MrBrownJay1:
girls spreading their legs is not the problem here...

Arthurity1:
It is my brother, it is

MrBrownJay1:
girls spreading their legs is not the problem here...

Sweetplum:

Yes. The problem is the irresponsible boy that impregnated her.
He left her when she needed her most.
Some men are scum.

MrBrownJay1:


here is a clue:
- use condoms, you no wan do!
- pull out technique, you no wan do!
- use birthcontrol, you no wan do!
- morning after pill, you no wan do!
- abortion, you no wan do!
- give the baby up for adoption, you no wan do!
... but no you want to blame the useless yeye bastard stranger you laid with unprotected, for being a deadbeat?!!??!

Sweetplum:
Yes I ll blame the useless boy. Cos just like other useless males, some ll abandon their legally married wife after childbirth. Especially if it's twins or triplets or any multiple birth.
The real logic is, never run from your responsibility if pregnancy occur deliberately or by mistake

MrBrownJay1:


shouldnt you also blame the yeye woman who had unprotected sex with that fool OR is she exempt from any guilt whatsoever SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS A (STUPID) WOMAN?

Sweetplum:
The boy that impregnated her is the an unfortunate person.
I begin to consider that you ll likely do the same if an innocent girl fall victim to you.
When pregnancy occurs, a man should be responsible. Running away is weakness.
We v seen stories where fathers that didn't take care of kids show up when the kids become successful in future.
Last Bullet
Be responsible when situations occur.

MrBrownJay1:


WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN!!!!
- the boy that impregnated her is irresponsible and immature.... he was like that BEFORE he met her, and will probably be like that AFTER she gets pregnant. foolish is the woman who has unprotected sex with such irresponsible/immature person, expecting him to miraculously change today because she is pregnant.
- a girl who opens her legs unprotected to some yeye stranger is NOT an "innocent" person nor a "victim", she is just a foolish ignorant deluded woman who thought she could change an irresponsible/immature man with pregnancy.
- AGAIN, the problem is not the pregnancy, the problem is how to protect yourself when having sex wth strangers.
- a girl who cant take care of her damn self/body, who probably thought she could blackmail the dude to marry her (because of that yeye pregnancy) is not only foolish, but also very dangerous.
- regardless of what this man does (aka abandon the child etc), you can never take away the fact that he will be the biological father of that child forever...and whether he wants to come back to this child's life (or not) in the future, will be for him AND the child to decide....not the mother nor anyone of us.

Sweetplum:

You are talking about protection as if that's the only guarantee to prevent a pregnancy. Shallow is your kind cos married couples get unwanted pregnancy via condom breaking, failed withdrawal method or failed contraceptives and family planning.
When pregnancy occur, you v to be responsible.

Woe betides the father who runs away from pregnancy or his responsibilities as a father.
Cursed is the man that impregantes a girl and runs away.

We don know your type MrBrownJay1, knack and run. It's very immature, unfortunate and irresponsible behaviour to run from a girl you impregnate.

Sweetplum:
The boy that impregnated her and ran away is an unfortunate person.
I begin to consider that you ll likely do the same if an innocent girl fall victim to you. Cos by your words we can see your likely actions.
When pregnancy occurs, a man should be responsible. Running away is weakness.
We v seen stories where fathers that didn't take care of kids show up when the kids become successful in future.
Last Bullet
Be responsible when situations occur.

Chizip:
You never see chunchin
Women will never learn unless it hit them the hard way

MrBrownJay1:


being "responsible" when an unwanted pregnancy happens (by people who dont want and/or can cant take care of a child) is to HAVE AN ABORTION!!! only yeye ignorant fools and evil people gladly have children that they fully well know they cant take care of (for the next 18yrs).... if you believe that you only need two yeye ignorant people having unprotected sex to be GREAT RESPONSIBLE PARENTS, then you are more brainwashed than i thought.



cursed is the deluded ignorant woman who has unprotected sex with irresponsible/immature strangers, thinking that a pregnancy would change these yeye irresponsible men!



let me give you an example: if a girl gets pregnant by me (condom broke or whatever), i will advise her to have an abortion as i will explain to her that i am NOT ready to have a child with her. if she stubbornly believe that she can have that child then i will warn her that being a single mother is no joke as i will NOT be of any help to her and/or her pregnancy and/or that unwanted child in the future... if that woman continues to believe that she can have that child on her own, then so be it. let her take that decision and raise that child on her own. me as a father wouldnt care less of what happens to her or that unwanted child. irresponsible is the yeye woman who has a child knowing fully well she cant take care of!

as someone once famously said:"if a woman has all the rights to decide whether she wants to keep a pregnancy or not, then if she eventually keeps the child, then at least the father also should have all the rights to abandon this unwanted child or not!"

Sweetplum:

You v changed the whole plot and digressed just to score a cheap point that's useless and ll only encourage your fellow men to be more irresponsible.
There are scenarios that happened to couple living together. The man ll suddenly abandon kids so why won't others be abandoning pregnancy.
I sighted where abortion and other prevention methods failed. And you are here with your shallow mind to write balderdash of epistle.
I thought you are intelligent but am disappointed.
Men can become irresponsible in relationships and marriage. So don't tell me it's a woman that wasn't calculative enough. If men also carry pregnancy, they ll know that they need to be with their partners, wives or whoever they impregnate more.
The reason why we v heartless boys roaming around Nairaland and Nigeria is cos some never knew how to raise a family. Too many irresponsible boys from irresponsible dads, irresponsible homes.
Woe is the portion of people that defend evil while cursed is the irresponsible male that impregnates a female and abscond.
And as you dey quote me this time, sha make sure you really use your sense cos what you ll get from me ll be devastating.

MrBrownJay1:


SHATTAP THERE!!!!
an ABORTION can never fail...stop writing arrant nonsense online. if irresponsible people are NOT EMOTIONALLY/PHYSICALLY/FINANCIALLY ready to have a child, then they should ABORT at best! why are you so hellbent on having two yeye irresponsible ignorant people bringing a child to this world, that they cant take care of?!
then years down the line, that same child will be begging at traffic lights for handouts. abi?

no wonder so many women bring bastard unanted children to this world when thinking the way you do... and with the way African men look down on single mothers, i understand why these yeye women end up abandoning the child.
***spit on floor***

Sweetplum:

Omo ase, na you make you meshonu. Shut da fuc k up!
There are numerous cases of failed abortions. There are people who also used family planning and it failed.
While am taking with experience of deep reality from ordinary boyfriend and girlfriend relationship that resulted in pregnancy, am also talking from marital couples who had unwanted pregnancy. Cases like people wey don born 6 sotey wife carry twins for 7 & 8 children.
Last Bullet
The most honourable thing to do in life whe mistakes occur is to be responsible. But it's so obvious you and the redpillers of this site aren't responsible and lacked empathy. And that's what's spoiling things in this world. Lack of empathy and responsibility. It's you and others that ll demand good deeds from a lady you didn't treat well.
It's this same BrownJay abi na brown bread that I v met across different topics on this site defending evils that men do. Ori yin o pe sir!
I hope you all starve from responsible ladies.

MrBrownJay1:


who gives a damn what YOU think irresponsible people should do?! yeye woman who is quick to blame men, while the deluded ignorant woman who open her foolish legs unprotected to this yeye stranger shouldnt be blamed abi?! you can believe all you want, but irresponsible men who fukc yeye strangers will rarely take care of the bastard child these yeye women decide to keep.... and you know why? because thats exactly what IRRESPONSIBLE PEOPLE DO, DUH!!!!
stop talking about nonsense online... the most honourable thing to do is to not have unprotected sex with strangers, and if you ever get pregnant by accident, then abort that bastard child from this irresponsible stranger.

freshkpomo:
Girls spreading your legs anyhow because of small promise of "I will marry you" na una Sabi. A girl got pregnant for a guy, the guy ran away and then on the day of delivery the doctors said the only option will be CS (operation) after several hours that was unfruitful. Them tear the mama bill, the bill pass her power and then she ran around to borrow money just to save her daughter.

Operation was successful and now time to discharge the girl, another bill again and this time the hospital locked up the girl in one room preventing anyone from seeing her till they pay up their debt. The mother ran around for money again and a man who happens to be working for the armed forces borrowed her some cash. Guess what? It's been two weeks since her discharge and the mother has been receiving insults upon insults from those she owe and now she is planning to get a loan from lapo to pay those she owe because their blood is boiling and they keep abusing this woman all because of her daughter who refused to close her legs. If you talk them go say na my life, I am a big girl.. na small thing remain this girl mama for commit suicide because of the kind words the Force guy dey tell her. I pity who born WAYWARD pikin when them dey tell "let me just put only the tip inside".... Story number 2 LOADING... https://www.facebook.com/100039104576330/posts/pfbid0hB28t6uYbCXN9fs6cBC3oFo1u4xB9ZKrPEGGV82KTgGdW7h4E8jXCUQ8kRvnVmZXl/?app=fbl

Sweetplum:

You v rum in your head.
You just typed gibberish. You got examples of pregnancy that was conceived legally and men still ran away. Some ll say cos it's twins, triplets or multiple birth. You are your fellow shameless men v been bailed out by govts so many times in the news where they pay for expenses of such runaway father.
I told you your brain is narrowed towards boyfriend and girlfriend issue. Graduate to mature level.

No matter how irresponsible a girl may be, the person that impregnated her is meant to stay when he's informed.

So many of you come out at old age to claim kids you never raised. Some ll eat from such kids success and die suddenly cos such success is an automatic poison to them. Moral of the story, when pregnancy occur anyhow, you stay to handle it. If it can't be aborted, raise the child.

MrBrownJay1:


there are irresponsile men EVERYWHERE... if you think that marrying someone makes a man "responsible" then the joke is on YOU!



BWAAAAAAH! stay ko, steady ni!!!!
if a girl is irresponsible enough to keep an unwanted child (fathered by some irresponsible stranger), then that irresponsible stranger has all the right to abandon that deluded woman and her future child if/when she refuses to ABORT that unwanted bastard child.



accidents during sex do happen and therefore everyone has the right to decide whether they want to be parents or not...if a man doesnt want a child while the yeye irresponsible woman CANT TAKE CARE OF A CHILD ON HER OWN BUT STILL DECIDES TO KEEP IT, then let her raise that child on her own. what to do with a pregnacy is a mutual decision, not a selfish one made by yeye deluded women.

MrBrownJay1:


there are irresponsile men EVERYWHERE... if you think that marrying someone makes a man "responsible" then the joke is on YOU!



BWAAAAAAH! stay ko, steady ni!!!!
if a girl is irresponsible enough to keep an unwanted child (fathered by some irresponsible stranger), then that irresponsible stranger has all the right to abandon that deluded woman and her future child if/when she refuses to ABORT that unwanted bastard child.



accidents during sex do happen and therefore everyone has the right to decide whether they want to be parents or not...if a man doesnt want a child while the yeye irresponsible woman CANT TAKE CARE OF A CHILD ON HER OWN BUT STILL DECIDES TO KEEP IT, then let her raise that child on her own. what to do with a pregnacy is a mutual decision, not a selfish one made by yeye deluded women.

BeanmanX:
Arguing with sweetplum is a waste of time,,,you will only decrease you IQ...

Ed12:
young girls please listen to this

if you are still a virgin, or your body count still very low. please take the SINGLE responsibility to help yourself against sex..

Naturally, you are the gate keeper of sex, that is why rape is frown at in the society. please do well to keep your value tight for your real man..

your man will be very proud of you and will appreciate you..

Sweetplum:

Cos your IQ is indeed very low.