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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Aaaaarghmed(m): 2:35pm On Nov 06, 2022
Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.
As a senior in the game,its not worth it all all.You might not believe if we tell you.But it's not worth it and believe me,she is already sleeping with someone else.Just believe and dont put your Hope's on a long distance relationship,if you do,you will still come back here crying about breakup.take this advise seriously.I speak from countless experience

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 06, 2022
I never said that.. so far I'm content with my SA men, but thanks for the offer.
Pells:

All Nigeria men are the same from your explanation undecided undecided
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by weareok(m): 2:46pm On Nov 06, 2022
Lol,I school in ekpoma
You could give me her number so that I can check up on her for you � but man on a more serious note remove mind she's for the street now

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Nobody: 2:49pm On Nov 06, 2022
I'm really disappointed in you, I thought you were different.
advanceDNA:


Since when did having a moderate ass bcome an insult?? Anyway i apologize if it was insulting to you.....i ddnt mean that as an insult.....i was throwing jabs at we nigerian men...... apologies

Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by kwasoly(m): 2:57pm On Nov 06, 2022
Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.



Concentrate on ur studies and leave girls. Flee sexual immorality young man for your own good.

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Xsw1: 2:59pm On Nov 06, 2022
Only a simp guy will engage in long distance relationship. The girls use this to trap gullible men so that they can eat their Cake and have it.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Mathain19(m): 3:01pm On Nov 06, 2022
That girl might be innocent of all your accusations right now...
Keep in touch with her..
School stress actually contributes to taking someone's time.
She is not what people are saying..
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by advanceDNA: 3:01pm On Nov 06, 2022
Samantha123:
I'm really disappointed in you, I thought you were different.


Different??
This is serious??
How do u offend someone when u are throwing jabs at a completely different person....sigh!!

I thought u were different too...i'm dissapointed too...
Women are all the same at some point....u dont have to offend them to offend them.....even if you apologize...its still a problem

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Thacutegemini: 3:01pm On Nov 06, 2022
[quote author=GoooodHardDick post=118160173]How a sane guy calls a random Nigeria street girl "my girl" still baffles me till today.

The sooner you understand that you're dating yourself, the better for you. That girl is busy collecting dick from random guys and you're here Hoping and wishing for her? You don't date Nigeria girls you only bang their pussy, dump them and move on. Girls full everywhere Oga, stop behaving like a pussy ass niggar!!![/qu


seems like your dad left your mum I can understand cos she is not really worth it , so that mentality still lives with you He goat.
he is only asking for advise so, you don't need to bring out your family issues here
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Thacutegemini: 3:02pm On Nov 06, 2022
the two of you are just deceiving yourselves
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by iLegendd(m): 3:02pm On Nov 06, 2022
No, they aren't.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:03pm On Nov 06, 2022
Who d do long distance relationship If u want me to spend my moni u have to b here wit me. Period
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by GoooodHardDick: 3:03pm On Nov 06, 2022
[quote author=Thacutegemini post=118169001][/quote]

Seun justwise farano OAM4J mynd44 lalastical.

Kindly go through what this user wrote and do the needful, otherwise I'll be forced to retaliate
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Pells: 3:09pm On Nov 06, 2022
weareok:
Lol,I school in ekpoma
You could give me her number so that I can check up on her for you � but man on a more serious note remove mind she's for the street now
You wan carry am go big taste,after carry am go chosen abi undecided lipsrsealed
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Thacutegemini: 3:12pm On Nov 06, 2022
grin
GoooodHardDick:


Seun justwise farano OAM4J mynd44 lalastical.

Kindly go through what this user wrote and do the needful, otherwise I'll be forced to retaliate

grin
GoooodHardDick:


Seun justwise farano OAM4J mynd44 lalastical.

Kindly go through what this user wrote and do the needful, otherwise I'll be forced to retaliate
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Gohs: 3:25pm On Nov 06, 2022
It's obvious that this girl is pulling away from you.
Please try to put her out of your mind because it's over.

If you are finding it difficult to move on, tell your friends about Peter Obi — that they should vote Obi for a better Nigeria.

Saying things like this brings hope and your heart will heal with time.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by bigcasava1(m): 3:34pm On Nov 06, 2022
Is full of cheating, it doesn't work. Me I go cheat

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:38pm On Nov 06, 2022
marefeh:
Sch bf is different from house bf.

Know this n know peace

Lolllllllllllll
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Nobody: 3:41pm On Nov 06, 2022
She’s your gf. Konji is for legally married people. Is the relationship about sex? Channel your energy to something fruitful.

Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Bahamas95(m): 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2022
"My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him."





grin grin grin

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by ogbonti: 3:52pm On Nov 06, 2022
Angrygoat:
Stupid fool. Dnt read your book and graj. Ode


best response ever

babe wey i defend for school those days which almost caused a frat war is now the wife of one silly man wey no know all my effort then

If to say I die that time for her matter, my death (God forbid) would have been meaningless to her today

MEMORY VERSE

NEVER carry woman matter for head, put am for shoulder - EXCEPT she is your mother, wife with your kids or sister NOT girlfriend!

plz receive sense !!!!

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Raspberri: 4:01pm On Nov 06, 2022
izubext007:
No girl can stay without sex for two weeks......close ur eye and continue......love is blind any way





Lies from the pit of Hell.... Say ur sisters or nieces can't stay two weeks without sex.. don't generalize.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by odaniel1(m): 4:03pm On Nov 06, 2022
walk away. it has gone sour already, never cry over spilt milk unnecessarily. Continue with the girls you see but keep the other as a good friend for snacks later Any other thing apart from this will lead to unshakeable, premium, salted tears
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by mrdharkchild(m): 4:06pm On Nov 06, 2022
If Ekpoma and Abraka na long distance relationship, wetin you go come call Canada and Lagos? Long distance relationship get grade bro.

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Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by izubext007: 4:14pm On Nov 06, 2022
Are u defending ur mother?
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by frozen70(f): 4:21pm On Nov 06, 2022
Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.

There are some things that we can't handle due to distance

Keep on checking on her don't nurse the idea that she is dating

You too am sure that you are dating with another

By the end you guys may meet to part no more, but for now still keep her as whom you have taken her to be since you love her so much
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Chrisceejay: 4:23pm On Nov 06, 2022
who relationship help now sef talkmore of long distance one .
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Originalsly: 4:25pm On Nov 06, 2022
Youngblood007:


I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another.

Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.


You have a girlfriend?... shouldn't it be had? You don't really talk ... and you don't see each other ... but you're saying you have a gf. Why do you think she doesn't pick your calls? ... because she just got her nails done and be waiting for them to dry? I can bet my life the only reason she calls back when her man is not there is because you send her money. Since you love her soooo much .... and can't reduce the love my advice is to continue paying to hear from her ... you will feel good that at least you still hear from her a d continue to fool yourself that she is your gf.
Long distance relationships have worked for many ... but it is not easy and takes two strongly committed people to make it work.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Sambto: 5:21pm On Nov 06, 2022
mhen if theres anything ive learnt form long distances relationship is it doesn't work, trust me no matter how good its feels, or how you try to make it work it won't just work.
its like petting a dog form someone else's cage,... I'll say this one peron will cheat the other would love another & so the table turn.
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Faposky95: 5:23pm On Nov 06, 2022
Look, there's reason for figures of speech.
Relationship is kinda relative...give and take wit respect to percentage. See it as a biz deal...where the focus is profit.
You'll see rich investors put their money into poor investors with rich ideas....
It's all a risk like every other thing.

People are selfish and would take advantage of another if only they'll not get indicted, continue their scheming....all's relationship.
Study. Get knowledge. You'll reduce this hollaing ....
Re: Are Long Distance Relationships Really Worth It by Menclothing: 5:42pm On Nov 06, 2022
Lol

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