Richy4:
I just dey boil here honestly... Depriving a mother of his child or the child not able to speak with the mother..
What kind of horse sh!t was that?

Especially blocking the good life and future the boy ought to enjoy

Please send me a message tobiasipa@gmail.com, I need to talk to you. Very important. Your Aunty will get her son back. What God cannot do does not exist.

You are very stupid. Is that how you will forget your own children? The boy can turn to miscreant if nobody is properly raising him.

Odward:
Forget about the child and conceive a new one na

Bambita:

Seriously oo.. reminds me of wat I m dragging out with my hubby.. I got a job in another state recently, so we are practically doing a long distance marriage .. hubby said I shd leave my 18 months old son for his elder sister to take care of him.. I said no I rather quit the job. I can't leave my son for any one it's not by force

Go with someone, may be ur jnr sister,good nanny or ur mum preferably for the main time to be staying with him while you balance things.....Don't in any way leave him behind for ur sister in law no matter how una relationship take sweet.....Of course, ur boy will be put in sch there ASAP to reduce word load on ur mum, or sister or Nanny..Do family planning(implant) as return of fertility is fastest with that method while you are putting things in place at least let him be 3 before you consider another one....There's no award for who suffer pass..Shalom

culf:


i'm waiting for you, I will go after you!
yeah but for awhile I was OK. meanwhile you didn't address the other stuffs I talk about. so you no sabi bear pain abi, chai aunty nurse!

come ooo, while are you still up? I don dey suspect you!

...On night duty!...

Jovialjune1:
I don't want to go tribal, but we know the tribe that do this nonsense, a backward tribe consisting of brainless people.

Nothing is more brainless and even pathetic than your poor and impotent grasp of the English language. First, only a dunce uses "tribe" when she means "ethnic group." Even if one closes his eyes to your illiterate advertisement of a disesteem term, what of your calamitous misuse of concord/agreement? Aunt, "tribe" as used in your poorly written post is a singular word and not a plural word.

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

She needs to pay the police in abuja to arrest d sister and anybody involved. While they sorting that out she'll just take her child

Why are some Nigerians this wicked

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

She better report to right activists in the country that her son has been kidnapped before they make him useless in life. She should petition or report the case to the Inspector General of police in Nigeria on their social media handles. I know a case like this where the family ruined the life of the son. It was when they have made the son amount to nothing in life that they now release him to the mother. It will happen if she did nothing.
We are in a country where it's citizens glorify bad leaders and select them to preside over their affairs. Please act fast.

Shebi she know their address? She should just report them to iPod/ESN,Ameotekun,or BH,they will release the boy in no time

Jovialjune1:
I don't want to go tribal, but we know the tribe that do this nonsense, a backward tribe consisting of brainless people.

Na Ibo people. Oo cantact human rights in Nigeria and let your aunty make her case, they should help your aunty to get son back

ibechris:
This is horrible!

Call brekete on the line below.

To join in the Brekete Family Programme, You can call this number Monday - Friday

090-99-88-77-00 - International Calls only
080-33-22-11-49 - Local calls only

She does not need any police. She needs a lawyer and an organisation such as NAPTIP and Brekete.

TOLL FREE LINE
0800CALLNAPTIP (08002255627874)
SHORT CODE: 627
Email: info@naptip.gov.ng
Phone: 07030000203
ADDRESS
No. 2028, Dalaba Street
Wuse Zone 5, FCT Abuja. Nigeria


Call them and narrate all this to them...u are sure of getting justice from the first organisation as listed above.

If u can't get then reply me. I will send another number from next week.

Thanks and good luck to u.

Locally only or they work internationally??

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

She should go to the South African Embassy in Lagos and have them raise a case of child abduction with Nigeria’s Ministry of Foreign Affairs.

Then leak the details to a tabloid with their full names and photos.

Odward:
Forget about the child and conceive a new one na

Haba!!!

ibechris:
This is horrible!

Call brekete on the line below.

To join in the Brekete Family Programme, You can call this number Monday - Friday

090-99-88-77-00 - International Calls only
080-33-22-11-49 - Local calls only

She does not need any police. She needs a lawyer and an organisation such as NAPTIP and Brekete.

TOLL FREE LINE
0800CALLNAPTIP (08002255627874)
SHORT CODE: 627
Email: info@naptip.gov.ng
Phone: 07030000203
ADDRESS
No. 2028, Dalaba Street
Wuse Zone 5, FCT Abuja. Nigeria


Call them and narrate all this to them...u are sure of getting justice from the first organisation as listed above.

If u can't get then reply me. I will send another number from next week.

Thanks and good luck to u.

Good one!

Use this channel. This man has a way making things happen. He's going to place a call to whoever necessary, live on radio.
Please, try to visit the Brekete family.

Good luck

Chinny024:


Go with someone, may be ur jnr sister,good nanny or ur mum preferably for the main time to be staying with him while you balance things.....Don't in any way leave him behind for ur sister in law no matter how una relationship take sweet.....Of course, ur boy will be put in sch there ASAP to reduce word load on ur mum, or sister or Nanny..Do family planning(implant) as return of fertility is fastest with that method while you are putting things in place at least let him be 3 before you consider another one....There's no award for who suffer pass..Shalom

I was heavy before the job came seriously.. that's my main challenge now walahi

LilMissFavvy:
I cannot understand how a mother would be alive and healthy, yet allow her son to be held captive by her late husband's relatives.

You are a fool, it's either you're plainly stupid or you lack the ability to read and comprehend

A lot of people are not thinking in this angle. The family can easily prove that she abandoned this child. Who leaves a 9months old baby in another country? That person will kill me first before I can leave leave my child for them.
Now she has evidence of supporting this child every month. This will be accepted in court and since her husband and parents in-laws are dead, she may he awarded custody.
She needs a good lawyer. Even if she doesn't get custody, the lawyer will make sure the child is well taking care of. Then she will wait till the next 7yrs when the child is 18. She will take him then.
11yrs is a long time

magicminister:
Regardless of the circumstances, how do you abandon your child for 11 years?

Something is missing in the story.
Do you have marriage certificate either court or church marriage?

If they do,go to court but if not the case will be difficult to handle.


Have you been in your husband country for at least one year ? To build relationships with family and contact if you really came for marriage

How do you know the boy is selling pure water any pictures to confirm this ?

Do you still have evidence of sending money to them for child upkeep?

I don't believe the father in-law said that he will do her what he did to his son.

If he is wicked I don't believe he is stupid too to tell you his evil plan if he wanted the child badly than he grown up son you alleged he killed.

There are cases where the man's family takes care of the dead brothers son . If the boy is up to 18 he will decide in court to stay with his father's family or back to South Africa based on relationship.

There's more to this story.

Jovialjune1:
I don't want to go tribal, but we know the tribe that do this nonsense, a backward tribe consisting of brainless people.

Your Mama no born you well. They should have kept the placenta and thrown away the waste.

Kobonaire234:


This isn't a Nigerian thing.

It happens all over the world, and even within other countries. Families withholding children from their parents

It is even worse when two countries are involved.

One case involved an American man. His wife (from Brazil) divorced him and ran back home with their son and her new lover. Man tried to get his child back through legal means...e no do. It took the man involving his Senator...who just happened to be on a comittee that was looking at a trade deal with Brazil....before his son was released to him.

.

U dey mind her. Let her Google Elan Gonzalez Vs Reno. A Cuban boy who kept in the US by his mom’s family, when his mother died even though his dad was alive in Cuba

mrblessed:
Nothing is more brainless and even pathetic than your poor and impotent grasp of the English language. First, only a dunce uses "tribe" when she means "ethnic group." Even if one closes his eyes to your illiterate advertisement of a disesteem term, what of your calamitous misuse of concord/agreement? Aunt, "tribe" as used in your poorly written post is a singular word and not a plural word.

Wait, are you igbo?? But he did not mention any ethnic group now.... Lmfaoooooooooo

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

She needs to put the law in motion in South Africa. Let there be a judgment stating the boy is hers, attach the birth certificate. She would bring the South African judgment to Nigeria which would be registered as a foreign judgment here to be adopted by a Nigerian Court as its own judgment- this registration should be done in the state where the child is being held by the Inlaws. The Nigerian Court having adopted the foreign judgment can commence enforcement which would involve the court baliff and the police. I see the in laws holding the child as a means of extortion... They can't keep a child away from his mother most especially as he is still a minor. I hope this helps.

Jovialjune1:
I don't want to go tribal, but we know the tribe that do this nonsense, a backward tribe consisting of brainless people.

American man who fought custody battle at Brazilian Supreme Court .. What tribe is he from?

Cuban Elan Gonzalez vs Reno which was decided in favor of his surviving dad in Cuba.. what tribe is he from?
Focus this your guessing power on BetNaija.. it can win you millions

Odward:
Forget about the child and conceive a new one na

I believe REPTILES do this.. Not mammals.

sphinixs2:


She needs to put the law in motion in South Africa. Let there be a judgment stating the boy is hers, attach the birth certificate. She would bring the South African judgment to Nigeria which would be registered as a foreign judgment here to be adopted by a Nigerian Court as its own judgment- this registration should be done in the state where the child is being held by the Inlaws. The Nigerian Court having adopted the foreign judgment can commence enforcement which would involve the court baliff and the police. I see the in laws holding the child as a means of extortion... They can't keep a child away from his mother most especially as he is still a minor. I hope this helps.

This make more legal sense. I think she also needs a lawyer in Nigeria to take up her case.

Father254:
Something is missing in the story.
Do you have marriage certificate either court or church marriage?

If they do,go to court but if not the case will be difficult to handle.


Have you been in your husband country for at least one year ? To build relationships with family and contact if you really came for marriage

How do you know the boy is selling pure water any pictures to confirm this ?

Do you still have evidence of sending money to them for child upkeep?

I don't believe the father in-law said that he will do her what he did to his son.

If he is wicked I don't believe he is stupid too to tell you his evil plan if he wanted the child badly than he grown up son you alleged he killed.

There are cases where the man's family takes care of the dead brothers son . If the boy is up to 18 he will decide in court to stay with his father's family or back to South Africa based on relationship.

There's more to this story.

No marriage certificate is required to prove maternity. A birth certificate is enough. If his Naija family insists that the baby is theirs, they should provide the mother and be willing to take a maternity test. Shikenap

I want to be factual with you, and not emotional or sentimental.
This is Nigeria and worst eastern Nigeria where they do not play with their male child.if u push hard to take that boy away as the mother out of this country and knowing well that once you take that boy away, they will never see him again. Madam no family will let that happen, forget many ppl that will tell you bla bla bla.

My sincere advice to your aunt is this.....leave the boy ,but established a strong communication with him and let him know you are the mother, provide the financial aid you can give ...... When d boy come of age believe me he will come for you, the hardship in this country will give him estral zeal to come looking for you in South Africa when he is old enough.

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

The case is very easy to get done. As in, very easy.

Don'ts:
1. Never do it outside Nigeria
2. Do not involve police without a Nigerian
3. Do not just involve lawyers yourself...be strategic.

Dos:

1. You must have pieces of evidence.
2. Be ready to take a trip to Nigeria and watch.
3. Then police immigration, etc can be involved when you are fully on ground (the mom).

Do not just be irrational. If the mom is ready, she must relocate to Nigeria to not only fight but destroy the family which is very easy. As in, you destroy them.

Get a visa, rent an apartment in Nigeria, and bring some cash. That's all. Everything will fall into place. When she gets here, as long as she has a trained and trusted person, it is very easy. You will be shocked. Just don't anything from abroad.

The family will sleep in jail, and they will beg and beg before they are released. I assured you. Of course, lawyers will be involved...and police will be tipped to beat the hell out of their lives. In their lives, they will never try it cos they will answer for kidnapping and extortion...also, they will be made to pay for the life of the child they wasted.

You will even get a Nigerian passport for the child before he leaves for South Africa with the mom. As in, you will get all the benefits for the child. While the case is going on, the child will start attending a good school here if it will take months. Of course, the mom can leave and return after the child is out of their custody. The case may take longer, and its why I said the child may start going to a good school here first. But when she comes, the child must leave their custody before she departs. Thats the first missio , and if possible, the child may even leave wirh her. This is the kind of case I like. Ha! They will pay dearly. As in, they will regret the day they were all born.

Who born them well? Just get a DNA test and they will be begging like goats...that's when you will pay the police to deal with them...and pay lawyers to make sure they are all jailed. Police will make their lives so terrible that they will run and beg like goats.

That's all. Very easy case. But if you try doing it from abroad, sorry...they will just be collecting your money.

Goodluck!

kansoboy:
I want to be factual with you, and not emotional or sentimental.
This is Nigeria and worst eastern Nigeria where they do not play with their male child.if u push hard to take that boy away as the mother out of this country and knowing well that once you take that boy away, they will never see him again. Madam no family will let that happen, forget many ppl that will tell you bla bla bla.

My sincere advice to your aunt is this.....leave the boy ,but established a strong communication with him and let him know you are the mother, provide the financial aid you can give ...... When d boy come of age believe me he will come for you, the hardship in this country will give him estral zeal to come looking for you in South Africa when he is old enough.

You no well. You are not ok with this your useless and disgusting advice. I am sure you are the kind of people who kidnap children cos they are first sons. I like this case cos I like jailing people like you. Yes...you will say the meaning of witholding a child who is not yours cos of first born.

Mind you...you will refund all the money you have collected. Very useless thing. You need to be beaten.

Look out for someone you know,call him let him go and give your son phone to speak with him, or call me 081. 39. 34.
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