Johnnyjohnnyman:



She can't return her to her father because she is only 1 year 3 months and she is still nursing her.
I can't never separate the innocent child from her mother to save my marriage. I would prefer that she leaves with the child and continue to take care of her outside of my house.

Pls send the snake out of your life. When you were at your lowest, all she could do was to desecrate the marriage. That was when you needed her dupport most. Pls give her red card. Nothing to save. You are a good man.

Sorry man, your hunches were right all along,. Discuss this with your mum and confront your wife with the proof...…..Let her know that you know and have incontrovertible evidence on the actual paternity of your last child.....If I were you, I'll move on except you are afraid of loosing the sponsorship she gives to some of the bills

mariahAngel:


It is the married person who owes their spouse faithfulness, and therefore should be blamed for cheating.

You don't understand.
There are men whose fetish is married women.
This men actually chase them, though I'm not excusing anybody sha.

Johnnyjohnnyman:



She can't return her to her father because she is only 1 year 3 months and she is still nursing her.
I can't never separate the innocent child from her mother to save my marriage. I would prefer that she leaves with the child and continue to take care of her outside of my house.

Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

CalmElder:





You don't understand.
There are men whose fetish is married women.
This men actually chase them, though I'm not excusing anybody sha.

Just as there are ladies who are obsessed with married men, and shamelessly go after them.

mariahAngel:


Just as there are ladies who are obsessed with married men, and shamelessly go after them.

Na wa o.

It's either they don't mentally put themselves in other people's shoes or gratification of self is stronger than reason.

Well... what goes around...

Johnnyjohnnyman:


I have no doubts about my other 3 children because they are mine 2 are my carbon copy and the other one is his mother carbon copy

Lol i advise you do the DNA test for the other kids.
Before a woman can get pregnant for someone she must have really LOVED him talkless of a married woman, maybe their love life didn’t start when y’all separated, it only made her more free to have unprotected s.ex
Fact is she doesn’t respect you, she only settled down for you,

Sweetplum:

Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

I don't know why you don't have sense. He said he will prefer she leaves with the kid,you said it's a bad decesion because she won't be there for her other kid and that broken home is the major cause of bad kids but you still went ahead to tell him to ask the wife if she will still be with him and then count his loss. Since you don't want him to separate from the cheating wife,why are you telling him to ask her? Why repeating what you said is a bad decesion? Or do you like to talk plenty without reasoning just for talking sake. Spit.

Justbehave:
I don't know why you don't have sense. He said he will prefer she leaves with the kid,you said it's a bad decesion because she won't be there for her other kid and that broken home is the major cause of bad kids but you still went ahead to tell him to ask the wife if she will still be with him and then count his loss. Since you don't want him to separate from the cheating wife,why are you telling him to ask her? Why repeating what you said is a bad decesion? Or do you like to talk plenty without reasoning just for talking sake. Spit.

I spit back on you. Very stupi d boy that knows nothing about union or marriage. Very daft nonentity that doesn't know that to divorce a legally married is not easy. Your selfishness didn't allow you to consider the welfare of the other legitimate kids when they are without their father or mother.
If them born you well, quote me again without sense!

Sweetplum:

I spit back on you. Very stupi d biynthat knows nothing about union or marriage. Very daft nonentity that doesn't know that to divorce a legally married is not easy. Your selfishness didn't allow you to consider the welfare of the other legitimate kids when they are without their father or mother.
If them born you well, quote me again without sense!

Classless slum girl.

Justbehave:
Classless slum girl.

You are right, she is a gutter woman that’s why she is filled with gutter talk.

Mindlog:


Do your "father" have your DNA test result that you are here calling those children bastards?

...you must be stupid . My father knows I am his child not because of a paternity test , but because he knows that my mother is not a harlot like yours .

Haaa! Jesu!

Oga op. For the sake of your life. Discard her and the baby at once. If she finds out that you have known the truth,she will poison you to cover her track. Discard her immediately.

Johnnyjohnnyman:


I have no doubts about my other 3 children because they are mine 2 are my carbon copy and the other one is his mother carbon copy

The one that took after his mother, i hope you knw there is no guarantee he is your child.

just so you know, she is still seeing that guy that got her pregnant.

They hardly walk away from that kind of guy.

i know the effort i made to discourage one like that from coming to see me years after she settled with her mumu husband that she always talk down when she comes visiting.

Justbehave:
Oga op. For the sake of your life. Discard her and the baby at once. If she finds out that you have known the truth,she will poison you to cover her track. Discard her immediately.

LISTEN TO THIS GUY. HE IS SO ON POINT.

Justbehave:
Classless slum girl.

Classless slum boy

Jashub:
...you must be stupid . My father knows I am his child not because of a paternity test , but because he knows that my mother is not a harlot like yours .

Many believe that they is no need for paternity test because their "father" is their father.

By the way, you are free to use more "colourful" adjectives, I listen to those struggling with psychosis on a daily basis as my means of livelihood...so I don't take your words personal.

Mindlog:


Whatever decisions you are going to make, just make sure that at least the 3 children you believe are biologically yours are continually provided for.

That's not a problem for me I will continue to be taking care or them

Johnnyjohnnyman:


That's not a problem for me I will continue to be taking care or them

Commendable.

Sweetplum:

Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

I will take care of my children

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father. Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed. . I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.
I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

please like how much is DNA I just had baby today but I'm not sure if I'm the father of the baby

Justbehave:
Oga op. For the sake of your life. Discard her and the baby at once. If she finds out that you have known the truth,she will poison you to cover her track. Discard her immediately.

She is aware of the result she swear that the child is mine that she wasn't pregnant when she breaks up with the other guy in July 2020. It can't be possible because she conceived in September2020 and put to bed in June2021 if she breaks up with him in July and I am not the bio father there is no way for the child to be born in June.
Unless she was slept with another guy before we got back together which she denied. She can't poison me I don't eat her foods neither do I share the same room with her, I eat out and I come home and spend time with my kids then I sleep. I don't know what to do about her and the baby yet but I was thinking about calling both families next week Sunday for a family meeting. I will update you guys on whatever decision I will take.

TANID:
please like how much is DNA I just had baby today but I'm not sure if I'm the father of the baby

I paid 130k

Johnnyjohnnyman:


She is aware of the result she swear that the child is mine that she wasn't pregnant when she breaks up with the other guy in July 2020. It can't be possible because she conceived in September2020 and put to bed in June2021 if she breaks up with him in July and I am not the bio father there is no way for the child to be born in June.
Unless she was slept with another guy before we got back together which she denied. She can't poison me I don't eat her foods neither do I share the same room with her, I eat out and I come home and spend time with my kids then I sleep. I don't know what to do about her and the baby yet but I was thinking about calling both families next week Sunday for a family meeting. I will update you guys on whatever decision I will take.

Goodluck bro. Just be very careful and observant.Pls send the result to both parents/ families and let them also know that anything that happens to you now that she should be held responsible. Do this even before calling the meeting. I know how evil a cheating woman can be talk more of the one that was caught red handed. Device a means to protect yourself at all time as long as she is in that house.

Johnnyjohnnyman:


She is aware of the result she swear that the child is mine that she wasn't pregnant when she breaks up with the other guy in July 2020. It can't be possible because she conceived in September2020 and put to bed in June2021 if she breaks up with him in July and I am not the bio father there is no way for the child to be born in June.
Unless she was slept with another guy before we got back together which she denied. She can't poison me I don't eat her foods neither do I share the same room with her, I eat out and I come home and spend time with my kids then I sleep. I don't know what to do about her and the baby yet but I was thinking about calling both families next week Sunday for a family meeting. I will update you guys on whatever decision I will take.

Don’t let her emotional blackmail you.
She got pregnant, brought a Bastard home and still denying lol, do DNA tests for other kids lol

Young John the wicked producer

I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

All this weak men with there advice. Seems you are the man she's cheating with.

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

Before a woman can cheat, alot has to happen and it deals with her emotions, talkless of a married woman, if the other man wants to fvck her tomorrow, he’ll.

Maynman:


Before a woman can cheat, alot has to happen and it deals with her emotions, talkless of a married woman, if the other man wants to fvck her tomorrow, he’ll.

Don't mind the guy. He doesn't understand the gravity of the woman's offence that's why he is talking like that.

CalmElder:
Be strong and reject depression, by immersing yourself in whatever to keep you busy.
For the sake of your dependants, man up.



A colleague who is having issues with the husband told me that they didn't have a proper marriage, after 3 kids o.

She wants to put my heart at rest so that I can 'chop'. Not me.
Another mumu is sleeping with her and feeling like Romeo.

Sometimes I blame our fellow men for breaking people's homes.

Men are not to be blamed here sir. Blame d daughter of eve, blame d caused gender not men

Make una try read him other 3 posts.
Didn't support him when he was down. Check
Cheated on him when he was down. Check.



This morning, I saw a post about a man complaining that his wife doesn't respect him to the point of putting pepper in his bathing water because he didn't fetch water for her.

I go marry so