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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Trill1(m): 11:23am On Oct 06, 2022
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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by ShaqFu: 11:27am On Oct 06, 2022
Candidlady:
sad
Hope your partner knows bout all your sexcapades on that ashewo thread undecided

Mr "INEARLY CHEATED TODAY"

poor lady if only she knew what she's getting herself into undecided

For shame
You who is talking, how did you know about his sexcapades in that ashawo thread? grin grin

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by haybhi1(m): 11:27am On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
Stability,Trust,the love and care I receive ,then respect.
I know it's naive to trust anybody but I can trust her up to 90%.My doubts are few and worries less when it comes to her even to the extent of valuables and strategic information.
These aren't easy to find.
You get use to a person and it becomes hard to let go too over petty interference like random girls.

Explanatory.
Most who lose gold chasing stones are nitwits. Good one there, chief.

Also gives you succour off what you possibly stood to gain were you to have run the rumble.
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by belshazzar(m): 11:28am On Oct 06, 2022
My question is what will happen if fate brings you guys back together uh , would you be able to resist the second time ?

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by HolyMan12: 11:29am On Oct 06, 2022
AfroKnight:
Proud of you bro. You are a strong man grin

Even if you had fallen, I’m still proud you considered your girl.

It’s not easy to be a man these days. Women will just be trying to steal men from their babes. It’s wrong. Stay strong and steadfast bro.
I don't know why it is only when I am in a reasonable relationship then gbam, girls start flocking from left, right, center, top and bottom angry

That shit pisses me off. angry angry angry

Why not when I am single. angry

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by iLoveYouToo(m): 11:31am On Oct 06, 2022
Valto how far? I need your number. I sold a Dell laptop to you many years ago, I was surprised to see you’re still active on NL. I need you to help me with a contact at Alaba market. I have an LG TV that’s occupying space at my place I really need to fix it (the LED is broken)

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by rollywise(m): 11:34am On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
I've been with this lady for 3 years,I've only had casual sex just a few times that don't qualify as cheating cos I'm not emotionally involved with an of these random women.
Heck I don't even take their calls.
That don't count as cheating for a young,vibrant man.



Hope you won't classify it as cheating when she bangs another so long "she's not emotionally involved" with them

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Asianjollof007: 11:35am On Oct 06, 2022
Sweetplum:
Shey you all see are demonic sex freak boy called Seatrade. Shey you all see say boys no dey responsible.
Imagine a lady wrote this gibberish.
All males here see your brethren.


You don't have to generalise, yunno.
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by anonimi: 11:37am On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
So I was at a restaurant having my usual breakfast.
Then few moments later, my girl called since she knows my itinery and asked if she could join. I obliged (greatest undoing!).

Like 40mins after, she came and couldn't sit beside me cos there was a partner of mine right next to me, so she sat far.

Then there was this girl that was like 10ft away from us on another table, all alone having her own breakfast. I don't know her, have never seen her before and I noticed she has been stealing glances at me and then look away when I made eye contact.

Even my partner had to whisper to my ears that someone was checking me out and all (I was well dressed and all, besides man na still fine man ooo grin ).

Then after a while, my chick left to get something upstairs while I had to settle the bill at the counter for our breakfast.

Omo as I dey counter dey want pay, this girl came to the same teller I was trying to pay to and asked me if there was an attendant there(cos the attendant left to confirm some prices). I said yes and she stood right next to me waiting for my attendant to return so she can pay at the same point whereas there were other attendants that were empty!

I knew okay, this was it! This girl likes the man infront of her.
Time past and my attendant hadn't returned and she tried to spark up small talk, I responded briefly because my chick fit turn up at any minute. Guy I lock up!

The attendant came and I cleared my bill and told her bye. I was pained. This girl fine die and classy, chai!!

I no collect number, I no book rendezvous, nothing!

You know why? I instantly did my cost analyses in my head and figured it wasn't worth it to spook my girl of my philandering ways and lose the stability I enjoy from her over this girl I don't know.

The thing pain me ehn!chai. But nigga gats maintain.

I've never had this type before, the girl too clean, sleek, soft spoken, pretty and classy and young too (max 22).

But I let all this go because I no like risk and shalaye.

And the girl slim, all this kind girls weh you fit hang for wall...

I really lost today honestly.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a player, but sometimes we just can't lose what we have for uncertainty so I control myself.
Chai!!!

But one thing pleased me, it was great to know I'm still attractive. Haven't had a youngling drool over me in a while.

Tbh I thought I've lost it and is all on sugar daddy mode now.

And no, this girl ain't no hooker, she came in her own chauffeur driven Honda cos I saw her at the lot as I left (could be an uber too, I wouldn't know).

For all you know she may be a model/actress to test you by your gf.
Anyhow, you do well and passed the test IF there was any. Congrats.

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by jaxxy(m): 11:45am On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
I've been with this lady for 3 years,I've only had casual sex just a few times that don't qualify as cheating cos I'm not emotionally involved with an of these random women.
Heck I don't even take their calls.
That don't count as cheating for a young,vibrant man.

Just one question. Are u a married man? Cos I see 3 female characters around u in ur script if I'm not mistaken?
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by zed7: 11:50am On Oct 06, 2022
He actually took a picture of the breakfast. I see people invited to a restaurant and the first thing they do is to start taking pics. Poverty is a disease.

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Kajaard: 11:53am On Oct 06, 2022
zed7:
He actually took a picture of the breakfast. I see people invited to a restaurant and the first thing they do is to start taking pics. Poverty is a disease.

Then you really don't know the op because that's all he does cheesy. Extremely childish act if you ask me
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by imagrg(m): 12:00pm On Oct 06, 2022
It's a serious lady like you I'm looking for.
Sheistoopretty:


This one wants to eat his cake and have it, you're not pained but you're pained blah blah.... Nigerian Men? They are never satisfied no matter how hard u try to grin grin I'm very sure if that lady should seduce u inside a room one-on-one, you'd fall for it grin grin grin grin

See young man, let me tell you something, it's better u let that girlfriend of yours go so u can continue being your player in peace, it's very clear and obvious that u don't know what u want yet grin grin

she deserves someone better than a boy who is not emotionally intelligent like u!
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by AfroKnight: 12:14pm On Oct 06, 2022
HolyMan12:

I don't know why it is only when I am in a reasonable relationship then gbam, girls start flocking from left, right, center, top and bottom angry

That shit pisses me off. angry angry angry

Why not when I am single. angry

My brother. This is what we go through in the hands of these women. We are really trying. Someone will be focusing on living a good faithful life but these women will not leave us alone. cry cry

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by DonroxyII: 12:22pm On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
I've been with this lady for 3 years,I've only had casual sex just a few times that don't qualify as cheating cos I'm not emotionally involved with an of these random women.
Heck I don't even take their calls.
That don't count as cheating for a young,vibrant man.
There shouldn't be any crime in meeting Someone, Making New Friend and checking out Real Beneficial values both can benefit from Each Other not "Sex" Per Se ...... grin cheesy

Why do You People turn everything into Cat and Dog Fight .... Bring her unto your table to meet your Fiance ... She can become a friend to una Couple ...

God bless our Ancestors Jare .. they are very Good here grin

Kinni weyrey Gan wey make all of Una turn everything to Madness ...

Simple Stuffs una go dey speak English... Offer her right there on that counter to come to una table ....
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Foodie1(m): 12:27pm On Oct 06, 2022
The way some of you dey fvck anyhow , I dey wonder wether una no dey fear S.T.D , especially HIV . Nawa oh.
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Painsoother(m): 12:29pm On Oct 06, 2022
Vajose:
Lucky dude...I think you narrowly passed a test unknowingly. just what if she's ur chics' set up? Think am small na. Let go of jumping bones, and stick to what's worth it.

I suspect ur lady is a very intentional individual.... She won't want to make that mistake less purposeful people make when intending to settle down. Expect more tests if she's made of what I think she is.
You are a wise fellow, your thought alligned with mine..hence the Op admitted to his babe having full knowledge of his usual routines, girl sent her mercinery ahead prior to joining SeaTrade, then created that space afterwards by stepping outta the restaurant to enable her trap to game. God saved Op ass but he should be braced for subsequent attempts of similar nature.

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by West6573: 1:17pm On Oct 06, 2022
You know weda na setup!!!!!
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Czathedemigod: 1:18pm On Oct 06, 2022
Sheistoopretty:


This one wants to eat his cake and have it, you're not pained but you're pained blah blah.... Nigerian Men? They are never satisfied no matter how hard u try to grin grin I'm very sure if that lady should seduce u inside a room one-on-one, you'd fall for it grin grin grin grin

See young man, let me tell you something, it's better u let that girlfriend of yours go so u can continue being your player in peace, it's very clear and obvious that u don't know what u want yet grin grin

she deserves someone better than a boy who is not emotionally intelligent like u!
Hi hun,Did you even read & understand what the op wrote?!
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
So I was at a restaurant having my usual breakfast.
Then few moments later, my girl called since she knows my itinery and asked if she could join. I obliged (greatest undoing!).

Like 40mins after, she came and couldn't sit beside me cos there was a partner of mine right next to me, so she sat far.

Then there was this girl that was like 10ft away from us on another table, all alone having her own breakfast. I don't know her, have never seen her before and I noticed she has been stealing glances at me and then look away when I made eye contact.

Even my partner had to whisper to my ears that someone was checking me out and all (I was well dressed and all, besides man na still fine man ooo grin ).

Then after a while, my chick left to get something upstairs while I had to settle the bill at the counter for our breakfast.

Omo as I dey counter dey want pay, this girl came to the same teller I was trying to pay to and asked me if there was an attendant there(cos the attendant left to confirm some prices). I said yes and she stood right next to me waiting for my attendant to return so she can pay at the same point whereas there were other attendants that were empty!

I knew okay, this was it! This girl likes the man infront of her.
Time past and my attendant hadn't returned and she tried to spark up small talk, I responded briefly because my chick fit turn up at any minute. Guy I lock up!

The attendant came and I cleared my bill and told her bye. I was pained. This girl fine die and classy, chai!!

I no collect number, I no book rendezvous, nothing!

You know why? I instantly did my cost analyses in my head and figured it wasn't worth it to spook my girl of my philandering ways and lose the stability I enjoy from her over this girl I don't know.

The thing pain me ehn!chai. But nigga gats maintain.

I've never had this type before, the girl too clean, sleek, soft spoken, pretty and classy and young too (max 22).

But I let all this go because I no like risk and shalaye.

And the girl slim, all this kind girls weh you fit hang for wall ...

I really lost today honestly.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a player, but sometimes we just can't lose what we have for uncertainty so I control myself.
Chai!!!

But one thing pleased me, it was great to know I'm still attractive. Haven't had a youngling drool over me in a while.

Tbh I thought I've lost it and is all on sugar daddy mode now.

And no, this girl ain't no hooker, she came in her own chauffeur driven Honda cos I saw her at the lot as I left (could be an uber too, I wouldn't know).

Lolzz grin
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by okoroemeka(m): 1:43pm On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
So I was at a restaurant having my usual breakfast.
Then few moments later, my girl called since she knows my itinery and asked if she could join. I obliged (greatest undoing!).

Like 40mins after, she came and couldn't sit beside me cos there was a partner of mine right next to me, so she sat far.

Then there was this girl that was like 10ft away from us on another table, all alone having her own breakfast. I don't know her, have never seen her before and I noticed she has been stealing glances at me and then look away when I made eye contact.

Even my partner had to whisper to my ears that someone was checking me out and all (I was well dressed and all, besides man na still fine man ooo grin ).

Then after a while, my chick left to get something upstairs while I had to settle the bill at the counter for our breakfast.

Omo as I dey counter dey want pay, this girl came to the same teller I was trying to pay to and asked me if there was an attendant there(cos the attendant left to confirm some prices). I said yes and she stood right next to me waiting for my attendant to return so she can pay at the same point whereas there were other attendants that were empty!

I knew okay, this was it! This girl likes the man infront of her.
Time past and my attendant hadn't returned and she tried to spark up small talk, I responded briefly because my chick fit turn up at any minute. Guy I lock up!

The attendant came and I cleared my bill and told her bye. I was pained. This girl fine die and classy, chai!!

I no collect number, I no book rendezvous, nothing!

You know why? I instantly did my cost analyses in my head and figured it wasn't worth it to spook my girl of my philandering ways and lose the stability I enjoy from her over this girl I don't know.

The thing pain me ehn!chai. But nigga gats maintain.

I've never had this type before, the girl too clean, sleek, soft spoken, pretty and classy and young too (max 22).

But I let all this go because I no like risk and shalaye.

And the girl slim, all this kind girls weh you fit hang for wall...

I really lost today honestly.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a player, but sometimes we just can't lose what we have for uncertainty so I control myself.
Chai!!!

But one thing pleased me, it was great to know I'm still attractive. Haven't had a youngling drool over me in a while.

Tbh I thought I've lost it and is all on sugar daddy mode now.

And no, this girl ain't no hooker, she came in her own chauffeur driven Honda cos I saw her at the lot as I left (could be an uber too, I wouldn't know).
you should have used pen write down your number and give to her,life is too short to manage only one pussy,she even knows you have a main chick so why bother,most men has a wife,main chick,side chick,spare chick, emergency konji chick,etc,life is too short,moreover you will reach an age when you can't do such things again

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 06, 2022
HolyMan12:

I don't know why it is only when I am in a reasonable relationship then gbam, girls start flocking from left, right, center, top and bottom angry

That shit pisses me off. angry angry angry

Why not when I am single. angry
Swears and it's because they know cheesy
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Adeleayo: 1:45pm On Oct 06, 2022
damosade:
Don't worry, na this period girls go they flock u.. especially that period of time u wan succeed.
Nice one
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by HolyMan12: 1:49pm On Oct 06, 2022
Killbillz:

Swears and it's because they know cheesy
Know that I am in a relationship?

What is their gain then? angry
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 06, 2022
HolyMan12:

Know that I am in a relationship?

What is their gain then? angry
Bro me I don't know oo... Maybe they want to enjoy whatever babe is enjoying in peace

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Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by pizapato(m): 1:57pm On Oct 06, 2022
I hope it is not lazyyouth, your nairaland crush cheesy
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by SeaTrade(m): 2:01pm On Oct 06, 2022
pizapato:
I hope it is not lazyyouth, your nairaland crush cheesy
grin grin
Lazyyouth na girl?
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 06, 2022
tiswell:
one of the characteristics of a simp is low self esteem, like the op.



Obviously,the op. was 'intimidated" by the chick's guts
exactly
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Cutehector(m): 2:53pm On Oct 06, 2022
More Grace, Seatrade
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by Painsoother(m): 2:57pm On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
grin grin
Lazyyouth na girl?
So Op, do you mean that restaurrants in your city accepts payment after eating as against the normay "pay before service" in most cities?
Re: My Almost Cheating Experience Today. by ykalhaji(m): 3:02pm On Oct 06, 2022
SeaTrade:
Stability,Trust,the love and care I receive ,then respect.
I know it's naive to trust anybody but I can trust her up to 90%.My doubts are few and worries less when it comes to her even to the extent of valuables and strategic information.
These aren't easy to find.
You get use to a person and it becomes hard to let go too over petty interference like random girls.


Correct salute to you my nigga. You know the drill.

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