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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Positivepoint(m): 12:18pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: Just settle her with 1 years self contained rent and sum cash & divorce her peacefully |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by laluski(m): 12:18pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: The poster below you has said it all... Anyway, there is nothing you or anyone can do about it.. divorce is NOT AN OPTION as long as she doesn't go against the God give marriage rules and regulations.. all you can do now is to pray for her to change... Don't go to hell fire because of this... Boil hot water and pour on your hand.. that pain in hell is a 100 times more than hot water... Don't allow desperation and stupidity to overrule your sense of reason.. God no go follow you look am from your angle o |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by jadyclem(m): 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:You're very insane for contemplating suicide for something that has an easy solution. Your wife has no business being in a marriage if she's unwilling to play her role. Both husband and wife have roles to play in a marriage and if your wife is unwilling to play hers, kick her out of your house and gain back your sanity. Why did she agree to marry you? Man, that's a problem with an easy fix. You can start afresh. Don't take your life because of someone else's selfish and inconsiderate actions. You can start afresh and the sooner you take a stand the better for you. 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by shedy03(m): 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:Man up! Do not regret. Learn to live with your problem, do not give up. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by MorningSir: 12:23pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Octopusssy:certainly not time for this! |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by highchief1: 12:24pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:u be fool.get a sound side chic the follow your wife the way she is.side chic makes home to balance.most divorces are cost by men who don’t have a side chic. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by MadamExcellency: 12:24pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Octopusssy: Why question "past tense" to correct a known mistake? The milk has already spilt. He needs a solution not bashing. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by luluosas(m): 12:25pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Please, please, please, erase the wicked thoughts of suicide right now. Please I need your contact so that we can talk. Please nokia1000: |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by OmegaAutos: 12:26pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: Weyrey!!! Why will u feel sucidal over one useless being, what stops you from seperating yourself, do things that make u happy and generate money for you. Obviously she doesnt like you or used you to achieve married status... Ogbeni, move on and see how ur life will transform for good 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by EbukaTheDrugLor: 12:26pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:You are a very stupid man, and I have no regrets saying this. I would have slapped you if you were close. A real man would never sound this weak. Why would you continue to complain when you can easily get another woman? Even if na to flash her, make her have a feeling you are seeing another woman to start with..if this doesn't move her, then send her smelly arse out of the house! She doesn't love you. If I find out you are a Muslim sef, I go curse you for not marrying another wife quickly. You Christians keep deceiving yourselves, ehn, one man, one wife, while you fvvck ladies as you want outside. Guy, I need to see you. I have something important to tell you 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by TheRedpillguy: 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Kick the Bitch out then |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by MansoryMX(m): 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: Call a family meeting with people and yours. Tell everyone if she doesn’t change you will divorce her immediately. Don’t you dare kill yourself because of another human like you, not even because of your mother or your father! Don’t kill yourself for anyone! |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by pansophist(m): 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247: Damn, no wonder only single men are transgender, feminist and vegans Time to move to Northern Nigeria. Ned Nwoko formula is my target. First convert to Muslim and marry at least four wives. All virgins and under 20 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Makinaki: 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Octopusssy: Jus negodu. Foolishness |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by focus7: 12:29pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: I am sure you are churchy type that believes in that quote that have sent many to their early graves "for better for worse". Divorce her before she makes your life miserable. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by jadyclem(m): 12:29pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
laluski:This is a nonsense submission. Who said divorce is not an option when a partner is consciously and adamantly refusing to play her roles to the extent that the other is contemplating suicide? This is a shifty advice. He has every right to kick her out of his home and start afresh. Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. Don't pray to God for things he's given you the common sense to fix 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by favdest: 12:29pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Don't let anyone deceive you especially when you already married, women have Same issues. When you are in the circle of married men you would know better. Women don't even understand themselves talkless of making others to understand them. We all share the same problems once you are married. Please don't consider anything evils that would either harm you or anyone. You may need go work around it and you will be happy after. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Lanre1st(m): 12:30pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: Don't kill yourself because of woman, if you go to another woman it's equal to suffering ×3. 1. She doesn't take correction: this normal attitude of a woman, they don't take correction at once, to correct them is a gradual process. Even If you marry small girl or your student because she respect you, the day you marry the respect shoe is off 2. She doesn't have drive for sex: Larger percentage of women do not have drive for sex as men(especially busy one) It's natural. It appears they satisfy you with sex before marriage, just because you are not living together and you have less responsibility. But you know the reality after marriage, just try to carefully deal with it to protect your home it's important. 3. She is not serious about generating money: all men should know this, husband is the one responsible for finances in the family. Anything your wife earns or contributes is to support. Even most time if she takes care of 10% she will she is doing more than her husband, if she contributes 20% she will claim of being the only one doing everything in the house. Women save their earnings for their self, pressurize husband to bring. Nowadays women like having assets than their husband while they earn very lesser compare to him. People only manage their marriage. You can ask your dad or elderly husbands privately they will tell they are managing the situation. Don't ask publicly, every Men praise the wife outside, some will even said they never fight for once. With these 3 excuses you mentioned, it's not what is uncommon to most homes, discuss with your wife and dont expect quick change. Manage your home 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by pansophist(m): 12:30pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
ufotty2001: Men and women are very different. Your average woman is not ambitious. They are wired for comfort and affluence, to enjoy life and glow, not hustle. Accept this, and you'll have no issue with women. It's not laziness, it's just how they are wired. Just as most men don't care how they look, but very aggressive when it's come to making money. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by frozen70(f): 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000: Let her go and end the marriage instead of dying for nothing |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by CaptainAyub: 12:32pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
DukeNija:Wise man |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by cliqtips: 12:33pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247: Some women might be dangerous when they find out things like this... they might end everything including the man. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by xareal(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:get yourself a side chick and watch the transformations in your life..thank me later bro 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Baawaa(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247:You are on point, I think you are talking from experience 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by virginboy1(m): 12:36pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
shortgun: Words of wisdom 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by oka4ugoo: 12:40pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
ufotty2001: Abeg help me the name of the online skill. I need another job I can combine with the one am doing to make extra cash abeg |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Danniedpastor(m): 12:40pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247: You call this an adbice,right? You people think you are wise when you boldly go contrary to God's agenda and pattern. You better cleanse your heart of all these evil before you lead someone astray. Peace!!! |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by higgs: 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Foolish guy.Go and get a second wife or sidechick and stop displaying this disgusting level of weakness. 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by missyblissy: 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
shortgun: Smh someone came her for help. And you arw making it worse with this rubbish. What makes him a weak man? That hes not beating his wife or ma handling women the way do abi. Abeg op please communication is one of the keys to a successful marriage. Please sit your wife down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and your expectations of her. I giess yoh didnt discuss a lot of things during couttship. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Hezmatosky: 12:42pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Octopusssy:No need my dear. God said love whom you marry and not marry whom you love. Oga OP, pray God to prosper you, you can make your home heavenly as you wish. If you think your wife is part of your plans, na lie o. They're just bodily present in this life. Just make money, train your children and flex yourself outside shikina 1 Like |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by prophetfire: 12:42pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
nokia1000:Be a man, take charge and bring her into order. If she's resisting, divorce her and send her packing out of your life. Don't allow any useless human being to frustrate you or destroy your drive or mental health. |
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Exceed15: 12:43pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Moh247: God bless u bro. 1 Like 1 Share |
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