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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Danniedpastor(m): 1:04pm On Nov 20, 2022
First, are you praying about this?
Secondly, did you study her well enough before proposing marriage?
If yes,has she always been like that? (I mean before marriage)
If no, find out how it started and what went wrong.

Talk to her about your feelings
Sex does not happen spontaneously in marriage (especially if the woman is working or stressing), it must be built into her. Start by helping out with house chores and other activities that wear her out.
Cook with her, wash plates with her... Gist with her. Touch her nose ,chicks and hips will helping her. Grab her waist from behind and more.

I can guide you through it,if you let.
God bless you.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nigeriafirstlad(m): 1:05pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

Eve was given to Adam and he still entered troubled water.

Wife matter is OYO
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Pacesetter2021: 1:05pm On Nov 20, 2022
When you keep focusing on the wrong things things that can be tolerated becomes deal breakers.

Please calm down. It's not as bad as satan is making it look to you.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by BloomingDale(f): 1:10pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Take corrections like how? Na pikin? Maybe she feels you are the one that need the corrections? Did you ever stop to think, that maybe, you are the one in the wrong?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by InvertedHammer: 1:10pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

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Did you move into her house after marriage?


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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Johnchrix(m): 1:11pm On Nov 20, 2022
Machinegun91:
Dump that bitch you called a wife. No woman can tolerate a man that has such demonic character of hers.


E dey pain me here

Is not that easy when you are already deeply into her
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by cooooooks(m): 1:11pm On Nov 20, 2022
How do you marry someone without knowing anything about them??

Abi did you get her pregnant? (That's the main case that I won't feel sorry for you).

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by BloomingDale(f): 1:12pm On Nov 20, 2022
Nigeriafirstlad:


Eve was given to Adam and he still entered troubled water.

Wife matter is OYO

Man always blaming Woman. Meanwhile God made sure the evidence got stuck in the man's throat, known as the Adam's apple.

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by VULCAN(m): 1:12pm On Nov 20, 2022
So if he says Yes, what will you now say?

In life try to focus on solutions and not recriminations

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by shedy03(m): 1:14pm On Nov 20, 2022
Exceed15:


Live with the problem? E be like say u no like ds guy . Bro If I were him I will serve her hot breakfast one day to her shock.
Ending it is not the best.
Coming from different backgrounds, adapt to live with each other whatever the difference. Teach and correct each other.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Berankis: 1:14pm On Nov 20, 2022
You are a weak man! You are a weak man!! You are a weak man!!! Says boys wey never marry or even have a stable relationship. cheesy grin cool

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by DonroxyII: 1:14pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Go and See a Pyschologist ...

Women takes advantages of an Emotional Filled Man while They Respect and Fear the Reasonable Man!

I can Only Blame Woman against a Disabled Man

I can't hold Woman responsible for whatever she does to an Able Bodied Man ...

She is just a Microcosm of Your Manliness..

She is What Your Manhood and Maturities Defines Her to Be no be By Mouth

Woman, Woman, Woman ... To Manage any Woman by Any Man in this Dispensation Na to Pray to God to Enrich You with Woman Managements Wisdom and Maturities in all Facets because Your Manhood shall be Challenged and Sacked

If dem dey insult Buhari and Tinubu, Una go follow Put Mouth But to Lead just One Woman e no even Easy... God Bless and Further Help All Our Leaders.

To Burst Out to Lead Nigerians no be Play, Man or Woman
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Hpesoj: 1:15pm On Nov 20, 2022
madridguy:
Go and marry 2nd wife.

I don't think it's that simple. Marrying a second wife will will not solve the issue. You can't tell me that all those with multiple wives have an happy marriage.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Crownofwealth(m): 1:16pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
See person complain. Lol. If na person like my wife u marry u for don kill yourself since. Bro no marriage is perfect. Take am as u see am and move on o. No time for regrets.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by yinkeys(m): 1:16pm On Nov 20, 2022
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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Agbebakun22: 1:17pm On Nov 20, 2022
Nwatachoba1:


Divorce is still an option biko

Na wetin ahnie don chop and she's used to it

Ahnie don taya to go dis road... she don see person wey get bashing pass am

Not all men can be intimidated or let things go cus you be woman, shoe get size ... happy Sunday baby girl, do have a lovely Sunday, you are loved and cherished... sometimes we need to remove dis adulthood and behave like children, uwa di simple as ABC.. peace
u sure say ur brain process the information after reading? Abi u just jump to comment.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Hpesoj: 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
cool


Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

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LOL.... Walahi with this picture that you just painted its obvious that you'll like "shina" a lot

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Evidenx(m): 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
commit suicide and your suffering continue in hell fire.

Live q life where you don't know she exist..u are giving her too much attention...her sense will come back.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Umadam: 1:21pm On Nov 20, 2022
Explain ur pain to her, if she dont change, divorce now before it's too late!
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by debinson: 1:22pm On Nov 20, 2022
[quote author=shortgun post=118531523]You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer[/quotes


We are not the same, what you can do others may not be able to
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:22pm On Nov 20, 2022
modsfucker:


The only thing that should keep you in that toxic union is children. If you don't have kids, divorce her ASAP.
What about the millions he borrowed from the bank to do the wedding that was the talk of the town.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by drololaaof: 1:23pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
What do you see before marrying her ,love is blind then? . Did you meet her in a day and fix wedding the next day or it is an arranged marriage? Has she changed after marriage? Is she promiscuous? Did she pretend before you marry her . Try to manage her ,restudy her, ,attend psychology clinic, you will find solution.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Desusi: 1:25pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?
The greatest matchmaker! Many are regretting this also.Let others learn.The choice of wife you make would either mar you or make you. Consult the only true God.

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by alobright17(m): 1:26pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

God don't give anyone wife or husband even Pastor 5G Chris oyakilomeh is no longer with his wife abi he no contact God?

Take name of a lady to 10 different pastors 5 may tell you God said she's or she's not your wife. The choice of getting a wife has nothing to do with God. Shebi na God give Solomon those 700 wives?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by CoolAmbience(m): 1:27pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.



Oga, there is no such thing as a lifetime mistake.

You are still alive, aren't you? So, it isn't a lifetime mistake yet. Be a man, take charge and fix things.

No let any woman make you die before your time o. Women no dey finish.

No fall our hand o...how dare you contemplate suicide over a woman..

You don wan make me vex now sef...
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by bummyla(m): 1:28pm On Nov 20, 2022
Don't kill yourself because your wife! You will go to hell fire for eternity and she will repent and make heaven! God forbid! I understand you fully! I was once in your shoes! In a family where is no peace, the man hardly make progress, I know this for sure! It happened to me! I punished the hell out of her with silent treatment! Since she does not want to change her ways!

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by zumbigbo(m): 1:28pm On Nov 20, 2022
shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer

Exes abi.... grin
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by yinkeys(m): 1:29pm On Nov 20, 2022
Probably a fake story just to get engagement on this platform
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by izubext007: 1:30pm On Nov 20, 2022
Was there not a red flag my man
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?
Yes he did, even God was present at their wedding and guess what...on Gods altar is where the marriage was blessed.

Stop all these consulting God thing


Africans have different meaning to marriage

A lot of factors could make marriage uninteresting and most of the times something as simple as ordinary PERSONAL HYGIENE and yes i have seen that. Now how's God gonna tell ya the partner is gonna be dirty after I DO grin
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by DonroxyII: 1:30pm On Nov 20, 2022
Richy4:

God is not in the business of choosing a life partner for people anymore..U can bring anyone, and he will bless u. smiley
Walahi Talahi Na Lie You Lie ...

The Madness on the Head of a Club Dancer in the night and Ash.awo in the Day can't be Compared with a Chartered Accountant or Medical Doctors ....

God is a Scientist not Abracadabra.....

If You Don't Involve God in Your Marriage even from Inception before even choosing a life partner till Courtships , Wedding and Marriage Proper... You are on You Own !

Let's see whether Your Mental faculty alone is enough to Propel a Woman of 2022... Your Head Go Scatter But With God Involvement Things Go just Smooth and Una no go dey do anything Spectacular!

Pray to God before even Dating Self .. Hohaa, No Bring anyone come God front and Pray make it work ... e go work laslas but Na you go still do the huge work and Suffer am ...
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by BRATISLAVA: 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2022
More fuel for misogyny from the stable of Nairaland fiction writers.

Everyday, unending lamentations about women from men. Because men are saints. Because women are this and women are that. He won't tell us if his teeth are rotten and his parts are tiny. He won't tell us if he regularly beats her for romance. He won't mention it if he crosses his legs with a can of beer as lord of his home. Yet the saint is regretting his marriage. Boo-hoo.

If you want other guys to turn gay for you, you don't need to do this. If you hate women, there are better ways to go about it rather than this dated social experiment.

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