Go and look for your sister and bring her back to the house by every means possible if not ritualist will use their di*k to collect her life from her. If you don't bring her back to the house don't be surprise to see her running naked along your street one day

Sureboyy:

Leave her the f alone, since she claims she is a big girl now and can make decisions on her own then suffice I say that she should be allowed to make her decisions
You locking her up at that age just develops her to thinking of further ways to deceive you and do what is in her mind... Since she claims to be all Grown up now, allow her leave her life
Shebi na freedom she want, make she get am, by the time life outside shoe her something, she go come calm down and now understand you people wants the best for her.
Note this: YOU CAN'T TAME SOMEONE WHO DON'T WANT TO BE TAMED

This one wants more hoes on the street wey go help dey service men. Don't worry guy, hoes are being born every day. There will always be enough for you.

Let's be clear here! Your 24yrs old sister skillfully manipulated her ways lying and using her friend's (31)hill health as an escape route to fulfil her long held heart desires and you want to arrest who again ??.. are you playing?

aisha1314:


If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.

Are you ok, do you think this is America


Mtchewww

24 years?

ahhh

you and the rest of the family dey madt for having sleepness nights because of her o ooo

Nelbless:
24

And How Old are you Op?

2elliot:
Na still una go still lambast the Op if he comes back to say that his sister has come back with a bastard child or a terrible illness, and they refuse to accept her. Una go say the family is unforgiving.

Why are you so sure I belong to that category... Did you see where I put consequences of actions, it's her cross to carry whether my child or siblings. At this point of her life, she needs the freedom to appreciate other things, caging her will do more harm than good. That I will be one to condemn her, I have passed that stage many years ago. Make everyone do what makes them happy as long as you are not a child who still needs guidance.

appishani1:

I think you should pity your parents.
I am well off my dear.
I have a well paying job in Abuja.
My parents are living in a best flat you can imagine.
The fact that you see me here doesn't mean I am as miserable and poor as you.
If you live in Abuja come to federal ministry of transport headquarters and see the grace of God. Just tell the security at the gate you want to see appi.

I just saw that u think u are well paid in Abuja in a ministry! Pls come to Chevron in Warri and i will tell u what well paid means! U think u are on top of the world because u are in a ministry, seriously i still pity ur parents and ur future people like even if u are lucky enough to make it, u never go far! This stupid idiot comparing me with minstry employment! This boy must MAD!

Nelbless:
24

an adult let her be when the time reach sense go locate her

Zonefree:
There's nothing you or your family members can do again, your beloved sister has been dickmatized.

How do you guys even expect to cage a 24-year-old Nigerian girl

you are a god on this forum

She feels like a caged rabbit. But it's the best for girls who are always trying to test the power of their kpekus.

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Bahamas95:
One of the reasons some men say they don't want female children......When a female child wanna disgrace her family they go the extra mile.

Just seeing the headline alone I know her problem must be gbola related.

She has encountered a big cap headed, raging tick long black gbola with hairy large black sack of BALLS.

She ain't coming home anytime soon.

God keep her safe.

INDEED I DONT LNOW IF SOME PEOPLES HUMAN BRAIN IS LOCATED THROUGH THE FEACES GATEWAY, COS READING THROUGH THE COMMENTS, ONE WILL ASK QUESTIONS IF A HUMAN IS BEHIND THE KEYBOARD THAT HAD SENT SUCH COMMENTS.

ANYWAYS, FOR FOLKS THAT HAD ASKED, AM IN MY LATE 30S, 38.....

I HAVE BEEN AWAY FOR A WHILE AND CAME VISITING ONLY TO DISCOVER THESE VERY NONCHALANT TRAITS FROM HER.

AGAIN FOR FOLKS WHO BELIEVE WE CAGED HER, NO ONE CAGED HER, SHE HAVE HER FRIENDS, WHOM SHE VISITS UPON TELLING US WHERE SHE GOES, I MEAN I AM TALKING ABOUT A GIRL WHO HAD BEEN RAPED TWICE. FALLEN INTO THE HANDS OF RITUALIST ON FOUR OCCASIONS, IN ANOTHER OCCASSION SHE HAD BEEN CHARMED TO COME STEAL FROM THE FAMILY, SHE WENT TO WHERE THE MONEY WAS KEPT BUT AS SHE SAID, A FORCE WAS HOLDING HER BACK FROM TAKING THE MONEY, SHE COULDNT TAKE IT....ETC......

SHE IS MY LOVELY SISTER, I LOVE HER MORE THAN MY BREATH BUT SHE BEHAVES LIKE SOMEONE FATED FOR SOME VERY BAD THINGS, GO TO SCHOOL, SHE DROPPED OUT CLAIMING HER BRAIN CANT PICK WHAT THE LECTURES ARE TEACHING, 3 HIGHER INSTITUTES, ALRIGHT LEARN HAND WORK, HELL NO, SHE WILL DISAPPEAR AND ELOPE WITH WILD LADIES FOR PARTIES ETC

AGAIN MAY NO ONE HERE WHO THINKS OR HAVE TURNED THIS INTO SOME FUN TOPIC OR MOCKERY NEVER HAVE A CHILD THAT WILL GIVE YOU HALF OF WHAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH.

ALRIGHT, FIND SUITOR, SHE IS PICKING THEM LIKE BEANS.

THE ONLY POSATIVE NEWS NOW IS THAT, SHE IS ALIVE (SHE HAD BLOCKED OUR LINES AND HAD CALLED A FRIEND TO TELL US THAT SHE IS OK, BUT FOR HOW LONG?) .....COS WE ALL KNOW WHAT WE SEE ON THE NEWS EVERYDAY AND HOW DARK THE HUMAN HEARTS ARE RIGHT NOW, ESPECIALLY NOW CHRISTMAS IS COMING, PEOPLE FROM EVIL CLAN ARE LOOKING FOR VUNERABLE PEOPLE TO USE

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Wahala everywhere. I think you should just let her be and pray for her to pick sense and her safe return. Her blood is still boiling. Reality of the harsh outside world would soon calm her down. Just don't give up on prayers for her safety and safe return . And when she returns pls don't condemn her. .

Poverty and shame will will make her to run back

Foodie1:
You and your parents spoiled her at her formative age, over pampering is very bad.
Last born are mostly the black sheep of the family, I don't know why, especially the males.

Mostly you said. Then according to your view, I must be one of the few "white sheep" last borns. Because If I was that your stereotypical rogue last born maybe my elder bros who misappropriated the money in his keep sent by my older sister to be given 2 me. Maybe by now he would've be feeling hypertensive & losing his peace of mind becos of the "body heat" I would have given him. Fact is, not everyone is naughty/devious by nature. For me, things in life aren't worth hurting a family member or friend for. We're all caretakers of all things we think we own.

She is above 18 na.. An adult.. Just make complaints at the police office. Las las life go teach am lesson when she no gree learn for house.. Na Bleep and belle dey end am..

meetme01:


What's her age?

Lol.... 24yrs no b gal again naa, na Lady she be.

I don't think it's too ok caging a girl of her age da way. I mean, her mates are going into there own families already naa. @marriage

Rhozabeth:

I quite agree with u. Most of the societal ills actually start from home!

Yeah, also you can't change someone that wants to spoil, the only thing you can try to do is prospone it
Inevitably, they will spoil come now or later

2elliot:
This one wants more hoes on the street wey go help dey service men. Don't worry guy, hoes are being born every day. There will always be enough for you.

Stop behaving naive guy, come today come tomorrow
The girl is always for the street
You can't take away the street from someone that's for the street.
the earlier the family understands this, the better for them
She must learn from her mistakes before she understands that what her family wants for her is nothing but the best

Nelbless:
24

Na wa for una o. 24years old cant even have her freedom? She is an adult biko,allow her to make her own mistakes!

Germi9:

I share that sentiment of not wanting a female child cos wetin i see for my younger sister hand, from one problem to another ,it was like a curse on her

When they wanna go astray most times it's sex related. I love female children because of the bond they share with their father and I wanna experience it. But my fear is that I don't wanna give birth to the one that will give me problem.

A man in my former street gave birth to four girls and he singlehandedly raised them because his wife died during childbirth years ago. Three of them are well behaved except the last child. As little as she was then (14yrs) she was jumping from one gbola to another. I wonder how the man would have coped if the others were like her.

Bahamas95:
When they wanna go astray most times it's sex related. I love female children because of the bond they share with their father and I wanna experience it. But my fear is that I don't wanna give birth to the one that will give me problem.

A man in my former street gave birth to four girls and he singlehandedly raised them because his wife died during childbirth years ago. Three of them are well behaved except the last child. As little as she was then (14yrs) she was jumping from one gbola to another. I wonder how the man would have coped if the others were like her.

Girls are very good when they are well Mannered

@ Nelbless 24 years is a full fledged adult. Your fallacy is you and your family wanting to over protect her that she did not mature emotionally (last born syndrome). She is 24 years with emotional maturity of a 13 year old. You will have to let her go and let life do what you did not do correctly. It is painful, but that is the most realistic way. Keep her in your prayers.


It is funny the way you described her like a minor until you mentioned her age. I can bet you don't respect her. Respect is reciprocal, and even parents must respect their children. If you act like a bully to your minor children or younger minor siblings they will build resistance to you and will strive to prove a point that they don't need you. They usually make mistakes in the quest to prove this point.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Otiloo, She’zzzz gone

Rhozabeth:

I just saw that u think u are well paid in Abuja in a ministry! Pls come to Chevron in Warri and i will tell u what well paid means! U think u are on top of the world because u are in a ministry, seriously i still pity ur parents and ur future people like even if u are lucky enough to make it, u never go far! This stupid idiot comparing me with minstry employment! This boy must MAD!

.

Uncle is my dream to work in an oil company

Bahamas95:
I am not saying male children are saints, just doing comparism.

Take for instance a girl that has been fvcked by all the guys in the neighborhood and a boy that has fvcked all the girls in the neighborhood. Which of them will the society look down on? Be sincere.

You can't bear the shame that would cause in the neighborhood if the girl is your daughter or sister.

Both gender should be given equal training. Promiscuity shouldn't be labelled only on the female.

Nelbless:
Good morning house,

I write this with a cloud of confusion over my head.

I have a kid sister, our last born who stays with my parents, she is well taken care of in every possible way, but appear to be the black sheep of the house, as she is extremely sturbbon and rebellious, need i say she is the last born of the family, which places her in the state of not wanting or lacking anything at all.

Anyways I will try my best in making this as brief as I can, my sister is notorious for being too trusty, emotional, a social media maniac ......I mean on several occasions she had been saved from ill fate of being kidnapped by ritualists, these episodes cants be shared here cos they are numerous, we as her family realizing these trend about her, placed a restriction on her movement, which implies she is not allowed seeing anyone we do not know or her making friends or visiting them without our knowing who they are.

Just on Saturday which is two days ago, she told us her girl friend ,(someone about 7 years older than she is, a single mother) is siçk, she seek visiting her, we okayed that, only to find out she had played us in other to visit someone she had met on Facebook far far away, she did came back same Saturday very late though.

Before then my mom had confronted the supposed sick lady only to find out all was a ....

Upon her return she was scolded......only for her to pick few of her stuffs and run away on Sunday, then we discovered , that somehow her girl friend to give us the phone number of the boy she had visited, she tipped us into believing she must have encouraged her to run away or maybe away of the stranger my sister might have ran to.

WE INTEND PICKING THE GIRL THIS MORNING WITH POLICE FOR QUESTIONING, BUT SOME OF MY SIBLINGS ARE INSISTING WE ALLOW MY SISTER BE AS SHE HAVE BEEN SCREAMING FOR FREEDOM FOR LONG, INSISTING SHE WILL RUN AWAY SOMEDAY.

AM CONFUSED PLEASE, COS THIS IS ON THE VERGE OF BEING A DENT ON MY FAMILY

Damn, Dem go fvck nonsense comot for her Toto. Aye O

Nelbless:
INDEED I DONT LNOW IF SOME PEOPLES HUMAN BRAIN IS LOCATED THROUGH THE FEACES GATEWAY, COS READING THROUGH THE COMMENTS, ONE WILL ASK QUESTIONS IF A HUMAN IS BEHIND THE KEYBOARD THAT HAD SENT SUCH COMMENTS.

ANYWAYS, FOR FOLKS THAT HAD ASKED, AM IN MY LATE 30S, 38.....

I HAVE BEEN AWAY FOR A WHILE AND CAME VISITING ONLY TO DISCOVER THESE VERY NONCHALANT TRAITS FROM HER.

AGAIN FOR FOLKS WHO BELIEVE WE CAGED HER, NO ONE CAGED HER, SHE HAVE HER FRIENDS, WHOM SHE VISITS UPON TELLING US WHERE SHE GOES, I MEAN I AM TALKING ABOUT A GIRL WHO HAD BEEN RAPED TWICE. FALLEN INTO THE HANDS OF RITUALIST ON FOUR OCCASIONS, IN ANOTHER OCCASSION SHE HAD BEEN CHARMED TO COME STEAL FROM THE FAMILY, SHE WENT TO WHERE THE MONEY WAS KEPT BUT AS SHE SAID, A FORCE WAS HOLDING HER BACK FROM TAKING THE MONEY, SHE COULDNT TAKE IT....ETC......

SHE IS MY LOVELY SISTER, I LOVE HER MORE THAN MY BREATH BUT SHE BEHAVES LIKE SOMEONE FATED FOR SOME VERY BAD THINGS, GO TO SCHOOL, SHE DROPPED OUT CLAIMING HER BRAIN CANT PICK WHAT THE LECTURES ARE TEACHING, 3 HIGHER INSTITUTES, ALRIGHT LEARN HAND WORK, HELL NO, SHE WILL DISAPPEAR AND ELOPE WITH WILD LADIES FOR PARTIES ETC

AGAIN MAY NO ONE HERE WHO THINKS OR HAVE TURNED THIS INTO SOME FUN TOPIC OR MOCKERY NEVER HAVE A CHILD THAT WILL GIVE YOU HALF OF WHAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH.

ALRIGHT, FIND SUITOR, SHE IS PICKING THEM LIKE BEANS.

THE ONLY POSATIVE NEWS NOW IS THAT, SHE IS ALIVE (SHE HAD BLOCKED OUR LINES AND HAD CALLED A FRIEND TO TELL US THAT SHE IS OK, BUT FOR HOW LONG?) .....COS WE ALL KNOW WHAT WE SEE ON THE NEWS EVERYDAY AND HOW DARK THE HUMAN HEARTS ARE RIGHT NOW, ESPECIALLY NOW CHRISTMAS IS COMING, PEOPLE FROM EVIL CLAN ARE LOOKING FOR VUNERABLE PEOPLE TO USE

MHA, I know you are worried but don't get too worked up about her,trust me!she will come by . All she needs now is prayers,I believe in a couple of weeks from now, she will definitely get tired of her adventure ,home sick, voluntarily she will find her way home... Just make sure your port of communication with her(through your friend) remain intact. At least let your friend call her once in a day cos as it is now, it seems she trust your friend more than any of you..so keep the communication channel open..no abuses or any kind of harsh words borne out of emotions she's 24, been through alot according to you.. prayer works like magic if you believe

Adults being caged and raised in nigeria find it difficult to go through life when they become grown.
Free the children abeg make them reach their full potential through joy or pain

Zonefree:
There's nothing you or your family members can do again, your beloved sister has been dickmatized.

How do you guys even expect to cage a 24-year-old Nigerian girl

Hmmmm

Nelbless:
24

24 is not ur kid sister but an independent being. A full grown woman (overgrown infact). For God's sake, Her mates have 5 kids, Ph.D, or are celebrities/masters of industries as the case may be!!

Why did i not read anything about you people previously helping her get a job, open business or to acquire a skill? Abi na Shrek or Entangled una dey act, locking her from the world away in a castle.

But perchance y'all did anything right and she chooses to live her life, it's none of your business. You should relieve yourself of all responsibility for her well being.

I won't say much but if you haven't known her status and location in 2-3days, report her missing to the police and follow all leads including and starting from that her friend.

If you find her safe and sound then hands off her matter. Finally na Her life. Worst case scenario, You can only get to disown her and move on.