advanceDNA:


Its wisdom until baba say bring part of junior school fees, part of rent, and part of other financial obligations.......

Are you minding her?
They always think finding money to provide for the house is easier than housechores.
Some even feel like cooking is slavery.
I will help her cook, clean and bathe the children sometimes if she can be contributing money too.
Chores are easier than making money but they always see chores as slavery. I don't know why.
If we can switch it, I will go for chores make she hustle and bring money for the house.
Anyways, these are gender roles but one can volunteer to support the other from time to time.
But women seeing their own as slavery can be very annoying.

If you want to date and marry a good lady... Start by being a good guy.
You dey sleep around and you want a faithful wife?

SugarGirl44:


You need to see a therapist, this isn’t normal.

Some people are meant to be alone. I do not enjoy peoples company for long, man or woman.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


At the bolded.. once an average Nigerian girl notices this, her ego becomes overbloated. I guess yours is different. You are lucky!

Being better than me at taking care of the house and raising the kids is what I consider being superior to me because I am not always there at home to look after the kids, to do the homework or school work with my kids.
 
Don’t forget the question.
The question is whether you want to marry your current spouse again in your next life.

My answer is YES because I get peace of mind with my current spouse.

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

I’m not married and I don’t think I’m ever getting married.

I get easily irritated with women being around me for long.

I’m just comfortable with fvck and go.

Maybe if I ever decide to marry, my wife would be staying in Enugu while I stay in Lagos. I will just be visiting her once in a month and sometimes 2 months.

Anything other than that, I might seek for divorce within one month.

My nigga

The thought of staying with a woman that isn't my blood for long bores me to the core.

okoroemeka:
I am now married for 23 years and if given the opportunity to choose I will still take my current wife,she is a very beautiful tall,sexy and smart woman that reads human minds like an open book,she gave me beautiful children including twins that are also smart and intelligent rarely falling sick,my wife will not hesitate to tell you the truth whether you like it or not and she has a good heart and capacity to forgive which was sorely needed the year I stupidly fell for her junior sister the last born in their family and got the beautiful seductress witch pregnant,that was the lowest point I could ever desend as a man with my inlaws, but my wife stayed strong with me,she forgived but not without some real drama and tongue lashing.that was very close to be listed in 1000 ways to die.

Men you thoroughly deserve the tongue lashing . You would have kicked her out, if she did the same.

SugarGirl44:


You need to see a therapist, this isn’t normal.

SERIOUSLY BE4 ITS TOO LATE

Danniedpastor:


This would be testimonies of all your daughters (unborn), and sisters (if you have any). I expect you to say amen if e sure for you.
Abusing women every time shows you are unproductive and empty.
Orue!!!

U SOUND LIKE A SIMP.
I HAVE NEVER SEEN UR MONIKER CAUTIONING ANY OF THOSE WOMEN WHO ABUSE MEN REGULARLY HERE, BT U DNT WASTE TIME TO CAUTION MEN IF U SEE ANY ABUSING WOMEN.

JUST GETAT WITH UR MUMU PRAYER BECUS NTN TO WILL HAPPEN TO HIS DAUGHTERS.

Freshgrace4life:
Hahahaha, he also has his own , the fact we are able to tolerate each other , that's what they called maturity, when he's wrong , he apologize, same with me , we don't wait for who to do the apology first ..

I UNDASTAND U CMPLETELY NOW, BT STILL IF U BOTH DNT WAIT FOR WHO TO APOLOGISE FIRST THEN WHY WAIT FOR THE PERSON THAT DID WRNG BECME THE PERSON TO DO THE APOLOGY ?

From what I learnt here those that said NO are more than those that said YES.

And I wouldn't also be surprised if some saying YES do so because their spouse have an account here.

To be honest marriage is scary. I have many fears though and still considering it as an option.

Moniya4Real:


It’s a bit long bro, but I summary. She felt I wasn’t making enough to massage her quasi- celebrity lifestyle cos she is close to people in the Yoruba film industry. The fact is I take care of our bills and to be fair to her, she contributed as well. Found out she was sleeping with one Yoruba actor. More painful is that she was not even doing it for money but for other reasons only she knows. She cheated on me as well while I, being a church person and a pastor in my church never cheated on her… I am still healing ever since she on Aug, 21st. She denied me sex as well

Lol. She was never really dating you. She was simply taking advantage of you

Danniedpastor:


Thank God for you bro.
Marriage is blissful but, have its own challenges.
Don't mind those Naira land baby boys that date some unproductive ladies Luke themselves and still expect magic to happen.
God bless your home

Thank you!

annisy:
Another pea_brain just like my mother spotted

Kelvin3476:

MAY THE SWEETNES7 OF UR MARRIAGE LASTS FOREVER.

Thanks kelvin..


Wish u same

gbassa:
In my next life and beyond, I would never marry. I would have baby mamas and live my life to the fullest. It was never my intention to marry my wife, though she was my girlfriend but was blackmailed with pregnancy. Though paternity test confirmed the child as mine. I wish I could turn back the ends of time but it is not possible. I am just staying in the marriage because of my kids.

lol..that's my way now.i have a 2 years baby girl..next year I will get another babymama..best life ever

Yes if there is no better option

MyVILLAGEpeople:


I didn't want to throw shades at him on purpose. But it's not right making the woman head of a marriage. It's wrong!

I am the head of my household but my wife is better than me in managing a home. That’s what I meant as being superior.

I messed up and have a child outside. Although she was furious, she eventually forgave me. This girl has been brought up by her as her own. I admire her more because of this.

The question is whether you want to marry your current spouse again in your next life.

My answer is yes because I get peace of mind with her.

MNDY:


Are you minding her?
They always think finding money to provide for the house is easier than housechores.
Some even feel like cooking is slavery.
I will help her cook, clean and bathe the children sometimes if she can be contributing money too.
Chores are easier than making money but they always see chores as slavery. I don't know why.
If we can switch it, I will go for chores make she hustle and bring money for the house.
Anyways, these are gender roles but one can volunteer to support the other from time to time.
But women seeing their own as slavery can be very annoying.

HOW MANY OF THEM DOES CHORES THIS DAYS ?
ALL OF THEM GAT HOUSE HELP YET THEY WIL CUM UP TO BRAINWASH THE KIDS HOW SHE CARTERED FOR THEM. FOR WORK WEY HOUSE HELP FOR DO OH . MOST TIMES HOUSE HELP DO PASS.
WOMEN WORK ARE HIGHLY OVERATED

DenreleDave:
NO AND NEVER...


I married in Peter obi clans and it has been hell.. Anambra people keep cursing the family because Peter obi ruined their lives and ran to lagos.. Any small argument btw I and my wife, she threatens me with Peter obi Ip0bs

He squandered the state money into beer factory and most responsible men in the state are now drunkards...

I am so ashamed dt same man is the chief patron of Ip0b terr orist and it feels so bad to marry from a man called Peter obi.......

So Op, I will never marry into this failure of a man called Peter obi family again

MOD RULE 2 BAN THIS GUY FOR LIFE. EVERYTHING MUST NOTICE BE TRIBALISTIC. I AM NOT FROM THE EAST BUT THIS IS GETTING SO ANNOYING. WE MUST LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES. WE NIGERIANS ARE ALL ONE

HardMirror:
u are really curious. See marry a real man and you wont have problem. All those whining here are simps.
A real man knows love is flimpsy. He is ready to pay the price to have his woman. A real man has enough will to call your bullshit and wont marry u if he knows he cannot take ur shit. I real man is in charge of his emotions and it is weak men that cry. A real man does not cry. He understands marriage is a duty. He makes it his job to ensure u are happy and he knows women are like houses or dogs. Take care of them and derive joy in having them even if they cost u a lot, u still love them and u train them to fit into their roles. When u own an expensive dog and u love that dog, it is a liability but u still never see it that way, it still brings u joy. That is how it is.

then a guy should marry when he is rich only not even average

So we nigerians are one but they said they are biafran. have u ever told the mod to ban anyone dt wishes nigeria bad or call themselves biafrans. mods cannot answer ur fake call

keep wailing

Kinzo0917:
MOD RULE 2 BAN THIS GUY FOR LIFE. EVERYTHING MUST NOTICE BE TRIBALISTIC. I AM NOT FROM THE EAST BUT THIS IS GETTING SO ANNOYING. WE MUST LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES. WE NIGERIANS ARE ALL ONE

Penguin2:
Hmmmm

I’m not married and I don’t think I’m ever getting married.

I get easily irritated with women being around me for long.

I’m just comfortable with fvck and go.

Maybe if I ever decide to marry, my wife would be staying in Enugu while I stay in Lagos. I will just be visiting her once in a month and sometimes 2 months.

Anything other than that, I might seek for divorce within one month.

chilling to see I'm not on this boat alone. Begining to feel I'm cursed. I get bored easily with women around me. I be knack and go specialist.

DenreleDave:
So we nigerians are one but they said they are biafran. have u ever told the mod to ban anyone dt wishes nigeria bad or call themselves biafrans. mods cannot answer ur fake call

keep wailing

Adenrele how far
how's your neck

DenreleDave:
So we nigerians are one but they said they are biafran. have u ever told the mod to ban anyone dt wishes nigeria bad or call themselves biafrans. mods cannot answer ur fake call

keep wailing

rule 1
Mynd44 lalasticlala Seun Dominique nlfpmod

Yes. Yes. Yes

DenreleDave:
So we nigerians are one but they said they are biafran. have u ever told the mod to ban anyone dt wishes nigeria bad or call themselves biafrans. mods cannot answer ur fake call

keep wailing

MOD RULE 2. BAN HIM FOR LIFE. COPIED LALASTILALA, SEUN ETC

Yes Yes Yes

chccho:

Y are u being so nosy into people's personal lives?

Look at the mirror

Nooooooooooooo never

Princeokwuego1:

then a guy should marry when he is rich only not even average

yes. Poor people have no business getting married. Hard truth. And if they must marry they should not give birth to more than 1 child. Parents should be imprisoned if found with children they cannot cater for adequately.