Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? - Family (4) - Nairaland
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| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 11:42am On Nov 05, 2022 |
iHateFraudsters:They birth more knowing the children will be talented and will eventually care for themselves..... I know a white man who saw children as a liability etc.....he felt why hv children wen he can spend the time on himself.... why pack children poo and urine and stress urself. He retired this year at 56 and childless.... he said his biggest regret is not having kids.... this person could afford kids but was selfish and individualistic....now he dey hear am...and abroad is very lonely....hahaha |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by faceland: 11:42am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Same reason we are the poorest with all the natural resources. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Youngzedd(m): 11:42am On Nov 05, 2022 |
We honestly don't value human life and wellbeing in this country. I have learnt to pay deaf ears to people who put themselves in difficult situations. Make everyone carry their cross mbok. 2 Corinthians 8:12-13 12 Whatever you give is acceptable if you give it eagerly. And give according to what you have, not what you don’t have. 13 Of course, I don’t mean your giving should make life easy for others and hard for yourselves. I only mean that there should be some equality. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by jclassiq(m): 11:46am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Societal conditioning. And perhaps, illiteracy, especially those in the rural areas. The women in the rural areas are champions. I have mad respect for them. After the excessive breeding like rats, some fathers will just lock up and abandon the women with the children. Rural women are the true Amazons. Some bear 7 kids. Some 8. Some 9 & 10. It's crazy. And if you asked them, "why are you breeding so many children?" They'll say, "Ah... Don't you know that children are blessing from God? I don't know which one God will use and rescue me from my suffering". Defective thinking. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Satazaa: 11:46am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Evolutionlove:and anyone that argues that the Blackman does not have the lowest of IQs should just look at Nigeria that is acknowledged as one of the top five resource rich nations on planet Earth but is the undisputed poverty capital of the world, don't get angry when the Blackman is derided the world over because we deserve it ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 11:47am On Nov 05, 2022 |
gadgethead:"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect"- check Google for this quote.. Just because 80% are doing it doesn't make it right or sensible.... Most are misinformed and just following the crowd.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Chetas81(m): 11:48am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maaverick:NIGERIAN'S ARE LOOKING FOR SHOPPING MALLS TO PURCHASE THEIR COMMON SENSE |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Franking: 11:50am On Nov 05, 2022 |
The blackman seems cursed. Every country in the world with a black leader is a shithole. South Africa is getting there. As simple as that. On the other hand, children are considered old age insurance by some people. Developed countries have proper pension and welfare packages for old people we have none. So,.the more children u have the more 'pension' u will probably receive. ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Olowosaudi(m): 11:51am On Nov 05, 2022 |
In 1960, Nigeria's population was 45.2 million. Britain's population in 1960 was 52.2. Sixty two years later, Nigeria's population is currently estimated at 221.39 million, whilst Britain's population today is 67.3 million. Funny isn't it? Britain is a wealthy state and yet has been able to manage her population reasonably in spite of the many people that migrate to the country. Nigerians must begin to see themselves as the reason for our poverty, not an unknown spirit ooo. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Franking: 11:51am On Nov 05, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Don't follow the crowd. Stay here, u hear? |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by owagbeba: 11:52am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maaverick:Isn’t the problem here an extensive belief that God will take care of our problems. I guess that’s what the churches have been preaching since my birth, absolving our responsibilities: Make more, God go provide. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Chetas81(m): 11:53am On Nov 05, 2022 |
gambia: Maaverick: |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Ellasure: 11:53am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maaverick:Your write up is not written with good intentions and of good mind. You are not God and His workings is beyond your understanding. You are a creep of the western civilisation delusion. Taken care and provisioning for human kind is beyond human calculations and reasonings.. can I humbly ask you to tell me what you will eat today evening? If you know it, you are surely living alone in your wretched life. Unpredictable is the hallmark of good living and a good man. If you are too sure of everything happening to you or around you please check yourself nobody should envy you. The western countries that tried to be predictable in all aspects of their living are today ruled by strangers and foreigners. Open your eyes. The good Lord is not predictable. There was a time that the world population was one billion and there was famine but today there is seven billion people in the world today and there is abundant foods and goods supplies. Can you explain and rationalise that? |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 11:57am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Satazaa:You need to listen to yourself my brother. The psychological warfare waged by the neocolonialists thru CNN and BBC has affected your mind.... Nigeria is the largest economy in Africa followed by South Africa. It used to be South Africa but a country run entirely by blacks overtook South africa and Egypt. You don't know what you are talking about.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by ednut1(m): 12:00pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
At the point i no longer pity them. They will not manage one or two kids na 5 plus. Idiotic set of people |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Oyiboman69: 12:01pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:Afro pessimist....
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| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Safyqueen: 12:04pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
youngreezy:A typical black African talking ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 12:07pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Oyiboman69:The Belgians came to africa and killed 20million Congolese.... In 1908 Germany killed millions of Namibians.... France has killed millions of Africans... Britain wiped out north American tribes.... So it's those with these records have mental defect. Netherlands sailed to South africa and started fighting natives to steal their land Britain came to Nigeria and launched wars....so the Europeans hv a mental defect.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Elemosho478: 12:09pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maaverick:Religion is the number one answer People believe God will take care of the children for them some how. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by KennethEnyi(m): 12:10pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Because it makes life interesting if it’s to ray all the time it’ll make you wanna blow ur fucking brains in!!! |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by NACE13: 12:14pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Ellasure:Permit me to come in here. Your submission on this is a serious cause for concern. So, because I don't know the future, I shouldn't plan for my tomorrow, is that what you are saying? Because I don't know tomorrow, I should spend my paycheck at the end of the month on whatever I like, not minding what tomorrow has in store for me. This archaic mentality is the real reason many poor people are still breeding like rats. Have you ever been to a slum or had a little chat with louts on the streets and try to find out why they are living in such pitiable state? Most of them are children of poor parents that couldn't take care of them. Most of them turn to any sort of crime to survive. Please, wake up your ideas and be guided. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 12:15pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Olowosaudi:If I may humbly differ sir, Britain's population would hv declined if not for immigration- you forget they run all kinds of immigration and visa schemes....that's what has kept their population... Nigerias population being 200m is a good thing...China is a super power today because of the number of the People's Liberation Army (millions of active and reserve soldiers)..... Today Nigeria has a higher number of soldiers than Britain which means we can defeat Britain if they decide to launch a colonial war like they did in the past.... Russia/USA too has a high number of soldiers.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by obaaderemi: 12:16pm On Nov 05, 2022*. Modified: 6:18am On Nov 06, 2022 |
If you are in a courtship, ask your intended how many kids she wishes to have. As a smart man the answer she gives should give you an idea if you should continue with the relationship or not. Believe me if she or he says he wants four kids that's what you will end up having. If someone is not on the same page with you on something as important as number of children, run! |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Father4all: 12:17pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maaverick:how many people earn 250k in Nigeria? You never even talk 100k |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 12:19pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
NACE13:Your opinion is welcome and brings balance to the conversation....I think the middle ground between your position and his position is healthy I.e. don't plan too much and at the same time don't leave too much to chance..... I've learnt something from this conversation.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by Oyiboman69: 12:20pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
BigBashiru:if you know what Africans went through during the 400 years of slavery and they've still not left us to rest.... Its okay to note that you're unconscious of the barbarism the Europeans perpetrated against the Africans. you still claim Africans mental defects.... In your learned opinion, how would this evil act affect the people our great continent?... I wouldn't have demanded answer but I believe you're far from reality |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by mmsen: 12:22pm On Nov 05, 2022*. Modified: 1:46pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Maxxim:And OP's point is that these mumu people cannot take care of them. That's the entire point of the post - why do people who struggle with the basics think it is their right to have children and not just one or two but they will have up to six or seven and then cry about the hardship in the country, the government etc. Do you think the insecurity issues in the north would be such if the people there limited themselves to one or two children? |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by BigBashiru: 12:22pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Oyiboman69:I don't understand ur comment and question.... |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by VenumX: 12:23pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
They are about to make another mistake in 2023 and wail the more as they birth more empty headed animals they can't feed. Africans are cursed. |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by harmargedon: 12:23pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
zed7: guy you work Indian man work ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by mmsen: 12:23pm On Nov 05, 2022*. Modified: 3:05pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Numbers mean nothing. You need quality hardware, training, strategy, intel and commitment. Nigeria's army cannot even defeat the illiterate soldiers of Boko Haram, how do you think they will defeat any other nation, especially one with advanced weaponry? |
| Re: Why Do Africans Prefer Suffering Or Putting Themselves In Difficult Situations? by harmargedon: 12:25pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
shantti:their consolation thought, nah God dey train pikin ![]() |
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