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ibinaboonline:
Interestingly, the OP never stopped to consider if said ladies even wanted to be with him. LOL

Tbaba001:
Oga shut your damn mouth... I myself have interracted with ladies and most of them have similar attitude as the OP describe, this has nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with most females not being able to communicate

Odebayo4010:
Bro,am new to online marketing, I don't know the one suitable, please can you list them for me to choose?

Kobojunkie:
Personal anecdotes based on subjective delusions - since OP all but concluded from the beginning the fault lay with the the and not himself - don't amount to truths that can be generalized.

JASONjnr:
You people are so stingy to believe that a girl should date a broke guy and be happy..

Like I said from the quote, if you can't handle her, move on to someone you will just have as a girl friend and she will expect nothing from you while you expect so much from her...

I am. it a simp, but I believe that if I have, I should be able to have my woman look good and be happy.

Just as a man is made to be strong, women were built by God to be as they are...

If you do t like it that way, go and mould you own eve

JASONjnr:
You people are so stingy to believe that a girl should date a broke guy and be happy..

Like I said from the quote, if you can't handle her, move on to someone you will just have as a girl friend and she will expect nothing from you while you expect so much from her...

I am. it a simp, but I believe that if I have, I should be able to have my woman look good and be happy.

Just as a man is made to be strong, women were built by God to be as they are...

If you do t like it that way, go and mould you own eve

Kobojunkie:
All that means is that you pretty much reason the world and women around you just like the OP does. Simple as that, and it does not remove you from being a part of what is the problem.

bestdudes:
When you say I attract such, I laugh cos how do you know what someone is made up of if you do not interact with them?

Is it written on their head?

I am not the first to experience it neither will I be the last. The point I was trying to make is that women can’t eat their cake and have it.

leave those gals on twitter, they aren't interested in relationships but to ball
You can’t be the one with repulsive attitude and still wonder why decent guys are not coming for you.

I don’t know what you are reading or comprehending from all I wrote.

Yet , you try to make excuse for the girls and blame me who chose to avoid trouble after I notice red flags.

Indispensable85:
Apart from the one that was all about money, I think you were too impatient with the other two. You need patience to woo a woman successfully. Those initial shakara is normal with that gender. You must know this and get ready for the long walk. My Sunshine did shakara for me for several months. Most times she took days to reply my messages. But I was very patient with her because I already saw what I wanted in my wife in her. After several months I discovered she started coming through gradually, conversations got better,replies became quicker,calls and messages became mutual as against the one way it was for several months. It was the following year she gave me a chance and today she's my wife. There was something she told me later that shocked me. She said I broke her defence with my patience and tolerance. She said her initial attitude was intentional because she wanted a man that is patient and tolerant because of her previous experiences with men. I thank God everyday for bringing her my way. She's been an amazing human being over these years.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol. I've always wondered why you don't have two Rs.

Carot:
is it okay if I beat my girl?

Kobojunkie:
All this writeup here does is give us a glimpse into your ability to reason the world around you and the kind of relationships you get yourself into.

Those girls are not your problem at all. You are and you should look into yourself to realize why these are the kind of people you continue to attract even at your age.

bestdudes:
Lmao.. you are funny. So point out where I made a mistake and the girls are not at fault?

Did I ask them for sex or ask them for anything? What will it cost a grown-up adult to be decent in their engagement? At my age? At my age, I would leave any girl alone as soon as I see any indecent attitude or red flag.

Maybe you are the kind that tries to convince yourself that "it is not a problem, continue to try your luck and gets disrespected even further"

Gerrraheree mien

bestdudes:
When you say I attract such, I laugh cos how do you know what someone is made up of if you do not interact with them?

Is it written on their head?

I am not the first to experience it neither will I be the last. The point I was trying to make is that women can’t eat their cake and have it.

You can’t be the one with repulsive attitude and still wonder why decent guys are not coming for you.

I don’t know what you are reading or comprehending from all I wrote.

Yet , you try to make excuse for the girls and blame me who chose to avoid trouble after I notice red flags.

bestdudes:
God... I am shocked that a lot of them couldn't see it. We are doomed as society with people like these.

God bless you so much. iF you do not mind, let send you weekend beer money. I do not drink though.

Blueace247:
You so feel entitled to people's lives on a faceless forum..
This makes me hate you so much man..

TheVictorious:
I received it, you're such an amazing person. Thanks a lot.

Tbaba001:
Don't be unfortunate my guy, take care of your lady but if you decide to become foolish as to become a prey to a parasite then that's your cup of tea, "unstingy guy"

MansoryMX:
I have been in your shoes so many times. As a matter of fact the woman I got married to today isn’t who I planned on marrying. I actually toasted her friend who I met in a party. A wild but free spirited girl who like flirting and one night stands but have a good heart (thank God I didn’t even kiss her or flirt with her in the two weeks I knew her). She then invited me to accompany her to a friend’s birthday party (who happens to be my wife now lol). Just by saying Hello to someone, you can tell a lot about a person with the next response that comes out of their mouth when you say hello to them. Just a simple hello and happy birthday to you I said, the rest was history. The attention, the humility in her voice, the laughter and smile was everything I desire in a woman. After 2 year of an amazing courtship, I put a ring on that finger.


Some of these ladies, especially this generation are online celebrities, they have absolutely nothing except an expensive phone and expensive human hairs, forgetting every touch of reality. Some realize they are pretty and feels they won’t settle for less unlike a man must be Davido, Wizkid standard in terms of lifestyle and money. A lot of them don’t believe in working on a relationship, growing a relationship for themselves. A lot of them only wants a man who will take care of their financial needs and that of their family as well. Some started with the wrong guy and feels love is a scam. Some are completely fvcked up! Like seriously fvcked up with absolutely nothing to write home about.

Evolutionlove:
Hehe lol. [b]Are you sure you really reside In Nigeria? I doubt not. Because for you not to know, NO Matured Nigerian Lady Is Single, Most especially those ones In Lagos.

The Worst Is you seeing/knowing that "A Lady Has A SmartPhone" and you still believes she Is single. Even house wives with SmartPhones are actively hoeing around talk more less of young ladies with smartphones. I Just can't seem to wrap my head around why so many men are so dull concerning the Female Gender activities. Just don't let me say what's on my mind to you..

traihit:
You're justified for the number 2 and 3 ladies ...you see the first one, you take the blame.

People have rules regarding the general populace ...people have exceptions to those rules also. You should have found out whether you're an exception to her rule of no calling, no WhatsApp etc.

IMO, the lady is trying to protect herself (men can be beastly when chasing women at time). You see the second lady, she's looking for food, the third one is looking for a tool. Both of them are manipulators.

Carot:
can I know you more

TheVictorious:
I received it, you're such an amazing person. Thanks a lot.

Mercury12:
Some people don't like calls and chat especially if it coming from people they not very close to.
You could had at least get a date for a face to face type of conversation. Multiple time out together in real world. That is how you know people ...
But if she is not returning your calls or agree on a date with you then I guess its safe to say she ain't really into you and it is also okay for you to move on to the next

BRATISLAVA:
You two should try dating. Your energy matches. If you're dating we will see less of such threads.

razible5384:
this can only work on naive timid girls

Saintmary:
Buhahahahaha


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Your strategy will boomerang back in your face if you're not careful, maybe not now, but definitely in the future.



If you turn love and marriage into a game, you'll end up with a playa. (Or you think girls are not smart?)



Please don't reply me o, just remember what I said.