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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
SPAMBOX7:Exactly my thought She will kill him at any amount She can't afford loosing the luxury life now |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Panda7(m): 9:14pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
internet yahoo story and you believe it |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Kreasse(m): 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mind ya business, Ewu. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Fantazy(m): 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:Just back out of the whole thing. Tell ur friend to leave you out of it and trace the child on his own. though he will find them but don't be the one to direct him. Note: At this stage, If ur friend finds them, the girl will never forgive you, she will think you are the one who directed him to her. So you have to be extra careful cos u might as well put urself in trouble (the girl is well to do now financially) so she can come for you later, cos thats her marriage at stake. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless: |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:30pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:You’re right, Bro. In fact, I think the friend cajoled him into doing it instead of doing it himself because he knew op would be daft enough to make himself a target. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by emmanuelpopson(m): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican:he wanna make make money at the detriment of his life. money that he may not spend when the kasala burst on his head.. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Blackdeewhy:They’re giving it to the mother hot but not the deadbeat criminal that’s been cowering for over seven years! If the mother is olosho then what should we call the friend for having unprotected marathon sex with an olosho? A man can know for seven years that he might have a child but not do anything or contribute a penny towards upkeep? Deadbeat. Loser. Simp. He was aware of the lie they were going to tell the oil guy (if it was a lie at all) but now he’s concerned about the innocent husband? He was an accomplice in the lie and I hope he suffers. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:I think they forgot that the friend has known about this for seven years and spent his yahoo money as he pleased while another man took care of what might be his baby. Another man carried a burden for 7 years and they feel they’re doing him a favor by telling? It will be very nice if the husband beats 7 years of Naira out of op and his friend’s asses. Op is looking dumber and dumber by the minute for involving himself in this bad Nollywood drama. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ilekokonit: 9:51pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:Above is the answer you require. Allow the girl child to stay with the man she knows as her father and that can offer her good morals instead of pushing the faultless child into the hands of her real father who by your own admission above has nothing positive to offer the child except dodgy yahoo money that doesn't last long and carries a curse. The man she currently knows as her father can offer her money in addition to a good morally sound upbringing. Don't allow yourself to be used in tearing this child's sound family life apart. Delete the husbands linked in from your contacts and tell your friend you could not trace his Ex girlfriend and let the child grow up in a happy home and let the matter rest. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 9:53pm On Aug 13, 2022*. Modified: 10:43pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
MoneyMustBMade:I am married and a mother. I cannot support such evil. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ilekokonit: 10:01pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Okonandmary:True talk. The child's interests are paramount to consider. It is dangerous to burst the child's balloon and tell her that the loving man she regarded as her Daddy is in actual fact not her Daddy any more. Your friend in South Africa should forget about this little girl and try and raise his own new family with another woman. If he claims to love his child than he should let her be with the man she knows as Dad and not break into her peaceful family life. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by YeePeyHaa: 10:17pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
If every woman tell their kids who their real father is Trouble will be plenty for Nigeria. Thank God they know how to keep secrets Day of Judgement will ZEH! |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by fuckwell2080: 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
The story between SIMP, ASHAWO, YAHOO BOY AKA BAD GUY.This to tell you some WOMEN are so dangerous.because of POVERTY and LAZINESS.You hang PREGNANCY on another man head.@OP expose the ASHAWO Let her pay for her HOEING LIFE.You dont collect money already from ur FRIEND. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
FuckSilly:Honestly, I'm surprised by the comments made by some women (and men) here. It's making me think that paternity fraud is more common in Nigeria than first thought. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jubrilELsudan: 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
FuckSilly:ODE MUMU
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
I’m still waiting to learn how he is sure that the child is his friend’s. I’m also shocked at how many people support him approaching the woman or her husband armed with only the story a criminal is telling him. He’s walking into a fire blind and most of the people encouraging him wouldn’t take their own advice. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jubrilELsudan: 10:32pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by nedekid: 10:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Nonexisting:OP should mind his business. He wants to be the Cain that is used to flog somebody. Guess what, the Cain suffers the most if it could cry. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Ilekokonit:He’s acting as a representative of his friend without even knowing if his friend has any history with the husband. It’s possible the friend has caused trouble in their lives in the past or bothered the wife and the husband is aware of who he is. People don’t care about the child. They can’t see past their hatred for dishonest women, ‘simps’, children escaping poverty, and bitterness from their own bad experiences. I wonder who they’re thinking will let an unemployed criminal living in South Africa go to Nigeria and walk away with a child that isn’t yet proven to be his and he’s never laid eyes on. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by leofab(f): 10:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mom007:what if the two other kids are not for the man either? Will you keep quiet if you later discover they the said main is your brother? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:He said in his first paragraph that the girl was seeing both men at the same time so it could be either man’s child or even neither man’s child. He is concerned about himself, not the child. He is operating on an assumption fueled by greed and this is sure to backfire in his face. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 10:44pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Ilekokonit:What about the innocent husband? Should his feelings be ignored in this situation? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:51pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
What if all 3 children are proven to be the husband’s? The girl was sleeping with both men at the time the child was conceived. Then the wife will be able to play on the husband’s shame and guilt and get away everything happily ever after. Here in the states on the television shows that do DNA tests, the child that looks the most like the man is always proven not to be his while the one that looks nothing like him comes back as 99.999% his child. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by putmanj146: 11:05pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
I think you want them to separate, I pray against every monitoring spirit like you. Must you ask him about his personal life all the time? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by tonididdy(m): 11:30pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
@OP don't fix what's not broken. That little girl is happy and has love from both her parents now. This is a dangerous quest you are adventuring into and about. Beware! |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by AfroKnight: 11:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Paternity fraud should ALWAYS be exposed. They say you want to destroy her home but she already did that from the beginning. You cannot destroy what has already been destroyed. Prepare to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life though. Evil Women who have money are ruthless when their source of income is threatened especially when that source is a man. This story sounds fictitious but it can provide instruction for up and coming hœs. Paternity fraud must be exposed and punished ALWAYS. All the OP has to do is create doubt in the mind of the husband until he performs a DNA test on the child. |
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