I just want to ask ladies. Is it true that communicating daily with someone you love and respect breeds boredom, see finish or makes the interest go down? Or is it just bullshit she's using to cover her tracks?

Why you wan use communication finish somebody daughter?
This is one of the reasons i can't date a lady who live in a far distance.
How can i be living in Abeokuta and be dating a lady who live in Ebonyi state.
haba, God punish online platform
Op, forget about the lady and find a lady in your street to date.
IRMC

Elchapo212:
I didn't want to bring this here but a girl on my list posted a pic on her whatsApp and i know its prolly about me. So I met this other girl sometimes ago through an online platform. She's nice and all. I DM'd her and we connected through whatsApp and just clicked from there. She's all I really want in a partner ( I guess) Like in many ways. The feeling was mutual anyway as we were all over each other. The only thing is the distance (we are in different states) and she's kind of those restricted girls as she still lives with her parents and is still not done with schooling yet. So her coming over here or me going over to see her is out of the question for now. It's just calls, texting, video's for now. The problem with the settings is that she started acting up not quite long. We have been on this about a month and just recently she's mostly unavailable to chat or talk. This is someone that usually can't go a day without reaching out. Now she's saying things might get boring if we continue that way. I really do like the babe but i think she's not telling me the real truth. We always fight over this and some other related stuffs. Like why the sudden change? But she swears its nothing. Trusting what women say is like plucking out your eyes and closing your ears. So i rather watch their actions instead. LDR has never been my thing though but i am willing to make sacrifices for this particular one. Sometimes i try to end things and let her be free to do as she pleases but we end up in each others space before u know it. Now her recent actions and fights we have had has pushed me into the arms of another (who posted on her stat) who's closer, more flexible and urging to take things further but my heart is still with baby girl even though she's fvcking up things. I'm not seeking any advice on what to do. I already know.

I just want to ask ladies. Is it true that communicating daily with someone you love and respect breeds boredom, see finish or makes the interest go down? Or is it just bullshit she's using to cover her tracks?

Even this is too much communication

Constant communication that is leading nowhere is boredom bro.


I support the lady and would break up with you still if i were in her shoes.

thesicilian:

Even this is too much communication

Lol

Cutehector:
Constant communication that is leading nowhere is boredom bro.


I support the lady and would break up with you still if i were in her shoes.

Interesting. I wanted to get the female's perspective and by the way she has never said she wanted to breakup. I'm even the same one initiating break up but we can't seem to let go or leave each other. You sound very angry though. Chill

We like communications. But if it's boring, it's better you are told immediately else you ll end up fetching water in a basket.
For the sake of the love you v for her, try one last time to see her one on one. And if she declined, maintain your lane and let her know your stand. Relationship that ll work ll work after trying all efforts.

Hollybratt:
Why you wan use communication finish somebody daughter?
This is one of the reasons i can't date a lady who live in a far distance.
How can i be living in Abeokuta and be dating a lady who live in Ebonyi state .
haba, God punish online platform
Op, forget about the lady and find a lady in your street to date.
IRMC

Abi? What is IRMC ?

I think to an extent constant communications will be boring for LDR.

Like what would you guys be talking about for months online...........



I yield the balance of my time for those below

Sweetplum:
We like communications. But if it's boring, it's better you are told immediately else you ll end up fetching water in a basket.
For the sake of the love you v for her, try one last time to see her one on one. And if she declined, maintain your lane and let her know your stand. Relationship that ll work ll work after trying all efforts.

I really appreciate your input here. Thanks alot

Guderian:
I think to an extent constant communications will be boring for LDR.

Like what would you guys be talking about for months online...........



I yield the balance of my time for those below

I hate LDR passionately

Elchapo212:

I really appreciate your input here. Thanks alot

Welcome honey pie.

Sweetplum:
Welcome honey pie.

Thank you once again but that's not you on your profile though. Looks pretty but very troublesome in sweet kinda way

Someone who loves or who is inlove will tell you it is false.
Someone who is realistic, doesn't know love or seldom falls in love will tell you it is true.

Trueness of your assertion is individualistic depending on the person's perspective and state of mind as well as mental capacity involved.

Elchapo212:

Thank you once again but that's not you on your profile though. Looks pretty but very troublesome in sweet kinda way

Na me o. I m as gentle as a dove.

Elchapo212:

I hate LDR passionately

I'm planning on using instagram to get one american or European lady. But immediately I'm ready I'll go there and see the lady.


But to only CHAT for months is just sth else

Sweetplum:

Na me o. I m as gentle as a dove.

Hahaha gentle girl. I see you clearly

Bluezy13:
Someone who loves or who is inlove will tell you it is false.
Someone who is realistic, doesn't know love or seldom falls in love will tell you it is true.

Trueness of your assertion is individualistic depending on the person's perspective and state of mind as well as mental capacity involved .

Bro your words cut deep. Could be her state of mind at the time. Cos I gave her loads of bs for her actions prior to that statement. Maybe she got confused as well or maybe she doesn't really love but lusts.

Guderian:



I'm planning on using instagram to get one american or European lady. But immediately I'm ready I'll go there and see the lady.


But to only CHAT for months is just sth else

Cool

Sweetplum:

Na me o. I m as gentle as a dove.

People can recline Sha.

Fira09:


People can recline Sha.

I just said the truth

forget all the drama,
she is focusing on another guy (who is probably closer to her in distance).
you are now appearing like an illusion to her.
she doesn’t want to take the risk of focusing on you which might lead to her losing the guy.

anthonyuncle:
forget all the drama,
she is focusing on another guy (who is probably closer to her in distance).
you are now appearing like an illusion to her.
she doesn’t want to take the risk of focusing on you which might lead to her losing the guy.

Exactly my thoughts bro. And I intend to do the same.

Elchapo212:

Exactly my thoughts bro. And I intend to do the same.

good

Wotoporiously speaking

And na this same constant communication person go dey naija dey chat foreign babe for months and probably years until they meet and still be all loved up, But a typical naija girl wey dey another state but in the same country will get tired and bored of the communication, Not a fan of long distance relationship but I'm just saying.


Op she's seeing someone's else closer, there's nothing like too much communication getting boring.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

And na this same constant communication person go dey naija dey chat foreign babe for months and probably years until they meet and still be all loved up , But a typical naija girl wey dey another state but in the same country will get tired and bored of the communication, Not a fan of long distance relationship but I'm just saying.


Op she's seeing someone's else closer, there's nothing like too much communication getting boring .

Exactly. I dated my ex same way. She's American and we did almost a year before we eventually met. All these while amidst different ups and downs her love never waned once. I was even the one causing troubles but she never ever did stop wanting me. Sometime when I'm too busy she would make me send her pics of my smile or an event of my day. Some of our girls here are too self centered. And can't even contribute to anything yet they want basketmouth, bovi, igodye, Denzel Washington, Idris Elba, Trey Songz and Elon Musk plus Bill Gates all rolled in one. But this current girl if she's bored out of the blue she would want my undivided attention or she starts sulking trying to blackmail me emotionally.
Wotoporiously speaking I need to focus on the one that's craving for my attention more. Thanks bro. Valid

Elchapo212:

Exactly. I dated my ex same way. She's American and we did almost a year before we eventually met. All these while amidst different ups and downs her love never waned once. I was even the one causing troubles but she never ever did stop wanting me. Sometime when I'm too busy she would make me send her pics of my smile or an event of my day. Some of our girls here are too self centered. And can't even contribute to anything yet they want basketmouth, bovi, igodye, Denzel Washington, Idris Elba, Trey Songz and Elon Musk plus Bill Gates all rolled in one. But this current girl if she's bored out of the blue she would want my undivided attention or she starts sulking trying to blackmail me emotionally.
Wotoporiously speaking I need to focus on the one that's craving for my attention more. Thanks bro. Valid

Wotoporiously speaking

See bro, naija girls too get mumu standards wey they themselves no fit keep up to, 98% of them don't know how to handle conversations but they expect you to do all the talking and keep the fire burning, they just prefer to sit back and watch you suffer while they make a fool of themselves thinking they're doing you, most of them don't know what to do in a relationship aside from taking and taking and taking until there's nothing left to give anymore.

Everything they want it to be done for them that's the mumu mentality they carry around while claiming woke, that's all bullshit...

To the few that can keep it going I always respect them that's why I don't Bleep with a lot.

Streetmovement:



Wotoporiously speaking

See bro, naija girls too get mumu standards wey they themselves no fit keep up to, 98% of them don't know how to handle conversations but they expect you to do all the talking and keep the fire burning, they just prefer to sit back and watch you suffer while they make a fool of themselves thinking they're doing you, most of them don't know what to do in a relationship aside from taking and taking and taking until there's nothing left to give anymore.

Everything they want it to be done for them that's the mumu mentality they carry around while claiming woke, that's all bullshit...

To the few that can keep it going I always respect them that's why I don't Bleep with a lot.

Yea we still have some. In small numbers sadly

Elchapo212:


Interesting. I wanted to get the female's perspective and by the way she has never said she wanted to breakup. I'm even the same one initiating break up but we can't seem to let go or leave each other. You sound very angry though. Chill

better, leave person daughter make she focus

Elchapo212:

Yea we still have some. In small numbers sadly

Wotoporiously speaking

You know the story

Cutehector:
better, leave person daughter make she focus

Lol I need to investigate you bro.. sure you're not the one stealing her attention recently. I No understand your comments again o. You just keep showing you want us separated

Elchapo212:
Exactly my thoughts bro. And I intend to do the same.

you gerrit!, it rains everywhere bro