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Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by bepositive11: 3:39pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Erums: That's not really the case here. The guy worked for years and didn't get promoted, but then he thought of helping his friend, and his friend ended up achieving when he couldn't achieve while having the same qualifications. Of course he has reasons to feel he was treated unfairly. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by bepositive11: 3:43pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
It depends on your skills. This shows you that you're being underpaid. One thing you could do is apply for new jobs at a higher level. If you succeed, leave the company. UYEMDO35: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by ibinaboonline: 3:54pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Don't mind those condemning you for the way you feel. You're human and your feelings are valid. It's natural and doesn't make you evil. However, also consider that your friend didn't plan from the onset to put you in this situation. So, try to handle it with maturity and wisdom. Don't complain to your boss. It's not a very wise move at the moment because it'd be apparent. Things like this usually have a way of resolving themselves. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by lomprico(m): 3:59pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: Go and meet your boss like you said and stop being jealous of your friend. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by cybriz82(m): 4:08pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: Go drink hypo to flush out d blood of jealousy in u....no b better person u be ..u shud be happy for ur frnd n stop d beefing..na God dey lift man up no b by power...if u continue hating on him like this I swear u will go no where in life .. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 4:24pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
cybriz82:Noted! It seems u already know what is in my mind. Though! I no jealous ham, but the policy wey e come up with is not fair. I know he intentionally come up with that becuz of me. At least he would have discuss it with me before announcing it generally. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 4:28pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
lomprico:Am not jealous, am not satisfied with the policy e came up with and I know he purposely announced it generally because of me. At least he would have informed me before making it openly. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 4:33pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
his friend had a low paying job and he decided to help. LESSON: DON'T look at another man's WIFE. mind your own or mind your business! bepositive11: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:33pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35:Don't go or else u get fired |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 4:34pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
what is this policy? is it meant to push you out of the company? i know someone that was pushed out by another friend that became his boss because he was irresponsible! UYEMDO35: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Microwhy: 4:40pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35:Congratulate him and joke with the rear opportunity he had. Ask jokingly about which soap he used and stuffs, also tell him that 5% of his salary must surely land in your account. Let both of you have a good laugh. What you've done are; -You showed how happy and proud you're for bringing someone close to you and having a extremely positive result. -As for the salary, you agree with him that he's taking far more and you're super cool with it. -After a little while, confide in him that you need to speak to the management about your pay, hear what he's going to say as a good friend. NB: please take some time before asking for a raise. For sure, go demand a raise. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 4:44pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
ibinaboonline:Thanks for understanding sir, and dis is what am even expecting to hear right now. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by BeigJawnson(m): 4:44pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bigdammyj: chai simple english be like chinese for your eyes... na wa ooo. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Kyaptein(m): 4:45pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: THE TRUE MEASURE OF SUCCESS IS BY HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU BLESS. Don't regret your goodness. Your friend through you came there for a reason. That reason is for your good. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 4:46pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Microwhy:Thanks for your understanding sir, I really appreciate your advise. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by doneback04: 4:49pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Calm down first, don't go now because it friend just got the job, it will sound like it because they employ someone new that why u are coming, wait a while before the year runs out you can now make a move |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by bepositive11: 4:49pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
frog12: What does wife have to do with this? You're assuming the friend is a woman? I thought it was a guy. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Leah32: 4:54pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
SensualMan: U need SENSULIN & paracetamol, you are suffering from hallucinations which can leads to madness here on the street. GET WELL SOON BRO . I feel for you |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 5:05pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
when that him friend sack am, we go know who is BLESSED and who is CURSED next time, leave the guy for him low-paying job. Kyaptein: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 5:08pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
it's a good analogy. think of it, your friend get wife, and you wan take the wife join your own. then wahala start, you no go regret you no touch the woman? na so oo.. the man get low-paying job, but you come give am work for your company and dem promote am over you. What does that tell you he fit get sack from this friend. bepositive11: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 5:12pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
frog12:Bro! The thing is kind of complicated... We do make fun of ourselves that if any of us become a boss of any firm d other will be treated unfairly. And from what am seeing it seems he's trying to belittle me. Am kicking against the policy because it will affect me somehow. he talked about time factor, dressing code and alot which am not please with. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 5:15pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
doneback04:Noted!Sir. I really appreciate ur advise. |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 5:32pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
hahahahahah the reason the other guy was kicked out was because of pleasing. your friend wants to please the owners that he knows his work. he is newly hired. to do that he wan act professional. he wants to show them that he will not tolerate lateness to work, and he wants everyone to look professional. he will discipline you or even drive you out of the company if you violate the policy. no be your company! if e no do am, na him go get sack! the LESSON here is: you should leave the low-paying guy alone for him old job. don't stir the crocodile water UYEMDO35: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by bepositive11: 5:39pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
frog12: Go and read OP's post again. It's a guy. You must be worried about a man stealing your wife through work |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by frog12: 5:41pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
you don drink too much palm wine this afternoon ?? bepositive11: |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Tgb1: 5:43pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by SecretReporter(f): 5:49pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Juicethekid:it's common in hospitality working environment |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by SecretReporter(f): 5:50pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Always interview ur friends before letting them in |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Seunspyder(m): 6:04pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: My advice is for you to QUIT the job |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by stevups(m): 6:07pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bigdammyj:It's possible |
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by stevups(m): 6:09pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Alitair:This Op attitude makes it practically impossible for friends to assist their guys to get job where they work. |
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