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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by phr0nesis(m): 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2022
Lol
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Achico: 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2022
It simply shows that you are mad
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by MrUchenna1(m): 12:31pm On Aug 15, 2022
MY BROTHER YOU ARE NORMAL. YOU ARE JUST BEING FOCUS IN LIFE

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Solofresh2: 12:32pm On Aug 15, 2022
You are not normal but foolish grin
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Exkandayee(m): 12:32pm On Aug 15, 2022
You are maual
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Lightened: 12:32pm On Aug 15, 2022
You are an alien
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Blunttruth: 12:33pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?
You belong with the class of men who like nasty women. It usually stems from psychological issues.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by 99thEnemy(m): 12:33pm On Aug 15, 2022
Your psychology is seeking an adventure before reaching the goal.

When the thrill is taken away by her being easily swept away by whatever charm you have and she confesses, it now bores you to death.

You need a psychologist or else na psychiatrist you go soon need. grin

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by mrkings84(m): 12:34pm On Aug 15, 2022
This forum sef don turn to child's play, so wetin carry this thing na come front page??
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by MartinsD12(m): 12:34pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?
Think of building yourself first at 24 you have think of having an occupation for yourself not talking some nonsensical relationship that doesn't exist in Nigeria, love is money if you don't have it forget it .

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Qtrpst4: 12:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
I will recommend a book for you "attached"



MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by jaxxy(m): 12:35pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?


ur scared of commitment that's all. is it normal? Yes and No. it depends. And it's not bad in our setting cos for a Nigerian gal to tell u she loves u my brother watch ur back and think well.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Okobola146: 12:36pm On Aug 15, 2022
Eyaaaa! Village people at work
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 15, 2022
Kids
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Triangles1(m): 12:37pm On Aug 15, 2022
The same thing is happening to me
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Presidentcy: 12:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
Reinamaria:


No, it's not normal.
What you feel is not normal.

What is normal is everybody wants to love and be loved.

I don't want to be bored with Love unless it comes with 100% trustability.

Love by 21st century definition is affection that comes and goes.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Ternistacle(m): 12:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
Normal how... U dom take ur thing abi
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Cold141114(m): 12:43pm On Aug 15, 2022
OP you are normal.... don't let any female run your pocket dry.......lol
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Neimar: 12:45pm On Aug 15, 2022
Your own good nau
I dy lose interest after a while
It just comes and goes cheesy

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by SalemIfeanyi1(m): 12:47pm On Aug 15, 2022
I have a friend who doesn't like it when people tell her that. The day i mistakenly said it to her, omg, it wasn't funny. She stopped talking to me for over a month. It took her younger sister to get us back again.

But recently she said it to me, mehn i was shocked, i couldn't even say i lo... grin grin grin

I feel maybe, i healed her. Or i helped erase her past experiences.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by tuzle(m): 12:47pm On Aug 15, 2022
I know a girl like u. She start losing interest in guys when they say they love her and start showings affection towards her. I don't understand the kind of behavior that is because it seem weird to me.
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by braine(m): 12:48pm On Aug 15, 2022
Messi1:
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

This is rubbish talk. You dont know who may follow this stupid advice.
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Slayar: 12:49pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?


You are normal, there is nothing wrong with you.Most men will not admit ,but this is our nature. When a woman succumbs finally ,there's no thrill ,nothing to chase / get you excited.

The only thing is commitment, at that stage you just make a commitment that you will stay with her no matter what.

Any man that disagrees with me ,I will ask you only one question. Are married guys not tired of their wives? Only commitment is keeping them ,nothing else.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by melody91: 12:49pm On Aug 15, 2022
Na cos u still never really get sense like that like that lipsrsealed
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by herald9: 12:51pm On Aug 15, 2022
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?
I used to easily lose interest in women too.
In fact, my friends started warning all the ladies giving me greenlights about my misgivings.

What worked for me was that I did a self evaluation to uncover what sort of ladies I'm attracted to.

I discovered that I loved the intelligent ones; those that want to be independent, own their thoughts and their lives and are within the tech ecosystem.

I was lucky enough to find one and fell in love for the first time in my life.

Though it's never been a smooth ride, but I always have something to be proud of.

This weirdo actually fell in love �!

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by JaskanFactor: 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2022
That is because you can sense a scam, the whole i love you honey thing is from oyinbo people, there is no such thing as i love you.
The oyinbo people sold us this culture it has nothing to do with us.

Even valentines day is the commemoration of a military massacre, its has nothing to do with love.

Affection is affection it has nothing to do with i love you, that's a lie. that's why it makes you feel uncomfortable, along with the thing about holding hands, its all a lie.

Every human being is part angel part beast, there is no such thing as i love you in that.

When your partner tells you i love you, better know that your partner is under the influence of culture put out by the devil, We all acquire this wrong cultures from the movies in hollywood.

Did you know that Magic wands are made from the bark of the holly tree, from which Hollywood derives it name.

When your partner says i love you, better know your partner is under a spell, you need to help them back to reality.

The movies and the culture they sell are not your friend.

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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by hasyak(m): 12:55pm On Aug 15, 2022
Sheistoopretty:


Your comment reeks of stupidity and gross foolishness, it's a pity I share thesame country with you and many of your type. embarassed embarassed
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Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Blizzy300: 12:55pm On Aug 15, 2022
Blunttruth:

You belong with the class of men who like nasty women. It usually stems from psychological issues.
Tell me more sir
Re: I Lose Interest When A Lady Tells Me 'I Love You', Am I Normal? by Lorex6: 12:59pm On Aug 15, 2022
Same with me... Sometimes no dey forget say I get babe...
Make I go through the thread whether j go see solution
MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

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