| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by atinga1: 6:04pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
That lady is desperate, it's the only reason why she's still with you.
A woman who loves you won't get mad, just because you talked about her age with friends. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by We4all: 6:04pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
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| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by kissdreyalltime: 6:05pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Age has nothing with relationships
What’s matter most is understanding... 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Nobody: 6:06pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
SUPERPACK:
If love is blind, marriage is an eye opener. my brother as Ndi German I have to say it already shows you have marry your principal …  3 Likes |
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| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Asour: 6:07pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Wow. You're operating outside the norms. But you're expecting to have 'normal' experiences. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by bdon123(m): 6:09pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh My spouse is older than me even though its difficult to notice.We hav been married for 7yrs wit a kid. Wen i ask her to o jump,her reply is how high. Only u know wat u need...even ur parents dont deserve any explanation as its ur life nt theirs. 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Cutehector(m): 6:09pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Woman will give you issues. Stay away from emotionally unstable women. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Asour: 6:10pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
JASONjnr:
Good for you...
[b]Always go for ladies you're far older than... Say 5 to 6yrs older than..
That way, you will be in control [/b]of the relationship and not give a 2oman the chance to always talk down on you because she will always see herself as someone that you should be calling aunty... Stop thinking linearly. There many young & stubborn ones around today. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Honestfrend: 6:11pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh I believe age has a lot to do with relationships because as a man wen u grow old u will someone to take care of u.. But if ur wife is older than u it will be difficult because u know women old faster than men.. But I respect u decision though. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by ednut1(m): 6:11pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
So on her birthday una go still hide her age  2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by OneCandleAway(f): 6:17pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Honestfrend:
I believe age has a lot to do with relationships because as a man wen u grow old u will someone to take care of u.. But if ur wife is older than u it will be difficult because u know women old faster than men.. But I respect u decision though. Not all women age faster. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Konjiboii: 6:17pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
She wants to guilt trip you so you will be the one acting desperate to marry. Alaye there's nothing wrong with what you did. If she insist of ending it then play along.
Na she go still come beg.
Grow some nuts 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by OhiOfIhima: 6:19pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
You shouldn't have discussed it with her that you have such discussion with colleagues. No matter d age difference, let it just btw you guys, in presence of others, you're the oldest. Well, women doesn't like discussing of the age tin, even though you senior her...
I was marveled to her outburst Sha... She should have understand and matured more in her utterance. Woman Sha, no one can predict them. Just apologies n let it slide. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Martinez39s(m): 6:20pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
SUPERPACK:
If love is blind, marriage is an eye opener.  1 Like |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Martinez39s(m): 6:21pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Say "NO" to older women.  You can do better. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Slydan204: 6:22pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Sometimes certain things need 2 b left untold. esp ur private life. Where were all ths pple wen u were wooing ur hearthrob? U nd her always, its ur choice. Allow no damn nigger 2 choose 4 u 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Obidient4life3: 6:23pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Oga you did nothing wrong! That lady doesn't love you simple! 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by McCoy662(m): 6:23pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Just STFU bro. The age thing is a very sensitive matter. Men must always be men and somehow they will always talk about it. The young lady feels like she has no option again and that's why she settles with a kid. If u are a man enough just shut up.
Would u be making reference to age whenever u want to reaffirm ur love for her if the reverse was the case? Like "even know I'm older than u, i would still love you with all my heart?" 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Nzeh12(m): 6:25pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Naturally, women dont feel comfortable with you telling people about this, they just want it to be between you 2. My wife is older by 2 years and some months, my parents know but didnt like it at first till they met her. My parents now tell people age doesn't really matter. No body in her family knows tho. She wasn't comfortable at first, but I knew what I wanted and convinced her that it wasn't an issue to me, she just had to make sure it wasnt an issue to her. We both agreed that the age thing will not be a factor in the marriage, and today we have been able to manage it and it has never been an issue. Discuss it and know you're ready, no matter the outcome. She might age faster than you, can you accommodate that? If she isn't the submissive type, then she might use the age against you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by VicOlawo: 6:29pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
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May God bless you abundantly as you consider helping me. |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Richieniit: 6:30pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Oga you talk too much.. that's ur problem. If you're ok with the idea of marrying someone older than you then good for you cos i am also ok with such notion but the idea of mentioning to ppl or giving them insight that ur woman is older than you tells a lot abt you. Shut ur mouth up! She's a woman so i understand her response an anger. Somethings are meant to be kept private and quiet 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Oceanjagaban: 6:34pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
It's better to date someone who is your senior than to date an underaged 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Prechgold1180(m): 6:34pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Chairman it’s because you are still struggling in life Them nur born her well to reject person wey Dey well to do Age is nothing If u Dey watch zee world go watch vetica 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by baretalk: 6:35pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Not everything you tell a woman. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Maconstruct(m): 6:42pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Use sweeter words in formatting and massaging her brain into giving into yr ideas while hyping her when nxt yr 1 on 1 with her.
If it is working yu will see it.
Otherwise, japa. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by vanhelsing1(m): 6:42pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
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M dear brother...She is naturally a disrespectful person....leave talk
I could somewhat agree with this statement, but I have a question. Isn't this going to be a recurring issue that keeps coming up?.
I tried to date someone older than me with a year, I can genuinely say she loved me because of the evidences I saw but omo the disrespect no be here oh. It was clear cut that she couldn't bring herself to respect someone younger.
I have asked women this questions offline too and the answer I get is that they cannot see themselves respecting a younger man. |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by gabicon: 6:45pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh I think you are hiding under your shadow, the age difference bothers you but you continually justify it in your head. And clearly it bothers the lady also. You guys need to revaluate your relationship and decided if age difference is a problem in the relationship because wether you like it or not, the subject is going to come up from time to time the outcome of that conversation will depend on how comfortable you are with the whole thing. 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by phemmyfour: 6:45pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)
I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)
Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell
b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends
c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already
d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again
NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older
b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap
My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly
I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh Your problem is that you talk too much. No guarantee that you won't spill it in the nearest future again. People like you say what you don't need to say just to win an argument. Many NL are like that and they LL will still quote me to justify my point 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Akuruoulo(m): 6:46pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
I don't like reading simps write-up 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Daughterboard(m): 6:47pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Age is very important in human relationships. The question of one's age will always pop up. If you can't discuss her then you don't belong there. Don't fvck with Biology. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by BigYash: 6:49pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
This op sef. The God that you serve is saving you from destruction, you're there speaking grammar. Make sure you run to church first thing Sunday morning to do Thanksgiving. 2 Likes |
