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Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Chaos14: 3:21pm On Aug 31, 2022
satandeterrible:
100% Factual.
I go soon catch this guy scam update his about to get his info
cc:beanmanx
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by BeanmanX(m): 3:28pm On Aug 31, 2022
Chaos14:
I go soon catch this guy scam update his about to get his info
cc:bean..manx
Make sure he gets all his details ASAP,,,,,,
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Hayee(f): 3:41pm On Aug 31, 2022
Miravik900:
Have hope dear wink I can feel your pain
No pain to feel here it's just the bitter truth

Or can you prove to me that your mum or grandmum married as a virgin grin grin cheesy tongue
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Miravik900(m): 4:25pm On Aug 31, 2022
Hayee:
No pain to feel here it's just the bitter truth

Or can you prove to me that your mum or grandmum married as a virgin grin grin cheesy tongue
Of course, not like your foolish mum who was a hoe grin but your dad since he is a simp decided to tie the knot without paying her bride price
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Talk2nanro(m): 4:57pm On Aug 31, 2022
Rainbow10:
Redpillers abeg back me up oooo grin grin grin
you are completely right, fools will not see the wisdom in what you wrote.
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Great0ne1: 5:59pm On Aug 31, 2022
Are you a virgin ? Nonsense
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Hayee(f): 6:01pm On Aug 31, 2022
Miravik900:
Of course, not like your foolish mum who was a hoe grin but your dad since he is a simp decided to tie the knot without paying her bride price
if my mum is a hoe I cannot judge her, it's her life to live cheesy cheesy cheesy grin tongue
I cannot expect standards from other people when I myself is not a hypocrite grin cheesy cheesy

So is there any proof you mother was a virgin before marrying your so called father cheesy cheesy tongue

If not you don't have any right to dictate how ladies should use there toto cheesy grin grin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Miravik900(m): 6:07pm On Aug 31, 2022
Hayee:
if my mum is a hoe I cannot judge her, it's her life to live cheesy cheesy cheesy grin tongue
I cannot expect standards from other people when I myself is not a hypocrite grin cheesy cheesy

So is there any proof you mother was a virgin before marrying your so called father cheesy cheesy tongue

If not you don't have any right to dictate how ladies should use there toto cheesy grin grin
Sorry ya grin is your toto my sister slay it as you like
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Hayee(f): 6:11pm On Aug 31, 2022
Miravik900:
Sorry ya grin is your toto my sister slay it as you like
yes poop
I slay it as I like cheesy grin grin tongue
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Miravik900(m): 6:16pm On Aug 31, 2022
Hayee:
yes poop
I slay it as I like cheesy grin grin tongue
What's your body count hunny care to tell? embarassed
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 8:52pm On Aug 31, 2022
ibkonekt:
NO, virginity standard only applies to women
No I don't agree
It suppose to be for both gender grin grin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2022
Sweetvie:
No I don't agree
It suppose to be for both gender grin grin
It's not a i dont agree kind of statement. Its reality. Take it or leave it.
The world is full of double standards few favour men majority favour women. There is nothing you can do about natural double standards
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 8:53am On Sep 01, 2022
ibkonekt:
It's not a i dont agree kind of statement. Its reality. Take it or leave it.
The world is full of double standards few favour men majority favour women. There is nothing you can do about natural double standards
Lol... M not convince yet but I just take it like that.
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 4:37pm On Sep 01, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... M not convince yet but I just take it like that.
Okay. Its not an lol thing. I am not cracking jokes, i also aint trying to convince you. I am just stating facts that God, the bible, the quran and all religious books states, what our forefathers stated and did.
A wh0re is to be cast aside, used only for fun but never near a home or wifely duties. Only weak men take that vomit in their homes because they cannot get access to sex anywhere else.
While a man that can do this is rare and valuable to most women
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 11:07pm On Sep 01, 2022
ibkonekt:
Okay. Its not an lol thing. I am not cracking jokes, i also aint trying to convince you. I am just stating facts that God, the bible, the quran and all religious books states, what our forefathers stated and did.
A wh0re is to be cast aside, used only for fun but never near a home or wifely duties. Only weak men take that vomit in their homes because they cannot get access to sex anywhere else.
While a man that can do this is rare and valuable to most women
Smile... The lol ain't for u it just my expression at that moment so don't stress.
Fact? So you mean to tell me it's written in the bible, quran n other books that a man can wh0re around? A woman can't do the same? That's was 2000 yrs back. Now, you wh0re around your woman will do the same tit for tat smiley Don't persuade urself with some old silly scripture ok
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Lamanii22(f): 1:02am On Sep 02, 2022
siofra:
True!

God strike any non virgin man dead at the altar.
grin grin grin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by efficiencie(m): 2:09am On Sep 02, 2022
Spider20:
Lol
Am in support of these
I can't take a wide pussy to the altar
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by efficiencie(m): 2:15am On Sep 02, 2022
virginprincess:
This should better go both ways and not limited to one gender.
Only one gender has a hymen, a biological certificate of vaginal virginity. So this post is about women alone. I will not eat the leftover of another man. God forbid. As I met my wife so will my sons meet their wives and so will my son-in-laws meet my daughters. There is no room of universal donor hoes in my bloodline. No room!
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 3:06am On Sep 02, 2022
Sweetvie:
Smile... The lol ain't for u it just my expression at that moment so don't stress.
Fact? So you mean to tell me it's written in the bible, quran n other books that a man can wh0re around? A woman can't do the same? That's was 2000 yrs back. Now, you wh0re around your woman will do the same tit for tat smiley Don't persuade urself with some old silly scripture ok
Well read your bible , men had multiple wives and concubines. Women were stoned to death for such. A woman cant do the same , one of the many reasons is that she has a high tendency to birth a bastard child. If the so called my woman chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman anymore. You cant control a womans action however you can control the relationship status. The important thing is for the man to be the type of man that is valuable in society so if she decides to be a wh0re, just replace her with a virgin that has good character. Women of today are fighting for the right to be wh0res...i never see...na wah
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 11:38am On Sep 02, 2022
ibkonekt:
Well read your bible , men had multiple wives and concubines. Women were stoned to death for such. A woman cant do the same , one of the many reasons is that she has a high tendency to birth a bastard child. If the so called my woman chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman anymore. You cant control a womans action however you can control the relationship status. The important thing is for the man to be the type of man that is valuable in society so if she decides to be a wh0re, just replace her with a virgin that has good character. Women of today are fighting for the right to be wh0res...i never see...na wah
M not disputing that it not in the bible i said that was 2000yrs ago guy not now
Go marry 100 wives and try to live comfortably like it was then okay... We're in 21st now ok things are different... Don't be referring to something u didn't even experience. Now you wh0re around your wife do the same... who do you want to give disease? las las divorce go follow, nothing like divorce back then, then all the unmarried girls are virgin but now? Lol.
Don't get marry now and say you're looking for a virgin ok come back and tell me how many years u wait for smiley
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by ibkonekt(m): 2:53am On Sep 03, 2022
Sweetvie:
M not disputing that it not in the bible i said that was 2000yrs ago guy not now
Go marry 100 wives and try to live comfortably like it was then okay... We're in 21st now ok things are different... Don't be referring to something u didn't even experience. Now you wh0re around your wife do the same... who do you want to give disease? las las divorce go follow, nothing like divorce back then, then all the unmarried girls are virgin but now? Lol.
Don't get marry now and say you're looking for a virgin ok come back and tell me how many years u wait for smiley
This is feminism at its finest talking. No man will marry 100 wives today because women of today have proven themselves to be parasytes rather than a helpmate, to marry even 1 is a challenge because almost all have been used and dumped and vomited, does that mean i should select from the vomit...maybe ...maybe not...but my answer is no as at now. Wh0res are only good for playtime.
Like i said b4 if a woman that i am with chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman....another man can have her.
Divorce..lol men of today have studied the divorce rate women initiate 80% of divorce according to american data and stats. The stats increase much more the higher the body count accoding to stats. Only a fool will sign a legal document binding himself with a woman and the govt when she cannot even keep her legs closed. So marriage with wh0res is a no go
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 7:48am On Sep 03, 2022
ibkonekt:
This is feminism at its finest talking. No man will marry 100 wives today because women of today have proven themselves to be parasytes rather than a helpmate, to marry even 1 is a challenge because almost all have been used and dumped and vomited, does that mean i should select from the vomit...maybe ...maybe not...but my answer is no as at now. Wh0res are only good for playtime.
Like i said b4 if a woman that i am with chooses to wh0re around she wont be my woman....another man can have her.
Divorce..lol men of today have studied the divorce rate women initiate 80% of divorce according to american data and stats. The stats increase much more the higher the body count accoding to stats. Only a fool will sign a legal document binding himself with a woman and the govt when she cannot even keep her legs closed. So marriage with wh0res is a no go
Lol... U did make sense actually
But how will you know the girl you're going to marry is a virgin? Are you going to be checking? lol
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by InfinityFabric: 7:51am On Sep 03, 2022
Thonia69:
Why?
Because it's the equivalent of saying: If you can't take care of a woman, you have no business being at the altar.

Men and women are different. Men build their value, women are born with value (which they should preserve).
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by InfinityFabric: 7:55am On Sep 03, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... U did make sense actually
But how will you know the girl you're going to marry is a virgin? Are you going to be checking? lol
Virgins have never asked this questions, only used women ask this.
Very telling.

Don't worry, everyone knows the different between a well and needle hole.
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 7:56am On Sep 03, 2022
InfinityFabric:
Virgins have never asked this questions, only used women ask this.
Very telling.

Don't worry, everyone knows the different between a well and needle hole.
Lmao... Oh, u think?
I hear o coz dem dey write am for face grin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by InfinityFabric: 11:06am On Sep 03, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lmao... Oh, u think?
I hear o coz dem dey write am for face grin
Again, virgin don't give excuses.
We know the same way our grandfathers knew.
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by LadyD22(f): 11:29am On Sep 03, 2022
ibkonekt:
women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gate keepers of marriage and commitment. we each set the standards here.

a man will try to bed a woman and the woman has to resist or tell him to marry her before he gets sex. This way she can keep her virginity until marriage…simple.
The difference between a man and woman sleeping around is this

Man: a man has to work and put in a lot of effort to get a girl to have sex with him. He must be tall, fine, intelligent, sleek with words, make her laugh, buy her stuffs, appear rich, appear confident….a whole lot of things all to get a girl to give him sex

Woman: a woman has to take a bath and just stand there and look pretty.

I hope you can see the reason why men are praised and women are shamed.
If as a man I could just open my d1ck and women would be begging me to give me BJ and please me sexually then men would be shamed because it is EASY….
WOMEN ARE SHAMED FOR FVCKING AROUND BECAUSE IT IS EASY FOR THEM…..THE HARD THING FOR WOMEN TO DO IS TO RESIST….WHILE THE REVERSE IS THE CASE FOR MEN IT IS EASY TO RESIST SEX AND HARD TO GET SEX (FOR MEN). THE ONLY THING YOU CAN RIGHTLY SHAME A MAN FOR IS THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE MONEY. IN ESSENCE MEN ARE VALUED FOR RESOURCES AND WOMEN ARE VALUED FOR FERTILITY
What is this one saying?
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by LadyD22(f): 11:46am On Sep 03, 2022
RedpillAnalyst:
@satandeterrible and ibkonekt hammered the issue well.

The fallacy of false equivalency. No sane argument can ever be made whenever people equate men with women.

man =/= woman.

A match for a virgin woman is a rich man => ( Ned Nwoke and Regina Daniels)

Quite frankly nobody has respect for an adult man who is still a virgin. Women are highly repulsed down to their DNA by male virgins.

Guys! Don't let society and these succubi mislead you. If you are a man you have above 75% chance of nasty divorce if you marry a non-virgin. The Stats are out there.

Marrying a virgin does not mean perfect marriage, but it cuts a whole whole lot of BuulSheet right off the bat.

1) Some old leaked nudes of your wife. Can you walk up tall and contest for governorship or presidency if your wife's private anatomy is on everybody's phone? Your opponent has campaign material right there?

2) Ex crawling back and still smashing and at times threatening or blackmailing the wife for cash if husband is wealthy. Just imagine your bang mate back in school was either Tinubu's wife or Peter Obi's wife. This a retirement plan if.....(Just think about,,,,)

3) STDs and womb imprinting.

4) Sexual dissatisfaction as a result of desensitization from a series of random instruments in your wife,

5) Trust issue right off the bat knowing your wife had part of her life she will never reveal to you.

Non-Virgins Women and Unaccomplished Men, Have No Business Being At The Altar
I have dated a male virgin , and many people have , it actually makes you curious and puts you on your toes because now you don't want to share him , worse part was he was a handsome fine tall man , smart and kind , you probably do not believe it , I didn't get to be his first coz we broke up ( embarassed)

I am looking for another virgin , I want to use my hands and spoil him , I understand men small but they're just so petty with it , like they are entitled to it , when they're not , when anyone asked me that stupid question in the past

"are you a virgin ?"

Yes I was but it's very irritating to say yes or no , coz I immediately know the kind of person I'm talking to ,
When I felt comfortable with someone I tell them myself and sometimes they ask indirectly, politely and I get the hint , "you look very innocent with these your baby face "

Then I can say " yes I've done this and I've done that"

But because Nigerian men lack conversational skills , they interrogate you and demand to know
and when you start losing vibe to answer

"aha! Come my brothers for I have caught myself a prostitute and a witch "

and most questions only need a yes or a no and you? and then they say Nigerian women are too proud , I asked if she has eaten for the 100th time today and she got angry
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 7:54pm On Sep 03, 2022
InfinityFabric:
Again, virgin don't give excuses.
We know the same way our grandfathers knew.
Lol... Our grandfathers asked ifa (Oracle). Forget man
Wat will be will be... Just pray for good wife that's what matters
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by InfinityFabric: 8:04pm On Sep 03, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... Our grandfathers asked ifa (Oracle). Forget man
Wat will be will be... Just pray for good wife that's what matters
Mine were not idolators tho, speak for yourself. And it's not only in Nigeria is where virgins were and is married.

Wat will be will be... Just pray for good wife that's what matters
So being a virgin is not part of good wife ? No matter "good" you're a being a virgin just give the other girl a tad above you.
As if virgins are just bad at being "wives".
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 8:10pm On Sep 03, 2022
InfinityFabric:
Mine were not idolators tho, speak for yourself. And it's not only in Nigeria is where virgins were and is married.
U don't get me... What av been trying to say it that, yeah everyone want to marry a virgin no one want used product ok but the thing is how will u know this product is not used unless you test it? And a product that can easily be put down for u to test i doubt it if the product is new unless you're ready to buy it... U get me? M not saying u shouldn't marry a virgin
Re: If You Aren't A Virgin, You Have No Business Being At The Altar by Sweetvie: 8:15pm On Sep 03, 2022
InfinityFabric:
Mine were not idolators tho, speak for yourself. And it's not only in Nigeria is where virgins were and is married.


So being a virgin is not part of good wife ? No matter "good" you're a being a virgin just give the other girl a tad above you.
As if virgins are just bad at being "wives".
Lol... Being a virgin is one of the best qualification a lady would ever have. It the qualification of good girl, good upbringing, good marriage partner but it not the most important part in marriage bruh if you understand wat i mean smiley
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