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Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by themanderon: 12:33pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
OriOko88: What if she had died? Do you think you would have lived with yourself knowing you could have stopped it but did nothing? If you can then I don't know if you can still call yourself a human. Save a life and go your way simple. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by UptownVibes(m): 12:34pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz:Brother na to make money ,born pikin,then train them well. You see marriage, me too no sure say I fit risk am. Girls of nowadays are just selfish and wicked hearted. No be me and them o... They will pretend to be good initially, then turn something else after marriage. Its well with guys out them o.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by ednut1(m): 12:39pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Nawa |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by bluestone2015: 12:40pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Don't listen to hypocrites telling you to divorce her. They don't like you. Ask any of them if they can help you care for your kids like your wife does. They will never accept. Men cheat and women cheat. Find out what the problem is. Resolve it if possible. If not , you can choose to go your separate way with proper planning for the kids |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by deebrownneymar: 12:40pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: She has been cheating even while you guys were dating. Even the week you guys married and will continue to cheat. I know the type. I opine you dump her immediately and do DNA tests. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Henvest: 12:41pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Man and Woman don't do friends, stop allowing your self fall into that deceit. How can a married woman be frolicking with men in the name of "just friend" .There is no just friend anywhere in this world. OK, maybe, if it is one person maybe, but having 2 ,3 ,4 e.t.c na Ashawo she be know this and know peace. There is no way like of 4 men will respect boundary, and so if she is not complaining then she is a LovePeddler don't be deceived 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Parachoko: 12:52pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074:My advise for you is to let her go But if you can't let her go,forgive her I no fit forgive her, so I will let her go. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Commanderinpips: 12:52pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
My brother i read your story and i must confess that it is very touching. You made the mistake in the begining by allowing her to keep male friends as your wife, but let us put that aside now. Call her and give her the very last warning that you would not want her to keep her male friends contact on her phone. If you are bouyant buy her a new phone and sim, if she continue please send her to her fathers house. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by anthonyuncle(m): 12:52pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
she has done it already, what she told you are lies 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by merits(m): 12:58pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Just let her be and move on, don't bother yourself on top F gender. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Nyascobar1414: 1:02pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Hassanmaye: why redpiller no go understand woman... Make the Simps wey dey call us misogynist cry abeg... More pains for them 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Wizywiz(m): 1:02pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
UptownVibes:sure bro...many of them they always pretend ooo...in this era wey almost all of Dem are too materialistic and too money driven, covered with bad characters how man wan do am...God will see us through bro |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Lampy336: 1:03pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Minding your own business will give you an opportunity to live long.. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by DukeNija(m): 1:05pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Walk away with your dignity. You deserve better infact, she might even be the cause of your misfortune, yes I said it! Walk out and focus on yourself and you’ll be shocked how far you’ll go in a short time. You need a builder not a woman who exposes you to physical and spiritual diseases and darts. I’ve warned you, don’t listen to in-laws or others who’ll advise you to stay, you go regret am. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Lampy336: 1:06pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
You earn my respect , best comment so far.. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by melayemi: 1:13pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Mrkumareze: You know I do this too by trying to control the male friends she talks to, but whenever we quarrel she always say am controlling |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by EmahBoss(f): 1:14pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Everybody is shouting that you should let her go. Who will take care if your kids, girls when she leaves? I think you should use therapy. You can still work in your marriage. You will even die earlier if hmshe leaves. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:18pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:I will forever thank nairaland for that redpill thread now women they fear me. because any of your movements and manipulations I can detect it in time |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by UptownVibes(m): 1:19pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Wizywiz:Amen,my brother.. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Panda7(m): 1:20pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
so the aggrieved nigerian youth don't have anything to post other than indiscriminate sex |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by olusegxz: 1:22pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Oga I cannot believe you are still here asking questions. You sound like a simp and that woman would keep sleeping with the whole neighbourhood and guys wey Don Bleep her go dey yimu to you when you pass. You gave all this narration and you are still asking questions. You don't have a wife, she's not working meaning she is not contributing, all she contributes is to share her pormor all anybody who wants to taste. 1. Do DNA test. 2. Get a good lawyer present all this evidence in court and get a divorce and get at least shared kids custody. 3. Start looking for a better wife. They are not hard to find your church mind will guide you. No go die before your time with HIV. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by mbjsuki(m): 1:24pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
My brother, I'm just reading this, I can not be to feel pity and at the same time bad for you in particular. I will be quick about this. To start with, the fact that you asked her by showing her proof of all these allegations and she denied it says a lot. Blaming economy hardship and four kids to fend for is not enough reason to go about messing herself up. The danger here is just too many to mention, aside from infecting herself with STDs, she will later rob it off you too. You also become the joke among friends, neighbors, and her friends. These are just the physical, the spiritual aspect of her atrocities outweighs the physical. A woman that indulges in such an act does not wish her husband well. I'm an advocate of forgiveness because we are meant to forgive and draw such sinners back with love. But with this current case, my brother, seek separation, at least for now. Let her folks know about her act and atrocities for record purposes. And if you reconcile and mend this issue, give her a standing order on what you will do then move to another location, very important. I wish you well in all of these, may God help you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Nyascobar1414: 1:27pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Hassanmaye: Lol aswearr ehh... By mere looking at her you see her next steps, you see the demons in her... Nairaland has saved men alot.. I prefer this SM to fb,IG and Twitter... Cos if not for that NL redpill thread,women for dey gv us gbas gbos. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Hakanj88: 1:31pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Give her second chance if she did not change, divorce straight don't kill your self bro |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by dante0147: 1:36pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: RUN !!! 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by odoemenacelevian(m): 1:38pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Just let her go.. Don't think twice about it 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by ojeland(m): 1:41pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Let her go in peace 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by josite: 1:41pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
She is human. Obviously u.know she is fucking other men . The decision is can u live with a wife fucking other men or not because she will continue. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Uniquekriss(m): 1:44pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
abuwidad:wahala... You're complicating issues instead of profering solutions. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by ECHICHE: 1:48pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
This is a sensitive matter. Please consult the services of a professional Marriage Counselor. Try and do a DNA test on all your 4 daughters when you have money. It is important |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by HltSong: 1:49pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414:Misogynist kor. Na frustrated broke homo you be. Didirin. |
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