Rexymania:
Nobody is above mistake

Above mistake on sex? You gotta be kidding me There's no mistake when it comes to sex it either No or Yes

teeshet:
i fùcked my mom's friend this morning

fada lawd! You don't mean it. Women! I am not doubting you bro.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

The first mistake is going to ur ex sister house to stay... The second mistake is sleeping on same bed with a ex you're still in love with and the third is cheating. To me when it comes to sex there's nothing like mistake unless you're willing no one is going to force. Why marry ur husband when you know you don't love him?
It not that he change it just that you feel guilty when you look at him. Just tell the truth and be free.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

If you know you still want to keep that home you better keep that your slut mouth shut. The damage is done already. You ll have bear the burden of your infidelity quietly. No man forgives a cheat except he is a weakling.

Tell him and chop breakfast.

You probably think you're Shakespeare right?

Bloody hypocrite!!! You only raise your ugly heads to condemn cheating when it's a woman doing it.

A woman had a one time cheating ten years ago and you opened your gutter mouth to spew this thrash but its your gender dying on top of women in hotels everyday after lying to their wives they were busy with work.

Keep being dense!

H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex . You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? . You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) . You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

Slut like the females in your family right?

Kdon2:
If you know you still want to keep that home you better keep that your slut mouth shut. The damage is done already. You ll have bear the burden of your infidelity quietly. No man forgives a cheat except he is a weakling.

Super story...

Your ex is a shameless man without a code. He knew he had your pressing button so he went ahead and pressed it anyway.

Am sure he feels no remorse while you are dying in silence. Despite your choice of faith/religion over love you still went ahead to betray both faith & husband.

To err is human, we all make f*cked up mistakes in our lifetime. If you truly love your family, this is one mistake you better go to the grave with.

H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex . You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? . You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) . You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

@ the bolded
Your ancestors have bad mouth.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

I'm a fellow guy, but let me advise you like a sister... There are some secrets that should die with you, no matter the circumstance. There is a local saying where I am from and it goes like this "if the ear does not hear a bad word, the heart does not get bitter". Whatsover you do with this Information Is your business... First and most importantly, forgive yourself and cut all means of communication between ur ex or his family, your ex is a big COW, he broke gentlemen code. You don't sleep with a married woman, it is forbidden.

I think your husband is already winning the war against you, since your mind isn't at rest, as you grow the regret may rises and clearly you deny yourself peace of mind over pr!ck that will still exist after you left

Fake or no fake , things dey occur , even now things dey occur well well .

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Shame on u..one thing led to the other why can't one thing block u from doing so knowing u are married.. awful ur husband bead won't forgive u except u tell him

Ure stupid

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Just let it go pls

Just let it go abeg. Mistakes do happen. This is a stupid one anyway. Never tell him. You will lose his respect and value for you.

poshestmina:
A male moniker on Nairaland cheated on "her dear husband with her ex".
.

You all just sit and write false stories , just to discredit women and bring the Alfamails with only soaked garri and salt in their stomach, crawling all over the thread.

Toor!
Mr OP , cheating on your husband was bad , hope your scrotum isn't pregnant with a bastaaaard yet.

LWKMD for this post

Please tell your husband... Hmmm have you ever ask ur self this questions (1 )what if your husband later hear about ? ����� (2) what if you die? Where are you going?... Please tell your husband so what you are afraid of will not b ur life sentences��

Danniedpastor:


Keep quiet.
There are men whose closets are clean.

Advise her to keep her secret without trying to discredit her husband (whom you know nothing about)

Show me an angel among men. Every human being is created weak. We will always commit sin. It’s hypocrisy and pretentious to say you know a clean man or woman. He may not necessarily have committed adultery, but he could have done other things.

Ex ex ex anything ex is bad in our life, please forget ex am taking with experience ok

Mehn the self-righteousness on this topic is amazing. People casting stones left and right.

Op, this is a case of let sleeping dogs lie. If he confronts you, deny it.

It has happened and confessing it ain't going to make him feel better, and can put ur children at risk of being raised by another woman.

As a married man myself, I don't want my wife telling me of an affair. What I don't know won't hurt me, and she can take that shit to the grave.

look at her.ASHAWO hiding under marriage to Bleep around.I only pity ur husband.for your mind you they play games.sometime wonder why some women so stupid.it only woman sleep with husband brothers uncles and friends keep quiet as if notin happen.yourhusband carry left over put for house in the name of marriage.What the essense of paying bride price for a girl DEFLOWER by another guy.A girl Bleep with just coke and meat pie.You better open up to the SIMP you call husband makeyour CONCIENCE free.I pity him another guy they Bleep hell commot for the BITCH call wife wide TOTO.How sure that the baby you deliver is for him.WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN FEAR AND RUN.DANGEROUS.

advanceDNA:


Its just one away match....make una free the woman......

So you don't know that return leg can lead to loss of life? Make dem no free her for her sake and her family.

You're one of the most shameless women who supposed not to have married at all.
You never believed you're a married woman for deciding to sleep in your ex- boyfriend sister's house than getting a hotel room knowing fully something like is hungry you from the guy.
It's a marital injury that can not be cured.
You call yourself a christian
Honestly, you're irritating.

Midas01:
Slut like the females in your family right?

Hmmmm

Ayomidejoseph:
The truth is, its you feeling guity and unable to forgive yourself. Your husband certainlly knows nothing, so its you who's changed.

Na so e dey take start

The reason why u still love your ex still was because he disvirgined u..and no matter what happens .....so its better u tell your Husband about it and free yourself of Guilt ...

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Irrespective of what anyone would say here. The Choice To Speak Or Remain Silent Is Your Choice. While feel quilty when you enjoy it while it lasted

justicechichex:


If this true, how do u guys committ adultery without even flinching? Without even thinking of how the other mate would feel....

Omoh this ur tori worwor for ear biko..

Guys are wired different from women. A guy doing the same wouldn't see it as cheating .... and instead of having a guilty conscience... he would be thinking of how to make it happen again. That's just the way men are wired... regardless if you think it is right or wrong... fair or unfair.

@ topic .... she cannot sleep in the guess room with him ... but can sleep with him on the same mattress in the living room. Imagine going to someone's house as guess and doing all this rearrangement. Poor story writer.

Ayomidejoseph:
The truth is, its you feeling guity and unable to forgive yourself. Your husband certainlly knows nothing, so its you who's changed.

This one na ogbonge for the cheating.. Baba tuale

Forgive yourself and move on. It is over 10 years now. 10 years is not 10 days.