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emmaodet:
Another one.
She is my SIL
Very beautiful during her prime and even still beautiful. I think she is close to 40. No husband nor kids. Frustrated and always crying and praying to God for hubby even though she has been changing men like diaper...........my wife claimed it is the men who are not serious for relationship and just doing chop and clean mouth.....okay now
When in her prime..... she was carried away by the beauty and regular attention
Then, she was very selective and materialistic (not a bad quality if you ask me anyway)
Red flag ..............she stays at Omole estate alone in a 700k apartment.
Who does that ?
Even me wey dey do better work is a salary far more than her own no go try am.
She works with FIRS and i will guess her salary is not more than 150k. Unless there is something i don't know sha.
When i pointed out that red flag, wife told me she has a side business now .......buying and selling of gold abi jewelries from Dubai... Okay now
During one of their conversations, she blurted out that she is tired of paying the yearly 700k, that is is taking a toll on her. So she can't wait to just get married so that the man will be the one footing that bill.
It is all about the mindset of the modern woman.
It is never about how to run an effective home/family rather how to use a man.

She’s tired of paying that yearly 700k rent yet she still wouldn’t want to be with a man living in a house below that range. She should keep living in her delusion, if care isn’t taken she would be the one to start begging average men to marry her when she’s close to 50. They get carried away by their beauty and the attention they get too easily.
Ppl like that eventually settle for way less than they thought they deserve. She can as well be the masculine one in the marriage paying most of the bills or start doing 50/50 with her future hubby.

emmaodet:
For me, have made peace with the way things are.

Maybe that is how God or mother nature designed it because if you are to look at the situation of things logically now, many women are damaged.
Using Marriage as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme is bad enough, now making it a Rehabilitation Center should have been the final nail to the coffin.
Many women today are damaged - they smoke, consume hard drinks, engaged in 3some/4some/orgies, numerous sexual partners, multiple abortions, bang guys who use hard drugs to sex them thereby turning them to nymphos etc Bro, the list is endless
Now, 10/15 years down the lane, these women will want to settle down with a lot of baggage they are bringing.
If you can satisfy them sexually......people will call you out for not been man enough to satisfy your wife and you need to buckle up.
If she is having regular mood swings (which comes with a woman who has slept with many men) - They will tell you sa a man, it is your duty to make sure your home is in order, you are the head of the family and it is a duty God has ordained on you to do.
Just name it -
She will compare you financially with her Ex, sexually with her Ex-bedmates,
Nothing you do will really entice her (let me expansiate on this) - A lady that has been flown on air, lodged in 3/5/7 star hotels with chiefs, alhajis or politicians, received 50k per night or more, expensive phones etc from her previous bedmates will always feel irritated and angry by a hubby who only brought pad and bras to her on her birthday. She will never appreciate anything you do.
And it is your fault according to most women for not making your (Damaged) wife happy.
Reason why i said Marriage being a Poverty Alleviation Scheme for women is bad enough (where your properties - car, house, land money etc becomes Our Own but when life happens, she ditches you and run away citing she is tired of the marriage), now making Marriage a Rehabilitation Home (to correct our past mistakes, where you don't have to look or judge her past that will still come to hunt you anyway, where we just need to look away for a woman who has engaged in prostitution, smoking, drinking, clubbing and as turned to Sister Kemi in the church) for many many women is totally bad deal for any man presently

Hmmm.... You have a very valid point here.
Women won't be held accountable for anything, and that's where the problem lies.

Reminderz:
If you only waste your youthful life on trying to accrue as many partners as possible, instead of building up yourself and looking for opportunities to climb the social ladder and escape the matrix, then you're a shortsighted person wasting his energy on cheap dopamine pleasures...

you don't need to sleep with many women in order to prove yourself or stroke your ego... in fact the people who makes a fuss about accruing many partners are those that are either virgins or haven't had enough sex.. they can be easily manipulated be with sex... when they cum, they'll definitely come to their senses..

conquer the world first, then you'll automatically conquer women... never beg or seem desperate for anything in life except for yourself...

There's no such thing as CONQUER THE WORLD, THEN YOU'LL AUTOMATICALLY CONQUER WOMEN..that's not in the redpill.

Its funny how we say a man's masculinity is not tied to his dealings with women then proceed to call (even rich);men who are doing badly with women" betas" and "Simps".

one minute: " women don't make you a man"
Literally the next minute: "Will Smith is a simp for failing with his woman"....

Smh.

emmaodet:
For me, have made peace with the way things are.

Maybe that is how God or mother nature designed it because if you are to look at the situation of things logically now, many women are damaged.
Using Marriage as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme is bad enough, now making it a Rehabilitation Center should have been the final nail to the coffin.
Many women today are damaged - they smoke, consume hard drinks, engaged in 3some/4some/orgies, numerous sexual partners, multiple abortions, bang guys who use hard drugs to sex them thereby turning them to nymphos etc Bro, the list is endless
Now, 10/15 years down the lane, these women will want to settle down with a lot of baggage they are bringing.
If you can satisfy them sexually......people will call you out for not been man enough to satisfy your wife and you need to buckle up.
If she is having regular mood swings (which comes with a woman who has slept with many men) - They will tell you sa a man, it is your duty to make sure your home is in order, you are the head of the family and it is a duty God has ordained on you to do.
Just name it -
She will compare you financially with her Ex, sexually with her Ex-bedmates,
Nothing you do will really entice her (let me expansiate on this) - A lady that has been flown on air, lodged in 3/5/7 star hotels with chiefs, alhajis or politicians, received 50k per night or more, expensive phones etc from her previous bedmates will always feel irritated and angry by a hubby who only brought pad and bras to her on her birthday. She will never appreciate anything you do.
And it is your fault according to most women for not making your (Damaged) wife happy.
Reason why i said Marriage being a Poverty Alleviation Scheme for women is bad enough (where your properties - car, house, land money etc becomes Our Own but when life happens, she ditches you and run away citing she is tired of the marriage), now making Marriage a Rehabilitation Home (to correct our past mistakes, where you don't have to look or judge her past that will still come to hunt you anyway, where we just need to look away for a woman who has engaged in prostitution, smoking, drinking, clubbing and as turned to Sister Kemi in the church) for many many women is totally bad deal for any man presently

I salute the men getting married every Saturday,they are real men who are matured enough to overlook their wife's past.I doubt I'll ever compromise my freedom and peace of mind to cage myself by myself just to recognized by society as a responsible man.

emmaodet:
For me, have made peace with the way things are.

Maybe that is how God or mother nature designed it because if you are to look at the situation of things logically now, many women are damaged.
Using Marriage as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme is bad enough, now making it a Rehabilitation Center should have been the final nail to the coffin.
Many women today are damaged - they smoke, consume hard drinks, engaged in 3some/4some/orgies, numerous sexual partners, multiple abortions, bang guys who use hard drugs to sex them thereby turning them to nymphos etc Bro, the list is endless
Now, 10/15 years down the lane, these women will want to settle down with a lot of baggage they are bringing.
If you can satisfy them sexually......people will call you out for not been man enough to satisfy your wife and you need to buckle up.
If she is having regular mood swings (which comes with a woman who has slept with many men) - They will tell you sa a man, it is your duty to make sure your home is in order, you are the head of the family and it is a duty God has ordained on you to do.
Just name it -
She will compare you financially with her Ex, sexually with her Ex-bedmates,
Nothing you do will really entice her (let me expansiate on this) - A lady that has been flown on air, lodged in 3/5/7 star hotels with chiefs, alhajis or politicians, received 50k per night or more, expensive phones etc from her previous bedmates will always feel irritated and angry by a hubby who only brought pad and bras to her on her birthday. She will never appreciate anything you do.
And it is your fault according to most women for not making your (Damaged) wife happy.
Reason why i said Marriage being a Poverty Alleviation Scheme for women is bad enough (where your properties - car, house, land money etc becomes Our Own but when life happens, she ditches you and run away citing she is tired of the marriage), now making Marriage a Rehabilitation Home (to correct our past mistakes, where you don't have to look or judge her past that will still come to hunt you anyway, where we just need to look away for a woman who has engaged in prostitution, smoking, drinking, clubbing and as turned to Sister Kemi in the church) for many many women is totally bad deal for any man presently

That's not how God or mother nature made...its not the same in the north or in muslim countries...its this way because men failed to assert their rights.... and ur post makes a lot of sense.... most men and women dont realize the reason there are issues in their marriage today is due to the past of both the guy and the girl...

I hv a question for you....by the special grace of God, im well to do guy (financially OK but not rich)... my family introduced me to 27 or 28 yo girl for marriage - the girl is "ready" but unfortunately is from a very poor background..... i am not comfortable with it because i feel she wants to use me as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme but also i feel i will hv a lot to rehabilitate.... Marriage isnt fun for guys....to take those 2 burdens, whats the gain for me!!

ubunja:
There's no such thing as CONQUER THE WORLD, THEN YOU'LL AUTOMATICALLY CONQUER WOMEN..that's not in the redpill.

Its funny how we say a man's masculinity is not tied to his dealings with women then proceed to call (even rich);men who are doing badly with women" betas" and "Simps".

one minute: " women don't make you a man"
Literally the next minute: "Will Smith is a simp for failing with his woman"....

Smh.

it's obvious you don't even get the point.. smh.. you don't even understand the statement you quoted and I don't need to explain.. please I beg you, don't quote me.. and by the way, you don't get to decide what's in the redpill or not...

orchin:
Blue pill matrix
He who finds a wife finds a favor bullshit
Men are sex starved
Majority of men don't understand how a woman understand the word "Love"
Men are happy and always ready to be a slave (years of programming)
Women are smart species of beings, and I respect them alot.

I agree with the bolded....the truth is that in marriage today a man is the Financial slave of the woman.... with little to no reward for the guy....sex? At 29 the girl is no longer very hot....thats ghe truth....helping hand?? In most marriage situations the man is the so called "help meet" of the woman because the man is bearing all the financial burdens...

BigBashiru:
That's not how God or mother nature made...its not the same in the north or in muslim countries...its this way because men failed to assert their rights.... and ur post makes a lot of sense.... most men and women dont realize the reason there are issues in their marriage today is due to the past of both the guy and the girl...

I hv a question for you....by the special grace of God, im well to do guy (financially OK but not rich)... my family introduced me to 27 or 28 yo girl for marriage - the girl is "ready" but unfortunately is from a very poor background..... i am not comfortable with it because i feel she wants to use me as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme but also i feel i will hv a lot to rehabilitate.... Marriage isnt fun for guys....to take those 2 burdens, whats the gain for me!!

I'd recommend you give it a try. However, proceed with caution. If you were introduced by friends or family that's a good way to vet than meeting some random retired whores online or the street.

Marrying down shouldn't be a big deal for men . You will almost never see any woman in your financial bracket ready to settle for you.
Hypergamy is okay and you can't negotiate hypergamy.

Marrying an uncooperative LovePeddler is the big deal. Found 2 or 3 red flags. Run.

RedpillAnalyst:
I'd recommend you give it a try. However, proceed with caution. If you were introduced by friends or family that's a good way to vet than meeting some random retired whores online or the street.

Marrying down shouldn't be a big deal for men . You will almost never see any woman in your financial bracket ready to settle for you.
Hypergamy is okay and you can't negotiate hypergamy.

Marrying an uncooperative LovePeddler is the big deal. Found 2 or 3 red flags. Run.

The girls dad passed away when she was less than 2 years old and from my experience, girls without their father around from a young age tend to have SEXUAL FREEDOM like oloshos because theres no strong male figure to restrict it....

BigBashiru:
That's not how God or mother nature made...its not the same in the north or in muslim countries...its this way because men failed to assert their rights.... and ur post makes a lot of sense.... most men and women dont realize the reason there are issues in their marriage today is due to the past of both the guy and the girl...

I hv a question for you....by the special grace of God, im well to do guy (financially OK but not rich)... my family introduced me to 27 or 28 yo girl for marriage - the girl is "ready" but unfortunately is from a very poor background..... i am not comfortable with it because i feel she wants to use me as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme but also i feel i will hv a lot to rehabilitate.... Marriage isnt fun for guys....to take those 2 burdens, whats the gain for me!!

I'm sorry, please run me through the thought process of how they get to have a say in who you settle down with.

Theriddler:
I'm sorry, please run me through the thought process of how they get to have a say in who you settle down with.

They are offering guidance and i accept the guidance.... their word isnt final.... i dont claim to know it all....

BigBashiru:
The girls dad passed away when she was less than 2 years old and from my experience, girls without their father around from à young age have SEXUAL FREEDOM like oloshos because theres no strong male figure to restrict it....

True.. Fatherless girls are to be well vetted out before any real commitment. I am yet to see one decent fatherless lady.

But here's the twist. If her dad died when she was young, her fatherlessness was robbed by death. Not that her mama was loud and uncooperative that papa had to leave and not stay with her mama.

If she has a masculine figure around after the demise of her father and she is femine and cooperative give it a try. If she has more than 2 red flags talk to your leg.

RedpillAnalyst:
True.. Fatherless girls are to be well vetted out before any real commitment. I am yet to see one decent fatherless lady.

But here's the twist. If her dad died when she was young, her fatherlessness was robbed by death. Not that her mama was loud and uncooperative that papa had to leave and not stay with her mama.

If she has a masculine figure around after the demise of her father and she is femine and cooperative give it a try. If she has more than 2 red flags talk to your leg.

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emmaodet:
At the bolded...in other words, LOVE is not really that blind as we were meant to know.
So, women are view Love, Relationship and Marriage from a logical lens and not Emotional.
If ladies are holding out to late 20's so as to get the best deal, isn't that a manifestation that there is nothing like LOVE? just an illusion. No wonder we have high infidelity rate and divorce rate.

Mind the advise you dish out here, don’t subtly discourage anyone from getting married while you yourself a happily married man .

Pukkalolo:
What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

This Your Method......
Them go bill You Tire.

chikasnight:
As a man if you want to be a god
1. Get money
2. Get muscles
3. Learn Game
None of them are easy to get, and none can replace the other.
The mistake people make is that they feel once you make money you don't need the rest which is not true because money won't save you in a situation where you need game.
And there's a saying that goes "why be a man when you can be a god"...

Words of Wisdom.

Reminderz:
it's obvious you don't even get the point.. smh.. you don't even understand the statement you quoted and I don't need to explain.. please I beg you, don't quote me.. and by the way, you don't get to decide what's in the redpill or not...

AOMINE IN DAAAA HOUSE, ITS SIMPLE WHAT UBUNJA IS SAYING IS CONQUERING THE WORLD WHILE GOOD,YES VERY NECESSARY BUT DONT EQUATE THAT TO CONQUERING WOMEN ,SIMPLE ,THEY ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS

Reminderz:
it's obvious you don't even get the point.. smh.. you don't even understand the statement you quoted and I don't need to explain.. please I beg you, don't quote me.. and by the way, you don't get to decide what's in the redpill or not...

This is the attitude. Not to make that ugly sex starved non-entity that can’t get puccy to dictate things to you.

OvertheTop:
This Your Method......
Them go bill You Tire.

I Guess you don't know much about me and my method. You can read through some of my post and thread here on nairaland so you can get familiar.

ubunja:
I have been thinking on your comment trying to learn more on YouTube on the Caucasian aspect of this movement. Material is scant though. What I could find as concerning white men was sex tourism,, not really going abroad to find wives. I think I have to dig deeper.

Check out "mail order brides". Caucasians were the OG founders of the Passport Movement.

It has existed in some form since the Colonies were set up. But it took another dimension immediately after the Second Wave of Feminism in the 60's.

Asian women are the prime target because of their traditional culture, they're the most submissive women of all the races, they fit Caucasian standards of beauty (tight a$$) like a glove, and they age like fine wine (provided you choose a 6+). Unsurprisingly, there are horror stories.

As @heartofcity12 opined, AA men will learn. And if they miscalculate so egregiously that they extend their sights to Africa, I trust our women to re-educate them properly on Female Nature.

-Lord

Rosrozz:
Mind the advise you dish out here, don’t subtly discourage anyone from getting married while you yourself a happily married man .

Guys dis is rozcol,,Iyaebe,,zzor, don't give her any attention,,

CaveAdullam:
1. A man must build himself for his well being. And as a result, he becomes a person people respect, love, fear and want to relate with.

If you don't respect yourself as a man, nobody will. Self-respect will always culminates into general respect.

But I do disagree with you on some cases.

Let's go.



2. Do you still remember alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Who impregnates women and make them single mothers and baby mamas? Is it the guy focus on his study or business. Of course you know, many of these men are players, bad boys, thugs, jerks. A man of self-respect will not.

Who are the men that are friend zoned? The ones that want to deal with women from a self-respect level. They want to always take things cool and easy with women.

Please, don't interpret me wrongly. I'm not saying self-respect is not important when dealing with women or for you to fvck women you must turn into a bag of shit. But what you must understand about women is that they don't view things from a moral and ethical point of view. They go where their feelings dictates. They don't care.

All of us have guys who are called "street urchins" in all of our environments, these are guys you will not want mingle with because you carry yourself with self-respect, however, they are the ones impregnating sister angels.

3. Do women respect self-esteem and high value men? Yes. But that isn't going to their pvssy. They must be stimulated emotionally and sexually for you to fvck them. If they really care about self-respect, guys would not be complaining of being friendzoned.

4. "COME TO MY HOUSE" is a direct game. He cares for nothing. It shows that he's on the pedestal and will not waste time jumping around texts and phone calls just to get her attention. He shows that he respects himself and time.

5. For example: I have a female friend in another state, we've known for close to 5 years now online. She has been asking me for some help, and I have told her several times, that if she wants anything from me, she should COME TO MY HOUSE. She always say that if she comes she will not go back the same way, and I always tell her is just one baby noy in her womb. Has she come to my house? No. Have I been preaching about sex to her? No. Have she received a dime from me? No. Does she respect me? Yes. Do I respect her? Yes (at least she has sense more than the average Nigerian girl).

6. Commanding what you want from a woman at a short period of time reeks self-respect for your time and well-being. It doesn't mean you are a bag of shit.




7. You built yourself because of pvssy, and you said you were not pvssy focused?

This is not meant to be a mockery but an evolutionary sexual instincts. Whatever women desired in men, men evolved to become that thing. And same for women.

"COME TO MY HOUSE" is a command.
"I'm a self-respect guy" is an attitude.

Both boils down to pvssy. What matters is one or both not metamorphosing into something stupid just to get pvssy.



8. If you know your worth as a man and have an understanding about women, by virtue of your worth, women will help you filter themselves. If you are a man of self-respect, you'll encounter with idiotic women less because you're not always around idiots.




9. Maybe you are misconstruing that every woman a man sets his eyes upon he must fvck. Will men want to fvck any woman? Yes. Will a particular man fvck all the women he comes across? No.

If the women that helped in you in your areas of life opened their pvssy for you will you fvck them?
Sex may never had been an open objective dealing with them, but that sexual instinct was lurking under your skin.

10. There are gender roles. Women nurture, clean, cook, serves as companion. Men provides protection and provision.

Women have nothing to offer because a man can get everything a woman provides on his own. Even other men can do it for him. The only reason for women is sex and reproduction.

Except for independent women, women can't protect and provide for themselves and kids. Even the state is made up of men who provide and protect them on a macro scale. Women can't get commitment or provision and protection from other women; any different men. And they also need men for sex and reproduction.

Men want women. But women desire and need men.

A woman can't boldly say "all what a man can give is just provision and protection" - because they are expensive, everybody desires it. Any woman that says that is a pathetic liar.

But a man can "say all a woman can provide is sex", and he can get it from different women.



11. Men can't care less about sex because they are damned by the hormone testosterone. You can deny it but you can't erase it.

It was even men of old that care much about pvssy, they became hunters and warriors to secure more women.

According to recent statistics, marriage rate is declining, the rate of active sexual men is declining. Incels are on the rise. MGTOWS are on the rise.

Men are not desperate for sex per se, it is an evolutionary instinct that makes them desire women in a haste where the sexual market place is deregulated. In ancient times men can easily get women because the rate of inequality was low compared to this day. Women will settle for men in their community because they don't have social media to scan men from different geopolitical zones.

The seeming desperation is because, 100% women are only focus on 20% of men in the society totem pole and are not interested in the other 80% of men.

Is self-control important yes. Is self-respect important yes.

Refer to 8 above.

Thanks.

THIS IS THE REAL DEAL....

If you don't do it this way, Them go Bill your Tire while you Gain Nothing!


cc: Pukkalolo

emmaodet:
Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

I posted that shola screenshot (on mood issh) on my status and 87% of those who viewed are women and no one even said pim, coz they know say I be werey. Na men dey come tell me say make I take am easy...that I'm too harsh blabblabla.

I told those niggas to fuq off!!! These days my vawulence is mixed with fearless.

Which part of the country do you stay if you don’t mind

Personally if I want to settle I’ll go north I always believe I’ll get the best deal there
And moreover northerners have more young ladies interested in marriage

BigBashiru:
Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....

Exactly what I think, that’s why I’ll really go north. Among all my uncles the ones I admire their families the most all married northerners not necessarily Muslim
But I don’t mind marrying a Muslim tho

Reminderz:
it is not your duty to save any woman... if they can't give you their most fertile years, why do they deserve all what you've also worked or laboured for? they are turning you down because maybe you don't have what it takes...

the chances of meeting such person in places like school, offices, mall is slim.. ...but the irony is that, these type of women are mostly found in religious gatherings or schools.. as long as I hate to say this, the best women to get yourself wedded to and have a high chance of staying in marriage are Muslim women who hasn't been brainwashed by social media or society... if you're a well known in that community, you can easily be matched with these type of women.

the rate of immorality is low compared to the typical damaged modern women...

one of the reason I don't blame all these northern people about getting their kids married in early is that, it will curb the rate of immorality in the society to a greater extent.. what is the essence of sending your daughter to school for 5-6 years only to be ran through by dicks through all those periods or exposed to something that will change the way they think or perceive the world?? I don't hate the idea of getting women married off early, I only hate the way it's done.. some girls have hardly passed the puberty stage and some don't even have the necessary means available to carry it out... the women there are made to believe that it's family over everything else not chasing career and living the non challant lives which is why we still have women who came from this type of environment more reserved and respected in the society than the other areas...

the rate of divorce, single mothers, damaged women and infidelity is low in these type of society or areas compared to other parts of the world..

chikasnight:
Exactly what I think, that’s why I’ll really go north. Among all my uncles the ones I admire their families the most all married northerners not necessarily Muslim
But I don’t mind marrying a Muslim tho

good.. my boss who's a Yoruba man left Yoruba women to marry an Hausa woman because of these qualities I talked about... as time goes by, I see reasons why he made that decision... note I'm not saying they aren't in other tribes, but it varies, and more common in one than the other..

in fact, to marry more than one wife gan nor go be problem at all... she might even encourage you to do that because they are made to understand the religion perfectly and always respect their husband's decisions no matter what... I'm talking about the main Hausa gangan that spent most of their growing up days in the north.., not the one that's been brainwashed by modern society oo.. if you're also a Muslim, you go enjoy them the more... but if you as a Christian can get them, they might want to convert because of you if they like you.. we have good Christians among them... some of them are really practising the religion... not just some church girl or boy.. they are true Christian and Muslim, not churchy..

What sage Ubûnjà has been preaching...
Coming from a woman.

A king
If you don’t want him at his lowest, don’t bother contacting him when he’s winning. They always wait at the finish line, dish well served

LordAdam16:
Check out "mail order brides". Caucasians were the OG founders of the Passport Movement.

It has existed in some form since the Colonies were set up. But it took another dimension immediately after the Second Wave of Feminism in the 60's.

Asian women are the prime target because of their traditional culture, they're the most submissive women of all the races, they fit Caucasian standards of beauty (tight a$$) like a glove, and they age like fine wine (provided you choose a 6+). Unsurprisingly, there are horror stories.

As @heartofcity12 opined, AA men will learn. And if they miscalculate so egregiously that they extend their sights to Africa, I trust our women to re-educate them properly on Female Nature.

-Lord

oh yes,, mail order brides!! How could I forget! But that was a long time ago,, I remember I used to read about them, and that time it did seem a thing only a loser would do. But things really have changed.

Peaceyw:
What sage Ubûnjà has been preaching...
Coming from a woman.

its how it is my man. 100%.