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Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by okooloyun1(m): 9:29pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
ibechris:This is the best solution. 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by ahnie: 9:39pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Odward:Are you sound in the head at all? Them really needs to check some people switch boxes. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Mindlog: 9:43pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Daniel058: The child belongs to both father and mother, now the said child's father is late, the woman has 100% right to the custody of their child and not the man's relatives. The South African mother is getting custody of their son, irrespective of the late husband's tribe 5 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by magicminister: 9:43pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Regardless of the circumstances, how do you abandon your child for 11 years? 5 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Odward(m): 9:46pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
ahnie:Go and sit down ekuke. |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by ElGood: 9:55pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
The mother of the child should contact NAPTIP and lay a claim of forceful child adoption. Within 7 days she will get her child back and the people will be arrested and punish. 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by unclejb2(m): 10:03pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lummoni:let her go NAPTIP 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BRATISLAVA: 10:25pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Kobonaire234: You are right. But it is worse with someone from a different culture to yours. What they see as right can be morally wrong in yours. There will be no middle ground if both of you are deeply entrenched in their cultures. I have met nice people but what kept us apart is their cultural approach to certain matters. They may seem okay with it, but later on you get to realize they really aren't and don't see anything wrong in it. Good luck to her. She will need it. A country like Nigeria with largely undocumented people and weak means of enforcing identity will be a haystack to work at in finding a needle. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by BRATISLAVA: 10:29pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Richy4: But it's something advised and tolerated on this forum. I want my children. Go and collect your children from that witch. "My children" and men are the cause of this problem and numerous others. 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by culf: 10:29pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Chinny024: very true. I'm surprise she allow the child stay with them till now. |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Wintonmickey(f): 10:36pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
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Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 10:40pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Odward:Considering the xenophobic attitude of South Africans towards Nigerians in South Africa, they may not see her son as theirs. And this, perhaps, might be contributing to why the boy's family is unwilling to release him. Also note that he may be the only child of his father, and as such, the family feels releasing him is a loss, as he may not visit them in his life time, due to his injurious mindset and the current hungry stance of the country (Nigeria). 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Richy4(m): 10:41pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
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Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Nobody: 10:49pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
GistFullGround:Uhmmm, na so! Which court? Forget that thing. You think say na abroad you dey for yia. This na Nigeria where those kind ruling nor dey work, especially as e com involve a non-Nigerian. You think a Nigerian can just go to South Africa to lay claim to a child after the demise of one his/her parents. Easier said than done! Na one chance she enter Soo; she knows. You think she has not complained to South Africa and Nigeria embassy before bringing it to social media. Uhmmm, I laff in Ibibio.... 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Chinny024(f): 10:54pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
culf: How will I dash someone my child na... Haaa,after labour pains and hot fire....The only pain that has moved my brain to default setting even as a nurse... Omo,I can't... Anywhere am going, gummed to my body ooo...How could they intimidate her to such an extent?... They only wants that child to forget her and once detachment sets in,forget it...She will be a stranger to her own child..Tufiakwa 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by asahnwaKC: 11:01pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
She should plan and kidnap the boy…. Periodtttt 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by culf: 11:08pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Chinny024: lol...you're very funny! Shey as nurse you suppose know the techniques and secrets na (I have seen aunty nurse that cannot bear pain, hahaha). As a guy, I can't even let my child stay 2 months away, even one self talk more of years. Maybe because she is not a Nigerian, I will fight that fight oooo. You're right, that boy no go know her again, they need to start all over again. #Aunty nurse I'm having stomach abi chest pain, what do I do? 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:13pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: Bigotic comments won't help your mental health. Noth even an advice for the article? OP consult SA high commission bin Nigeria and make sure custody suit is brought in court. |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Chinny024(f): 11:17pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
culf:.. Go and sleep. ....Wetin keep you awake till now......Having ulcer before now?....That's by the way shaa! |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Sayfact: 11:18pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Lummoni:she should go to Agidigbo radio station in Ibadan ,they will fight for there right to get Access to her son 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by GUNITGuy: 11:19pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Please get a lawyer and involve the south Africa consular in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by vickydevoka(m): 11:24pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:Igbos will never release their kids. Same thing wen I give Igbo gal belle. Pikin no be your own buh the old man way to marry her 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by culf: 11:30pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Chinny024: i'm waiting for you, I will go after you! yeah but for awhile I was OK. meanwhile you didn't address the other stuffs I talk about. so you no sabi bear pain abi, chai aunty nurse! come ooo, while are you still up? I don dey suspect you! |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by E2000: 11:40pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
All this one sided stories anyway if I were the one you are not getting that child or children. It is what it is I can't explain why. Blood is thicker than water. You can come visit but that's it. If you want to take them come and rent a house in Nigeria and pretend like you really love the country and want to settle there. Then request for your children to come and visit you or stay with you then run away with them back to your country. |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Bambita: 11:52pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Chinny024:Seriously oo.. reminds me of wat I m dragging out with my hubby.. I got a job in another state recently, so we are practically doing a long distance marriage .. hubby said I shd leave my 18 months old son for his elder sister to take care of him.. I said no I rather quit the job. I can't leave my son for any one it's not by force 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by TheboyGhost(m): 12:12am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Are they Igbo? If yes... Then it's a long long case to sort 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by sisisioge: 12:39am On Nov 27, 2022 |
alizma: I like this planning...Dire situation with dire measures fa. It is well. |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:08am On Nov 27, 2022 |
She is going to get her child now that she is determined. Believe it or not, she was never serious on getting her child. BRATISLAVA: 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by jmichael259(m): 1:22am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Lummoni no reply to any comment yet. I think the man knew he was sick and told the family who now schemed this. Was the man the only son of the family? Does she solely intend on caring for her son as a mother or to really snatch him away from them forever(their fear)? Can she locate them if asked to get to the address now? Does she have nigerian accomplices? (keep the neighbor aside) It'll cost much money! Whatever you decide, Never ask them for the child again or feel so pained when you see him. 1st strategy is keeping your cards to your chest. You can visit randomly for a weekend (with multiple entourage ofcourse) never stay the night in the village. Make them realise you're just coming for visit not to take the child. 2)Mark your territory. Acquaint with some neighbors, relatives school, church &villagers as their late brother's wife and the boy's mother. Reestablishing ur face to the child because if you be caught anywhere with a child that doesn't know you, you're finished. QUOTE ME 4 OptionB!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by godofuck231: 2:03am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Lummoni: Contact the south African embassy , f theg are dumb, then contacts an international NGO and the Nigerian agency for the prohibition of trafficking in persons , the NGO and the embassy will contact the federal government and immigration and the child's conventional rights are being denied . Make sure before she does anything, his south African passport must , must, must be in her palm 1 Like |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by fluffybaby(f): 2:47am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Daniel058: But the aunty is happy taking upkeep money from the woman shey? You people and your backward , disgusting lifestyle parading as culture. Vultures. 2 Likes |
Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by Kentrasso(f): 3:18am On Nov 27, 2022 |
imadiyi: How anyone can justify this senseless act is beyond me. Xenophobic what?? Irrant nonsense. Stupid tradition. A child belongs to his mom and dad. Relatives should go fin their own families and leave people alone 2 Likes |
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