Good Morning nairalanders.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything...I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes. it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him!.
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

You think you are not deserving of him but the truth is he feels otherwise. Rest your mind. At least he was the one that asked you out so he is not walking out on you yet.

And if he walks away, that is not the end of the world.

Since you are stubborn according to you then you should happy you met someone to rightly teach you how to be Obidient

Why the phobia though?

Que sera, sera......
My sister, WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE.
Just make sure to enjoy every step of it.
You are letting your fear of losing him cloud your emotions. And as the says goes, as man thinks, so shall he be...
Kindly stay positive!

But you are not scared of his prick

skillmyman:
You think you are not deserving of him but the truth is he feels otherwise.

Do you know him personally

Iamtana:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me.Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him..
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
So please help.me out Nairalanders
What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

Did u cheat on him??

Iamtana:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me.Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him..
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
So please help.me out Nairalanders
What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

confess any thing that you know he doesn't know your fear will stop.

Iamtana:
Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me..

Na your past reckless life dey hunt you.

its an emotionally toxic r/ship when you cant even do simple things and you are ridden with fear to do any simple act, let alone a mistake.., you, unfortunately have be trained for obedience to perfection!

What exactly do you want us to do

Your conscience is doing that to you, there's something you did and you are not telling us.

Iamtana:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me.Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him..
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
So please help.me out Nairalanders
What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

You cheated and you are afraid he will leave you when he finds someone better.
He definitely will find someone better and you too will find better people, or worse people.

Iamtana:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me. Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him...What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

You seem to be battling with several anxieties and they seem to be getting overwhelmed by them. You are already dealing with low self-esteem and self-confidence in your relationship as a result. Sadly, the best way to deal with such fears is to step out of the relationship, and take time to resolve those issues before getting back to dating again. You can try getting counselling from a professional mental health counsellor, but...

Damn! Your guy issa real Nigga . If say na simp now, e for dey the other way around. Alpha male anytime, anyway for Ma Geez.

Meanwhile, he acts tough but he's cool. All you gats do is to build your confidence and self esteem. Don't feel he's too good for you.

MONEY, BETTER DICK, WISDOM, ALPHA MALE, COOL AND BAD BOY VIBE are the reason that makes you think that he's too good for you thereby making you too scared to lose him.



As our Ancestors would say "Actions and Behaviours are a key to power". Your guy understands it better.

H0didon:
Damn! Your guy issa real Nigga . If say na simp now, e for dey the other way around. Alpha male anytime, anyway for Ma Geez.

Meanwhile, he acts tough but he's cool. All you gats do is to build your confidence and self esteem. Don't feel he's too good for you.

MONEY, BETTER DICK, WISDOM, ALPHA MALE, COOL AND BAD BOY VIBE are the reason that makes you think that he's too good for you thereby making you too scared to lose him.



As our Ancestors would say "Actions and Behaviours are a key to power". Your guy understands it better.

Really?

It's because you don't have voters card

Just continue fearing him...

You go dey alright las las

Does he handle you rough in BED? Does he knack you like never before? Do you scream in pain while he's knacking you

[quote author=Iamtana post=115674118]Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me.Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him..
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
So please help.me out Nairalanders
What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.[/quotear


are you also scared of his big dick??

Your past mistakes makes u feel u are unworthy of him. Just be free with him more. Have more conversations with him, spend close time together and most importantly free your mind

It is good.

What's your definition of a toxic relationship? This is a toxic relationship. Any relationship that takes away your peace and joy is toxic.

MrBrownJay1:
its an emotionally toxic r/ship when you cant even do simple things and you are ridden with fear to do any simple act, let alone a mistake.., you, unfortunately have be trained for obedience to perfection!

She must have done something wrong or she's doing something she knows is not good.
It's her conscience that's fighting her.

Your fear is limiting communication. It is a love relationship not military regime. Laugh, talk and express your exact feelings each moments perhaps that will make him express himself too
As a lady you ought to respect your man and he in turn ought to love you.
You don't have to fear your partner. .

Are you guilty of anything?
Or he got those built body
Me sef confused coz I don't know y u will be scared when he haven't raise his hands on u?
Maybe it was bcoz of those mistake u make in the past sha. You guys need communication
I think that will help

Ignore him for a week. Eyan lasan lasan. Useless sadistic gender.

Owologbo:
She must have done something wrong or she's doing something she knows is not good.
It's her conscience that's fighting her.

i actually think she wants to be in this r/ship so much, that she is scared of fukcing up again (for whatever reason), thus is afraid to do anything that may upset the dude. thats toxicity because is like walking on eggshells all the time. who wants to live like this?

MrBrownJay1:


i actually think she wants to be in this r/ship so much, that she is scared of fukcing up again (for whatever reason), thus is afraid to do anything that may upset the dude. thats toxicity because is like walking on eggshells all the time. who wants to live like this?

she should just relax her mind if she's not doing anything that will hurt the guy.