parents to get the right treatment and equipment for the child. Thank you 13 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:27am On Aug 02, 2022 |
zoby: God bless you. This compromise looks like something I can consider. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 10:27am On Aug 02, 2022 |
justiz5: No. I’m Bini |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by justiz5(m): 11:02am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Nozino:Your people's treatment of such Children is similar to ours |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:06am On Aug 02, 2022 |
justiz5: I believe it’s same everywhere. When I was younger, we had such a child in my area. One day, we woke up to news that he had die at night and was buried that same night. No one saw any body. We all knew what the parents did but no one blamed them. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by obi123: 3:02pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
to be honest , this a loss either way , whether she stays or leave , the man is incapable of taking care of anyone new born or disabled child |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Sexyliciousbri: 5:33pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
I really understand u especially when u give birth it will not be easy. most people here are saying u are being wicked but they will do worst |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by obiyor2000: 7:48pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Nozino:It's because they were been thought morals of being responsible wives. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 8:01pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
obiyor2000: It is not my business. Your family dynamics doesn’t interest me. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 2:16am On Aug 03, 2022 |
So lame! cayorday89: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 2:23am On Aug 03, 2022 |
Y'all are just so heartless. Do you expect the man to throw his child away now. Femifasola: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 2:35am On Aug 03, 2022 |
For saying these below, you and your loved ones will have worse that cerebral palsy. Born today die tomorrow is now your destiny. You will bury every child you give birth to with your own hand. You are to be known as Abiku's mother or father, a woman/man that gives birth to children that are born to die. Nozino: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 2:37am On Aug 03, 2022 |
You are twice a loser. You won't have peace over your children. Nozino: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 2:45am On Aug 03, 2022 |
You soulless human being, your heart is hard as rock. That's why most of you can't have your own children and end up stealing babies from the homeless women. cococandy: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cococandy(f): 5:22am On Aug 03, 2022 |
wowcatty:xtupid ass 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 7:04am On Aug 03, 2022 |
wowcatty:You're the heartless one who wants a pregnant woman to stress herself for nothing when the man's sister has refused helping. So donate your sister to the man to take care of his Bleep up, so as to prove your kindness No need for too many ranting 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 7:18am On Aug 03, 2022 |
wowcatty: I have since cursed you. The dead can’t do anything to the living and you are the dead. All your children will be born dead. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Femifasola: 10:36pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
Ninisun:Do you work in unth? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by RosyIsBlessed: 12:42am On Aug 04, 2022 |
H0711: Is there no other way to solve this instead of the divorce? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 1:02am On Aug 04, 2022 |
And you shall be known as Abiku's parent. All I have said is stuck on you. One after the other you will bury all your children. Because you started the curse, tears of agony will never leave your house. [quote post=115332896] I have since cursed you. The dead can’t do anything to the living and you are the dead. All your children will be born dead.[/quote] |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 1:17am On Aug 04, 2022 |
You have no soul you fair-weather opportunist. You want to take a man away from his son. My sister does her homework before marriage by knowing who she was getting married to in and out, so she can't take up someone's slacks when they just marry for the sake of it. Cerebral palsy or not that boy comes with the marriage she went into, so it's now up to her to accept or be a single mother. Stop crying, its settled. Femifasola: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 1:18am On Aug 04, 2022 |
Idiot! cococandy: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 1:21am On Aug 04, 2022 |
How much is a maid in Nigeria that you are still crying about carrying for a toddler? cayorday89: |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by wowcatty: 1:25am On Aug 04, 2022 |
To all the fools saying the care of a toddler is too much because she's pregnant. Please put your money where your mouth is and together hire her a maid for a year. This shouldn't be out of reach for y'all considering your big mouth on how she shouldn't stress herself. Don't tell me that you just want her husband to toss the child or become a single mother herself. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 2:12am On Aug 04, 2022 |
wowcatty: The obligation of care of the child primarily lies on the biological father and the biological mother, who are still both alive and they must have to work out how best to take>{ care of that child between them, OP remains a third party. Should the OP come with the child to our clinic where we work with children with neurodevelopmental disorders, we would tell her to contact the child's biological parents because for assessment,s there are questions only the biological parents can answer, unless they are both dead, incarcerated or clinically diagnosed as mentally unstable. 2 Likes |
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