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Women.always have a side chick guys.

The luck you had is that you are not sleeping with her during the time she got pregnant.

Count your loss and move on, don't fight her, na simple thing.

Miltonz123:


How can I heal from this...

She's very manipulative and she pretend like everything is OK. Is this how secretive women can be....? Like right now she feels relaxed and like nothing happen. But here I am, perplexed by all I have read and seen. I saw there outing together in a restaurant and picture she snap In the guy place holding each other like couple 3 month ago in the chat history.

She was a gold digger . Instead of moaning ,be greatful you discovered it early -before she passed on that kid to you.

Break up cleanly and totally with her, no matter her tears make sure you leave no doubt in her mind that it's over. It will take awhile ,but you will get over it ,focus on yourself ,job or goals and try to make yourself happy.
Avoid getting bitter as it will spoil you for the good girls out there and know at the back of your mind that most people (male and female) in this world are selfish ,manipulative and disloyal . Do your best but always expect the worst

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

Shade no tears bro because the lord has delivered you from great bondage. Just move on a better one will come.

4teenblaq:
OP, if I were you.. It is nothing to think about.

Tomorrow morning, tell her that you really need to "consummate" the relationship that you can't wait any longer.

Oboy, she won't hesitate to give it to you. Since she is manipulative, she will been thinking finally, you'd fallen for another trap of her.

Oboy, as you dey Bleep am, Bleep the girl with all vexation. Give am message.

After the knacking, tell her to pack her bags and leave! Don't even allow her to argue, just show her the chat.

Trust me, the pain will be more than yours.
She would lose in three folds.
1.pregnant
2. You
3. The other guy.

Oboy live that thing oo, what if the condom bust or she transmit one infection to you. Man just LET HER GO.

Miltonz123:
I don't expect everyone to believe me.there will be doubters. God know I speak my mind out and I never cheated on her. I have been looking at where I got it wrong. Is it because I didn't have a car? Its not like I can't afford a second hand car but i have bigger plan and I have been thinking of our introduction I wanted to surprise her. But God knows the best.

;Domo I no fit laf,so u were carried away because of how religious she was, it's so sad,I really feel ur pain bro, believe all this evil gender at ur own peril

Miltonz123:
I don't expect everyone to believe me.there will be doubters. God know I speak my mind out and I never cheated on her. I have been looking at where I got it wrong. Is it because I didn't have a car? Its not like I can't afford a second hand car but i have bigger plan and I have been thinking of our introduction I wanted to surprise her. But God knows the best.

U did no wrong. Let the bitchh go and u be careful next time. At least be grateful u found out now and she didn't give u free pussy to rope u into taking care of another man's child. Move on bro... but u self see choir girl u still go enter? U no know say choir girls na special something

Wizywiz:
sorry for your breakfast abi dinner....next time do not put all your mind in a woman....and most importantly never you remain with a cheating partner....she might cry, beg and do all sorts of pleadings...never accept...to think that she will even plan on you both making love so she can pin the pregnancy on you...chai my guy sorry...most ladies no loyal again ooo...take some R-pills ok

What of girls dat got heartbroken from d guys day truly love

Ha! I dnt even know what to say.
U really caught her.

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

girls don't associate or do with guys who:
promise
smart
visionary
wise
lastly
loving and caring.....they want it soo fast,i mean faster the riches,doings and weddings,they know who loves them but that foolish mindset of fast fast keep deceiving them..send her away jaree..i hate ungrateful people...2 phones and a laptop and she still had the mind to do you dirt... heartless bicch.. break up with thaa #oe

Emilia154:
What of girls dat got heartbroken from d guys day truly love

it's a two way thing......both gender can be heartbroken, it's a matter of moving on and hoping for the best and hoping for the right patner...but never stick to someone who hurt you so much... especially when the partner cheats

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

This is not a simp matter. Just thank God for your life, if not, she would have hang the pregnancy on your head. Your next line of action is to allay her out of your place as soon as possible.

Miltonz123:


How can I heal from this...

She's very manipulative and she pretend like everything is OK. Is this how secretive women can be....? Like right now she feels relaxed and like nothing happen. But here I am, perplexed by all I have read and seen. I saw there outing together in a restaurant and picture she snap In the guy place holding each other like couple 3 month ago in the chat history.

Has she terminated the pregnancy?

only foolish men "fall in love"
I don't even know what that shit means.
Hopefully you learn to not to be so trusting of women.Women take advantage of men that care.You want women to take you seriously?Always put yourself first and be selfish.

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

Bro keep us updated

Miltonz123:
I moved and copy all her chat and saved in plain text.

I wished you screenshotted the vital ones. Since you said she is manipulative, she might be smart to defend herself. Well, how did it go?

It's been called off. It was an heated argument but at the end we settled amicably because I am not a violent person and because of the love I have for her, tears drip down my eyes and I very wish the baby was mine.

Today looks like a dream to me, I told God to wake me up.

Miltonz123:
It's been called off. It was an heated argument but at the end we settled amicably because I am not a violent person and because of the love I have for her, tears drip down my eyes and I very wish the baby was mine.

Today looks like a dream to me, I told God to wake me up.

Op if to say you dey me close now eeeh, i for carry you jazz in one Olosho joint give you free pussy make you for knack away your sorrow.
You wan dey cry untop woman matter... Wetin you go come do if to say you lost a loved one?

Miltonz123:
It's been called off. It was an heated argument but at the end we settled amicably because I am not a violent person and because of the love I have for her, tears drip down my eyes and I very wish the baby was mine.

Today looks like a dream to me, I told God to wake me up.

it is very painful, I can understand and relate to what you are feeling now. But look at the brighter side and the advantages of the decision you have made now. You won't have to take care of another man's child with the belief that the child is yours. Once an olosho, always an olosho, what confidence do you have that she won't have continued in oloshoism in the future if you had forgiven her now and continued with the relationship? She is only sorry because she got caught. With time, she will become used to getting caught and won't even feel sorry again. She would have become a community property and you will become a laughing stock. What confidence do you have that she won't have also dumped you for a richer guy in the future, there is always a richer guy out there, no matter what you give to her, her eyes will always be on what you didn't give to her that the richer guy had the potential of giving to her. Look at the brighter side and sigh no more son, a better and God-given girl is on the way.

LaserWr:
If na me, I will just pipe low and watch how she will try to manipulate me, either she pin the pregnancy on me and she abort the baby.

I will just be looking her but las Las I go shock her

Op if you’re emotionally and mentally strong try this and see more drama and learn more… but keep evidence that of the chat …video recording or another way …
This is why I have zero sympathy for these girls looking for husbands…some chased their original partners away in their early years..

Miltonz123:
I moved and copy all her chat and saved in plain text.

A screenshot is better

Miltonz123:
It's been called off. It was an heated argument but at the end we settled amicably because I am not a violent person and because of the love I have for her, tears drip down my eyes and I very wish the baby was mine.

Today looks like a dream to me, I told God to wake me up.

See. Don't be a pussy and call her back. As I dey see you. You fit do am .

Starz825:
Make he nak girl wey don get belle already for another man
Which kind rubbish be this...

Send her out that's all...

Everything na to nak nak for your side...
I pity you...

Lol..What the guy said is true..nack every hole in her body..bang am till she soft like socked garri..then collect all my properties in her possession then wire am the latest..

OvertheTop:
A screenshot is better

Yea, I didn't have any hunk think of screenshot bec the chat history dates back to months

Pakwel:
See. Don't be a pussy and call her back. As I dey see you. You fit do am .

I can never call her back again to my life again. What's the point keeping hatred and anger in my mind. I have forgiven her and I pray God forgive her.

For the phone xi am not collecting it back but I will take back my spare key..

youngZee23:
Lol..What the guy said is true..nack every hole in her body..bang am till she soft like socked garri..then collect all my properties in her possession then wire am the latest..

I don't understand in sleepijf with someone you are not connected with anymore.

I am so sorry I am a complete different person in that category. I can't do it.... And worst of all is someone that's pregnant. That's an abomination to me morally

Bia op take am easy
Shit happens
Thank God you were able to find out early enough, just brace yourself
There are thousands of women who are still good, but just be very careful in your next search.
So sorry about that, you'll be fine soon.

Gift00:
Check well

ika understands ika

Persephone1:
Congratulations you are now a step baby daddy

Which role would you assume? Bottle feeding or changing diapers?

BTW when are you dropping part 2, your script writing skill is top notch.

Which kain rough play be this na?

Persephone1:
Yeah... They are always old member with new account.

And their sympathy gaining skills is always top notch too

after i lost my 2011 acct, i had to open this one. I do not have another acct.

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

I really feel for you. I think it's better that you were able to go through her phone and see the texts because if not as she's pregnant she could have just said that you're responsible and you won't know better, unless you do DNA test.
Just try you best to move on from her. Any partner who cheats on you is not worth your time and is definitely not marriage material. It's better you found out before she even gives you an STD from her unfaithful ways.

Miltonz123:
How do you guy do knack someone you now see as nothing. I am sorry I can't even touch her. My heart is very heavy.. I need to relax. I wish she's not passing the night...

dnt ever try and bed her if not, she might hand the child on ur head. The world wil listen to her story not urs, dnt ever try it.