BRATISLAVA:


Okay.

She will kneel and beg this god she married and everything will be okay. The more she grovels, the more she will have the power to change his mind? Maybe it will make the man want to do what exactly?
Orr maybe she will just develop calluses?

I don't know why your response remains as funny as the first one I quoted.

Bobbynobobby:


Madam what are you on about. Offending someone or being in the wrong and finding it hard to apologise is a toxic/narcissistic trait

MrBrownJay1:
you made a few mistakes (and so did he)...
A) just because you work hard, never assume that others dont (simply because you dont see/feel it)
B) cutting off your husand and giving him the silent treatment for NINE WEEKS is insane. is that not the father of your kids any longer?!?! why such harsh treatment?
C) your husband is as childish as you are and now playing your own game by ignoring you for months... blame y'all childish self, which ultimately will only hurt the children.
D) look within yourself to see what is bothering you so much that you could take such a small statement from your husband, and turn ii into such a big deal... then put your pride aside, get down on your knees and beg him to forgive you (because it is obvious, you aint gonna win at this "childish" game)

MrBrownJay1:
you made a few mistakes (and so did he)...
A) just because you work hard, never assume that others dont (simply because you dont see/feel it)
B) cutting off your husand and giving him the silent treatment for NINE WEEKS is insane. is that not the father of your kids any longer?!?! why such harsh treatment?
C) your husband is as childish as you are and now playing your own game by ignoring you for months... blame y'all childish self, which ultimately will only hurt the children.
D) look within yourself to see what is bothering you so much that you could take such a small statement from your husband, and turn ii into such a big deal... then put your pride aside, get down on your knees and beg him to forgive you (because it is obvious, you aint gonna win at this "childish" game)

BRATISLAVA:
I've been starting quarrels with girlfriends, boyfriends and husbands for close to 20 years in my world, and they always forgive me. I still don't understand why.
Could it be ugly privilege? Do they not want to hurt me because they feel I'll turn around and say they're doing it because I'm ugly?
Or maybe I've not been with anyone so pigheaded and uninvested in a relationship to bear a grudge forever? Or have there only been simps in my life?

I don't know.

You could give your insight.

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

Highways:
Okay... During that 9weeks who were you phucking... The story never finish....

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

pointblank247:
nice but your advice number C is very very wrong. The husband does not deserve to be so described by you.

MrBrownJay1:


to each their own misery... funny how you are quick to dismiss the OP who bore a grudge and was indeed pigheaded/uninvested, but yet would be quick to blame the husband for what is happening. if this aint the definition of double standard, i dont know what is.

BRATISLAVA:


But the only solution is if the wife kneels to beg the husband, and that isn't narcissistic? Oga, is kneeling to beg the husband the solution to marital problems? People kneel to pray. Not to beg a husband.

The advice to kneel is funny and I don't understand why it should solve an issue.

Jazzman01:


You are a bloody simp. i wonder how you managed to gather 398 960 likes. There's nothing childish about what the man did. That woman is very very stupid. He should cut her off for life.

Idaytesj29:


Who is this one sef? Keep all these werey advise for yourself and your male children. You are man with a slippery wet pvssy. Cover your head in shame.

MrBrownJay1:


a lot of male NLer were quick to state the above too.. but i am sorry, getting down to your wife childish level, makes you childish too. you have to call a spade A SPADE, lets us not be hypocrites here. what wife did was CHILDISH/IMMATURE, thus if the husband takes a "tit for tat" stand, he is also CHILDISH/IMMATURE....regardless of what his aim is!

we all know that women are emotional mess 1 week per month, we men shouldnt go down to their yeye emotional level!

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

BRATISLAVA:
How is it misery? I'm living the way 98% of people commenting overwhelmingly against the OP do.

Where was the husband said to be pigheaded and uninvested? Hope you're not mixing my tale with theirs.

so pigheaded and uninvested in a relationship to bear a grudge forever?

MrBrownJay1:


a lot of male NLer were quick to state the above too.. but i am sorry, getting down to your wife childish level, makes you childish too. you have to call a spade A SPADE, lets us not be hypocrites here. what wife did was CHILDISH/IMMATURE, thus if the husband takes a "tit for tat" stand, he is also CHILDISH/IMMATURE....regardless of what his aim is!

we all know that women are emotional mess 1 week per month, we men shouldnt go down to their yeye emotional level!

MufasaLion:


Damn! That's sad. African marriages works abroad for some people and it doesn't for some people. It's all about the individuals.

franchasofficia:
Masquerade weh come out for middle of the market the dance get somebody somewhere weh de beat the drum for am











Peter Obi is coming, Nigerian families will be reunited again, there wont be need to be migrating up and down like Buhari and his Nomadic kinsmen

pointblank247:
hmmm i still think you are wrong . There are are things that are completely unacceptable to a real man . If a man should accept every rubbish that a woman throws at him , then, HE is less than a woman.
There are boundaries that you don't cross when dealing with a man.
The woman went too far

ggoldmine:
It seems to me that you both are vengeful and narcissistic. Therefore, he's waiting for you to apologise first.

MrBrownJay1:


a lot of male NLer were quick to state the above too.. but i am sorry, getting down to your wife childish level, makes you childish too. you have to call a spade A SPADE, lets us not be hypocrites here. what wife did was CHILDISH/IMMATURE, thus if the husband takes a "tit for tat" stand, he is also CHILDISH/IMMATURE....regardless of what his aim is!

we all know that women are emotional mess 1 week per month, we men shouldnt go down to their yeye emotional level!

Acidosis:
The world does not revolve around you and your sister (family).

Over the past months, how many times have you called to :Dspeak to his family? Or...their lives don't matter?

And what is this game you people are playing sef? If I don't talk to my spouse in 2 weeks, then I'll naturally assume that the relationship is dead. You guys go months without talking and all that concerns you is your sister's fiance?

Are you in some kind of open marriage?

obiekunie01:


corrected sir.

in fact she raised this issue here bc she is having a problem with the side dude now.