PlayMaker14:
If money dey, people like me buy lands and invest ruthlessly...

Have a lovely week ahead.

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

excell0001:


it's funny how because most of the guys here are against your point of view , you labelled them as not "living thier reality". but anyways seems you come from a family with a "wealthy dad" well let me tell you another reality not every man is wealthy , not every man makes up to 100k. Am trying to understand you before I say my mind so please answer this questions


1. if i don't make more than 100k and age is not on my side I should continue hustling till I can get more than that even if it takes me far beyond my youth? (for people from the extreme end )

2 if you see a man with great potential and vision but with little funds. you won't settle with him till he makes it?

3. what if the man you marry who used to earn much starts earning less than a hundred due to bad life events? would you leave him or what would you do.

phemmyfour:
lol, I know a family man with 3kids living on npower's 30k

It's all about cutting your clothes according to your material

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

Rozross:
You really don’t have to lie to push narrative into been accepted.

Rozross:
Most guys are not living their reality. I haven’t gotten any reasonable response so far yet they are so quick at throwing tantrums. I’m still waiting

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

harjay1986:


Ogun state

UyaiIncomparabl:


Buying lands and investing ruthlessly doesn't stop you from spoiling your woman.

Have a great night.

Rozross:
Ok, that’s 130k monthly from both of them, please ma can you put us through on how this 130k would comfortably cover all expenses in this era? A breakdown will go a long way ma

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Ebubu9:
that means your mother is a lazy, useless, house wife who does not bring anything to the table?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Buying lands and investing ruthlessly doesn't stop you from spoiling your woman.

Have a great night.

Rozross:
Still waiting on you all, especially those that bashed blessedmercy tirelessly. Please I seriously need ways to go about the 100k issue, so as to know how to adjust

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Rozross:
Nigerian men don’t believe in spoiling their women, it’s not part of the deal. Maybe due to the harsh economy

Rozross:
Going by your story, that’ll be 150k if the lady agrees to make 50k abi? So please sir kindly break it down for us on how you are going to be spending that 150k monthly to raise a family in this present NIGERIA. Your analysis will go a long way

Tallesty1:

One of the beautiful thing about being a woman is that you can easily reject a man for not giving you what you can't give yourself. A question like this was asked a long time ago when things were a bit better. One sister said that she can't marry a guy who is earning N100k because one can't run a family with N100k. I asked her how about N150k and she said that's okay.

I said okay then, he's earning 100K already, go earn the remaining 50k, you're his partner.

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

Rozross:
It was just a harmless post and it has already gone south, I meant no harm. Please forgive me if anyone is in any way offended by this post. Hmm

Rozross:
No sir, my mom didn’t marry a man who will push her out there to hustle like a man to feed a man. My dad never turned my mother into a man but still she has her own money .

VeryWickedMan:



I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4

Aaaaarghmed:
I am telling you especially guys wey knw hin bearing, but we ladies cannot settle down wt a guy that his not seirous wt his life that it oh all this already made men hen at some point dem go dey use am dey insult u, is good to stick wt a guy that have vision in life and hardworking..

Tunji50:

Is cost of living low over there?

Rozross:
No sir, my mom didn’t marry a man who will push her out there to hustle like a man to feed a man. My dad never turned my mother into a man but still she has her own money .

Rozross:
Don’t see the post in a negative way, I just want some clarification and ways a relationship can blossom around 100k. Please kindly share your analysis