wowcatty:
None of you can ever be me, you are too selfish for that. This is a public board and anything here will be discussed, if you don't like it, you keep your issues private. Also she can't ask me to go and take care of the child, all she has control over is what she has done taking herself out of there so the bio mom can get together with the dad to sort out their child.

Nobody wants to be like you. You are too judgemental. As the unselfish saint that you are, why judge and criticize her?

You can't be like me even if you try.
Where did I criticize her? I only responded to the evil cult on the thread saying nasty things to me.

ireneidiva:

Nobody wants to be like you. You are too judgemental. As the unselfish saint that you are, why judge and criticize her?

Nozino:



Idiot. Did she ask for your help? If she needs a lawyer, she’d get one. She’s not one of those your dumb sisters.

Mumu that has google but open your maggot infested mouth to say cerebral palsy and autism are the same!!! Stupid people like you are trying to blackmail OP with religion on a subject matter you know nothing of. God punish you 10 times.

Jeez!!! I'm just seeing this.. You said all of that to me when my post has nothing to do with you?? Simply because I posted an opinion??

I'm surprised there are still children like you who constantly showcase a full blown failed parental upbringing.

Let me make it clear to you, I studied Engineering, the society would not crucify me for committing some blunder in medical field and I can be pardoned. But the entire World would curse your parents every time you openly display this mannerless attitude.

How can you freely open your mouth to say anything to people.. People whose exposure is enough to crush your entire miserable life.

You better learn to respect people so that your days can be long on Earth.

In case you dont know, I'm old enough to born you. Just accord me same respect you give to your failed parents that's if you sometimes respect them at all..

Take this from me, 'the day you would meet your helper, this your attitude would work against you and it will be too late for you..'

God forsaken child..

surgevessel:


Jeez!!! I'm just seeing this.. You said all of that to me when my post has nothing to do with you?? Simply because I posted an opinion??

I'm surprised there are still children like you who constantly showcase a full blown failed parental upbringing.

Let me make it clear to you, I studied Engineering, the society would not crucify me for committing some blunder in medical field and I can be pardoned. But the entire World would curse your parents every time you openly display this mannerless attitude.

How can you freely open your mouth to say anything to people.. People whose exposure is enough to crush your entire miserable life.

You better learn to respect people so that your days can be long on Earth.

In case you dont know, I'm old enough to born you. Just accord me same respect you give to your failed parents that's if you sometimes respect them at all..

Take this from me, 'the day you would meet your helper, this your attitude would work against you and it will be too late for you..'

God forsaken child..

I read Engineering too. Giving advice on a subject matter that you have no idea on shows how stupid you’re. Your attempt to justify your cheap religious blackmail is laughable.

Save your advice for your children. They need it more.

Nozino:



I read Engineering too. Giving advice on a subject matter that you have no idea on shows how stupid you’re. Your attempt to justify your cheap religious blackmail is laughable.

Save your advice for your children. They need it more.

I checked, you are a Corper seeking PPA as at November last year. HND older. You are still finding your feet in engineering career.

I started practising 2007. Trevi Foundation Trans Amadi, Port Harcourt.

If you dont stop this attitude, your chances of success in life will be very slim if not impossible.

To be successful in life, it is 60% attitude, 20% technical-know-how, 10% connection and 10% prayer.


Your attitude will work against you the day you least expected, and it will be too late for you.

Go and write it somewhere..

surgevessel:


I checked, you are a Corper seeking PPA as at November last year. HND older. You are still finding your feet in engineering career.

I started practising 2007. Trevi Foundation Trans Amadi, Port Harcourt.

If you dont stop this attitude, your chances of success in life will be very slim if not impossible.

To be successful in life, it is 60% attitude, 20% technical-know-how, 10% connection and 10% prayer.


Your attitude will work against you the day you least expected, and it will be too late for you.

Go and write it somewhere..

Like I said , keep the lessons for your kids. You’ve learnt something from me. if you don’t know much about a subject matter, rest! Don’t go about sharing wrong information especially when it comes to sensitive topics.

kollinz1234:
ok. I hope you will be happy when your children ends up as 'successful' as you.

Only a wizard will want to limit his kids to remain in his level. I pray my kids go higher than me in a billion folds.
Honestly I don forget this our squabble since. Pkele here is my olive branch.

backnbeta:

There are some NGOs taking care of PWD, you and your husband should shop for one around you. If you live in Ibadan, I know of Jesus Kids Academy for children with Autism. I understand it's not your problem, really...but you can still help her find a home. Best of luck.

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I can't imagine what u are going through
This is very wicked of the man
I wld advise u don't leave ur marriage
Every marriage has test and this is one of it
Two solutions

H0711:



I am in the village. He is in abuja

What a courageous woman you are. Though I never supported your decision initially but I soon realise this is the right thing to do at this fragile state you are. Taking care of a child with special disability involve serious commitment from both parents. I wish you safe delivery as you will soon become a mother.

However, I will advice you keep in touch with your husband. If eventually he make provision on how to care for the baby, then you can move back to your marriage. God help you.

Nozino:



Like I said , keep the lessons for your kids. You’ve learnt something from me. if you don’t know much about a subject matter, rest! Don’t go about sharing wrong information especially when it comes to sensitive topics.

you should learn.

Orgymy:


What a courageous woman you are. Though I never supported your decision initially but I soon realise this is the right thing to do at this fragile state you are. Taking care of a child with special disability involve serious commitment from both parents. I wish you safe delivery as you will soon become a mother.

However, I will advice you keep in touch with your husband. If eventually he make provision on how to care for the baby, then you can move back to your marriage. God help you.

Thank you so much my baby is 2 weeks 4 days

H0711:



Thank you so much my baby is 2 weeks 4 days

congratulations dear. God bless you and the baby.

Congratulations God is faithful

Very big congratulations to u

H0711:



Thank you so much my baby is 2 weeks 4 days

Congrats sweetheart.

H0711:



Thank you so much my baby is 2 weeks 4 days

Congratulations!! God will continue to be with you.

Akerele44:
Want to know what other people would do in ur situation


May God almighty not let's us be in ur situation

It's a curse

pls where is your Akerele's from? Ekiti? ... Will like to know you 08079302332

truthhurts2:
pls where is your Akerele's from? Ekiti? ... Will like to know you 08079302332

I search ur number in WhatsApp...not on WhatsApp

Not explanation on nairaland

U can also chat me up on WhatsApp
09032090847

From Lagos state Eti-Osa but what my Dad told us is that is grandpa dad is from Èkìtì i think Emure Ekiti...i think e also said from a royal family at emure ekiti

Akerele44:


I search ur number in WhatsApp...not on WhatsApp

Not explanation on nairaland

U can also chat me up on WhatsApp
09032090847

From Lagos state Eti-Osa but what my Dad told us is that is grandpa dad is from Èkìtì i think Emure Ekiti...i think e also said from a royal family at emure ekiti

One located, many more to go...

truthhurts2:
One located, many more to go...

please are you from emure EKITI?

Oshin56:
please are you from emure EKITI?

I am...

truthhurts2:
I am...

I'm from Emure. Zero 8 zero fifty8threefor02threetwo

Oshin56:
I'm from Emure. Zero 8 zero fifty8threefor02threetwo

08079302332...Pls what's your full name?

truthhurts2:
08079302332...Pls what's your full name?

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I PRAYED over this matter and I am spiritually led to tell her to leave that marriage because it is built on a foundation of lies and deceit.

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H0711:



Thank you so much my baby is 2 weeks 4 days

How are you doing now? How's your baby and the other girl??

H0711:


Thank you. He can't afford a maid and his younger sister has refused to come and help. I am also leaving next month.

How much will a maid cost ?

H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.

Lie lie bobo...eni tobawu kobe 10×...