Fuckyoumod:
Before our time, we had women of pride. They were reserved with dignity and some sense of responsibility for their husbands only.
Nobody count.

They were well groomed, virgins,respectful, caring, less dramatic, loyal to the core and hard working. They were Mentally, sexually, emotionally, psychologically and morally intact. At most 21 years they are married.

Back in the days you don't need to date them before marrying them. Because they were pure and undiluted it was the responsibility of any fortunate or lucky man that marries them to dilute them. So when they are married they are married.

But today, what we have are boreholes, loose girls, runs girls, sex tools, slay queens, drama queens, sex for money, very irresponsible set of things. No dignity, no value, heavily dependent on you, no respect, disloyal and poorly groomed.. what we have now are morally, psychologically, emotionally and sexually battered women littering everywhere... body count na no go area.

They don't need to be rewarded with marriage. But if you must reward them with marriage, you must date them for a very long time to be able to know them inside and outside. Else you go cry later!

No wonder at 25yr - 30yr they are still I'm their parents houses causing problem[/b]s.

[b]Don't let anybody deceive you to marry a stranger. Na you go regret, no be your pastor or your adviser.

Never make the mistake.

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

Zonefree:
Marriage without dating is invitation to doom.



This is the most hilarious post I've read this year .
Where person wan see a Nigerian girl that has the fear of God? Na God dey fear our Nigerian girls now

Use Nairaland girls as a case study.

Bahamas95:
Nothing on earth will make me marry without dating. No matter how she tries to pretend or hide her bad character you must see the handwriting on the wall if you ain't stupid.

Nobody is perfect, but if she didn't meet my passmark I will dump her ASAP. Dating gives you the opportunity to know who you'll be living with. I have dated several girls before and know how women reason.......For you to finally pick one of them means she's the one that will cause less trouble.

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.

What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

BabaCommander:
If you must marry, marry someone who has the fear of God.

When love fails, and times are hard, the fear of God will keep the evil tendecies and human vice away.

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

Zonefree:
Marriage without dating is invitation to doom.



This is the most hilarious post I've read this year .
Where person wan see a Nigerian girl that has the fear of God? Na God dey fear our Nigerian girls now

Use Nairaland girls as a case study.

YourHerbalOrgan:
I am 30...



never be in any relationship... am I okay

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

judedwriter:
In the biblical days, there wasn't anything as dating or even courtship.

People just go ahead and marry.

It's when people began discovering the complexities of marriage, that they started introducing dating and courtship as alternative and preparing for marriage respectively.

Courtship isn't biblical!

If you like someone, go ahead and marry! God doesn't have a specific person for you, He may have His choice though.

Love will solve any problems that emanate after

Love is key o. If you don't love, no try marriage

HomeTutorsPro:
Outright marriage, after a few months of thorough checks.
Genotype.
Blood group.
Bedroom (and allied places) qualifications.

And hey...
Don't forget to check the number of shoes in her rack.
E get why.

iLegendd:
Know the person first for 6 months to a year before marriage. You call it anything you want, but do your KYC properly.

Ireportlive:


Omo dating na him sure pass oo, a bad relationship is better than a horrible divorce when children are now involved.

Even our ancestors that marry without dating have their family do due diligence and investigation on who they want their child to marry.

iLegendd:
Know the person first for 6 months to a year before marriage. You call it anything you want, but do your KYC properly.

Zonefree:
Marriage without dating is invitation to doom.



This is the most hilarious post I've read this year .
Where person wan see a Nigerian girl that has the fear of God? Na God dey fear our Nigerian girls now

Use Nairaland girls as a case study.

InvertedHammer:


/
The economy no support dating. Buy wholesale and deal with the repercussions if any.

You waste money and time dating...then one smooth-talker will arm twist you .

/

Fuckyoumod:
Before our time, we had women of pride. They were reserved with dignity and some sense of responsibility for their husbands only.
Nobody count.

They were well groomed, virgins,respectful, caring, less dramatic, loyal to the core and hard working. They were Mentally, sexually, emotionally, psychologically and morally intact. At most 21 years they are married.

Back in the days you don't need to date them before marrying them. Because they were pure and undiluted it was the responsibility of any fortunate or lucky man that marries them to dilute them. So when they are married they are married.

But today, what we have are boreholes, loose girls, runs girls, sex tools, slay queens, drama queens, sex for money, very irresponsible set of things. No dignity, no value, heavily dependent on you, no respect, disloyal and poorly groomed.. what we have now are morally, psychologically, emotionally and sexually battered women littering everywhere... body count na no go area.

They don't need to be rewarded with marriage. But if you must reward them with marriage, you must date them for a very long time to be able to know them inside and outside. Else you go cry later!

No wonder at 25yr - 30yr they are still I'm their parents houses causing problem[/b]s.

[b]Don't let anybody deceive you to marry a stranger. Na you go regret, no be your pastor or your adviser.

Never make the mistake.

InvertedHammer:


/
The economy no support dating. Buy wholesale and deal with the repercussions if any.

You waste money and time dating...then one smooth-talker will arm twist you .

/

bukatyne:
@OP:

Date| court | marry.

I love to eliminate stress as much as possible.

I don't have the time or patience to start learning if you sleep with AC or press toothpaste in the middle after marriage.

iLegendd:
Know the person first for 6 months to a year before marriage. You call it anything you want, but do your KYC properly.

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.
You can get good grades without writing your assessments right?


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?