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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Theunbothered: 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2022
dhardline:
Will I say Nigerian atheist or atheist in general are a funny lot. How do you desire to have a 'decent' atheist as a girl friend?
Like who are you to require a standard for her when nothing rules her?
Or do you not know God gave man commandments on how to live life and be 'decent' and once God is removed man is free to make up his own rules as he lives and nothing becomes out of place for him. So just go ahead a marry any atheist you come across, she can decide to have 10 husband's and it's not out of place, she can decide to sleep with animals and it's still not out of place for her. She is ruled by nothing just as you claim you are too and hence free to do as she wills.

Hypocrites!

You will indulge in every thing you oppose then beg for forgiveness on Sunday just to do it all again.

You are all just deceiving yourselves.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by JooEeL(m): 4:26pm On Oct 24, 2022
Dliquidmetal:
Its head but always be upfront about your your religious/irreligious stance,some are just indifferent about it.
You gonna lose alot of friends and babes sha but its cool,quality over quantity.
Most theist always get scared of atheists lol,we don't fear the nonsense they've been brought up to fear and that scares them.


Gbam,

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by tsdarkside(m): 4:27pm On Oct 24, 2022
Theunbothered:


Hypocrites!

You will indulge in every thing you oppose then beg for forgiveness on Sunday just to do it all again.

You are all just deceiving yourselves.

is he wrong....??

this is what awaits you....if their are no rules,why even bother....??

na the same you go complain when women say they dont need you for anything....

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by mariahAngel(f): 4:27pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.




What do you plan to gain by dating a religious person in the first place, knowing it's never going to work out?
Why waste your time?
Were you hoping to change them?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SaLongs1(m): 4:28pm On Oct 24, 2022
Many men I know do stoop to conquer as that is the only way to get hitched. Most religions are very clever where they indoctrinate kids right from the crib and women are more vulnerable to things ephemeral.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by nnofaith: 4:29pm On Oct 24, 2022
GreyLaw:


When an atheist talks of reason and facts I get flummoxed, because it's ironical. If you ever cared to bother about facts and reason, you'd drop your atheist beliefs in a heartbeat.

Enjoy your time anyway; afterall everyone gets to find out the truth in the end when it's all said and done and changes cannot be made anymore. Your belief is your right; enjoy it!
Do you understand what facts and reason mean?what is factual about having hundreds of religions all contradicting one another? What is reasonable about Christians saying Jesus is the son of God and Muslim contradicting them by saying Allah doesn't have a child. Religion is about having faith, faith is believing without evidence. So what facts do you speak of?

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by atinga1: 4:30pm On Oct 24, 2022
Nigerian atheists, if there's anything like that, are believers who got frustrated with God and then suddenly turned atheists.
Small near accident, you see them shouting Jesus! Jesus!

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Warmaterial(m): 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2022
Exactly what I experienced in 9ja, if you open up to them and tell them who you are, that's going to be a problem, they'll start seeing you as a devil, but I don't care, I'm an atheist and I'll die as one...
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SaLongs1(m): 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2022
Theunbothered:


Hypocrites!

You will indulge in every thing you oppose then beg for forgiveness on Sunday just to do it all again.

You are all just deceiving yourselves.
There is this verse of a poem that says this.... A Christian is a man who feels repentance on a Sunday for what he did on Saturday and is going to do on Monday grin grin grin

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by LadyExcellency: 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


I meant theists. Check.

Forget it. Most of these guys claiming Atheist are not one including the op.

They are just Anti-theist. You can't continue to fight a belief system just because you don't understand them.

Most of this Athiest believe in Juju or at least diabolical protection or supernatural retribution "karma"

Fighting a believer in God/gods is not a definition of Atheism.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Theunbothered: 4:32pm On Oct 24, 2022
tsdarkside:


is he wrong....??

this is what awaits you....if their are no rules,why even bother....??

na the same you go complain when women say they dont need you for anything....

The same rules that change from church to church?

The established rules of your own religion are you following them? grin

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Franking: 4:32pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.




I am an atheist too. Female atheists are very difficult to come by. Something has to give. You don't have to pretend, just be tolerant. Allow her to do her thing, as difficult as it is.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SeriouslySense(m): 4:33pm On Oct 24, 2022
I don't have a problem with atheist, you can choose to be an atheist, its your choice, my problem is when people force people or fight people due to believes. Or the name calling.

It mostly blacks and Arabs that kill themselves over Religions.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Peterrio: 4:34pm On Oct 24, 2022
Fiscus105:



Is ur aethism free way to immorality. Or u re being aethist so that u can indulge in fornication.

When I was a Christian, I felt guilt whenever I did something against God's law

But I just realised, most Christians don't

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Franking: 4:34pm On Oct 24, 2022
Peterrio:
Some might not be very religious, but their thought patterns are still warped in religion.

The very religious ones can even be a challenge to Christian guys

One thing that amazes me from time to time is that they can partake freely in fornication and adultery, while holding the religion very tight


Exactly. Their christianity is usually oral.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Savedday: 4:34pm On Oct 24, 2022
This guy never know 9ja girls. To be honest with you, they don't care about religion. All they are after is the money.

Just show them money, that's all.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SaLongs1(m): 4:35pm On Oct 24, 2022
atinga1:
Nigerian atheists, if there's anything like that, are believers who got frustrated with God and then suddenly turned atheists.
Small near accident, you see them shouting Jesus! Jesus!
That is just a reflex repetition of what they hear around them after all a person brought up around Muslims will likely shout Allahuakbar... even though it is pointless shouting so.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Chopcy29: 4:35pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


Yeah, a long thing here. My ex called me the devil. This was someone i had a high chemistry with, but we weren't compatible- incompatibility borne out of religion.


Na the chemistry part wey you loose pain you well well

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Peterrio: 4:35pm On Oct 24, 2022
Franking:



Exactly. Their christianity is usually oral.

... and vaginal, and sometimes anal

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by mariahAngel(f): 4:36pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:


Yeah, a long thing here. My ex called me the devil. This was someone i had a high chemistry with, but we weren't compatible- incompatibility borne out of religion.

She did without reason? Answer honestly.
Were you offended?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Franking: 4:37pm On Oct 24, 2022
LadyExcellency:


Forget it. Most of these guys claiming Atheist are not one including the op.

They are just Anti-theist. You can't continue to fight a belief system just because you don't understand them.

Most of this Athiest believe in Juju or at least diabolical protection or supernatural retribution "karma"

Fighting a believer in God/gods is not a definition of Atheism.

You wish. I am an atheist and don't believe in diabolical stuff because it's all scam. I do not believe in the existence of any God. You can twist it any way that suits you.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by mariahAngel(f): 4:38pm On Oct 24, 2022
Peterrio:


Did u tell her from the onset that you don't believe in gods?

Good question.

NeckingNgulping, did you?
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SeriouslySense(m): 4:38pm On Oct 24, 2022
Its because they have hardened their heart and may no longer understand God.

It is believed that most people have a conscience that tells them what is wrong.

Also as Christian the Spirit from God, also tells us the will of God, and convicts Us. They no longer have understanding because they have forgotten.



Peterrio:


When I was a Christian, I felt guilt whenever I did something against God's law

But I just realised, most Christians don't
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SaLongs1(m): 4:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
LadyExcellency:


Forget it. Most of these guys claiming Atheist are not one including the op.

They are just Anti-theist. You can't continue to fight a belief system just because you don't understand them.

Most of this Athiest believe in Juju or at least diabolical protection or supernatural retribution "karma"

Fighting a believer in God/gods is not a definition of Atheism.
To the contrary it is religious people who are prone to violence and bigotry.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by Padipadi(m): 4:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
I'm an atheist, and I found that I'm incapable of dating women who are particularly religious. I could go out on a date with a religious woman, and that's usually solely by merit of me pretending the whole time as though I'm truly in for it.

Since long term relationship with these women would have necessitated that i make pretence a hobby, logic sets in and we inevitably part ways.

In a highly religious country like ours, it's quite hard to find a woman who's an atheist as me, let alone a decent one.



Cos you ought not to be an atheist. Some bastards may be tarnishing religion but it surely give more moderation to life. Christianity for example has more positive sides.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by tsdarkside(m): 4:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
look how he reasons....
i dont think a atheist woman would like him either....

women are very serious with this woke stuffs today....
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by mariahAngel(f): 4:41pm On Oct 24, 2022
Lollittaa:
Are you going to blame God for that too?
"if there was a God, He should have found me an atheist girlfriend to date cry"
Cooooooks please wipe the tears from his eyes.

Hahahahahahahahahakikikikikikiki grin

By the way, how many Os are there in cooooooooooooooooooooooooooooks moniker? gringrin
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by SaLongs1(m): 4:41pm On Oct 24, 2022
Franking:


You wish. I am an atheist and don't believe in diabolical stuff because it's all scam. I do not believe in the existence of any God. You can twist it any way that suits you.
Almost all these religious folks don't even know what they worship in the first place which is why some are prone to violence.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by tsdarkside(m): 4:41pm On Oct 24, 2022
op is just those guys that think they can get any woman....
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by VULCAN(m): 4:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
Where exactly do morals emanate from?

You are blissfully unaware that morals emanate from a basic understanding of the invisible aspect of life.

If men are nothing but animal meat then murder is no crime because we kill chickens and cows everyday.

While the spiritual being realises that there is a spark of divine in man, the atheist rejects this because in his blindness, man is just another animal

Sneakytoucher:
There is something called morals which has got nothing to do with religion. Remember that.

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Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by tsdarkside(m): 4:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahakikikikikikiki grin

By the way, how many Os are there in cooooooooooooooooooooooooooooks moniker? gringrin

exactly....
Re: My Experience As An Atheist In The Dating World. by piphunter(m): 4:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
Religion was indoctrinated into people as kids. You had little or no choice. Some eventually seek knowledge and eventually ask critical questions when they grow older. There are thousands of Religions on earth and people from other religions are all going to hell according to other religions so relax. Religion was brought to Africa as a tool to control. In another timeline we Africans will probably be worshiping our African gods/deities if Christianity/Islam was not brought to us. If you were born in Asia for example you'll probably worship a different god. Religion was born out of mans inability to explain everything around them. Thanks to science and technology man is now wiser and can explain with certainty many phenomena that earlier humans attributed to something supernatural or unexplainable. Back in our not so distant past, men worshiped the moon as a god. The same moon the modern man has stepped foot on as at many decades ago. That being said iam not an aethist neither am i religious. Broaden your mind, seek knowledge and ask questions.


BobbieZion:


God is greater than Man's imagination.

Can you prove that God does not exist?
Which is harder proving He exists or proven He does not?
Then i guess billions of Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus and Buddhists are just using a figment of their imagination.........
Can you now hear how you sound?

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