Wait o! How do people cope in a relationship? I swear being Single has more liberty. I've hooked myself to a big Jezebel.

How we met: At a friend's house. She liked me instantly and asked my friend for my number through WhatsApp. Then we started chatting.

Note: We had sex twice the day after we met but now she's forming CATWOMAN.

Pros:

Ability to speak English fluently
Has some Gangster babe vibes.

CONS:

Cannot Submit - She'll forever be right.

- She turns little discussion to arguments and anger.

- cannot care for a home. cannot do basic things in the house except when forced, like sweeping, laying of bed after sleep, this beach cannot fry egg or cook anything other than rice.

- Someone we had sex last week now Find faults when I touch her. always talking that I'm forceful, I'm afraid of being accused of rape.

- She is rude but very jealous.

- She wants me to stop speaking our native language. We're same tribe from North region.

- she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.

Can someone command get this thing outta my bed, She's sleeps till 10am everyday.

Una day try for relationship o.

Na God know when I go marry for this life.

Love is not enough
Na madness Dem dey take cure madness

Freelane33:
Love is not enough
Na madness Dem dey take cure madness

This one pass me o...

. she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.

Shameless girl! She can't even afford N500.

Someone that can't convert her "intelligence" and "fluent English" into money is who you're stressing your life for ?

No Nigerian girl is worth your happiness. The earlier you discard that liability, the better for your sanity.

Freelane33:
Love is not enough
Na madness Dem dey take cure madness

No wonder normal people wey dey Nigeria nah just 11 people.

Ok open another book then.
Pele

Book of lamentations.






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Its a red flag. Don't go and enter one-chance like myself o

He say she is rude but jealous....

Rudeness and jealousy na bad thing

There is always a reason why people want you for marriage or relationship....

Endeavor to find out before committing to them...(note: don't ask them directly, just find out)

Very important....

I once dated one lady that only wanted a relationship because she doesn't have a comfortable place to stay...she was perching with her friends and wasn't comfortable with them..
Even though she finds me attractive....the above was what she wanted the most....

So a relationship with somebody like that can never last if she eventually finds a better option....

Find out the reason why he or she likes you or want you for marriage.

- she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.

If u do a thorough background investigation, she might likely be from a very poor home...

Just 1 week gf, what do we say about a week marriage then.....?

Starz825:
He say she is rude but jealous....

Rudeness and jealousy na bad thing

There is a always a reason why people want you for marriage or relationship....

Endeavor to find out before committing to them...(note: don't ask them directly, just find out)

Very important....

I once dated one lady that only wanted a relationship because she doesn't have a comfortable place to stay...she was perching with her friends and wasn't comfortable with them..
Even though she finds me attractive....the above was what she wanted the most....

So a relationship with somebody like that can never last if she eventually finds a better option....

Find out the reason why he or she likes you or want you for marriage.

She likes dark men and she pointed out that she was attracted to me at first sight.

Tit4Tat1:



If u do a thorough background investigation, she might likely be from a very poor home...

No Cap. That's where she came from.

Next time before you nack a woman, observe her behaviors. Don't just nack problem enter your life. It's when you're younger you may be reckless with sex, but not when you're getting older.

The relationship never tay sha. So just tell am say you no do again. Abi you de fear am? No let another woman enslave you, especially when na you de bank roll am.

Loveisnotenough:


She likes dark men and she pointed out that she was attracted to me at first sight.

Not enough reason to stand as good especially when they like you for your physical attributes only

Are you the only black man in the world...

Na for there you suppose know say ...
Her likeness and relationship won't last

Benue girl?

ObalendeCMS:
Benue girl?

Yes o

Same here.. I started a fun and lovely but stressful relationship last week, now she no longer pick my calls. I'm glad its coming to an end though, because guy within this one week, my brain just off. Everyday na steady highness, we both drink, she sometimes handle the bills., keeping late nights and having incomplete sleep due to steady knacking, go work next day and start making mistakes, can't even concentrate.. I noticed some change in attitude the last morning she left my place. I was fully back my senses the minute I saw her text that I should borrow her 25k for an emergency (dem dey borrow woman money?). I first off my phone, on am in the evening, called her, no response till today.. for the past 3days now is like huge burden left me.. fear woman! !

Dude, why all this lamentations and Psalms?

Just dump her and stop bringing rubbish on here.

Imagine the broke hole, olosho filled with entitlement mentality!!

We have said this over and over again that you don't date Nigeria girls but you bang them as much as you can, dump them and move on to the next available girl for a Very hot bang.

Alaye, you better stop lamenting and send the werey out of your house ASAP, girls full everywhere! No dey stress yourself again

How does this concern us again? Seun should stop sending these SS1 boy-topics to the front page.

You can never make it.

Lol

As for me, I’m tried of fucking/feeding Nigerian girls, all they care about is what to eat out of a relationship. They even nurse when to bill you.

My last relationship with one, was ranting around that I broke up with her cos I’m doing fine, I had to dash to her my old phone Xs max and the ranting stopped. Imagine she’s stopped worrying and moved on immediately getting the phone……to her she’s hasn’t lost, Lol

Some salient red flags imo

Angry and rude; anger issues from home.

Can't keep the house clean; as much as we like to say she is not your slave, but she should be able to lay the bed she slept on. Nobody is her slave either.

Likes to behave like the richest; poverty mentality, rich people don't do notice me.

Says you should stop speaking your language; inferiority complex and trying to form big girl.

Sleeps till 10am; the more reason she is broke/poor.

Can't cook basics; she wants you to order in, some people from poor homes are more choosy than the well to do.

In summary, do not start a relationship by trying to heal or nurse a broken winged bird.
You won't grow or achieve much with such a character around you. Look for people that are hardworking and bring out the best in you.

She doesn’t dress the bed after waking up?
(NB:My nephew won’t watch cartoon if he doesn’t dress his bed after sleep.)
Here you are with an adult who can’t do the basics?
Would have kicked such person out a long time.
Won’t bother her about cooking, I like my food prepared by myself to my taste .
Send N500 for her through POS? In my dreams can’t do so .
Would have tongue lashed her since , my mouth can’t be silence when an adult refuse to respect herself.
Bleep the legs she’s spreading, will chase her out of my life .
Can’t tolerate some rubbish

Noted.

Can you share her this forum link, so we can hear her own side of the story? Why be say you no list ya own fault join? Na only she waka come?

All this within one week? It shows you are not reserved as well.