Banbanna:


Wao! That your friend be kiddy o. That's primary schooler behaviour na. The guy no even use style help you in that situation. Well, maybe your type no get luck with helping friends. But still that doesn't mean you should give up completely on hosting anyone. Everybody no dey the same.

I nearly want help somebody with accommodation last week as I currently work somewhere far from home, so my house has been empty for 2months, I met him at the town in a bar. A family man with 3kids, I went to his hotel with him so I can meet his family, his wife went out to talk to him and started quarrelling with him, that y do I have tatoo this and that.

I told them I forgot something, na so I take dissapear till today I didn’t pick up their calls again

Kobojunkie:
This is terrible advice even though I quite understand why you made this decision.

Not really a terrible advice, getting them to leave is what the op is talking about.

I understand this post but there are still good people who may need help and wouldn't take it for granted or overstay. I think while we filter those friends, we also let those we feel we can allow know that the staying would be with a date.

A man accommodated his friend and his wife who had house problems. He ga e them a room, and after sometimes, they started having issues, which resulted to a fight. In the process, the two wives fought themselves, and the wife of the man that was accompanied pushed down the wife of the man that accompanied them who was at the time pregnant. She died in the process. He did a favor and lost his wife doing good

The funny part is when he bring in a lady and ask you to pretend to be the gateman. You will be like... Hen inside my own house?

Nazgul:
It depends, if you must accommodate anyone temporarily, make sure he's gainfully employed...maybe he had accommodation issues, and needed somewhere to stay pending when he'll sort himself out. If that's the case I'd say open your doors to him, cos he won't be a parasite to you and would even assist in sorting out general bills.

But if he has nothing doing, say like he relocated to your state for greener pastures, or just came up with some flimsy excuse to put up with you temporarily, my brother respectfully decline his request cos from experience, most jobless guys are chronic womanizers, they're home all day so they have all the time in the world to ask every single girl in the neighborhood out.

Your house would most likely be converted into brothel. And every single drink in your fridge along with other provisions would be consumed without mercy by him and his numerous female visitors.

He'll borrow little sums of money like 1-2k almost on a daily basis from you under the guise of going for interview and wouldn't pay back until you get fed up and stop giving him, he'll put on your clothes and shoes to go on dates without your permission, monies and other valuables would keep missing in your house and he'll deny ever seeing them, he'll collect provisions on credit from literally every shop in the neighborhood using your name as collateral. He'll be a thorn in your flesh and you'll keep quarrelling each day until you wouldn't be able to take it anymore and ask him to leave...my experience wasn't a funny one. That's why I've vowed never to engage in such unnecessary charity anymore

You are wrong with this ascertion. I remembered vividly 29 of May 2010, I was called for an interview in Ajaokuta kogi state and I reside in Kaduna. Which I boarded a car to Abuja and to be sincere I had no idea where the company that called me was located. I just knew I will get to my destination with Faith. We got to Lokoja around 10pm because I Left Kaduna late around after 4pm. A good Samaritan engaged me in discussion and I told him about my journey. He said it was late already that I should try and lodge in an hotel. I told him I can't afford any. He gladly took me to his house. Even though, his younger brother had second thoughts but he told him that it is good to be of help to others. I slept and proceeded the following morning. May Almighty God always locate that dude with His favor and mercy always. I will never stop praying for him.

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

I swear. Story of my life currently. From 1 month dem don stay 3months

Pells1:
me permettrez-vous plus de votre maison à l'étranger? Sweetvie

Salut, ton Français est super

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

Yap ... most times its better to help from afar

Guys, letting them in is very easy but chasing them out; your will be tagged all sorts of names especially when its a human with

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is, don't let anybody move into your house

That's unchristian

maasoap:
Not really a terrible advice, getting them to leave is what the op is talking about.

Getting some people to leave is indeed a problem but that is no reason to conclude that it is wrong to help all of the times.

Danisaint112:


But you give her Orgasm abi you no give her?

I never get prick that time

OyinO:


I'm not a babe please. I'm a man. Nice meeting you too but stop issuing threats. You may end up having your own ass kicked as you go about in your ass kicking misadventures. Take care Remote Boss

I hear
No need to be bitter bro
Matter never reach to dey throw punches
I guess you don't know how sarcastic I can be on NL
We go meet in a more pleasant situation
shalom


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Coldie:

I nearly want help somebody with accommodation last week as I currently work somewhere far from home, so my house has been empty for 2months, I met him at the town in a bar. A family man with 3kids, I went to his hotel with him so I can meet his family, his wife went out to talk to him and started quarrelling with him, that y do I have tatoo this and that.

I told them I forgot something, na so I take dissapear till today I didn’t pick up their calls again

Yes o. Very well done �

MALIGNANTGuest:

You are not entirely correct.
A JESUS may also be at that same door knocking, you can only dine with him when you open the door. That Armed robbers robbed you doesn't
you should stop helping people.
Just be careful that's all.
Remember people have let their messiahs in.

A Local Food Vendor protected my wife at Waterlines junction in Port Harcourt at night. My wife had to pass the night in their thatch house.
Few years later my wife relocated to the US on permanent basis with high quality visa.
She fixed herself up and we visited Nigeria in 2018. Could you believe she remembered that woman and we flew into Port Harcourt and headed to Waterlines and we were informed she had left that place because she couldn't meet up with the rent. We traced her to OIL MILL with someone offering help.

When we met her, she never recognised her. But my wife did. RIGHT there 80% of her life problems were solved. Kids went back to school, she got a befitting shop filled with goods.
In fact, she became the talk of OIL mill area.

Today, we video chat her like a parent.
Unrestricted access to us.
Be careful in Life!

You're very correct. Very exposed
I don't understand the stereotyping that's common in our society.
Nice story sir.

Orgasmgiver123:

I never get prick that time

My dog after reading what you just said.

traihit:
This is why it's good to have the Holy Spirit in you.

Sometimes 'angels' may come unawares. Sometimes devil's may come in form of angels with sweet stories.

The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.

So, what does the holy spirit tell you with regards to OP's post?

Coldie:

I nearly want help somebody with accommodation last week as I currently work somewhere far from home, so my house has been empty for 2months, I met him at the town in a bar. A family man with 3kids, I went to his hotel with him so I can meet his family, his wife went out to talk to him and started quarrelling with him, that y do I have tatoo this and that.

I told them I forgot something, na so I take dissapear till today I didn’t pick up their calls again

lol this one choke me with laughter

This is a very deep fact, most people will never understand this until their life is put on the line for this impending disaster.

I had a terrible experience accommodating someone via proxy, and I almost paid with my life.

I have resolved in my heart to only help people from a distance.

If you want me to accommodate you, I will pay for 3nights hotel accommodation for you, to reserve my peace.

My peace of mind and my mental well-being is priceless.

traihit:
This is why it's good to have the Holy Spirit in you.

Sometimes 'angels' may come unawares. Sometimes devil's may come in form of angels with sweet stories.

The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.

E no go better for that holy or hoely spirit you mean. Rubbish! Spits!

Danisaint112:


My dog after reading what you just said.

Lmao
I still be Reverend that time

Op, you no lie at all... when I was in 300 level in uni, na so my guy for school beg me to stay in my place, so that he can finish his final year clearance, since his room rent has expired.
So I just told him to move in, since we are good friends, can you imagine that this guy brought his girlfriend to come and join us 3 days later, without even informing me, na when I come back from lecture ,I come dey see lady's stuffs, I come ask the mumu, he begin dey beg me, been that I hardly say "No" to people I decided to accommodate both of them, but I was not happy at all.
I wasn't even comfortable in my own room.
People always take advantage of the fact that I'm too nice , but now i no dey gree make dem use me.

Denoh68:
NO PERMIT THEM OO, BEFORE YOU GO CARRY SNAKE ENTER HOUSE

Aswear

spartachico:


How come nairaland never get translation for comments written in other languages

Lol... Coz it illegal
You're only allow to type in English

Highest I can accommodate someone is a week. After than you find your way.

BJanta:



Pour qoui ?

Bcoz they can backstab you later... Soyez prudent avec qui vous permettez à votre maison

Panasonic101:


I don’t understand but you’re right

Lol

crood:
so !People should not help each other again?

Go and help. Shey u no get sense.

Kaysalas:

Salut, ton Français est super

Lol... Yeah, he is good.
Someone finally praise you pells

OyinO:


because of common remote, you wan show say na you get house. You may meet that girl in a whole different level tomorrow. Even tomorrow no know tomorrow.

Did you just say common remote ,na small small ẹ dey start...