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Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by theamazonguru(m): 8:45pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234: Take this from someone who knows and has been there, you don't ever admit or go telling people that your wife is older. Don't do that. You can still make it right. Keep it as it is. No one else needs to know. Shikenan. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by IamMobisola(f): 8:49pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Kirkman: That doesn't sum up what you wrote initially. You said he was doing her a favor by dating her because she was older(Being the prize and spec in the situation) And advising someone who is wrong on an issue in a relationship to not try to prove to his partner that he is sorry about it especially something sensitive that hurt her is a no no. Accepting faults and apologising when wrong is a good habit and it strengthens relationships. So if your woman does something that hurts you and she doesn't say sorry, would it be easy for you to move on? All in the name of trying to concentrate on her "peace of mind"? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Abujaexpress: 9:04pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
BabbanBura:To me age is not a matter, but when your spouse hid from you and you got to discover it and she/he is still claiming Mrs/Mr right, that lies the problem 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Kirkman: 9:11pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
IamMobisola:1) He is a price and spec in his own right as a man same applies to her as well. 2) His peace of mind and not her's, (point of correction) 3) in this situation that the girl Is forming anger over this little issue I will let her be. There are other options for him to make his choosing from. His world doesn't revolve fully around her. She should have just cautioned him and they forget about the whole issue. Peace of mind is bae any day, anytime. Cest finis. I won't allow any human take away that precious gift from me. 4) For people like me, it's very easy to move on. Experience had taught me how to and i don't condone emotional bullshit. When you start showing signs of unseriousness, I take the high road. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Ekugbeh(m): 9:13pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
mine is older than me, so what. And if you see the way I command respect ehn. You would think I'm here elder by far 5 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by JASONjnr(m): 9:32pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Asour: You're a kid and you actually don't even know anything.... I didn't advice him to go for young and stubborn kids of your thinking class.... La Kirkman: Asour: You're a kid and you actually don't even know anything.... I didn't advice him to go for young and stubborn kids of your thinking class.... 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by GentlePEACE: 9:42pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234: She is a wise woman. Relationships are best kept between two lovers, don't make your r/ship a public affair or else people will be the ones to scatter before u know it. You are telling people just to get their opinion if you don't know, she that decide to keep it secret knows best. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Iykman042(m): 9:45pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
op,dont marry woman who is older in age bcoz of menopause and fibroid,you will regret it, Cos fibroid normally attack womb of older woman making it impossible to get pregnant,including menopause 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Microwhy: 9:53pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:No doubt she's actually older than you and way above your level. Don't expect her to treat you any special after the marriage despite the age difference. Stop behaving like a baby and learn to be mature. No matter your age, if you're fresh from NYSC, you're still very immature. Unfortunately you meet a older lady and want to settle down sharply after NYSC. My guy, don't tell us about love when you still courting. Marriage is far more more and more entails many things than just love. Please watch out , after your marriage, the more you fvcked-up, the more she will double her husle and after two kid, she can dump your ass. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by superCleanworks(m): 9:54pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234: There is NOTHING wrong in your dating. the shocker is that you are proud of her when the world is shaming her while she is ashamed of you and not even cautious to keep her mouth shut about it. She even called you underage? She is so bothered about age when it should be the other way around. Marry this one and be forever on guard about age issues and her insecurity and lack of confidence for a life time. Especially as she has voiced it out. Leave her right away and ignore any plea for reconciliation because she will serve you mad breakfast and use these same words as her reason and excuse. Her words are clear evidence that she would not even be with you if the roles were to be reversed. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Asour: 10:10pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
JASONjnr: Hahahaha. That's literally what you did. Advising him to Always go for younger ladies. You used the word 'always'. I'm just correcting you to say that Younger doesn't ((always)) mean you have control. Cheers. 1 Like
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Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by JASONjnr(m): 10:31pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Asour: Olodo.... So if he's 35 and he goes for a girl that's 30yo... then that's going for younger girls? A 30yo girl is younger? 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BigIyanga: 10:33pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
If she’s fussing about this.. be ready about more emotional blackmail from her. Even if you tell ur family (you should be honest with ur family… if they ask… to avoid any mistrust).. what she should be worried about is that you’re OK with her being older than you. Make sure you know her exact age since she’s already getting uncomfortable about age but doesnt uncomfortable undressing and knacking u.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Ntipia: 10:37pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Never marry a woman that is older than you. She will always see you as her younger brother. She might treat you well but she will always do things you don't like and expect you to understand. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BigIyanga: 10:39pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:Who is paying most of the bill? You or her? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by seunmind44: 10:40pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Marriage is for kids, baby mama is for adults 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by seunmind44: 10:41pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Ntipia:Mynd44 come and see chomtin 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Cravemore: 10:44pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
nowornever2016:WHAT If WE ALL Love each other? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Asour: 10:44pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
JASONjnr: Well Yes. A 30 YO. is younger to a 35 YO. Is a 30 YO older to a 35 YO? 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by bekpo(m): 10:52pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:y U r nothing but a simp, u aint matured in character 2 settle down with her, she just discovered that. What brought abt ur personal marital issue with d arguments with ur frns? Why will u had 2 discuss her in public? Get matured b4 u settle down. Apologize 2 her n promise never 2 discuss ur personal marital issues with anyone anymore. Goodluck! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Shugargal(f): 11:00pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
VlamesIffect:I'm confused �, Your name says female. Or is your write up the other way round? 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Shugargal(f): 11:08pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:She's older than you is enough, You don't need to tell her age for your friends to know she's older. Learn from this, but I wonder what will give me room to have this kinda discussion with my friends about my girlfriend. Guy just admit you made that mistake by allowing that kind discussion at the first place. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BigIyanga: 11:19pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Shugargal:Guys ask that type of question and it’s no biggie.. Same way women ask what a guy does.. where he works.. what type of car he drives… The fact she’s so miffed about him entertaining that question is a big sign of what type of emotional blackmail coming his way.. Be ready for constant accusation of ageism…if you lie to ur family and friends… be ready to bottle it all up when she starts accusing u of ageism… She’s got the emotional baggage not you.. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BigIyanga: 11:38pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Shugargal:You just sound like my ex who wanted to guilt trip into commitment because her ex had ‘wasted’ her time. I just told that I was not a party to thatbrelationship.. and she should reset everything to ZERO with me. It was an uncomfortable and honest truth. |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Elporo(m): 11:52pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by olamoses75(m): 12:10am On Aug 31, 2022 |
Why are you always going into arguments about a lady older than her spouse if you’re not feeling insecure in the first place? You’re the one that has problem, not her. And the earlier you work on that, the better. Someone who lives in a glass house don’t play with stones. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Lekan239(m): 12:18am On Aug 31, 2022 |
Gosh234:leave her and move forward.. I have my reason y I said so, if you would like to hear, PM me 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BluntCrazeMan: 2:35am On Aug 31, 2022 |
Gosh234:You have lost interest baa?? Then drop her and move on. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by chiwex(m): 5:56am On Aug 31, 2022 |
She is smarter than you and indirectly manipulating your emotions to know whether you are still with her. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 6:35am On Aug 31, 2022 |
ednut1:Ask me my brother, I have taken my time to know that only ladies attack over this, tomorrow now same people will say "you are not proud of me" 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 6:37am On Aug 31, 2022 |
Konjiboii:Thanks , everything is back to normal She seems to understand better, but when such is asked, what do I say? It will always come because I am still young |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 6:38am On Aug 31, 2022 |
OhiOfIhima:Tomorrow will be "you are not proud of me,I can't predict either, I have apologised, everywhere good now" 1 Like |
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